Latest / Elite Agent - The Edit / Can you teach trust? John Cunningham on hiring good people
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- 0:00Do you, John, believe that you can teach trustworthiness?
- 0:05Because I have a theory that you can't.
- 0:07Our level of trust deteriorate in a good market, not in a bad market.
- 0:12Trust is a path of a lot of resistance.
- 0:14It comes at a price sometimes, and it comes with massive rewards.
- 0:19Feedback is one of the most negative words you can ever use.
- 0:22Why do we spend so much time on learning how to overcome objections when we shouldn't actually have any objections?
- 0:28We get objections, in my view, because the public don't trust us.
- 0:33Well, John, I do have a business plan.
- 0:35It's to make a million dollars in GCI.
- 0:37You're probably just putting your nail in the coffin right there, Sam.
- 0:51Welcome everyone to another episode of The Edit from Elite Agent.
- 0:55I'm Samantha McLean and once again I'm joined by my co-host Chris Hanley from First National Byron Bay.
- 1:02Chris, good morning, how are you going?
- 1:04I'm well, Samantha.
- 1:05Very nice to join with you again.
- 1:07Today is a big question, and I know that's something that you're very passionate about and our next guest is passionate about, and this is about trust.
- 1:15So a couple of episodes ago in episode one, when we kicked this whole thing off, you said that trust in the real estate industry is at an all-time low.
- 1:24I've had a fair bit to say on it this year.
- 1:26So before we introduce John officially, you actually said to me, there's only one person in the industry I know who will speak openly about.
- 1:34on this topic.
- 1:35So why John and what do you think he understands about trust that most people miss?
- 1:40I've known him a long time as John Cunningham.
- 1:43I call John a friend.
- 1:45We've worked together.
- 1:47We often roll up or end up at the same place over the years, didn't we, John?
- 1:52And whether it's a conference or a dinner table or whatever else.
- 1:57And I know the topic of trust is close to his heart.
- 2:01But my evidence is he's built one of the most amazing real estate organisations and trust is the underlying tenet of that because of the culture that he's built.
- 2:11You can't have a great culture in real estate, impossible without a level of trust.
- 2:16And the trust isn't just between the agency and the buyers and sellers.
- 2:22The trust, more importantly, is between the leader and the team.
- 2:26That's all of the team, by the way, not just sections of the real estate business, which is another topic.
- 2:32But I know he's great at it.
- 2:34And I know his staff, I've had a lot to do with him over the years.
- 2:36He's a pivotal person in Rise, which I think now, John, I heard this week,
- 2:42There's been more than 15,000 people in our profession download the RealCare app, which is extraordinary and wonderful.
- 2:49So I can wax lyrical about all of the evidence, but he understands trust better than anyone I know in the real estate profession.
- 2:58That is a pretty good intro, but I'm still going to give the official one if that's okay.
- 3:03So John Cunningham, Managing Director and Co-Founder of Cunninghams on Sydney's Northern Beaches.
- 3:07More than three decades, he's built a business known for shared leadership, career pathway, service and professional standards.
- 3:14He served as president of REI New South Wales, received the Woodrow Weight Award for his contribution to the profession.
- 3:21But John, John, welcome to the show.
- 3:23What do you think Chris has got right about where he sees trust in the industry right now?
- 3:30Thanks, Sam, and thanks for the invitation, and thanks, Chris.
- 3:33Yeah, look, it's a double-edged sword, a trust in the industry.
- 3:38I'm half uplifted by seeing an increase in trust by some very, very, very good agents, and I'm...
- 3:47disheartened by seeing it eroded by so much others.
- 3:51Whether it's been that way the whole way through in my career, I'm not sure, or maybe I've just got a clearer perspective on it now.
- 3:59But I think there's a great divide between those that understand trust and those that don't.
- 4:05And I think that is in itself a conundrum, and I don't think we're going to legislate our way out of it.
- 4:12Yeah, that's interesting.
- 4:14You can't legislate character, can you?
- 4:17No, I mean, character's a fascinating word.
- 4:19I had one of my partners got a review from a client quite a few years ago.
- 4:23I referred this client to him, and I got an email from the guy at the end of the sale saying, and he used two critical words.
- 4:32He said, thank you for putting me in touch with such an honorable man of true character.
- 4:37And you go, wow.
- 4:39You know, it doesn't get...
