What If Your “Type” Is A Trauma Loop | Relationship Types walk-through | S4 EP122

Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast · Apr 2, 2026 · 29m · transcript

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Chemistry can feel like destiny right up until it starts wrecking your sleep, your self-trust, and your boundaries. So I’m sitting down by the Kinky Campfire to break a big idea into something you can actually use: relationship types, and how they show up in real life when you’re kinky, queer, dating on apps, or building non-monogamous relationships with actual humans and actual feelings.

I walk through six patterns: karmic, narcissistic, parasitic, twin flame, soulmate, and catalyst. We talk about the rush of “instant electricity” and why it can turn into a push-pull roller…