Latest / Sharp Strategies Sweet Success / #77 – Referral Marketing Systems for Law Firms with Delisi Friday
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Former clients is your low-hanging fruit.
- 0:02SPEAKER_00: They can absolutely be referring you business,
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: but they forget to refer you business because they forget about you.
- 0:08SPEAKER_00: And it's on us to stay top of mind.
- 0:10SPEAKER_00: That's totally on us.
- 0:23SPEAKER_01: Short strategies, sweet success.
- 0:26SPEAKER_01: Hello everyone.
- 0:28SPEAKER_01: And welcome.
- 0:29SPEAKER_01: You're listening to sharp strategy, sweet success.
- 0:31SPEAKER_01: I'm your host, Tiffany Swadenski.
- 0:33SPEAKER_01: And today we have Delisi Friday.
- 0:35SPEAKER_01: I first met Delisi Friday several years ago.
- 0:39SPEAKER_01: She came to a few GLM events and followed her career.
- 0:44She started out working for a law firm and then went on to work
- 0:48with RJ Robbins for a few years.
- 0:50SPEAKER_01: And then she started her own company and became a fractional CMO.
- 0:54SPEAKER_01: which is really exciting.
- 0:56SPEAKER_01: Her company name is First Call Friday, and she's here with me today.
- 1:01SPEAKER_01: And I'm going to turn it over to her to finish out her introduction.
- 1:04SPEAKER_00: Hi, thanks for having me.
- 1:07Yes,
- 1:07I have worked in the legal industry for 20 years because my dad
- 1:11is a trial lawyer.
- 1:12So my first job at 14 was answering phones in a criminal
- 1:16defense law firm.
- 1:18SPEAKER_00: So I love lawyers.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: I love this industry.
- 1:22Worked in-house for Michael Cowan of Cowan Rodriguez Peacock
- 1:26for seven years.
- 1:27SPEAKER_00: Then went to go be chief of staff to Arjun Robbins,
- 1:30who is the owner and serial entrepreneur who created How to
- 1:34Manage a Small Law
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: Firm.
- 1:36And I learned all about the operations and the business side of
- 1:39How to Manage a Small Law Firm.
- 1:42And was reminded how much I love referral marketing and wanted
- 1:47to just decide to do
- 1:49SPEAKER_00: this for myself.
- 1:50SPEAKER_00: So I started First Call Friday, February of 2025.
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: I just celebrated my one-year anniversary this week.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: So I did it.
- 1:58And I love it because all I do is talk to lawyers all day long
- 2:01about referral marketing and
- 2:04SPEAKER_00: And that's my passion.
- 2:05SPEAKER_01: Oh, I guess we're similar in that we talk to lawyers all day.
- 2:08SPEAKER_01: So it's a lifestyle for sure.
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 2:10SPEAKER_01: And I didn't know that about your background.
- 2:12SPEAKER_01: So you started out answering the phones at a law firm.
- 2:15I imagine that gave you just like an amazing crash course on
- 2:18the whole intake process.
- 2:20SPEAKER_01: I mean, can you talk a little bit about that?
- 2:22SPEAKER_01: Like, what'd you bring with you from childhood to legal marketing?
- 2:26SPEAKER_00: Honestly, that experience made me who I am today.
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: My dad does criminal defense and PI.
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: He does other things as well.
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: But when I started at 14 answering phones at his law firm,
- 2:39SPEAKER_00: I had to learn etiquette answering the phone,
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: right?
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 2:43I also had to learn how to listen to people because when people
- 2:46call intake and
- 2:47SPEAKER_00: they're calling a law firm,
- 2:49SPEAKER_00: they're calling on like their worst day ever.
- 2:51SPEAKER_00: And I was a kid.
- 2:53SPEAKER_00: I had to learn how to respond to that.
- 2:56But the reason why it was so instrumental and who I became and
- 3:00why I love this
- 3:01industry is because my dad has built his law firm all on
- 3:06referral marketing and one
- 3:08SPEAKER_00: church ad first.
- 3:09SPEAKER_00: He's done since I was a kid.
- 3:11SPEAKER_00: That's it.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: That's my dad's marketing.
- 3:14So everything that I train lawyers on,
- 3:16I've done it since I was 14 years old.
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: When I tell lawyers all of them can create referral networks,
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: it's because I'm teaching them to do the things I had to learn at 14.
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: And so...
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: That experience was eye opening.
- 3:32SPEAKER_00: It made me who I am,
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: but it also made me realize the importance of intake too,
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: because intake is like the face of your law firm.
- 3:39Intake's that first example someone has of what it would be
- 3:43like to work with your law firm.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: And I appreciate intake so much more because I was intake.
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: I was that person.
- 3:53SPEAKER_01: So you talk about referral marketing, which is super, super important.
- 3:58And it's so overlooked because in my experience,
- 4:00you know,
- 4:01a law firm hires a marketer.
- 4:02SPEAKER_01: If they went to college for marketing,
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: they learned a lot about how to market for a big business,
- 4:08but so much of marketing for a small business is like
- 4:11networking and referrals.
- 4:14So are you talking to law firms who you have to convince
- 4:17referral marketing is a part of it?
- 4:19SPEAKER_01: Or are most people coming to you already there?
- 4:21SPEAKER_01: They know they need to get better at referral marketing?
- 4:24SPEAKER_00: It's actually both.
- 4:26SPEAKER_00: I have some people who come to me and they start off by saying, look,
- 4:32SPEAKER_00: I don't know who you are or what you do,
- 4:35but I want to ask you a lot of questions because it sounds like
- 4:39I should probably
- 4:39SPEAKER_00: be doing referral marketing and do nothing about it.
- 4:42SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, hey, let's go on this journey together.