- 4:42any better than that quite frankly they're words that really aren't used that frequently anymore um and maybe for reason unfortunately trust is our currency that's what we deal in and i'm interested in john's answer to this i'm not sure he used the word that character honorable man which is offense you don't sadly see those words written much about our profession
- 5:08But here's the thing.
- 5:10Do you, John, believe that you can teach trustworthiness to people?
- 5:18Because I have a theory that you can't.
- 5:20My theory is someone is trustworthy or they're not.
- 5:24And my whole theory has been it comes right back to recruitment and the reasons and why we recruit people.
- 5:32But what do you think about it?
- 5:34That's the first part.
- 5:35And the second part relates to Sam's thing, is trust something that is actions or is it words?
- 5:44What led those people, for example, let's start here, to call that action
- 5:49partner of yours, an honourable person, what did he do or she do or say that made people feel that about?
- 5:58them.
- 5:58Yeah, I think you are right in many ways that it can't be taught.
- 6:03I believe it's like spectrum concepts, right?
- 6:06You've got scale.
- 6:08And I'm of the belief that any given day, we're on the spectrum of some sort.
- 6:13We're at a one to 10 on any given day and we don't know what it's going to be.
- 6:17It's the same with the trust thing.
- 6:18I think that if there's an inherent goodness in people,
- 6:23that, you know, and that's, you know, what you try and find, that goodness in people.
- 6:28But to me, that's the base, the foundation of everything.
- 6:31The trust levels and that character can be developed
- 6:37I think that there has to be foundation.
- 6:40Without the foundation, people always default to second nature and therefore they fall back onto those early beliefs and early lessons that they learned in life.
- 6:51And if those early lessons in life were untrustworthy situations, it's almost like you can't get out of it.
- 7:00Something has to happen immediately.
- 7:02And where I think it actually does happen and when it does change, where people face either life-threatening situations or major traumas in their lives to enable them to actually have that epiphany, to have that opportunity to grow out of that.
- 7:15But if you're just sailing through life without those things happening,
- 7:20You're constantly defaulting through, and a lot of that's through fear and things like that, which is happening in this market at the moment, that people just default back and become untrustworthy because it's easier to take a path of least resistance.
- 7:35Trust is a path of a lot of resistance.
- 7:38It comes at a price sometimes, and it comes with massive rewards.
- 7:44But unless you understand where it sits in your psyche, in your life, and the life that you want to lead, because I think one of the problems with this industry is most agents don't actually know the life they want to lead.
- 7:56They know the next deal is what they want to get.
- 7:59And they don't understand that there's life is playing out all the way through this.
- 8:05And life to me, and I was fortunate to be brought up with trust, to be brought up with values, to be brought up with the things that had meaningful parts to my life and the outcomes of those lives.
- 8:17Therefore, it was much easier for me to just continue that journey.
- 8:24So, yeah, it's an interesting dilemma this industry faces because the stakes are so high and the outcomes are so high.
- 8:34Well, it's very interesting that you put it that way because someone actually said to me once, somebody wise, that you see who people really are when you put them under stress.
- 8:48Like, you know, like it's almost like everybody can be a good person when conditions are good.
- 8:55But then, you know, the second that you apply some pressure, then you see, you know, the whatever is real come out.
- 9:03And I guess, you know, that's what we might be seeing.
- 9:07Well, we could be seeing a little bit of in the next few months is when fear enters the office as...
- 9:14And I'm hearing anecdotally that it kind of is.
- 9:19This is when the stress almost becomes like a vicious cycle.
- 9:25Like people get stressed.
- 9:27They do things they maybe wouldn't do because they're under stress.
- 9:31And then they're under more stress.
- 9:35Like you guys are the most experienced people I know in the industry.
- 9:39How have you seen it play out in the past?
- 9:42Let's go back to pegs.
- 9:45John mentioned it and so have you.
- 9:48Let's talk about fear right now because fear and trustworthiness, trust, truth, it's all connected.
- 9:56Though some people will tell you which one comes first, but that's another issue.
- 10:03I would argue here that...
- 10:05The 5% figure that I gave on the first podcast wasn't my figure.
- 10:09It was a survey of the public about where we sit now, which is down around 5%.
- 10:15It's one of the lowest professions, if not the lowest profession in the country.
- 10:19And let's be honest here, there wasn't much fear around in recent years.
