Some of These Rules to Live By Are Just Plain Wrong

All The Light She Found · Oct 20, 2026 · 20m · transcript

We’ve all heard the advice: If they wanted to, they would. Trust your gut. Never settle. Be the bigger person. Don’t care what other people think.

But what if these sayings aren’t always as simple—or as universally true—as we’ve been taught? Let's think about it.

In this episode of All the Light She Found, Kelly takes a fresh look at some of the advice she’s repeated throughout her life and asks a bigger question: Who made these rules, and do they still work for us?

Kelly explores the difference between someone caring about you and actually having the capacity to give you what you need, why…