- 4:45SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 4:47SPEAKER_00: So they need convincing, but they also don't know where to start.
- 4:51Then I also talk to people who are doing something about
- 4:55referral marketing,
- 4:57but they need someone to help give them more ideas or to refine
- 5:00what they're doing.
- 5:01And then I reach out to some people and those conversations are
- 5:06very different because they
- 5:08SPEAKER_00: They've done a lot of referral marketing,
- 5:10but they grew their business in a way where there's so many
- 5:14different referral
- 5:14SPEAKER_00: partners,
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: which is the dream,
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: the dream.
- 5:18SPEAKER_00: And those people are ready to hire someone whose job is to maintain those
- 5:22SPEAKER_00: relationships,
- 5:23SPEAKER_00: which is what I used to do in my job at Callan Rodriguez Peacock.
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: And I'll help them hire that person and train them.
- 5:31SPEAKER_00: Because when you get to that level,
- 5:32SPEAKER_00: you do need someone to help you nurture those relationships,
- 5:35SPEAKER_00: which
- 5:36But yeah,
- 5:36I have to convince people about referral marketing all the
- 5:39time.
- 5:40And sometimes I find that challenge so fun because they will
- 5:46come in very skeptical
- 5:49SPEAKER_00: and they'll say,
- 5:49SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: referral marketing,
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: whatever.
- 5:51SPEAKER_00: I don't know if I need to do it because I have enough business.
- 5:54SPEAKER_00: And I'll just ask a few questions like,
- 5:57SPEAKER_00: well,
- 5:57SPEAKER_00: what do you do to stay in touch with your former clients?
- 6:00SPEAKER_00: They can refer you business.
- 6:01SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 6:02SPEAKER_00: Oh, well, nothing.
- 6:03SPEAKER_00: What do you do to get people to call your office?
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: Well, we do ads.
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: Okay,
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: well,
- 6:08what do you do with the ads that are converting into leads and
- 6:13prospects that call
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: your firm,
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: but it's not a good fit?
- 6:15SPEAKER_00: Like, what happens to those people?
- 6:17SPEAKER_00: And they're like, well, we don't accept it.
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: And I'm like...
- 6:21You could make that the beginning of creating a referral
- 6:25network and maximize the
- 6:27money you're already spending on digital if you just create a
- 6:30little process.
- 6:31And when I talk it out,
- 6:32that's when they go from skeptical to understanding.
- 6:36SPEAKER_00: Every time someone calls your law firm, take advantage of it.
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: Help them in some way.
- 6:41SPEAKER_00: Don't just say, no, we don't do that.
- 6:44SPEAKER_00: Think about the client experience and be a connector.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: And in return...
- 6:49SPEAKER_00: Create those relationships that can be reciprocal referrals to you.
- 6:53And please,
- 6:54for the love of God,
- 6:55don't forget to keep in touch with former clients.
- 7:00SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 7:00it's my experience that sometimes attorneys can be personally
- 7:03offended when they
- 7:04SPEAKER_01: get like a bad lead.
- 7:06Their intake teams can be offended by it and treat it as though
- 7:09it's a problem.
- 7:10SPEAKER_01: But I try to remind them like,
- 7:11SPEAKER_01: look,
- 7:12SPEAKER_01: this is somebody who like noticed us and called us for help.
- 7:17SPEAKER_01: And you treat them like they're unwanted.
- 7:19SPEAKER_01: You know, they're never going to refer.
- 7:21SPEAKER_01: They're never going to send you cases.
- 7:23SPEAKER_01: They're never going to care.
- 7:25But if you do treat them,
- 7:26some of the law firms,
- 7:27that's how they handle it.
- 7:28SPEAKER_01: If you're the law firm that
- 7:30Takes the call,
- 7:31listens to them,
- 7:33gives them some resources in such a better place for sure.
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: Take ads out of it.
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: Because when I was a kid answering the phones in my dad's office,
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: we didn't have digital marketing back then.
- 7:44SPEAKER_00: And yes, that ages me, but whatever.
- 7:47SPEAKER_00: When that happened,
- 7:48we would still get phone calls for other practice areas that
- 7:52were not on the
- 7:53SPEAKER_00: website.
- 7:54SPEAKER_00: We never advertised it.
- 7:56SPEAKER_00: People just called because they needed help.
- 7:57And they're like,
- 7:58I'm just going to call this law firm and see if they can help
- 8:00me.
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: And so whether you run ads or not,
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: I guarantee you if you talk to intake,
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: we'll tell you,
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 8:08SPEAKER_00: randomly we'll get a call about this.
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: And we don't even advertise it.
- 8:12SPEAKER_00: It happens everywhere.
- 8:13SPEAKER_00: So yeah.
- 8:15SPEAKER_00: The question is, what are you going to do with those phone calls?
- 8:18And what do you want that experience to be every time someone
- 8:21calls your firm?
- 8:24SPEAKER_01: So one question I have for you,
- 8:26because you mentioned you're training marketers for the law
- 8:29firms to help them do
- 8:30SPEAKER_01: what you've done before.
- 8:32SPEAKER_01: What are you looking for in those candidates?
- 8:35SPEAKER_01: Do you have questions specifically that you ask?
- 8:37SPEAKER_01: How are you identifying those people?
- 8:40that has been so fun so i'm doing it for two clients funny
- 8:45enough they're both
- 8:46personal injury because in personal injury there's like so much
- 8:49referrals that can
- 8:50go back and forth so it's two personal injury law firms and
- 8:53what's very interesting
- 8:54to me is you don't need to hire someone who has legal
- 8:59experience for that job you
- 9:01SPEAKER_00: really do not
- 9:03The experience and the skills that person needs to have is the
- 9:08ability to have a
- 9:08SPEAKER_00: conversation with your referral network,
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: the ability to follow up with your referral network,
- 9:14SPEAKER_00: listening,
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: being a good representation of your law firm,
- 9:20SPEAKER_00: and honestly having people skills.