- 10:23People were making lots of money.
- 10:25So our level of trust deteriorated in a good market, not in a bad market.
- 10:31but that's a different matter.
- 10:32But let me go to the issue of fear here.
- 10:35Every office in the country at the moment is dealing with fear on a level probably that they haven't dealt with going back a very long time.
- 10:46So fear is running at all levels from bosses to leadership team to EAs and PAs.
- 10:54But
- 10:55Even more importantly, it's running through the veins of salespeople on two levels.
- 11:00Level number one, let's acknowledge it, is they're making less sales than they were, which means if they've got big mortgages and whatever else, that they're hugely impacted.
- 11:08But there's another level we don't talk about.
- 11:11And the other level is a lot of salespeople have bought houses the last few years in different markets around the country.
- 11:18And if you're highly geared, for example, to get into a house wherever you are in Sydney or Melbourne or any other areas, and you bought something for $2 million and it's now worth, I'm going to pick a figure, $1.5 million, $1.6 million, if the markets come back and you had $500,000 in that property,
- 11:35your equity's gone or a large portion of your equity's gone.
- 11:39So on two levels, this fear is operating and causing great difficulty and
- 11:47I would argue at the moment we need guidance to lead us out of this.
- 11:53And my view is the guidance will come from the wise, calm people.
- 11:57They don't mean to be old like John and I necessarily older.
- 12:00He's not as old as I am.
- 12:02But the guidance needs to come from the calm people who've been through this before and know one simple thing.
- 12:10Not only is there a way through these markets, there's a way to prosper in these markets if you know what to do and say.
- 12:19John, what do you think about that?
- 12:21Well, absolutely, Chris.
- 12:22I mean, I take a view that...
- 12:26I'm very measured around what this market's doing.
- 12:29And we sort of identified this at the end of last year that this was coming.
- 12:33We were able to prepare.
- 12:34We saw the writing on the wall.
- 12:38And so we've been able to navigate it fairly well.
- 12:42We've seen market share increase and those sort of things.
- 12:44And there's an answer to that.
- 12:45Therefore, well, what is it about what did you do to make that happen?
- 12:50And the reality is, I did an interesting study on 175 years of Australian real estate.
- 12:57And it showed that every 10 years, there was two to three events that occurred that had a significant impact on property and the way real estate was.
- 13:08And I sort of looked at what a real estate agent role was in society and so on.
- 13:11And it was really interesting to see these things happen.
- 13:14So this is just another recurring bump along the road.
- 13:19Every bump along the road has been different, right?
- 13:22And the interesting thing is the industry or the media looks as if it's like, oh, my God, it's something new.
- 13:27It's constant.
- 13:28It's part of the fabric of the economies.
- 13:32So therefore, to consider that this wasn't going to happen or it's not going to happen again is insanity.
- 13:39So the reality is this is one of those pivot moments.
- 13:41It's one of those recalibration moments to say, okay, what have I got to do?
- 13:46Now, I started my business in 1991 in the middle of the biggest recession that we've had since the Depression.
- 13:51And we thrived.
- 13:53We just took massive market share.
- 13:55And how did that happen?
- 13:57We just did real estate completely different to everyone else.
- 14:00We did real estate that was needed for the clients and what they needed at that time.
- 14:04And I think people just simply haven't changed sufficiently enough to understand what is required for clients in this market.
- 14:15Normally, they're in probably a 70% state of don't know what they don't know.
- 14:19That was a survey that we did 10 years ago.
- 14:21We discovered that.
- 14:23Now they're probably in 90% don't know what they don't know.
- 14:26And our job is to fill that massive gap.
- 14:30And that is our primary objective, to bring people from the unknown to the known so they can make decisions.
- 14:36Now, decisions, whether to list and sell, whether to consider an offer, all those things are decisions that we are guiding them to a place where,
- 14:44where they have enough information to make the best decisions.
- 14:47And to my view, that is simply the answer to no matter what market we're in.
- 14:51It's understanding our role.
- 14:53Guidance.
- 14:53I love that you use that word.
- 14:55I've been telling people very recently to stop using the word feedback and to start using the word guidance.
- 15:03It completely changes your conversation with your sellers.
- 15:07But more importantly, it changes your own self-esteem.
- 15:12Because guidance is something that an acknowledged, wise, experienced person gives to someone.
- 15:18Feedback's not.
