Latest / Dishing with Stephanie's Dish / Stephanie A. Meyer has the basic formula for how to eat and create satiety and life long healthy eating without deprivation
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- 0:04SPEAKER_00: Hello,
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: everybody,
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: and welcome to Dishing with Stephanie's Dish,
- 0:06SPEAKER_00: the podcast where we talk to people in the food space.
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's cookbook authors.
- 0:11SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's people that make things.
- 0:13SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's chefs.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: And today I am talking to my friend,
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: Stephanie Meyer,
- 0:18SPEAKER_00: who you all may know of as Fresh Tart Steph and as now Stephanie.Meyer.A.
- 0:27SPEAKER_00: I always get it wrong.
- 0:28SPEAKER_00: Stephanie.
- 0:28SPEAKER_00: Stephanie.A.Meyer.
- 0:30SPEAKER_00: But yes, yes.
- 0:31SPEAKER_00: Got it.
- 0:33And Stephanie has been in our friend group for a very long time
- 0:37and a friend with
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: me for a long time.
- 0:39SPEAKER_00: And Stephanie is always I feel like a trendsetter.
- 0:42SPEAKER_00: Do you know that you're a trendsetter?
- 0:44SPEAKER_01: No, that's amazing.
- 0:46SPEAKER_01: I don't think anyone's ever called me that before.
- 0:49SPEAKER_00: Well, here's what I think.
- 0:51SPEAKER_00: Like you're not in the trends like people would think of trends,
- 0:55but you are thinking about things before other people are
- 0:58thinking about them.
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: Because I think you're super well read.
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: You're very bright.
- 1:03SPEAKER_00: You spend a lot of time thinking about science things.
- 1:07So you were the first person that I came across in the food
- 1:10space that was really
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: thinking about blogging in a robust way.
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: Sure.
- 1:15SPEAKER_00: Wow.
- 1:15SPEAKER_00: That was a long time ago.
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: It sure was,
- 1:18but that was what you were doing and you were bringing bloggers
- 1:21together and
- 1:22SPEAKER_00: creating community,
- 1:23SPEAKER_00: which was amazing.
- 1:25SPEAKER_00: Then you were writing a cookbook about Twin Cities chefs,
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: which also seems probably like a long time ago,
- 1:34but I just picked it up the other day and the stories and the
- 1:37heartfelt feelings
- 1:39SPEAKER_00: about the Twin Cities chef community was still there.
- 1:43SPEAKER_01: Love it.
- 1:44SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
- 1:45Then you sort of started thinking about healthy eating and
- 1:49healthy food and your
- 1:51green broth kind of blew up before anybody else was really
- 1:55talking about that.
- 1:56And you've really gone full circle here into this food journey
- 2:01as many of my peers
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: start to enter the midlife,
- 2:06SPEAKER_00: menopausal,
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: middle,
- 2:09SPEAKER_00: trying to think about not only foods in terms of
- 2:13health but also some of us have been packing the pounds on over
- 2:18the years and just
- 2:19really like you wrote something the other day and I follow you
- 2:24on Substack and I
- 2:25follow all your stuff but you wrote something the other day
- 2:28that just like leapt
- 2:30off the page at me and I sent it to a friend and I thought I
- 2:33have to podcast with
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: her and I'm gonna just
- 2:36See if I can find it here because I'm going to read it because
- 2:39I think it will
- 2:40SPEAKER_00: really resonate with food people,
- 2:43SPEAKER_00: but also people that might be in the menopause space.
- 2:49So you are on trend because when Oprah starts talking about
- 2:53something that you've
- 2:53SPEAKER_00: been talking about for a long time.
- 2:55SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 2:55SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 2:57SPEAKER_01: It's, I mean, it's very true.
- 2:59And honestly,
- 3:00in this sense,
- 3:01a lot of it's just sort of following what people ask me for.
- 3:05So maybe my,
- 3:06maybe my clients are the trendsetters and I'm just answering
- 3:08their questions.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: So here's what you wrote as we'll say a nutritional coach.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: You said, write down this solution and implement it today.
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 3:20Here's the basic per meal formula and adjust according to your
- 3:23weight and health
- 3:24SPEAKER_00: goals and calorie needs.
- 3:25SPEAKER_00: Are you ready?
- 3:27SPEAKER_00: She said, write this down.
- 3:28SPEAKER_00: 30 grams of protein plus 40 grams of carbs,
- 3:32SPEAKER_00: five or more grams of fiber,
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: plus two colors of non-starchy plants and 15 grams of healthy fat.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: Do that for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
- 3:41SPEAKER_00: A snack is half of that, but still the combo.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: And I was like blown away by,
- 3:48that nobody had ever just like spelled that out in a way that
- 3:53felt so clear to me.
- 3:54So can you talk a little bit about your journey and how you got
- 3:58there and how you
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: got to this specific metric and why it's working for people?
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 4:03SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love it.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: Well, I call that particular formula.
- 4:06SPEAKER_01: I call it the satiety formula.
- 4:09SPEAKER_01: That's how you pronounce that word, by the way.
- 4:10SPEAKER_01: Like often people will just write back and say, oh my God, huge relief.
- 4:14SPEAKER_01: Cause I was saying satiety.
- 4:16SPEAKER_01: I wasn't really sure how to say it, whatever.
- 4:18SPEAKER_01: So anyway, it's satiety.
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: I've always been satiety.
- 4:22SPEAKER_00: So again, you're way ahead of the term.
- 4:24SPEAKER_01: Satiety, right?
- 4:25SPEAKER_01: Satiety.
- 4:26SPEAKER_01: And so it is satiety.
- 4:28SPEAKER_01: So that could be your little word nerd, you know, for the day.
- 4:33SPEAKER_01: And it's a very powerful word,
- 4:35SPEAKER_01: and I just am kind of hooked on it,
- 4:39SPEAKER_01: and I keep repeating it,
- 4:40SPEAKER_01: and I keep hoping that people get on board with me.