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: Yes, a lot of this stuff can be automated.
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: Don't get me started on AI is going to take our jobs.
- 9:28SPEAKER_00: AI is not going to replace real relationships with people.
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: I promise you that.
- 9:33SPEAKER_00: You posted something the other day about your speech where you're like,
- 9:37SPEAKER_00: AI can't connect like this.
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: And I was like, amen.
- 9:40SPEAKER_00: No,
- 9:41SPEAKER_00: AI is not going to replace the person who goes to their office and says,
- 9:45SPEAKER_00: thank you for your referrals.
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: I really appreciate it.
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: Can I treat your office to lunch this week?
- 9:50SPEAKER_00: That's not replaceable with AI.
- 9:53So the skills we're looking for in a candidate like that are
- 9:56people skills,
- 9:57SPEAKER_00: communication skills,
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: follow-up skills.
- 10:01SPEAKER_00: What's interesting is
- 10:03Sometimes we'll have realtors who are looking at jobs like this
- 10:06because realtors
- 10:06SPEAKER_00: are so good at people skills and they're also great at marketing.
- 10:10SPEAKER_00: And this role kind of has both of them intertwined.
- 10:14One of my clients hired someone who used to be the person at a
- 10:18college career.
- 10:20Like who showed the students the campus and talked with them
- 10:23and encouraged them to
- 10:24SPEAKER_00: join and had excellent communication and people skills.
- 10:28SPEAKER_00: And so you don't need someone in legal.
- 10:31You just need someone like me who wants to make a friend
- 10:33everywhere they go and
- 10:34SPEAKER_00: they have good follow up and they're not scared of lawyers.
- 10:37SPEAKER_01: I feel like people are surprised to hear this from me,
- 10:40SPEAKER_01: but I get a lot of attorneys coming out to me,
- 10:42SPEAKER_01: like,
- 10:43SPEAKER_01: who should I hire for my firm?
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: Like, do they need technical skills?
- 10:46SPEAKER_01: They need to know how to do websites, blah, blah, blah.
- 10:50SPEAKER_01: And I think I get that just the nature of my expertise and background.
- 10:54But I still tell them like,
- 10:56you actually don't need somebody who knows how to code or
- 10:58automate.
- 11:00SPEAKER_01: You need somebody who can be personable because
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 11:04SPEAKER_01: any type of community marketing,
- 11:06SPEAKER_01: if you have one marketer,
- 11:08SPEAKER_01: that one marketer is going to do a lot of networking on your behalf.
- 11:12SPEAKER_01: And if you have a team,
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: some somebody is going to be networking,
- 11:15SPEAKER_01: some are going to be doing the technical stuff.
- 11:17But you know,
- 11:18for that first hire,
- 11:19like that person is networking way more than you think.
- 11:23SPEAKER_01: So I tell them,
- 11:24SPEAKER_01: like,
- 11:24SPEAKER_01: don't look for technical skills,
- 11:26SPEAKER_01: look for people skills,
- 11:27SPEAKER_01: look for people who can tell a story and connect with others.
- 11:31SPEAKER_01: And
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: I think that's a mindset shift for people who just,
- 11:35SPEAKER_01: when they think of marketing,
- 11:36SPEAKER_01: they just think digital or websites or something,
- 11:39SPEAKER_01: SEO.
- 11:40SPEAKER_01: And,
- 11:40SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 11:41SPEAKER_01: hopefully people,
- 11:41I feel like people are really expanding their horizons in terms
- 11:45of like what
- 11:45SPEAKER_01: marketing looks like.
- 11:47SPEAKER_01: And so that's important, hopefully.
- 11:49SPEAKER_01: And you're right.
- 11:49I mean,
- 11:50do you get like law firms like asking a lot,
- 11:54like,
- 11:54can we incorporate AI into this?
- 11:56SPEAKER_01: You know, let me ask your opinion on this tangent, I guess.
- 11:59SPEAKER_01: But how do you feel about like phone trees?
- 12:02SPEAKER_01: Like, how do you feel like law firms should be answering the phones?
- 12:06SPEAKER_00: When you say a phone tree,
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: do you mean like a red Robin where if someone can't answer the phone,
- 12:12SPEAKER_00: someone else goes to it?
- 12:14no like hi or like an automated voice hi thank you for calling
- 12:18x law firm press one
- 12:19if you're a new client press two yeah that kind of thing if
- 12:23this is a video people
- 12:25SPEAKER_00: would just see my face but look there are times where i might be
- 12:37SPEAKER_00: accepting of a phone tree and an automated system like that.
- 12:41SPEAKER_00: And those exceptions are someone who is a solo law firm owner.
- 12:45SPEAKER_00: It's just them.
- 12:46And they're paying per minute for automated services like that
- 12:50because that's where they're at.
- 12:52I'm okay with that for that person because they're not ready
- 12:56yet to make that hire
- 12:58or they're not ready yet for the back office buddies and real
- 13:02people to answer the
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: phones.
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: If that's where they're at, I'm okay with it.
- 13:06SPEAKER_00: If you're not that person, no.
- 13:08SPEAKER_00: I want them to talk to a real person.
- 13:11I'm a part of a generation that gets really frustrated when I
- 13:14want to talk to a person.
- 13:15SPEAKER_00: And it's like, press one for English.
- 13:19SPEAKER_00: Para dos, Espanol.
- 13:21SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, no.
- 13:23SPEAKER_00: You're taking the human part out of it.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: What are you doing?
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: I don't want to talk to a robot.
