Am I the Problem… or are They? | Thinking Out Loud

Thinking Out Loud | Kimberly · May 19, 2026 · 12m · transcript

EP 12: Who’s the Problem… or What’s the Problem?

Instead of asking “who’s the problem?”… what if we asked a different question?

What if the goal isn’t to assign blame, but to understand what’s actually happening underneath the conflict?

In this episode, we sit with that uncomfortable in-between space — where things are not black and white, where emotions are real but so are patterns, and where clarity doesn’t always come from deciding who is right or wrong.

We talk about how easily pain can turn into labels, how quickly we assign identity in moments of confusion, and how often we mistake…