- 4:42SPEAKER_01: But I call that the satiety formula because when I work with clients,
- 4:48I have been able to see that the thing that gets in people's
- 4:51way is that they're
- 4:52SPEAKER_01: hungry.
- 4:53SPEAKER_01: And, you know, perimenopause, menopause makes you hungrier.
- 4:58SPEAKER_01: And a lot of women notice it.
- 4:59SPEAKER_01: They think it's, oh, it's because of, you know, hormones.
- 5:03SPEAKER_01: That's it.
- 5:03SPEAKER_01: That, you know, estrogen and progesterone directly affect your appetite.
- 5:07SPEAKER_01: That's not really exactly, it's not that direct.
- 5:11SPEAKER_01: However,
- 5:12SPEAKER_01: it is true because as,
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 5:14SPEAKER_01: perimenopause sets in,
- 5:16SPEAKER_01: we know what happens,
- 5:17SPEAKER_01: sleep disruption,
- 5:18SPEAKER_01: nothing.
- 5:20SPEAKER_01: nothing affects your appetite more than sleep.
- 5:22SPEAKER_01: And you have a bad night of sleep.
- 5:24We know that the average person eats like three to 500 extra
- 5:29calories the next day
- 5:30SPEAKER_01: without trying or knowing it.
- 5:32And so a lot of women come to me and say,
- 5:34I'm doing exactly what I did before.
- 5:36SPEAKER_01: This is like this mysterious 10 pound weight packed on.
- 5:41SPEAKER_01: And I think it's because
- 5:44SPEAKER_01: of, you know, estrogen.
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: And then we dive in.
- 5:48SPEAKER_01: I have them take a look at what they're eating.
- 5:50SPEAKER_01: We talk about their appetite and what I just saw.
- 5:54SPEAKER_01: over and over and over again is, oh, women are just hungrier.
- 5:58So we need to get more knowledgeable about what makes you full
- 6:02and a little bit
- 6:03SPEAKER_01: more purposeful about it.
- 6:04And then along came Ozempic and made it all kind of make sense
- 6:09because Ozempic
- 6:10SPEAKER_01: works or GLP-1 medications work because they decrease your appetite.
- 6:15And all of a sudden people realized,
- 6:19oh,
- 6:20I was eating much bigger portions than I realized.
- 6:23SPEAKER_01: Oh,
- 6:24SPEAKER_01: I have a naturally bigger appetite than my sister.
- 6:27SPEAKER_01: I didn't realize this is how she felt.
- 6:30SPEAKER_01: I didn't realize what it feels like to not think about food all day.
- 6:33SPEAKER_01: I didn't realize what it feels like to not like be hungry after dinner.
- 6:37SPEAKER_01: And I and Oprah even said it.
- 6:40SPEAKER_01: She's like, wait a minute.
- 6:41SPEAKER_01: Is this what normal people feel?
- 6:44SPEAKER_01: And I have been beaten up my whole life for like,
- 6:48SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 6:48SPEAKER_01: being overweight and having a bigger appetite.
- 6:50SPEAKER_01: And it's just my biology.
- 6:52SPEAKER_01: And so knowing that biology is happening, appetite is bigger.
- 6:58SPEAKER_01: What can you do about it?
- 7:00SPEAKER_01: Maybe a GLP-1 medication is an answer.
- 7:03SPEAKER_01: Lots of people don't want to go that route right away.
- 7:06SPEAKER_01: They would rather experiment
- 7:08with creating satiety,
- 7:09which is what GLP-1 medications do,
- 7:13creating satiety with food.
- 7:15SPEAKER_01: Because we naturally have GLP-1.
- 7:17SPEAKER_01: We naturally have other satiety hormones.
- 7:19We can eat very specific foods in combination to like elicit as
- 7:24much of that
- 7:26SPEAKER_01: release of satiety hormone as possible.
- 7:28SPEAKER_01: It's not as powerful as meds, but it's a good experiment.
- 7:32SPEAKER_01: And a lot of people are like, okay, I have a lot of clients.
- 7:35SPEAKER_01: I just met with one this morning who said, I'm too full.
- 7:38SPEAKER_01: So let's adjust.
- 7:39SPEAKER_01: I love it when I get people there.
- 7:41SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh, now I'm too full.
- 7:44SPEAKER_01: How do we fix that?
- 7:44SPEAKER_00: It is funny because my first thought after reading your formula...
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: Was thinking about, I see the plates of food you eat a lot on Instagram.
- 7:56So I was thinking about like,
- 7:57okay,
- 7:58thinking about what Stephanie's plates look like.
- 8:00SPEAKER_00: And then thinking about like,
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: if I actually ate that amount of food three times a day,
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: I haven't eaten that much food since like the fifth grade.
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 8:11SPEAKER_00: It felt like, wow, would this be what that felt like?
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 8:15SPEAKER_00: And I'm not sure.
- 8:17SPEAKER_00: I'm always on the search.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: And,
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 8:19people probably think I have an eating disorder and maybe I do
- 8:23and I don't even
- 8:23SPEAKER_00: know it.
- 8:24But I feel like a lot of women,
- 8:27we are conditioned and we think about food a lot.
- 8:30SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
- 8:31SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
- 8:32When it's your business too,
- 8:34I'm always thinking about creating and food is like my art.
- 8:39So it's hard for me to separate the creation of food and
- 8:43wanting to express that
- 8:45SPEAKER_00: way through either.
- 8:47actually making recipes or thinking about recipes or gardening
- 8:51or creating a beautiful table.
- 8:53Like I'm always thinking about that and then the actual eating
- 8:58piece of it.
- 9:00SPEAKER_00: And it gets kind of all mixed up,
- 9:02SPEAKER_00: but some ways in a beautiful way,
- 9:04SPEAKER_00: some ways in a way that feels onerous,
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: right?
- 9:07yes very well said and i just think about it all the time and i
- 9:13eat way less than i
- 9:16think about because if i ate all the time like but i know like
- 9:21i have a friend
- 9:22right now who she has an eating disorder and has her whole life
- 9:26and for the first
- 9:26time as a 55 year old woman she feels like she's really got a
- 9:31handle on it
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: Because she's back to, I hate to say it, but calorie counting.