- 13:27I now make decisions where I will do business with places that
- 13:32still pick up the
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: phone,
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: that I can still talk to a person.
- 13:35And if I have a problem,
- 13:37it's not a robot because I don't want to talk to a robot.
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: So that's my passionate way of saying, Tiffany, I'm not okay with that.
- 13:49SPEAKER_01: Well, and...
- 13:51SPEAKER_01: I think, I mean, we tend to see our side of it.
- 13:55SPEAKER_01: And I think law firms and their intake teams see their side of it.
- 13:58They're dealing with a ton of people who have a not great grasp
- 14:04on their legal
- 14:04SPEAKER_01: issue,
- 14:05SPEAKER_01: who are over talking or under talking,
- 14:08SPEAKER_01: who are being hostile,
- 14:10SPEAKER_01: who want to speak to an attorney and not them.
- 14:12SPEAKER_01: They're
- 14:13SPEAKER_01: So much thing can happen on those intake calls.
- 14:15And we,
- 14:16we deal with that every day or intake teams deal with that
- 14:19every day.
- 14:20And it's an important not to be numbed by the experience
- 14:23because never forget,
- 14:24like there are people on the other end who have issues that
- 14:28feel very important to
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: them,
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: even,
- 14:31SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 14:31SPEAKER_01: admittedly when they're sometimes not.
- 14:33And how you treat them in those first critical moments can make
- 14:38a huge difference.
- 14:39I did like a little case study,
- 14:41like just mystery shopping law firms at random.
- 14:44SPEAKER_01: And I waited until lunch and I called,
- 14:47like I picked a city called all the law firms that were listed
- 14:51in Google business
- 14:52SPEAKER_01: during lunchtime.
- 14:53SPEAKER_01: And all 12 that I called went to voicemail.
- 14:56And I know instinctively,
- 14:58I know the conversations had at every single one of those law
- 15:01firms.
- 15:02It's like,
- 15:02well,
- 15:02what do we do with the phones on lunch break when everyone's on
- 15:05lunch break?
- 15:05SPEAKER_01: Oh, send it to voicemail.
- 15:06SPEAKER_01: We'll call everyone back.
- 15:08SPEAKER_01: But you know, what happens?
- 15:09SPEAKER_01: People reach a voicemail.
- 15:11SPEAKER_01: They hang up,
- 15:11SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 15:12SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 15:12SPEAKER_01: I hate leaving voicemails,
- 15:14SPEAKER_01: even when I do like calling businesses.
- 15:16Cause we've all had that experience where you leave a voicemail
- 15:19and nobody ever calls back.
- 15:20SPEAKER_01: You know, that's more common than the opposite.
- 15:23And so we tend to forget there are real people on these other
- 15:26end of these
- 15:27situations who need nurturing and who could love you if you
- 15:31give them a good
- 15:31SPEAKER_01: experience.
- 15:33SPEAKER_00: I completely agree with that.
- 15:35SPEAKER_00: And here's...
- 15:39SPEAKER_00: something I will share that probably my dad will get upset about.
- 15:42SPEAKER_00: Back in the day, you just described my dad.
- 15:45SPEAKER_00: I was the receptionist who put the phones on, we called it night mode.
- 15:48SPEAKER_00: We put it on night mode and we would all go to lunch.
- 15:51And I had to make sure I was always back from lunch right on
- 15:54time because they
- 15:55SPEAKER_00: couldn't be on night mode longer.
- 15:57And I see now that I'm older and now that we have the systems
- 16:03available and these
- 16:05other options available,
- 16:07how we could have lost a lot of business that way.
- 16:11SPEAKER_00: So to anyone who still puts the phone on night mode,
- 16:13SPEAKER_00: like I used to at my dad's office,
- 16:16what if one of those phone calls is someone who needs your help
- 16:18right now?
- 16:19SPEAKER_00: What if one of those phone calls brings you in $5,000, $10,000?
- 16:21SPEAKER_00: If you're PI, $100,000.
- 16:26Wouldn't you want to pay the dollar a minute or 30 cents a
- 16:30minute or whatever it is
- 16:32to have those phone calls just go over for that short amount of
- 16:36time to someone who
- 16:38SPEAKER_00: answers the phone?
- 16:39SPEAKER_00: Because I think more and more people want immediate results.
- 16:43SPEAKER_00: They want help right now.
- 16:45SPEAKER_00: Everything is instant now.
- 16:46If you can't answer the phone right away,
- 16:48you're going to lose business,
- 16:50guaranteed.
- 16:50SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 16:53SPEAKER_01: So let me ask you a question about when it comes to referral marketing.
- 16:57SPEAKER_01: So I guess what marketing channels are you leveraging to reach people?
- 17:02Like where are you telling attorneys like this is where you
- 17:04need to start or there
- 17:06SPEAKER_01: are teams like this is where you need to start with referral marketing,
- 17:09SPEAKER_01: like as much as you want to share?
- 17:11SPEAKER_00: Yeah,
- 17:12the first place every single person should start is your
- 17:17rejected phone calls,
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: your rejected leads.
- 17:20SPEAKER_00: No one accepts 100% of the calls that come into their office.
- 17:25If they do,
- 17:26that's a whole other podcast episode we will not record right
- 17:28now.
- 17:29But every single call that's not a case that you can accept or
- 17:34want to accept
- 17:35SPEAKER_00: because it doesn't match your case acceptance criteria,
- 17:39SPEAKER_00: Those phone calls should be warm transfers to referral partners.
- 17:43Everyone needs to start creating a list of people they can
- 17:46refer business to when
- 17:48SPEAKER_00: they're not a right fit.
- 17:50SPEAKER_00: And if you don't have someone for a certain practice area, decide to...
- 17:57SPEAKER_00: Meet someone in that practice area.