- 15:20Feedback is one of the most negative words you can ever use.
- 15:23And the moment you bring it up, people know in our profession what you're going to do and say to them.
- 15:28John, let me ask you another question.
- 15:30You said something before.
- 15:32You said you prepared for this.
- 15:36By the way, there'll be people listening to this that don't know about Cunninghams.
- 15:40They know you.
- 15:41Tell people a little bit before you answer that question about how did you prepare.
- 15:45Tell them a little bit about your business.
- 15:47You've been going since 91.
- 15:49We know that.
- 15:50You've got a number of offices.
- 15:52How many people work there?
- 15:53Just give us a summary.
- 15:55Yeah.
- 15:55Sure.
- 15:56We've got three offices, 78 people, I think.
- 16:01And we've been operating, it was 35 years this year.
- 16:07We made a lot of decisions along the way as to what type of business we wanted to have.
- 16:12That was Anne and I.
- 16:13My wife and I started the business.
- 16:14We
- 16:16We had that classic, you know, no dickheads policy, which is a great policy to have, but you learn the hard way, you know, when you try and think you can change someone or save someone.
- 16:26But the reality was we've tried to create an environment where people can thrive, but to have people that we like, that are good people.
- 16:33We say good people get great results.
- 16:36And that's the thing.
- 16:37It's not...
- 16:39So it's not about just wanting more and more and more.
- 16:41It's just about everyone having a good life.
- 16:43You know, that's my whole thing.
- 16:44If I can make a difference to my whole team in giving those people that work for me, no matter what role they're in, an opportunity to have a great life, objective achieved.
- 16:54So it hasn't ever been driven by GCI.
- 16:58I didn't know what GCI was until I think it was James Tostevin told me about it back in 2003.
- 17:04He said, what's that?
- 17:05I've got no idea.
- 17:06It's never been a driver for our business.
- 17:08It's how can you be the best person you can and perform at your best and choose the life you want to lead.
- 17:15Now, I've got, as you know, some very high performers, but the objective for them and me is they have a life.
- 17:22You know the Georgie story, it took 12 months off and still had the best year.
- 17:27And how do you do that?
- 17:28How do you have 12 months off of traveling to Australia and have your best year in real estate?
- 17:31You can do things in this business that you can't do elsewhere.
- 17:34It's understanding that.
- 17:37And Georgie said, I don't care if I earn an income in that year, right?
- 17:40I just want to make sure my team's looked after while I'm away.
- 17:44And the complete opposite happened, right?
- 17:47It's having people around you like that that see a completely different perspective, Chris, and I think that's enabled us to then continually have a different perspective.
- 17:57We made a decision when we started our business that we were going to do business
- 18:01completely differently.
- 18:02And one of those things is we're going to do all the things that other people couldn't be bothered doing.
- 18:06In other words, shortcuts.
- 18:09And when we applied the OIC rule, which is observation, initiative and creativity, when you put those three things together in no matter what market, and I've revisited this with the team, which was what we said, we made that.
- 18:22observation that things were changing.
- 18:24We saw it happening in December.
- 18:25We went, okay, we knew this was coming.
- 18:28The reset was coming.
- 18:30We had the reset in 22 after the massive COVID boom in 21, particularly in the Northern Beaches.
- 18:35That was insane.
- 18:36We had to have a reset.
- 18:37We knew it was coming.
- 18:38We knew this was coming.
- 18:40So what did we do?
- 18:40We said, how do we take a different perspective into the market?
- 18:43What's the conversations we're having with people?
- 18:45We're going to be more selective with what we take on.
- 18:48and we've got to make sure our time is used wisely so it's efficient and effective in everything we do.
- 18:53So I suppose that's just having that, putting that lens on things at the right time is, I suppose, how we realise that.
- 19:00Can you pretend that I am some young whippersnapper that's ended up on your doorstep?
- 19:07Because I was thinking about this too.
- 19:09Like, you know, let's just say I've arrived in the real estate industry, I've got stars in my eyes.
- 19:15Cunninghams are entertaining the thought of employing me.
- 19:21What is the talk that you have with me as soon as I come through the door?
- 19:26Very good question.
- 19:28Yeah, and look, I actually got asked that question at a conference I was speaking at last week, and it was one of those things where, you know, there's this set thing.
- 19:36And the reality is it's I'm looking for the goodness in you.
