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Children Don’t Just Hear Arguments, They Feel Them
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Conflict leaves a mark on kids that words rarely capture. We unpack how children don’t think their way through parental fights—they feel them. From tight shoulders at the dinner table to a careful tone when a door shuts too hard, a child’s nervous system maps the family weather and learns how to survive it. That survival can look like anxiety, anger, perfection, or total silence, and it’s easy to mistake any of those for “the problem.” We flip the lens and ask the better question: what is this behavior trying to say?
Across this conversation, Kim Lee—a child and adolescent…
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