- 17:59SPEAKER_00: Make the decision to make connections in that practice area.
- 18:03SPEAKER_00: And if it's something super niche and it's not on your list,
- 18:07SPEAKER_00: then train your intake to say,
- 18:08SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry,
- 18:10SPEAKER_00: unfortunately,
- 18:10SPEAKER_00: this isn't a case that we can help you with.
- 18:13And I'm not quite sure the exact attorney to introduce you to,
- 18:17which is usually what we do.
- 18:18SPEAKER_00: However, I'd love to transfer you to our local bar association.
- 18:23SPEAKER_00: They have a lawyer referral program.
- 18:25SPEAKER_00: And if anyone knows who can help you, it's them.
- 18:29SPEAKER_00: And then make the transfer to them still be a resource.
- 18:32So everyone should start by creating a list of different
- 18:37practice areas and
- 18:38SPEAKER_00: attorneys in those areas to warm transfer those rejected cases.
- 18:44And then after that,
- 18:45every single person should be keeping in touch with former
- 18:48clients.
- 18:49SPEAKER_00: Former clients is your low-hanging fruit.
- 18:51SPEAKER_00: They can absolutely be referring you business,
- 18:54SPEAKER_00: but they forget to refer you business because they forget about you.
- 18:57SPEAKER_00: And it's on us to stay top of mind.
- 19:00SPEAKER_00: That's totally on us.
- 19:02I remember when I worked with Michael Cowan,
- 19:05we were 100% referral business.
- 19:09We had a referral attorney refer the same client to us a second
- 19:14time because they
- 19:14SPEAKER_00: got into a second crash.
- 19:15SPEAKER_00: And you see this in PI.
- 19:17You have a small amount of people,
- 19:19thankfully,
- 19:19but sometimes people get into a second crash.
- 19:23And when the client came back to us,
- 19:26she said,
- 19:26I'm so happy it's you guys.
- 19:28SPEAKER_00: You guys did great on my case.
- 19:31SPEAKER_00: And we asked her, well, we did so great.
- 19:34SPEAKER_00: Why did you call the other attorney and not us?
- 19:37SPEAKER_00: And she said, because I forgot about you.
- 19:40The other attorney was doing a great job,
- 19:42staying top of mind and marketing.
- 19:44SPEAKER_00: that she forgot all about us.
- 19:46SPEAKER_00: And we did the work.
- 19:47SPEAKER_00: We handed her the settlement check.
- 19:48SPEAKER_00: We did all the things except stay in touch.
- 19:52We did all the things except keep in touch with her so she
- 19:55could refer us business.
- 19:57SPEAKER_00: And that's on us.
- 19:58SPEAKER_00: That's our onus.
- 19:59SPEAKER_00: So my suggestion is start with your rejected leads.
- 20:04SPEAKER_00: No one converts 100% of those phone calls.
- 20:06SPEAKER_00: Turn that into the beginning of your referral network.
- 20:09Second,
- 20:10make sure you're doing something to stay in touch with your
- 20:13former clients.
- 20:14SPEAKER_00: You don't have to break the bank.
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: If you have the budget, please send out a happy birthday card.
- 20:21SPEAKER_00: No one gets happy birthday cards anymore.
- 20:22SPEAKER_00: I'm a huge fan of direct mail.
- 20:24SPEAKER_00: Huge fan of direct mail.
- 20:27SPEAKER_00: Do that.
- 20:28SPEAKER_00: If you want to automate it,
- 20:29you can create a campaign on handwritten and in an hour or less
- 20:33have handwritten
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: cards sent out automated every single month on your behalf.
- 20:37SPEAKER_00: You don't have to do anything else.
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: Takes less than an hour, a whole year of marketing done for you.
- 20:43SPEAKER_00: And that's where everyone should start.
- 20:45Every single person listening to this podcast should start in
- 20:48those two places.
- 20:50SPEAKER_01: I love handwritten.
- 20:51SPEAKER_01: It's one of those programs.
- 20:52Like I've talked about it for years and I tell people about it
- 20:55and they're like,
- 20:56SPEAKER_01: I get kind of mad when they don't think it's as cool as I do.
- 21:00SPEAKER_00: Oh, you're not alone.
- 21:01SPEAKER_00: Oh, I love them so much.
- 21:03I just found out like a month ago,
- 21:06you can make birthday cards a campaign.
- 21:08SPEAKER_00: This whole time I've been telling my clients,
- 21:11SPEAKER_00: don't forget the month birthday cards,
- 21:13SPEAKER_00: month birthday cards.
- 21:14And I had a call with them and they're like,
- 21:15Delisa,
- 21:16you can automate it as a campaign.
- 21:18SPEAKER_00: You do it one time and it just sends it out.
- 21:20SPEAKER_00: I'm like, oh, you just like unlocked a new level for me.
- 21:24Why would no one do that if you can just do it one time and
- 21:28your marketing is done for a year?
- 21:30SPEAKER_00: That's like the easiest thing.
- 21:31SPEAKER_00: And it's not even that expensive.
- 21:34You just got to remember to update the message once a year so
- 21:37people don't get the
- 21:38SPEAKER_01: same card twice.
- 21:39SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but yeah.
- 21:40SPEAKER_01: Oh, that's smart.
- 21:40SPEAKER_01: Part of the reason I love it.
- 21:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because you can just add birthdays to it.
- 21:44SPEAKER_01: It's so cool.
- 21:44SPEAKER_01: Well, what you talked about is so intuitive.
- 21:48Like when you think about like what you would want as a
- 21:50customer,
- 21:50you call a law firm.
- 21:52SPEAKER_01: Hey, I need help.
- 21:53SPEAKER_01: My neighbor like drilled a hole in my wall, making up stuff.