- 19:41I want to find that goodness in you, and I'm hoping you're having a good day because, you know, I see so many people judge people on their 5% instead of their 95%, you know, because they only saw the 5%.
- 19:51So I'm looking for that in the questions that I'm asking.
- 19:54And I love Chris's concept of, you know, did you have a job at school?
- 19:57You know, it's like that's to me like when I heard that was like that's gold.
- 20:02But it is finding that goodness in how they saw their roles at where they were, what they loved about that, what their life, what are their life goals?
- 20:11And it's more about that, the initial thing about who they are as a person than that.
- 20:16And then it gets into aspirations and so on.
- 20:19And I'm also looking for people who are just giving me the answers they think I want to hear because the answers that they think I want to hear are not the answers I want to hear.
- 20:29And I make that clear to them because this is about taking you on a path.
- 20:34It's about this journey that we're going to go on together to see where it lands.
- 20:38So it is a situation where it's very bespoke.
- 20:41It's very much about what's...
- 20:43in front of me.
- 20:44Also what I've read in a resume, for example, I'm looking for things in there that might jump out and you can just get so much crap in a resume that you've got to wiggle your way through to get to the gold.
- 20:57And then I'll focus in on those elements later
- 21:00And I've got this, you ask anyone that sits on an interview with me, because I'm not doing the initial interviews anymore, but I'm brought in at the right time to do that.
- 21:13It's like, okay, we've gone past the, okay, who is this that someone that we will consider and into the consideration phase?
- 21:20And I ask them a simple question.
- 21:21Have you ever considered to write a business plan for yourself?
- 21:25and part of that is a life plan, you know.
- 21:28Have you ever thought of doing that?
- 21:29And people look at me blankly, you know, is there a form you're going to give me?
- 21:33And we're not letting people go, oh, yeah, that's the extra I have, or no, I'd love to do that.
- 21:38I said, because whether we employ you or not, I would suggest that you go to any interview with a business plan.
- 21:46In other words, what do you see...
- 21:49you want to achieve in the next one or two or three or five years, and what are you going to contribute?
- 21:53It's a classic All Blacks thing.
- 21:54What are you going to bring and what are you going to leave behind is a really big part of that.
- 22:00And so that throws some people.
- 22:02I've had people go, yeah, yeah, yeah, and then they go, and we never get the business plan back.
- 22:07and you go, yep, thank you, dodged a bullet there.
- 22:10If someone's not prepared to actually put pen to paper and articulate how they see their future, I don't think they're – and this is in quite a lot of roles that we do that in because I think it's important to understand what this is because we want people who want a career no matter what role they're in.
- 22:31I've got another question, actually.
- 22:32The whippersnapper's got another question.
- 22:36Well, no, I mean, we all know I'm not a whippersnapper.
- 22:40I know what it is.
- 22:42You are when you sit with us, Samantha.
- 22:44I'm going to get back into the role of the whippersnapper and say, well, John, I do have a business plan.
- 22:48It's to make a million dollars in GCI.
- 22:50Okay, great.
- 22:51Thank you.
- 22:53Well, that's great, Sam.
- 22:54I'm glad you've actually thought that out.
- 22:57And, you know, I'd love to help you achieve that objective.
- 23:01But put that aside.
- 23:03Now, let's talk about, you know, what you want to achieve in your life.
- 23:07I'm going to switch it around because if someone ever comes to me and all they want to do is make money, I'm just most likely not interested because if that's their driving force, it's a hollow driving force in my view.
- 23:20And this is maybe what's kept my business smaller than it could be.
- 23:25And I'm quite comfortable with that because, and look, if someone does it and they think that's what I want to see, and it might not be what drives them.
- 23:34I want to find that out.
- 23:35It's not like I'm dismissing it.
- 23:36It's simply the fact that it's great to see that you have your business goals quite clearly set.
- 23:42Now let's discover more about you.
- 23:45And often when you do that sort of thing, people go, oh, great.
- 23:50Because if I'm going to help you achieve that objective, there's a life journey that you're going to go on.
- 23:55And it's going to have lots of ups and downs and it's going to be lots of learnings along the way.
- 24:00Are you someone that is actually wanting to learn?
- 24:05Because if you're not wanting to learn, you are going to absolutely struggle to achieve any goals, let alone the million dollars GCI.
- 24:13I've already learned everything.