- 9:37SPEAKER_00: And she was afraid of calorie counting her whole life.
- 9:40SPEAKER_00: Exactly like you said, she's like, I wasn't eating enough.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: I was eating one meal a day.
- 9:46SPEAKER_00: I was eating all the wrong things.
- 9:49And now that I'm like more managing that eating throughout the
- 9:52day and eating more
- 9:54SPEAKER_00: fruits and vegetables and just like not being so hung up on it.
- 9:58SPEAKER_00: She's like, I feel so much better.
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 10:00SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 10:00SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 10:01SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 10:01SPEAKER_01: You said a lot of great things there.
- 10:03SPEAKER_01: I don't think you have an eating disorder.
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: I mean, welcome to being a woman in the United States.
- 10:09SPEAKER_01: It is just relentless.
- 10:11SPEAKER_01: And then social media has probably made it worse.
- 10:14SPEAKER_01: Although, frankly, it wasn't all that great, you know, pre-social media.
- 10:17SPEAKER_01: So I don't know.
- 10:18SPEAKER_01: There's a lot of good info.
- 10:20SPEAKER_01: I see a lot of better info.
- 10:23SPEAKER_01: Maybe it's because of the way I curate my social media feed.
- 10:28SPEAKER_01: But I feel like the messages are shifting and changing.
- 10:31SPEAKER_01: And I think that's good.
- 10:32SPEAKER_01: But you're right.
- 10:33SPEAKER_01: I mean, it's insanity.
- 10:36SPEAKER_01: And it's really difficult.
- 10:38SPEAKER_01: Calories matter.
- 10:40SPEAKER_01: Buried in that formula is the macronutrients of protein, carbs, and fat.
- 10:50SPEAKER_01: they each have calories associated with them.
- 10:53SPEAKER_01: So carbs have four calories per gram.
- 10:56SPEAKER_01: Protein has four calories per gram.
- 10:58SPEAKER_01: Fat has nine calories per gram.
- 11:00SPEAKER_01: And so when you build a meal around the satiety formula,
- 11:03SPEAKER_01: there's calorie control kind of built into it.
- 11:08SPEAKER_01: And so that meal,
- 11:09if you put together that exact formula of a meal is going to
- 11:12come out to around 400
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: calories.
- 11:13SPEAKER_01: And 400 calories per meal
- 11:17SPEAKER_01: is a pretty good place for women to start.
- 11:19SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 11:20SPEAKER_01: it's probably not enough from,
- 11:22SPEAKER_01: and I say that in that,
- 11:24SPEAKER_01: in that particular essay,
- 11:26SPEAKER_01: um,
- 11:26SPEAKER_01: 400 calories per meal.
- 11:27SPEAKER_01: If you only ate three meals a day would obviously be 1200 calories.
- 11:33SPEAKER_01: A lot of women,
- 11:34SPEAKER_01: uh,
- 11:34historically have been aiming for 1200 calories a day and it's
- 11:37not enough,
- 11:38SPEAKER_01: right?
- 11:39SPEAKER_01: It backfires because you end up so hungry.
- 11:43SPEAKER_01: that you do overeat in the evening and then visible ways.
- 11:47SPEAKER_01: It's not enough nutrients to,
- 11:49SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 11:49build muscle and muscle is really how you keep your metabolism
- 11:53ticking along,
- 11:54SPEAKER_01: especially as we age.
- 11:56SPEAKER_01: So 1200 calories isn't it.
- 11:58SPEAKER_01: That's the calorie count for like my three year old niece.
- 12:00SPEAKER_01: That's how many calories a day she should be eating.
- 12:03So not a grown woman unless,
- 12:05of course,
- 12:06you're I don't know,
- 12:07Suze Ellison.
- 12:08SPEAKER_01: You're like four foot ten and you're,
- 12:11SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 12:11SPEAKER_01: an older age like she doesn't need a ton of calories.
- 12:14And I'm quite sure she probably doesn't eat a ton of food
- 12:17because she's just like
- 12:18SPEAKER_01: an adorable tiny little thing.
- 12:20um i'm six feet tall and i'm super active and 1200 calories a
- 12:25day would be insane
- 12:27and lots of bad things start to happen if you do that your hair
- 12:30falls out you start
- 12:32to lose muscle you start to lose bone you start to have low
- 12:36energy uh it's
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: depressing you compromise your gut health like we're not going there
- 12:43nuance,
- 12:44it's very hard to portray on social media and,
- 12:48you know,
- 12:49anywhere.
- 12:49SPEAKER_01: The nuance is that yes,
- 12:52SPEAKER_01: 1200 is too low,
- 12:54but most Americans are actually over consuming calories and our
- 12:59food environment is
- 13:02SPEAKER_01: high calorie,
- 13:03SPEAKER_01: low satiety.
- 13:04SPEAKER_01: You just, we know that that's what restaurants tend to sell.
- 13:08SPEAKER_01: It's what snack foods are.
- 13:09SPEAKER_01: It's what
- 13:10you know,
- 13:11most of our food environment,
- 13:12kind of the ultra processed food stuff.
- 13:14SPEAKER_01: And so once you know that you can start to push up against it.
- 13:20SPEAKER_01: And most women,
- 13:21I find this really feel like they are going to gain weight if
- 13:27they're full,
- 13:29SPEAKER_01: which is a little bit getting at what you said.
- 13:31SPEAKER_01: Like you look at that plate of food that I put on Instagram and
- 13:34SPEAKER_01: most of those plates of food are like between 300 and 400 calories.
- 13:38SPEAKER_01: Like they're not even that many calories,
- 13:40but I'm really good at getting a lot of food packed into 400
- 13:46calories so that you
- 13:47SPEAKER_01: can experience satiety,
- 13:49SPEAKER_01: but also the nutrient density part of it.
