267. 14 Years, New Baby And A Habit That Hurts, Why Won't He Just Stop?

She Rises with Ashy & Tijana · Jul 28, 2026 · 10m · transcript

On this weeks bestie advice segment, a listener writes in about her husband of 14 years, a man she's fallen back in love with watching him become a dad to their new baby girl. He's affectionate in all the ways she loves, except one habit she's begged him to stop for years. It hurts, it happens at the worst possible moments, and every time she asks him to quit, she's met with the same defensive responses and never an apology. Now that she's raising a daughter, the stakes feel bigger than annoyance. Is she overreacting, or is this about something much deeper than a bad habit?

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