- 21:57And you call a law firm and they just say,
- 21:59hey,
- 22:00we can't help you call the bar.
- 22:02SPEAKER_01: You should know intuitively that's like a lame experience.
- 22:06SPEAKER_01: But,
- 22:06SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 22:07SPEAKER_01: we're transferring to an external number,
- 22:10SPEAKER_01: totally possible,
- 22:12SPEAKER_01: easy to do or another law firm.
- 22:14SPEAKER_01: It's so intuitive.
- 22:16SPEAKER_01: Why do you think like some law firms don't do this stuff?
- 22:19SPEAKER_01: Like, why do you think there's such a gap in this?
- 22:22SPEAKER_01: Because it makes so much sense.
- 22:23SPEAKER_01: What's holding people back from doing this stuff?
- 22:26First of all,
- 22:27I get that question at least every week because I preach it all
- 22:30the time.
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: And they're like, oh, that's so brilliant.
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: Why wouldn't I do that?
- 22:35SPEAKER_00: Because we're trained to tell people who to call.
- 22:39But I call it the Ritz-Carlton experience because Ritz-Carlton
- 22:44does such an
- 22:45SPEAKER_00: excellent job training their people to provide excellent service.
- 22:49SPEAKER_00: They don't teach any of this stuff in law school.
- 22:52SPEAKER_00: They don't teach any of this stuff to lawyers at CLEs.
- 22:56SPEAKER_00: If someone wants to call me to give a CLE presentation,
- 22:58SPEAKER_00: I'll do this every single week so more people know,
- 23:01SPEAKER_00: but they don't teach it.
- 23:02SPEAKER_00: They don't talk about it.
- 23:04SPEAKER_00: So honestly, I think part of it is no one else thinks about it.
- 23:09The only reason I preach this so much is I am the nerd who did
- 23:13this at my last law firm.
- 23:15SPEAKER_00: I'm also the nerd who said, you know what, what would happen if
- 23:20SPEAKER_00: If we followed up with that person and we said,
- 23:23SPEAKER_00: hey,
- 23:23SPEAKER_00: Tiffany,
- 23:24SPEAKER_00: yesterday we introduced you to the Jones law firm.
- 23:28I just want to make sure that you're able to connect with them
- 23:30and they were able to help you.
- 23:32SPEAKER_00: Oh, they were?
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: That's great.
- 23:34We're so happy because we want to make sure everyone has a
- 23:38great experience at our
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: law firm when they call us,
- 23:41SPEAKER_00: even if it means we're putting them in touch with someone else.
- 23:44SPEAKER_00: May I ask a favor of you?
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: If I sent you a Google link,
- 23:48Would you share your experience in a Google review so other
- 23:52people are comfortable
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: calling our law firm?
- 23:55SPEAKER_00: Then you convert it into a Google review.
- 23:57SPEAKER_00: I've done that.
- 23:58SPEAKER_00: I've trained it.
- 23:59SPEAKER_00: It works.
- 23:59SPEAKER_00: Gosh, you can be so efficient just following up.
- 24:03SPEAKER_00: And I tell you what, those people remember you.
- 24:05SPEAKER_00: I used to get those same people who would call back and be like,
- 24:09SPEAKER_00: Delisi,
- 24:10SPEAKER_00: remember when you put me in touch with blah,
- 24:11SPEAKER_00: blah,
- 24:12SPEAKER_00: blah?
- 24:12SPEAKER_00: Well, my friend also needs someone else.
- 24:14SPEAKER_00: I'm going to send them to you so you can help them.
- 24:17SPEAKER_00: And I became a connector that way.
- 24:19SPEAKER_00: And that's what all of these law firms can do too.
- 24:23I was explaining to a law firm who they were having issues
- 24:27getting reviews.
- 24:28SPEAKER_01: And I was like, you know, we can ask for reviews on intake.
- 24:32SPEAKER_01: And they were just like, well, how would we do that?
- 24:34SPEAKER_01: And, you know, I told them like, here, you just ask it like this.
- 24:37SPEAKER_01: And what you said was better than actually what I said to them,
- 24:40SPEAKER_01: but more rehearsed script that you had there.
- 24:42SPEAKER_01: But you just say like, hey, you know, help us help other people.
- 24:45SPEAKER_01: Will you go leave us a Google review?
- 24:47SPEAKER_01: It's that easy.
- 24:48SPEAKER_01: And they, you know, it's hard to do if you're not...
- 24:53SPEAKER_01: I guess like inclined to do it or trained to do it.
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: Or if you feel like,
- 24:57SPEAKER_01: cause I asked my husband,
- 24:58SPEAKER_01: like,
- 24:59SPEAKER_01: what would hold you back from asking somebody for a review?
- 25:01SPEAKER_01: He was like, I don't like begging.
- 25:02SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, okay, I could see why some people feel that way.
- 25:06But like,
- 25:06if you see asking for reviews in the same way my husband does,
- 25:10like,
- 25:11SPEAKER_01: You know, you're not going to ask for them.
- 25:12SPEAKER_01: You're not going to get them.
- 25:13But the other day I had somebody come pick up some old couches
- 25:15here from the house.
- 25:16SPEAKER_01: And it's a guy who started his own company.
- 25:19SPEAKER_01: And at the end of it,
- 25:20SPEAKER_01: he was just like,
- 25:20I run my business on Google business and people find me because
- 25:24I got the most
- 25:25SPEAKER_01: reviews.
- 25:26SPEAKER_01: will you leave me a review on Google business?
- 25:28And I mean,
- 25:28it was a little more polite than that,
- 25:30but I was just like,
- 25:30yeah,
- 25:31man.
- 25:31And I just thought to myself,
- 25:32I was like,
- 25:33why don't these attorneys do that?