- 13:51SPEAKER_01: It's a lot of color,
- 13:52SPEAKER_01: a lot of veggies,
- 13:53SPEAKER_01: a lot of fiber,
- 13:54SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 13:54SPEAKER_01: the right amount of protein,
- 13:55SPEAKER_01: that kind of thing.
- 13:58SPEAKER_01: And I think that's a really,
- 14:01SPEAKER_01: It's worth thinking about,
- 14:03SPEAKER_01: wow,
- 14:04I have been programmed to feel healthy when I'm hungry and to
- 14:09feel like I'm doing
- 14:10SPEAKER_01: things right if I'm hungry and that if I'm satisfied and full,
- 14:14SPEAKER_01: then I'm going to gain weight.
- 14:15SPEAKER_01: That's a very real fear.
- 14:17SPEAKER_01: And it's not just for people who have an eating disorder.
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: It's I would say it's pretty typical for all American women.
- 14:22SPEAKER_01: So.
- 14:23and we're always trying to balance not only for our our health
- 14:28for ourselves but
- 14:30also our partners our children you know a lot of women are the
- 14:33caregivers and we're
- 14:34putting this food out there yep and wanting to also like I
- 14:39don't want just speaking
- 14:41SPEAKER_00: for myself I don't want food to be like depressing not fun like
- 14:47also creating an environment where food can be celebration and
- 14:52all those things.
- 14:55SPEAKER_00: How,
- 14:55SPEAKER_00: like,
- 14:56SPEAKER_00: okay,
- 14:56so I know you're coaching all these women and they're having
- 14:59all this success
- 15:00SPEAKER_00: because they're feeling more full,
- 15:02SPEAKER_00: they're eating more well-balanced,
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: they're following your formula,
- 15:06but then it feels like real life enters in sometimes and we
- 15:10have that third glass
- 15:11SPEAKER_00: of wine or we're going out to dinner on Friday and Saturday night.
- 15:16SPEAKER_00: My challenge,
- 15:17SPEAKER_00: like,
- 15:18I could never calorie count because if I go to dinner at a good
- 15:21place on a Friday
- 15:22SPEAKER_00: night,
- 15:23the calories in that food I know I can't even keep track of
- 15:26because they put so
- 15:27much butter in it or it's just you don't know how restaurant
- 15:32food is made and why
- 15:33SPEAKER_00: it tastes so good and all those things you fear are true.
- 15:37SPEAKER_01: It's not true.
- 15:38I have that conversation actually with my clients because we
- 15:42strategize around,
- 15:43SPEAKER_01: okay,
- 15:44SPEAKER_01: there's a couple of ways you can approach it.
- 15:46SPEAKER_01: One,
- 15:47SPEAKER_01: if you are going out for dinner too often,
- 15:52SPEAKER_01: obviously it's a little bit of a job hazard for someone like you.
- 15:56SPEAKER_01: and our friend group.
- 15:58SPEAKER_01: But if you're eating out too often,
- 16:00then you're going to have to make some decisions about the food
- 16:03that you order in
- 16:04restaurants that are probably more restrictive than what I
- 16:07would tell someone if
- 16:08SPEAKER_01: they were going out for dinner every other week,
- 16:09SPEAKER_01: right?
- 16:10SPEAKER_01: Like if you're going out for dinner,
- 16:12SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 16:13once every couple of weeks and you really are hungry and you
- 16:16want to go to Bar La
- 16:17SPEAKER_01: Grasse and get pasta,
- 16:18SPEAKER_01: then go do that.
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: Enjoy it.
- 16:20SPEAKER_01: It's fine.
- 16:21SPEAKER_01: If you are made this other decision,
- 16:24like you're going to eat out a lot and you have health goals
- 16:27that you want to meet,
- 16:29then you're going to have to strategize a little bit more
- 16:31thoroughly about how you
- 16:33SPEAKER_01: approach eating in restaurants because everything you said is just true.
- 16:36SPEAKER_01: Like their job is to coax as much fat.
- 16:40and sodium into a dish so that you crave it and you want to
- 16:44come back for it.
- 16:45SPEAKER_01: Like they're in the midst of selling food, which is fine.
- 16:50SPEAKER_01: But when you know that, then you can kind of plan around it.
- 16:52SPEAKER_01: So one way that we strategize,
- 16:55SPEAKER_01: and again,
- 16:56SPEAKER_01: it comes down to very individual response,
- 16:58SPEAKER_01: which is why
- 17:00SPEAKER_01: I don't really do a lot of group coaching.
- 17:02I really do one-on-one coaching because everybody's so
- 17:04different,
- 17:04like the group stuff.
- 17:05SPEAKER_01: Teaching a course has been amazing and gives a good overview,
- 17:09but this is where we kind of get into this nitty gritty and
- 17:12make a decision.
- 17:13SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 17:14SPEAKER_01: I am going out for dinner.
- 17:18The old way is to try to save up the calories and not eat much
- 17:22during the day and
- 17:23SPEAKER_01: then try to be moderate at dinner.
- 17:27SPEAKER_01: Well, good luck with that because those meals,
- 17:32you know,
- 17:33if you had a per bite calorie count,
- 17:35it would be really high,
- 17:37let's say.
- 17:38SPEAKER_01: And even if you did,
- 17:40SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 17:41SPEAKER_01: a pretty good job of ordering like,
- 17:43SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 17:43SPEAKER_01: some proteins,
- 17:44SPEAKER_01: some veggies,
- 17:46SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 17:46SPEAKER_01: have only two glasses of wine,
- 17:47SPEAKER_01: let's say kind of a thing,
- 17:49SPEAKER_01: you're still gonna end up blowing past where you would wanna be,
- 17:54SPEAKER_01: especially if you didn't eat anything earlier in the day.
- 17:57SPEAKER_01: So what I like to have people do is,
- 18:00SPEAKER_01: Take a look at the satiety formula,
- 18:02eat the real breakfast because what you eat for breakfast has a
- 18:06huge influence of
- 18:07SPEAKER_01: how hungry you are at four in the afternoon.
