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94. False Evidence · Your Enriched Self

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  I'm gonna date myself a little bit. But back in the late eighties early
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  nineties, there was a TV show called Cops, And if you saw this
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  TV show, it was like Reality TV early stages, without the actual title
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  call Reality TV. It was mostly a dramatization of police officers in the community
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  issuing arrests, warrants, whether it's for speeding, d wise, domestic affairs,
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  all of the things that you can imagine under the umbrella of serving and
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  law enforcement. And this show went on for a while and it was quite
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  entertaining. But I recalled that there were there were situations where the police officer
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  was not just required to make the arrest, but had been issued a warrant
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  to go into the home. Now, there were some situations where the officers
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  were not issued a warrant. But it's important for us as citizens to know
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  our rights. And so there would be that educated citizen on the other side
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  of the door saying, do you have a warrant to search or is there
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  a warrant for that person's arrest? And a warrant is simply giving authority to
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  allow or authorize an activity. Why we have a document or some type of
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  guarantee that this activity that's getting ready to happen is legal, it is binding,
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  and that person is allowed to do such thing. And although Cops wasn't
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  quite Reality TV, the reality is that you have thoughts, dominant thoughts in
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  your mind that you aren't checking. You aren't checking to see if it is
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  authorized to be there. What evidence in your life, not the life of
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  other people, not what's happening in social but what evidence in your life is
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  saying that this dominant thought has the legal right to be there. I think
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  it's time that you start to arrest the thoughts in your mind that don't serve
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  you, because eventually those become the beliefs you live with. Hello, my
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  friends from all across the globe, and welcome to the r in Ridsel Podcast.
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  I am your host, Mine Le Noir. I'm a mindset coach and
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  your mindset advocate, and all that means is in your work. In this
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  world. There are so many things that require your attention, that require your
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  action and your activity, and I want to make sure each every week I
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  create a space so that you can do the things that you must become more
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  of your in rich self, and so on this podcast we do the work,
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  we walk it out together, we talk it out together. And the
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  intention behind all of the activity and the conversation so that you can be the
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  best version of yourself. And that's important because you want to show up as
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  your best self in this world. And that's what this podcast is all about,
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  and we do so by walking through these mindset fusion topics each and every
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  week. Now, if you are new to this podcast, I want to
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  welcome you. You're in for a trait and I want to thank you for
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  being here. And if you are a repeat listener, we are episode ninety
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  four. We've been doing this for ninety four weeks. You are part of
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  grateful for each and every one of you. And before we get started on
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  this week's topic, which I'm excited to talk about this topic, I'm going
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  to make a deposit in the bank of you. And if you know,
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  you know, because each week I make a deposit by sharing an affirmation.
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  Affirmations are a great way to start your day and to command your morning.
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  And this week's affirmation is I am grateful for the lessons I have learned and
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  the strength I have gained. I am excited to continue growing and learning.
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  I know it's outful, but we're gonna say it again. I am grateful
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  for the lessons I have learned and the strength I have gained, and I
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  am excited to continue growing and learning. I am grateful for the lessons I
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  have learned and the strength that I have gained, and I am excited to
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  continue you growing and learning. Now, let's get ready for this week's episode
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  of the Your Enriched Self podcast. Hey, friends, in the spirit of
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  transparency, I just want to let you know when you listen to this week's
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  episode, it's going to have a different beat. And all I mean by
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  that is, if you know me, you know I love to be outdoors
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  and I love nature soundtrack, and so the episode you're listening to is an
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  episode with me recording outdoors. Now, at the time when I recorded,
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  the birds and the bees were definitely giving all of the nature vibes that I
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  loved to listen to and enjoy. However, I was also near the road
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  and there was a lot of car noise and traffic going by. So all
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  that to say, when I made the edits to this, You're not going
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  to hear the birds and the bees, but the content is absolutely there for
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  you, and I hope you enjoyed this week's episode. Just keep an open
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  mind. I'm gonna try this differently another time, but keep an open mind
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  and enjoy this week's episode. What if I told you most of the things
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  that you believe are false and full of fear, that would be hard to
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  swallow. It'll be hard to imagine. But I want you to think about
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  a belief that has been that has been the strongest in such a way that
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  it has consumed your thoughts. There is a belief that you have right now
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  that is one of the strongest beliefs. It outweighs everything what your therapist said,
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  what Jesus said, what you have seen in your life, what your
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  healthy circle of people have expressed to you about you. Those thoughts are dampened
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  by this very high intense belief that happens to be false. And the thing
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  about it is that you have no evidence that what you believe right now,
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  or the belief that is consuming your thoughts right now, is even true,
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  it's not warranted. Think about a warrant. In order for a warrant to
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  be expressed, to be played out, you need papers, you need documentation,
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  you need proof. But so many of us are walking around with beliefs
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  and no proof. We're looking at false evidence, somebody else's story, somebody
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  else's life, somebody else told me, the news said. None of these
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  things are your truth, but you adopt it, and then it becomes part
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  of your thought process, and a thought expressed, a thought exercised over time
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  becomes a belief. And now you've adopted a false belief. Forget the evidence.
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  If you were asked to go back and find the evidence, there was
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  none. There would be none thing that you can find to prove that this
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  thing is true. So do you believe me now when I say that most
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  of the beliefs that you have are false and full of fear, Because if
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  you think of the beliefs you have right now, there's something you're thinking about
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  right now, whether it's your finances, your relationship, and you're thinking down
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  a path filled with fear. You're thinking that if you do this, you're
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  not going to have the money. You're thinking, if you do this,
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  you're not going to have the relationship. You're thinking if this happens, you're
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  thinking of a lot of what ifs and what ifs doesn't what ifs don't have
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  to be negative. What ifs don't have to have what if and then something
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  and incomma something bad. What if can be what if and something good.