- 25:34This guy bought a truck and started a Holloway business and
- 25:38it's 100% Google
- 25:39SPEAKER_01: reviews and he just does that.
- 25:41SPEAKER_01: And it blows my mind when people overcomplicate it.
- 25:45SPEAKER_00: I think to your point, though, I think it is a mindset thing.
- 25:49SPEAKER_00: So I took Sandler training for like a few months, many, many years back.
- 25:54SPEAKER_00: And there's a Sandler method where I'm not good at sales.
- 25:59SPEAKER_00: I'm a decent marketer, but I am not good at sales.
- 26:02SPEAKER_00: I'm just not.
- 26:03SPEAKER_00: And so I took the Sandler sales training to try and help me be better.
- 26:07And one of the things they taught me that felt better for me
- 26:10because I don't like
- 26:11SPEAKER_00: to ever seem aggressive was
- 26:13SPEAKER_00: is they said, talk to someone and ask them as a way to help you.
- 26:19SPEAKER_00: And I said, well, what do you mean?
- 26:22SPEAKER_00: And the way it was described is ask them as if they're helping you.
- 26:26SPEAKER_00: And if they took this action, it would be a kind thing.
- 26:31So I took that training and I used the same kind of script I
- 26:35just did with you live
- 26:36SPEAKER_00: on the podcast,
- 26:38SPEAKER_00: but I changed it to intake.
- 26:40And so if I ever had someone in intake who was like,
- 26:43ooh,
- 26:43Delisi,
- 26:44I don't know.
- 26:45SPEAKER_00: You want me to call a rejected case and ask them for a Google review?
- 26:49SPEAKER_00: And I said, okay.
- 26:50SPEAKER_00: I'm going to help you use this line.
- 26:53Tiffany,
- 26:54if I sent you a Google review,
- 26:56would you mind leaving a review of your experience?
- 27:00SPEAKER_00: You know, it's really unfortunate.
- 27:02There are a lot of people out there that get scared about
- 27:04calling law firms and
- 27:06SPEAKER_00: they think we're really mean and we're not approachable.
- 27:09And it would help us so much if you explained your experience
- 27:13so people aren't
- 27:14SPEAKER_00: scared or intimidated to call us.
- 27:17SPEAKER_00: And that line worked a lot.
- 27:19SPEAKER_00: But it's just a mindset shift.
- 27:21SPEAKER_00: Like you're not asking them like, hey, I want these Google reviews.
- 27:25SPEAKER_00: Help me do great things.
- 27:26SPEAKER_00: I mean, you do.
- 27:27SPEAKER_00: That's part of it.
- 27:28SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 27:28SPEAKER_00: But also sharing that helps them feel like, wow.
- 27:32SPEAKER_00: you know what?
- 27:33SPEAKER_00: I'm now helping Tiffany.
- 27:35I am now helping her business and changing the thoughts that
- 27:39calling law firms is
- 27:40SPEAKER_00: scary if I leave this review.
- 27:42And that motivation helps people leave the Google review
- 27:46because they feel good about it.
- 27:47And someone wants to do something and they get this positive
- 27:51feeling after like,
- 27:52SPEAKER_00: hey,
- 27:52SPEAKER_00: I did that and I helped them.
- 27:54SPEAKER_01: It's one of those counterintuitive principles of persuasion, which is
- 27:58SPEAKER_01: If you can get people to do you a favor,
- 28:00they will feel like you will be indebted to them and will do a
- 28:04favor for them in
- 28:05SPEAKER_01: the future.
- 28:05SPEAKER_01: It's kind of the base principle of it.
- 28:08SPEAKER_01: And it sounds counterintuitive, like, oh, you mean to sell myself?
- 28:12And when we're talking about getting a Google review,
- 28:14it is like a micro sale,
- 28:15right?
- 28:16SPEAKER_01: We're selling the idea of a Google review or leaving a Google review.
- 28:22So like when it's low stakes like that and we're asking them to
- 28:26do us a favor,
- 28:27SPEAKER_01: people actually want to do other people's favor.
- 28:29SPEAKER_01: And that's another thing.
- 28:30SPEAKER_01: People want to help other people.
- 28:33SPEAKER_01: And particularly if you're an individual and you're not like the company,
- 28:38SPEAKER_01: that's why those review requests you get automated texts don't work,
- 28:41SPEAKER_01: right?
- 28:42SPEAKER_01: Because as well, because there's no human being attached to it.
- 28:46There's not that kind of social exchange that we're doing
- 28:49where,
- 28:49hey,
- 28:50will you do me a favor?
- 28:51SPEAKER_01: As an individual, you can do that.
- 28:53But as a corporation or a small business or a brand,
- 28:56no,
- 28:56it doesn't work like that.
- 28:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but that's a really good point.
- 29:00And I mean,
- 29:01getting reviews is like so critical on all levels of running a
- 29:06business these days.
- 29:07And it's just so important to talk about and train your team on
- 29:10how to do it,
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: like training your team and giving your team sales training.
- 29:14SPEAKER_01: Unfortunately,
- 29:14SPEAKER_01: I feel like too many law firms are in the position where,
- 29:18SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 29:18SPEAKER_01: they haven't yet realized they need a full-time intake person.
- 29:21So before we even get to the point where you're consistently
- 29:24getting a bunch of
- 29:25SPEAKER_01: reviews,
- 29:26you need somebody in that post on the phones doing the things
- 29:31that we're talking
- 29:31SPEAKER_01: about.
- 29:32SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 29:33SPEAKER_01: Agreed.
- 29:33SPEAKER_01: So we talked about referrals.
- 29:36SPEAKER_01: We talked about reviews, a little bit about sales training and intake.
- 29:40SPEAKER_01: I love your background.