- 18:09SPEAKER_01: So eat the breakfast,
- 18:11SPEAKER_01: eat the lunch,
- 18:13SPEAKER_01: have a snack that is,
- 18:15SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 18:15SPEAKER_01: that same balance of things where it's protein,
- 18:17SPEAKER_01: it's some carbs and it's some colorful veggies because then you're,
- 18:22you're turning up the volume on your own satiety and that gives
- 18:25you natural
- 18:26SPEAKER_01: discipline.
- 18:27SPEAKER_01: Like when you're full and you arrive at the restaurant,
- 18:30SPEAKER_01: and let's say,
- 18:33SPEAKER_01: I'll just use the parallel example of someone taking a GLP-1 medication,
- 18:37SPEAKER_01: which is much more powerful,
- 18:38SPEAKER_01: as we've said.
- 18:39SPEAKER_01: But if you're taking a GLP-1 and you're not hungry,
- 18:43SPEAKER_01: you're not going to overeat at the restaurant.
- 18:46So let's back it up to the person who's just using food to
- 18:49create satiety.
- 18:50SPEAKER_01: If you show up at a restaurant and you're not starving,
- 18:54SPEAKER_01: you are going to have discipline that you wouldn't have otherwise.
- 18:57SPEAKER_01: You're going to be able to make better decisions.
- 19:00SPEAKER_01: And then you're gonna have the knowledge.
- 19:02SPEAKER_01: well, I'm going to have a pretty high fat meal, right?
- 19:05SPEAKER_01: I'm going to do steak.
- 19:06SPEAKER_01: I'm going to do roasted veggies.
- 19:08Then in that case,
- 19:10I tell women,
- 19:12you can probably back off on the carbs in that meal.
- 19:14I'm not saying be keto and low carb and,
- 19:17you know,
- 19:17go eat like a stick of butter for dinner.
- 19:19SPEAKER_01: But when you're doing a good job,
- 19:22SPEAKER_01: most of the meals,
- 19:22SPEAKER_01: most of the days,
- 19:23SPEAKER_01: when you get to a restaurant,
- 19:25SPEAKER_01: if you still enjoy it,
- 19:28SPEAKER_01: maybe skip the carbs because a lot of them aren't that great.
- 19:31SPEAKER_01: It's like you can have rice at home.
- 19:34SPEAKER_01: Is that that special thing about this restaurant?
- 19:37SPEAKER_01: Fries, sometimes they're amazing.
- 19:40SPEAKER_01: They're like my favorite food.
- 19:41SPEAKER_01: But if they're marginal, I am not going to eat crappy fries.
- 19:45SPEAKER_01: Like that's not going to be my thing.
- 19:47SPEAKER_01: I'm going to focus on having
- 19:49SPEAKER_01: you know, a great burger and I'm gluten-free gluten-free buns are bad.
- 19:55SPEAKER_01: And so if I get a burger, I just get a really great burger.
- 19:58SPEAKER_01: I probably get cheese on it.
- 19:59SPEAKER_01: I get an amazing salad.
- 20:01SPEAKER_01: I eat those two things together, skip the fries or just have a couple.
- 20:05SPEAKER_01: And I love that meal.
- 20:07SPEAKER_01: It's special.
- 20:08It's much richer and kind of more fun than anything I would
- 20:11make for myself at home.
- 20:13SPEAKER_01: And it's going to work.
- 20:14SPEAKER_01: And so that's the way you can kind of strategize.
- 20:19SPEAKER_01: And that means nuance.
- 20:20SPEAKER_01: That means that calories matter,
- 20:23SPEAKER_01: but we don't have to completely obsess over them and count points and,
- 20:27SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 20:28SPEAKER_01: try to estimate,
- 20:29SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 20:29SPEAKER_01: the calories in,
- 20:31SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 20:31SPEAKER_01: whatever,
- 20:32SPEAKER_01: a plate of pasta at Bar La Grasso,
- 20:33SPEAKER_01: which would be impossible and also might
- 20:38SPEAKER_01: really freak you out.
- 20:39SPEAKER_01: And so you just have to write, have, have knowledge.
- 20:42And so when I do have people track,
- 20:45but I have them track in order to,
- 20:47to create and plan.
- 20:49SPEAKER_01: So I have them track ahead of times.
- 20:51SPEAKER_01: Like you're about to eat breakfast,
- 20:53use an app to create a meal that's going to fit the formula and
- 20:57the app can help
- 20:58SPEAKER_01: you do that.
- 20:58Cause it's just a database full of,
- 21:00you know,
- 21:02tons of food and tons of info about food.
- 21:04SPEAKER_01: So
- 21:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it does.
- 21:07SPEAKER_00: It's exactly the opposite of what I do because I start.
- 21:13I noticed it like when when I was writing more about
- 21:16restaurants in the Twin Cities
- 21:18SPEAKER_01: and I learned pretty fast.
- 21:21If I show up at a restaurant starving,
- 21:23it is like,
- 21:25you know,
- 21:26game on and it's not going to work.
- 21:29It works a lot better if I show up and I'm like normal,
- 21:33hungry for dinner.
- 21:34SPEAKER_01: And I make the effort to eat some salad first,
- 21:38SPEAKER_01: eat some veggies first,
- 21:39SPEAKER_01: start with protein,
- 21:40SPEAKER_01: way play down the carbs.
- 21:42SPEAKER_01: And,
- 21:44SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 21:44SPEAKER_01: and if I'm going to have something to drink,
- 21:45I'm probably going to go for a glass of wine versus a cocktail
- 21:49because the cocktail
- 21:50SPEAKER_01: is just going to have so many more calories in it.
- 21:52SPEAKER_01: So, yeah, because calories matter.
- 21:54SPEAKER_01: So it's like that's the nuance.
- 21:58If you think that calories don't matter,
- 21:59then you're completely losing the script.
