Voice Note #132 — I Don't Care About Your Trauma

Voice Notes to the Universe · Oct 28, 2026 · 18m · transcript

VOICE NOTE #132 — I Don't Care About Your Trauma

I've been thinking a lot about forgiveness lately.

What does it actually mean to forgive someone? What does it feel like? And how do you know when you've truly done it?

Because here's the thing.

I can understand why someone behaves the way they do. I can recognize their trauma, their wounds, their survival responses, and all the complicated pieces that make them human.

But sometimes?

I don't give a fuck about your trauma.

I'm angry. I'm grieving. And quite frankly, I'm tired of being told to be the bigger person.

What if I don't want to be the…