- 24:16I watch TikTok.
- 24:17Great, fantastic.
- 24:18That's great.
- 24:19I mean, look, you probably just put your nail in a coffin right there, Sam.
- 24:26So what's interesting too is if you're doing an interview and you're getting this arrogance or this I know stuff from someone who knows nothing, you have got a – that is just –
- 24:39red lights going off at a million miles an hour.
- 24:41If they're not smart enough to go to an interview to actually come out and have learned something, boy, oh, boy, you're going to struggle.
- 24:48As I said, people don't know actually how to learn.
- 24:52In real estate particularly, I did a talk recently and there was 20 people in the room and not one of them had a notepad and pen.
- 25:01So...
- 25:02You go, hang on.
- 25:03Whereas I was over in New Zealand the week before that doing the same talk and in a room full of 100 people and there was probably 80 people taking notes.
- 25:12But the question I want to ask is for the principal who's sitting here listening to this thinking, oh, my God, I've recruited three of those whippersnappers that Sam was pretending to be.
- 25:24What advice would you give them right now?
- 25:28I'd get them to read a book.
- 25:31First, the book's called Give and Take.
- 25:35And the book was written by a guy called Professor Adam Grant.
- 25:39The truth is the complete opposite.
- 25:41So the first thing I would say is read the book because the book's going to tell you one simple thing.
- 25:46The contrary in our profession in particular to the theory that there is only one type of person who succeeds in real estate, there's actually not one.
- 25:57There's multiple types of people.
- 25:59But that the good humans, good humans,
- 26:04can be the best salespeople.
- 26:06Their path might be different.
- 26:08If you look in real estate and you go around in the different areas and you look, there'll be people who are at the top who you wouldn't call givers, they're takers, and good luck to them.
- 26:19They're not wrong, this is not a right or wrong answer,
- 26:23But there's equally, and I work with one.
- 26:26My business partner is Sue Reynolds, who's one of the most amazing salespeople I've ever met in our part of the world, has been the top agent for a very long period of time.
- 26:37And she's the biggest giver I've ever seen.
- 26:39And I know John's business is full of givers because I know some of them.
- 26:43The second thing I would say to some people here who are looking to do a recruitment broadly is that givers generally stay in a business with you.
- 26:59They are magnificent around the topic of culture.
- 27:02They share and give their time and energy to the other people.
- 27:07And I use this phrase.
- 27:10You can find good people and teach them to sell, but you can't find salesmen and teach them to be good.
- 27:17And I'll go right back to what John said.
- 27:20That's my premise.
- 27:21The third and last thing for me on that topic is you won't always get it right.
- 27:26And you just never will.
- 27:29There's a knowing in here.
- 27:30We'll circle back and I'll give you some questions to ask people, but you'll get it wrong sometimes, even if everything looks and smells and feels right and all the boxes are ticked and you've missed something on the way through a week or two weeks later, someone says something to you and you realise that the recruitment process
- 27:52They knew what to do and say.
- 27:54Like when you've been around as long as I have, people read about you.
- 27:58So when I interview them, they say things to me.
- 28:01Now, I know why that thing is in their answers, but you still get caught sometimes.
- 28:08Maybe you sometimes want it to be right when it isn't as well, but...
- 28:14I guess the final thing I'll say there is there's no mistake I have made in recruitment.
- 28:19I've made every mistake in recruitment.
- 28:22100% made.
- 28:22I mean, I try and save people as well.
- 28:24You know, it's sort of like, oh, I'm their saviour.
- 28:26I can be their saviour.
- 28:27And look, people who are good people...
- 28:30but simply are not hunters.
- 28:33And in this business, you know, there's the role for the nurturer, there's the role for the sage, there's a role for everyone.
- 28:38But if you are looking for a salesperson, a person who is going to have to be capable of closing sales, closing listings, because that becomes the concept of the more, the more.
- 28:53The more you put into something, being the giver, the more that you get out of it.
- 28:57Do you think we could have a part two?
- 28:59Yes, and look, and insights.
- 29:00I mean, you know, the reality of, I've got this great question for the industry.
- 29:05Real estate should be really easy.
- 29:07Why do we make it so hard?
- 29:10And my second question for the industry is, why do we spend so much time on learning how to overcome objections when we shouldn't actually have any objections?
- 29:17This is really interesting stuff about how hard we make it when people are just failing to front end everything they need to do with a client.