- 22:03But if you're completely obsessed with them and you try to
- 22:06restrict yourself down,
- 22:07SPEAKER_01: down,
- 22:08SPEAKER_01: down,
- 22:08SPEAKER_01: down,
- 22:08SPEAKER_01: down,
- 22:09SPEAKER_01: that's going to backfire and fail too.
- 22:11SPEAKER_01: So we're aiming in that middle place.
- 22:14I love this about you that you're very moderate in your
- 22:18approach and there's room
- 22:19SPEAKER_00: for error and there's room for,
- 22:21SPEAKER_00: oops,
- 22:22SPEAKER_00: fell off the wagon last night.
- 22:24SPEAKER_00: Like, let me get back started this next morning.
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: What apps do you like for people?
- 22:30SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I really, whatever one people enjoy using is,
- 22:35SPEAKER_01: So I have a lot of clients that used to do Weight Watchers.
- 22:38The Weight Watchers app used to be completely worthless because
- 22:42you couldn't see
- 22:43SPEAKER_01: the macronutrients on it.
- 22:44SPEAKER_01: You couldn't see protein, carbs and fiber and fat.
- 22:49SPEAKER_01: Now you can like they've updated the app.
- 22:52So I have if you are a person who's really comfortable in the
- 22:56Weight Watchers app,
- 22:57SPEAKER_01: then there's no need to switch to something else.
- 23:00SPEAKER_01: Some people pay for MyFitnessPal.
- 23:02SPEAKER_01: That's fine and great.
- 23:04SPEAKER_01: The free MyFitnessPal isn't so helpful.
- 23:07SPEAKER_01: It's really hard to see what you're doing.
- 23:10I have clients use Carb Manager if they've never used an app
- 23:15before because it's
- 23:16SPEAKER_01: free and it's like so easy to use.
- 23:20SPEAKER_01: The database is fantastic.
- 23:22SPEAKER_01: The caveat with that is you can tell by the name.
- 23:25SPEAKER_01: that it's meant for people who are really obsessed with carbs.
- 23:29SPEAKER_01: Maybe they have diabetes, they're doing keto.
- 23:31SPEAKER_01: We don't use it that way.
- 23:32So we have to go in and change the settings to custom and then
- 23:36plug our formula
- 23:37SPEAKER_01: that we map out for people in it.
- 23:39SPEAKER_01: And then they know,
- 23:40SPEAKER_01: they're like,
- 23:40SPEAKER_01: okay,
- 23:40SPEAKER_01: this is how many grams of protein I need to be aiming for
- 23:45SPEAKER_01: in a meal,
- 23:45SPEAKER_01: and the way you figure that out is by putting,
- 23:48SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 23:49SPEAKER_01: okay,
- 23:49SPEAKER_01: I'm thinking about having two eggs and a couple of chicken sausages and,
- 23:54SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 23:55SPEAKER_01: some of this Dave's Killer Bread toast and some strawberries.
- 24:02SPEAKER_01: Where does that get me?
- 24:03SPEAKER_01: And then you know, okay, well, that's not quite there.
- 24:06SPEAKER_01: How can I change it?
- 24:07And then we work on changing it so that you really get that
- 24:10satiety with little tweaks.
- 24:13SPEAKER_00: What is a typical client of yours look like?
- 24:17SPEAKER_01: Yeah, there kind of isn't one, which I think is so fun.
- 24:22I mean,
- 24:22I've had women,
- 24:23I've had moms who've bought coaching for their 20 year old
- 24:27daughters.
- 24:29SPEAKER_01: How fun is that to have a mom who wants their daughter to
- 24:36SPEAKER_01: Ignore diet culture and understand.
- 24:39And I love coaching those young women because they are they
- 24:42catch on so fast.
- 24:44SPEAKER_01: And, and then all of their friends want to know what they're doing.
- 24:47And all of a sudden they're telling the friends how to do
- 24:49things differently.
- 24:50SPEAKER_01: And they're
- 24:53SPEAKER_01: You know, they're just a health conscious group of people.
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: They're drinking a lot less.
- 24:57SPEAKER_01: They're already kind of working out.
- 24:59SPEAKER_01: They're great about water,
- 25:01SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 25:02SPEAKER_01: and they have their little Stanley cups and they take them everywhere.
- 25:05SPEAKER_01: It's very fun.
- 25:06SPEAKER_01: I have clients who are in their 80s who are,
- 25:09SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 25:11SPEAKER_01: definitely not perimenopausal,
- 25:13SPEAKER_01: but who are really wanting to not become frail.
- 25:20SPEAKER_01: And who do not want to lose their independence and their mobility.
- 25:25And that is really fun because talk about a generational shift
- 25:28and how to eat just
- 25:30SPEAKER_01: very,
- 25:31SPEAKER_01: very different.
- 25:32And then the majority are probably somewhere between the age
- 25:35of,
- 25:35you know,
- 25:3640 and 65.
- 25:39mostly women who are experiencing perimenopausal symptoms or
- 25:43menopause and starting
- 25:46SPEAKER_01: to gain weight,
- 25:47SPEAKER_01: feel like they don't know why and really want to like stop.
- 25:51SPEAKER_01: So that's, that's the majority.
- 25:54SPEAKER_01: And then,
- 25:55SPEAKER_01: and then I've got,
- 25:56SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 25:56SPEAKER_01: women who are,
- 25:57SPEAKER_01: I've probably got,
- 25:59SPEAKER_01: I don't know,
- 26:00SPEAKER_01: six clients right now who are taking Ozempic.
- 26:02And they want to make sure that they're really covering their
- 26:05bases with nutrition
- 26:07SPEAKER_01: because Ozempic is a pretty miraculous medication,
- 26:10SPEAKER_01: but you can also screw it up.
- 26:12SPEAKER_01: I mean, if you just don't eat, then you're going to create a mess.
- 26:16SPEAKER_01: And so all of the ways that I talk about eating like that satiety formula
- 26:20SPEAKER_01: absolutely applies to Ozempic.
- 26:22SPEAKER_01: You have to make sure you're eating enough protein.