- 29:41SPEAKER_01: I probably knew that at some point,
- 29:42SPEAKER_01: but relearning it like,
- 29:44SPEAKER_01: cause like my early experience was on the phones for my mom's hair salon.
- 29:49SPEAKER_01: And that's how I got my early sales training and experience.
- 29:53SPEAKER_01: And I still lean on that.
- 29:54SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 29:55SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 29:56SPEAKER_01: But much lower stakes than answering the phones for a law firm as a kid.
- 30:01SPEAKER_01: That's pretty tough.
- 30:02But is there anything that you wanted to talk about here on the
- 30:05podcast that we didn't go over?
- 30:07SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 30:08SPEAKER_00: One thing I think is really important is...
- 30:12SPEAKER_00: I hear a lot of attorneys who say,
- 30:14SPEAKER_00: yeah,
- 30:14SPEAKER_00: I already network when I talk about referral marketing.
- 30:17And I think there's this misconception if you're networking,
- 30:24you're doing referral marketing.
- 30:27I think the other part of this is making sure you're networking
- 30:31in the right places.
- 30:32SPEAKER_00: Are you in the right rooms with the right people?
- 30:35And how often are you assessing whether those rooms and those
- 30:40networking events has
- 30:42SPEAKER_00: turned into business?
- 30:43There have been so many times where I'll talk to a lawyer and
- 30:46they're like,
- 30:46SPEAKER_00: well,
- 30:48SPEAKER_00: I go to my local bar association event once a month.
- 30:51SPEAKER_00: And I go to the trial lawyer associations once a quarter.
- 30:55SPEAKER_00: So I'm doing the things and I'll say,
- 30:57SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 30:58SPEAKER_00: well,
- 30:58SPEAKER_00: who are you meeting at the bar association events?
- 31:01SPEAKER_00: Do you sit at different tables?
- 31:02SPEAKER_00: Do you meet a new person each time?
- 31:04Is that the target audience you want when you go to those trial
- 31:08lawyer events?
- 31:09SPEAKER_00: Do you ever get business out of it?
- 31:11SPEAKER_00: Do you have relationships that came from that?
- 31:14SPEAKER_00: So we can tie ROI to the things that you're already doing.
- 31:19SPEAKER_00: And sadly, when I asked that question,
- 31:22I get the deer in the headlights and they're like,
- 31:24oh,
- 31:25I never thought of it like that.
- 31:26SPEAKER_00: They're thinking about doing the actions.
- 31:28They feel very happy that they're doing the actions that I'm
- 31:31happy because I want
- 31:32SPEAKER_00: them to take action.
- 31:35But the other part of all of this is just assessing the actions
- 31:39that you're taking.
- 31:39SPEAKER_00: Are they turning into relationships?
- 31:42And then are those relationships turning into profitable
- 31:45relationships for your law firm?
- 31:47SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 31:47Because if you're going to those events for a year or two years
- 31:51and nothing has
- 31:52SPEAKER_00: come from it,
- 31:53SPEAKER_00: go to different places.
- 31:55SPEAKER_00: And that's something I don't think enough people talk about.
- 31:59SPEAKER_01: I just generally,
- 32:00SPEAKER_01: I feel like there's a scourge in marketing of people who are like,
- 32:03SPEAKER_01: yeah,
- 32:03SPEAKER_01: I've been doing that forever and I'm not getting results from it.
- 32:05SPEAKER_01: And it's like, have you considered doing it differently?
- 32:08SPEAKER_01: Like,
- 32:08SPEAKER_01: I don't know why people get into these funks,
- 32:11SPEAKER_01: but,
- 32:11SPEAKER_01: and you make an excellent point that I'm not sure I've ever thought of,
- 32:14SPEAKER_01: which is like,
- 32:15if you're an attorney and you go to an event and you meet like
- 32:18an associate,
- 32:20or another law firm that's like just struggling to get in cases
- 32:23like are you
- 32:24meeting the types of law firms that are in the position to
- 32:27refer you good cases
- 32:28like that i mean that's really worth thinking about like
- 32:31basically are you meeting
- 32:32the right people i'm guilty of this i need to join some sort of
- 32:35mastermind myself
- 32:36but it's a good reason why law firm owners should join
- 32:40mastermind groups and
- 32:41sometimes multiples because you're meeting attorneys who are
- 32:45also concerned with
- 32:47SPEAKER_01: intakes sales reviews
- 32:49And they're in a better position to refer you cases than the
- 32:54guy down the street
- 32:55SPEAKER_01: who has had a small law firm for a long time.
- 32:58SPEAKER_01: But yeah, it's about meeting the right kind of referral sources.
- 33:01SPEAKER_01: I feel like that's such an excellent point.
- 33:03Well,
- 33:03Delisi,
- 33:04thank you so much for being on the podcast with me and talking
- 33:07with us today.
- 33:07SPEAKER_01: Where do you want people to go find you and learn more about you?
- 33:10SPEAKER_00: I am very active on LinkedIn.
- 33:13SPEAKER_00: So please follow me and connect with me on LinkedIn.
- 33:17If you want to learn more about what I'm doing,
- 33:19you can visit my website,
- 33:21firstcallfriday.com.
- 33:23SPEAKER_00: Look into any of the services I provide on there if you have questions.
- 33:28SPEAKER_00: But LinkedIn, I am a huge fan of LinkedIn.
- 33:31I believe all lawyers,
- 33:33if they want referral business,
- 33:34should be on LinkedIn.
- 33:35SPEAKER_00: So LinkedIn.
- 33:38SPEAKER_01: Well, thank you so much again.
- 33:40You guys go look her up on LinkedIn and visit her website and
- 33:44learn more about her.
- 33:45SPEAKER_01: And thanks everyone for listening.