- 29:27They're waiting for stuff to happen to sort things out rather than actually resolving everything from day one.
- 29:33And that in itself is a fascinating concept that when you – for when I started in the industry, it was –
- 29:43It was so easy.
- 29:44And I'm not saying it was easy times.
- 29:46It was easy because I just asked one simple question to everyone I do with, how can I help you?
- 29:51I think the thing you've just brought up there is priceless.
- 29:53Why are we doing overcoming objections when we shouldn't have in the first place?
- 29:58A good friend or a friend, someone I know very well a few years ago, had been given a really bad diagnosis by three separate doctors.
- 30:05The diagnosis was so bad that the person was ready to give up.
- 30:10This is the short version.
- 30:12And someone, if they knew well, recommended they go to another doctor.
- 30:18So that's doctor number four.
- 30:21They went to the fourth doctor.
- 30:23The fourth doctor gave a different prognosis.
- 30:27And the person believed it, had the operation and is still alive today.
- 30:32And I couldn't resist asking one question.
- 30:36Why did you trust that person after you'd been with all the others?
- 30:41And my view about the answer to the question about objections and so on is we got objections because they don't trust us.
- 30:50Right.
- 30:50This guy, Dr. Four, I said, what was it?
- 30:54He just said to me the way he talked to me.
- 30:58I knew from about the second or the third sentence that I could trust this person.
- 31:04I put my life in their hands and I was 100.
- 31:07It was a knowing in my guts.
- 31:10And here's the thing.
- 31:10We get objections, in my view, because the public don't trust us because it's
- 31:17In all our coaching and training, instead of overcoming objections, in my view, there's nothing wrong with that.
- 31:24What we should be focused on in real estate is teaching people how to listen and talk much more effectively to other human beings.
- 31:33You can go to school, 11,000 hours or something it is you do, the school time in your life, and no one teaches you how to talk and how to listen and how to communicate and how to connect.
- 31:46And they're all skills, but they're the most important ones.
- 31:49If I could ask you both one question to wrap this up, that is we've talked a lot today about the idea of trust and the idea of recruiting good people and what to look for when you're recruiting good people.
- 32:05If there was one thing that you could leave people with from this conversation or one piece of advice, what would that be?
- 32:13I'll start with John.
- 32:15I would say actually understand exactly what the role is and what you need from the person and the type of person because often –
- 32:25you're sitting in front of someone who's simply not the right person for that role, but is potentially the right person for another role.
- 32:34And, but to make that clear that, that I know what we're after, but also look at what this potential is in this person.
- 32:44And, you know, we've, we've filled roles recently, um,
- 32:47from people that, like, you know how roles can appear from a person.
- 32:53You know, you go, this is a person we need in this business, right?
- 32:58So not only do we have this role to fill, but this person may not be right for it, but this person needs to be in our business.
- 33:03How do we make that happen?
- 33:05So that, I think, is a growth mindset of having that into play.
- 33:10So go into that knowing what you need, but also look at the person, what their potential is.
- 33:14Great answer.
- 33:15And Chris?
- 33:15Okay, I'll cut it quickly into two pieces.
- 33:18If it's a sales position, I'll give you the word in one word, it's their motor.
- 33:25It's their motor.
- 33:26I went to Vietnam years ago, wandered around.
- 33:29The whole city in Hanoi is about bikes with little two-stroke engines, but they go all day.
- 33:35At the end of the day, if you could...
- 33:38open people up and see the motor doesn't need to be big.
- 33:41It just needs to keep going.
- 33:43So if it's sales, but it's also in sales about overcoming stuff.
- 33:48Uh, and if people have stories in their life where they've had challenges and they've overcome them, they're two very, very, very good things that you can know from the get go, because I don't care how good you are when you start in the sales part of real estate.
- 34:04Um,
- 34:04you're not going to get famous for a few years.
- 34:07You're just not, right?
- 34:09And sorry.
- 34:10And you've got to do your time and you don't give up and all of those things.
- 34:14Yeah, great idea.
- 34:15John, thank you for joining us.
- 34:17Chris, thank you for joining me once again.
- 34:19Everyone, this has been The Edit.
- 34:21We will be back with a new episode next week.
- 34:24Thanks, Sam.
- 34:25Thank you, John.
- 34:26Thank you.
- 34:26Thanks, Chris.