- 26:24SPEAKER_01: You have to make sure you're eating fiber.
- 26:26SPEAKER_01: You have to get that.
- 26:28SPEAKER_01: You have to work to get the nutrition in when you're not that hungry.
- 26:31SPEAKER_01: So, yeah.
- 26:33SPEAKER_00: And when you look at,
- 26:37SPEAKER_00: what do you think gets someone to the point where they hire a coach about
- 26:41SPEAKER_00: nutrition?
- 26:43SPEAKER_01: I love this question.
- 26:44SPEAKER_01: I just, I asked ChatGPT this question the other day.
- 26:48SPEAKER_01: Like,
- 26:49SPEAKER_01: I was having the conversation with our friend Tracy Morgan,
- 26:52SPEAKER_01: because we were talking about women who are
- 26:59you know,
- 27:01even if they're getting laid off from a job,
- 27:03they will still go get their hair done.
- 27:06SPEAKER_01: They will still get Botox.
- 27:08SPEAKER_01: They will still, you know, those are essential.
- 27:11SPEAKER_01: What makes,
- 27:13SPEAKER_01: I'd love your feedback on this,
- 27:14SPEAKER_01: frankly,
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: what makes,
- 27:16SPEAKER_01: cause you're an amazing marketer,
- 27:17SPEAKER_01: what makes your health and nutrition feel as essential as,
- 27:25SPEAKER_01: like getting your nails done,
- 27:26SPEAKER_01: getting your hair done and skincare where you will absolutely,
- 27:30SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 27:31SPEAKER_01: budget,
- 27:31SPEAKER_01: however much that is for you and,
- 27:33SPEAKER_01: and keep it vital.
- 27:36SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 27:37SPEAKER_01: and,
- 27:38SPEAKER_01: and I think the answer in terms of people that hire me is that they,
- 27:43SPEAKER_01: uh,
- 27:44SPEAKER_01: they,
- 27:45SPEAKER_01: they just realized that their same groove
- 27:49repeated is not working you know they've like given it their
- 27:53all they have decided
- 27:55to join a gym they have decided to eat more protein and it
- 27:59isn't getting them where
- 28:01they wanted to and the promise of doing those things is not uh
- 28:05showing up and they
- 28:06realize okay i do need a little bit more information than just
- 28:09work out and eat
- 28:10SPEAKER_01: protein yeah
- 28:12I feel like we're for sure in recessionary times,
- 28:15but no one has called it that yet.
- 28:18SPEAKER_00: Oh, God, for sure.
- 28:19SPEAKER_00: The way that people are spending money is shifting.
- 28:22SPEAKER_00: The way that people are, I mean, food is costing 30% more.
- 28:28SPEAKER_00: So that's part of it.
- 28:30SPEAKER_00: And also what we value.
- 28:32SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 28:33I guess the answer to that is to see yourself as worth it
- 28:39because you prioritize your kids.
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: You'll prioritize your dog.
- 28:43SPEAKER_00: You'll prioritize basically everything in your life before yourself.
- 28:47SPEAKER_00: If you're like most women that I know.
- 28:49SPEAKER_01: Yep.
- 28:50SPEAKER_01: I think that's absolutely it.
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: And I think there is fear.
- 28:53SPEAKER_01: There's fear of the food being depressing or feeling restrictive.
- 29:00There's fear of,
- 29:02you know,
- 29:02being told to go do super hardcore workouts and
- 29:06SPEAKER_01: There's fear of the loss of,
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: a whole time in your life where you didn't have to care about this stuff.
- 29:13SPEAKER_01: And now you have to start grief and shame around all of it.
- 29:19SPEAKER_01: And all I can say is that it's.
- 29:23SPEAKER_01: it's none of those things.
- 29:25SPEAKER_01: Like it is.
- 29:27SPEAKER_01: And then there's also guilt.
- 29:28SPEAKER_01: There is the guilt of focusing on yourself.
- 29:30SPEAKER_01: That one we are going to do.
- 29:32SPEAKER_01: We are going to create a focus on you and your health.
- 29:37SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 29:38SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it brings up some conflict with a partner.
- 29:43If you've got a partner who likes to eat a certain way and all
- 29:46of a sudden you're
- 29:46SPEAKER_01: wanting to make some shifts,
- 29:48SPEAKER_01: that can be in the mix.
- 29:52We have very deep conversations about the fact,
- 29:54I've got some women who...
- 29:56SPEAKER_01: have had a terrible relationship,
- 30:00SPEAKER_01: not a terrible relationship with their mom,
- 30:02SPEAKER_01: but a terrible conversation,
- 30:03SPEAKER_01: a lifetime conversation with their mom about their weight.
- 30:07SPEAKER_01: A mom who's critical of their weight and critical of what they're eating,
- 30:10and they just don't even want to open Pandora's box because
- 30:13they don't want to look
- 30:13SPEAKER_01: inside and see the grief there.
- 30:17SPEAKER_01: And so I understand all of those reasons,
- 30:19SPEAKER_01: but that's why I try to make it really fun and very doable.
- 30:23SPEAKER_01: I mean, the formula piece...
- 30:25SPEAKER_01: really kind of came out of me just constantly challenging myself.
- 30:30SPEAKER_01: What can I offer that can tell you exactly what to do?
- 30:35SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 30:36SPEAKER_00: And I love to do it.
- 30:37SPEAKER_00: It is up to you.
- 30:39SPEAKER_00: I feel like a book is coming for you too.
- 30:41SPEAKER_00: I don't know if you're thinking about it,
- 30:43but I'd love to see like the plates and the size of portions
- 30:48and like really taking
- 30:49SPEAKER_00: this formula and
- 30:50to the next level of course I'm always thinking about books
- 30:53because that's what I
- 30:53do but yeah I'm not I'm not super dying to write a book I gotta
- 31:00say so hard
- 31:01Stephanie if people want to hire you as a nutritional coach how
- 31:05do they do that
- 31:06because I know a lot of people are going to listen to this
- 31:08podcast and want more
- 31:09information oh I love it thank you for having me I miss you
- 31:12this is really great
- 31:13laughing awesome um so i would say i mean a couple different
- 31:18ways one i am
- 31:19stephanie.a.meyer uh on instagram and that's a great way to
- 31:25reach out to me and i
- 31:27post these meals that we're talking about almost every day to
- 31:31help people um my
- 31:33Substack is the project vibrancy newsletter you can definitely
- 31:36reach me there
- 31:38SPEAKER_01: And then my blog, Fresh Tarts, you can reach me there.
