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Great Roommates, No Sex (with Steph Flood)

In this episode I'm joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Steph Flood to talk about what happens when you're doing the dishes, handling the kids, and still feel like roommates with no touch and no sex. We get into why you and your wife come at connection from opposite directions, how the way you ask for intimacy lands, what she's thinking when sex feels like a box to check, and why frozen, nice-guy initiating backfires.

Doing everything right, still disconnected

The emotional to physical cycle

Feeding the meter with daily presence

Change how you ask for sex

When sex feels like a…

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