Boundaries, Red Flags, And Growth with Author, Shannon Elliot | S4 EP104

Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast · Nov 6, 2025 · 45m · transcript

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We sit at the fire with Shannon Elliott to unpack losing yourself in a relationship, finding your values again, and building boundaries that hold. From red flags to safe words to dating parents while child-free, we trade fixes for clarity and negotiation.

• solo poly identity versus escalator expectations

• awareness, willingness, and capacity to change

• partner as collaborator not classroom

• problems with “training a submissive” framing

• negotiation before scenes and in public play

• impact play as sensation not automatic pain

• safe words as standard, not optional

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