- 31:43SPEAKER_01: So I'm pretty easy to find actually kind of all over the place,
- 31:47SPEAKER_01: but yeah,
- 31:47SPEAKER_01: send me a note through Instagram or reach out through Substack.
- 31:50SPEAKER_01: I would say are the two best ways.
- 31:51Plus you can see a lot of how I think and talk about food and
- 31:56share recipes and all
- 31:57SPEAKER_01: of that is happening at both of those places.
- 32:00SPEAKER_00: And one last question,
- 32:01because we talked about budgeting and that people don't
- 32:04prioritize themselves.
- 32:07Is there,
- 32:07if someone was going to budget for you in their life to make
- 32:11some substantial changes,
- 32:13SPEAKER_00: Like,
- 32:14is there a weekly or a monthly just sort of cost that people
- 32:19can plan for so they
- 32:20SPEAKER_00: can put the emphasis back on themselves?
- 32:23SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 32:23SPEAKER_01: So in a few different ways,
- 32:25SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 32:25SPEAKER_01: I,
- 32:26SPEAKER_01: if someone is really wanting to make a shift and they've been failing,
- 32:29I really just recommend coaching with me because everything is
- 32:33included with that.
- 32:34SPEAKER_01: I include my course,
- 32:36which is where we learn about menopause and perimenopause and
- 32:39what that means.
- 32:40SPEAKER_01: for nutrition.
- 32:40I include the project pharmacy meal plans,
- 32:45all sorts of other recipes,
- 32:46everything else.
- 32:47And then we meet and talk about where you are,
- 32:50your age,
- 32:51your activity level,
- 32:52whatever.
- 32:53SPEAKER_01: And it's very affordable.
- 32:55It's like a hundred bucks an hour,
- 32:58but I include all the other things and I do four sessions.
- 33:02SPEAKER_00: Um,
- 33:03SPEAKER_01: if someone's about that,
- 33:04SPEAKER_00: because my gym membership is $225 a month,
- 33:07SPEAKER_00: I can play pickleball eight times a month.
- 33:10SPEAKER_01: I mean, that is exactly it.
- 33:12SPEAKER_01: It's like,
- 33:13SPEAKER_01: and I have several clients who continue on with me,
- 33:16SPEAKER_01: you don't have to,
- 33:17SPEAKER_01: but because we developed this relationship,
- 33:19SPEAKER_01: and I hold people accountable.
- 33:21SPEAKER_01: And and then that can go on.
- 33:25SPEAKER_01: I do meal plans.
- 33:27SPEAKER_01: If people just want meal plans that can happen.
- 33:29SPEAKER_01: And that's a monthly fee of like twenty five dollars.
- 33:32SPEAKER_01: And it's just so cheap and and save so much money.
- 33:38SPEAKER_01: That's the really fun thing about meal planning,
- 33:40SPEAKER_01: especially with grocery costs,
- 33:41SPEAKER_01: is that,
- 33:42SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 33:42SPEAKER_01: we.
- 33:43SPEAKER_01: I forget what percentage of American food ends up in their trash.
- 33:47SPEAKER_01: It's a third.
- 33:47SPEAKER_01: And it's probably true for a lot of people's refrigerators too.
- 33:51SPEAKER_01: And so when you meal plan, that is a great thing.
- 33:54SPEAKER_01: You really do.
- 33:55SPEAKER_01: less takeout and you throw away a lot less food.
- 33:57SPEAKER_01: I love it.
- 33:58SPEAKER_01: Um, so those things are, those, those things are possible.
- 34:01SPEAKER_01: Uh, so yeah, I've got different ways.
- 34:04SPEAKER_01: And then of course I suggest for a lot of people, two other things.
- 34:08SPEAKER_01: One, uh, a lot of health plans cover nutrition coaching.
- 34:13And so I generate a receipt for people and you get reimbursed
- 34:16and that is free.
- 34:18SPEAKER_01: Then free, obviously not free, but you know what I mean?
- 34:21SPEAKER_01: And then, uh,
- 34:23SPEAKER_01: if you use PayPal,
- 34:27SPEAKER_01: ShopPay,
- 34:28I've got a lot of people who'd pay in installments and then you
- 34:31just spread the fee
- 34:34SPEAKER_01: out over a couple of months.
- 34:35SPEAKER_01: So anyway, it's all of those things.
- 34:38SPEAKER_01: And I love the question about
- 34:41SPEAKER_01: Where do you prioritize the cost of your health?
- 34:45Not just on the healthcare side where things are going wrong,
- 34:47but on the prevention side.
- 34:49SPEAKER_01: Where it's going right.
- 34:50SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 34:51SPEAKER_01: And that's just a question we can leave people with to ponder.
- 34:54SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 34:55SPEAKER_00: I love it.
- 34:56SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for joining me.
- 34:57SPEAKER_00: I'm going to put this podcast up.
- 35:00SPEAKER_00: I'm going to present it on Friday.
- 35:02SPEAKER_00: I'm going to release it.
- 35:03SPEAKER_00: I'm going to put the show notes in and just keep on keeping on.
- 35:07I just was by what you wrote and it was so clear and it just
- 35:11really struck home with me.
- 35:12SPEAKER_00: And I thought people need to hear this message.
- 35:15SPEAKER_00: So thanks for joining me today.
- 35:16SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much.
- 35:18SPEAKER_00: We'll talk soon.
- 35:18SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 35:19SPEAKER_00: Bye-bye.
- 35:19SPEAKER_00: Bye.