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  A different outcome and a different outcome doesn't always have to compolished. A different
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  outcome can be uncomfortable, but that might be a temporary discomfort. See,
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  a lot of us want success, but guess what success comes with discomfort.
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  Nobody talks about that. We love the confetti Listen. I talk about this
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  all the time. We love when the confetti falls because that tells us that
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  we won and there's nothing to do. The confetti has fallen, the gatorade
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  bucket is dropped over the head. But do you think that team each week
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  had great locker room sessions? Do you think there were no contentious moments?
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  Do you think that it was just easy breezy for them? Do you think
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  they had any losses? Even when you have a winning season, there are
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  things you lost. Because I promise you, if you play back the tape.
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  If you play back the tape, you're gonna find mistakes and for a
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  star player or play that was supposed to be made that the coach gave reference
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  to and said this is how we're going to do this game, and to
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  see that play not made, it wasn't executed as designed, as practiced,
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  that's going to be an uncomfortable conversation that a coach, if he or she
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  is a good coach, must be willing to have with their star player like
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  you. We won, but I got to talk to you about what you
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  did out there that was not it, that was not what we practiced,
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  that was not the players designed and you were sloppy as hell. It's okay
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  to see success ahead and know, hey, there will be discomfort, but
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  we start to associate anything negative on the road to success as failure. And
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  then we start to develop thoughts again, false and fearful thoughts that now start
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  to guide how we live. Because you know that beliefs guide how you live.
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  Beliefs create culture, cultural norms, systems, and ultimately a life.
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  So we need to examine the life we live, and that's gonna tell us
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  a little bit about what we believe it's gonna tell us a little bit about
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  what we believe. Essentially, what you need to do is some forensics.
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  You need to do some forensics. I was watching a show. It's a
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  popular show now on HBO, and it's about a true story that happened in
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  the seventies, late seventies, early eighties. And at the time, when
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  the person's body was found on the scene where the crime had taken place,
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  the untrained I thought the person was shot, right, And so that was
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  the message, the belief system that was spread among the people. People started
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  to believe that this individual was shot. Why because someone said they were shot.
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  There was no evidence of shooting. You know, as somebody watching the
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  show, I'm like, no, she wasn't shot. She was in fact
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  quite contrary to being shot. And so this rumor, because now it's a
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  rumor because it's not true, it's fault. Now people are talking about the
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  shooter might be in the neighborhood, the shooter might still be in town.
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  And everything changed. When the CSI guy, the crime scene investigator, the
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  forensics person showed up to the scene, not only was he able to determine
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  that she was in fact not shot, but axed yes, axed. This
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  was the seventies. People. I don't know. I don't know what the
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  thought was here, But in fact she was asked cut up. Now,
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  you couldn't tell that when you first saw the scene of the crime. But
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  again, this is why we need evidence. He was even able to tell
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  based on the footprints, the potential height and weight of the assailant, the
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  person that attacked this now dead individual. We now have evidence. People,
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  this is how it works. But we go through our lives, like the
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  people that thought they saw a body that was shot. We go through our
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  lives believing what we hear. We go through our lives believing the last thing
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  we saw, because it's likely. The reason why the person said they thought
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  she was shot is because the last body they saw, whether on TV or
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  in life, on the news or whatever, was a body that was a
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  person that had experienced gunshot wounds. So to them, it looked like gunshot
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  wounds. So because it looked like gunshot wounds, they thought it was gunshot
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  wounds, no evidence of gunshot wounds, and that became their belief system.
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  Do you see why belief systems need support. Belief systems need support, But
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  what is supporting your belief systems. What are the things today in your life
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  supporting your belief systems. That's gonna be your homework. That's gonna be the
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  question that you have to ask yourself, what are the things supporting my belief
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  systems? And for many of us it very well. Maybe what you grew
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  up believing, what you grew up experiencing, it very well. Maybe that
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  for many of us it very well. Maybe what you grew up experiencing,
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  what you grew up listening to, what you grew up having conversations about those
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  stared your beliefs, those carved your beliefs, those cemented some of your beliefs,
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  And you just might need to crack that seamen open because that belief system
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  is not taking you where you say you can go, where you know you
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  can go. You have the education, you have new experiences, You have
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  insights that you wouldn't have had that you now have because you moved or you
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  took a different job, or you moved into a new field, or you
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  created a life with a person, and now you have a family that you're
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  building and growing, and now those things are saying, wait a minute,
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  I don't know if I still believe that, and I'm going to ask you
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  that if you have those things, if those things are coming up, let
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  them come up, because in the back of your mind, you know that
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  that's no longer supporting you, supporting your journey, supporting your dream, supporting
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  your position, your purpose, your passion. It is supporting absolutely nothing.
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  It's just a figurine on a shelf or a statue in a corner. It's
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  doing nothing for the environment that it's in. Today is a new day.
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  Today's an opportunity for you to rethink what's possible. And it starts with you
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  rethinking what you believe and making sure that you no longer sign up for a
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  belief that is unsupported, a belief that is rooted in fear and false things.
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  It's time to change. It's time to rethink what's possible for your life.
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  I hope you enjoyed this week's episode of the Year and Rissell Podcast.
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  resonate with you. If you can relate to the false evidence and the fear
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  week, the affirmation of the week, and ways to connect with me.
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  I think those are all the announcements for this week, but what I would
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  like you to do is take all you can from this episode and do what
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  you must in the next one hundred and sixty eight hours to become more of
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  your enriched self until we again