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Which Need First? The Strategic Way to Heal a Neglected Relationship

In this episode of Doing Marriage Well (July 15, 2026), Paul outlines a strategic approach to repairing neglected relationships by prioritising immediate "patch-up" needs before tackling deeper issues.

Using a first-aid metaphor and a common example of sexual frustration, he explains how temporary solutions can stop the bleeding, create hope, and motivate partners to meet each other's core needs for lasting recovery.

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