311. Why Mantras & Journaling Aren’t Working (And What To Do Instead)

How To Love Yourself No Matter What · Apr 30, 2026 · 13m · transcript

If you’ve been repeating affirmations, journaling your thoughts, and still feeling stuck… we need to talk.

Because it’s not that you’re doing it wrong.

It’s that these tools aren’t actually designed to create the kind of change you’re looking for.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why mantras and journaling often don’t work—especially for sensitive, self-aware women—and what to do instead.

Mantras can create internal conflict when your brain doesn’t believe what you’re saying.

Journaling can turn into rumination that reinforces the exact patterns you’re trying to break.

So if you’ve ever…