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The Right Fight
Most of us spend our lives in the wrong fight, trying to cast out fear through our own power - through the commonly recommended cures of belief and positive thinking. Join the conversation with author Kenny Vaughan and his wife Tammie as they discuss how to truly live a loving life; a life lived against the grain of self love, boundaries, and fear based decision making. This will be a conversation you can’t afford to miss.
Episodes
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Ep. 059 - The Truth About Alpha Males
The persona of "alpha male" is just a compensation for the insecurity of not being enough. The truth, however, is that you will never be enough. But…
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Ep. 058 - Loving Your Enemies
Loving your enemies doesn’t mean becoming a doormat, it means praying for them, choosing what is best for them, forgiving as you have been forgiven. It’s hard…
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Ep. 057 - Are Boundaries Loving?
Boundaries are often set up with good intentions, but before you know it, you’ve walled yourself in, and your boundaries have gone from protecting to hurting…
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Ep. 056 - Recovering From Trauma
In this episode Tammie's mom takes a seat at the table to help us understand that there is only one thing that can truly free us from trauma — God. His word…
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Ep. 055 - Dealing With Grief
Most have probably experienced grief, and it never is easy. However, there are some things we can always rest in as we grieve — God is near to the broken…
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Ep. 054 - What Is Worship?
What is worship? Worship is a response to who God is. But worship goes way beyond just singing songs in church, or in your car on the way to work. True worship…
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Ep. 053 - Does God Love Himself?
Kenny and Tammie tackle the topic of self love, how it really isn’t loving, and then take on a big question — does God love Himself? Join them now for episode…
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Ep. 052 - Dealing With Conflict
Conflict is a hard thing, but you’re a lot safer going to someone with the truth, in love, and working through things, versus letting things build up inside of…
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Ep. 051 - Tolerence
The world thinks that to be loving, you must be tolerant, but real love isn't tolerant to things that aren't loving. We join Kenny and Tammie for yet another…
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Ep. 050 - Should We Care What People Think About Us?
The world says that we shouldn’t care what other people think about us, but love says that we should care why someone thinks something about us, because it…
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Ep. 049 - Decerning The Voice Of God
God speaks to us personally, He never leads us astray, and it always consistently aligns with His word. We just need to get still and listen. Join Kenny and…
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Ep. 048 - How Does Repentance Work?
True repentance not only carries a change, but a desire to change, and a sensitivity to the situation. Here’s episode 48 with Kenny and Tammie.
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Ep. 047 - How Do You Forgive Yourself?
The simple answer to this question is - you can’t. We don’t have the power to forgive ourselves. It’s not up to us. But the wonderful thing is that there is…
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Ep. 046 - Depart From Me I Never Knew You
The "why" of what we do is vital. The Bible says that some will come to Jesus saying they did all these things in His name, yet Jesus claims He never…
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Ep. 045 - What Does It Mean To Be Your True Self
Being your true self means two things: Being who God created you to be, and not forcing yourself to be something that you’re not. What you do, or what you…
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Ep. 044 - Why Men Want To Be Respected (And How Real Men Act)
True respect is a product of love. Respect that is coaxed, or threatened, or gaslighted, is anything but love, it is fear driven, and directly goes against the…
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Ep. 043 - Dealing With Rejection
No one enjoys rejection, but it’s something we all go through at some point or another. It is never easy, but every moment of rejection allows for an…
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Ep. 042 - What Does Loving Feel Like?
Sometimes love doesn’t feel very good. Sometimes it’s hard to love through hurt and tough situations. But it’s ALWAYS worth it. Jesus showed us that it’s…
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Ep. 041 - The Biggest Mistake Parents Make - Part 2
Kenny and Tammie continue part two of The Biggest Mistake Parents Make by answering questions like how to put your children first while simultaneously not…
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Ep. 040 - The Biggest Mistake Parents Make - Part 1
Parenting is hard, and navigating all of it's ins and outs can be difficult, but it's not impossible. Join Kenny and his wife Tammie as they answer hard…
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Ep. 039 - A Legacy Of Love
Wealth, power, fame, even good works, will all pass away, but a legacy of love will never end. It is the most valuable thing you can leave your loved ones…
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Ep. 038 - From The Heart
What are you building your roots on? Love, joy, and selflessness? Or hate, anger, and selfishness? The fruit that you bear is determined by what you are…
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Ep. 037 - Unexpected Blessings Of Love
We don’t love to be blessed and filled, but genuinely loving cannot help but bless and fill. Join Kenny and reg for episode 37.
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Ep. 036 - When Love Means Walking Away
Sometimes the most loving thing one can do is walk away. But walking away does not mean giving up. Join us for episode 36, When Love Walks Away.
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Ep. 035 - Little Blue House
In the routines and hustle of life, it can be easy to gloss over those we don’t have much — or any — interaction with. However, love goes out of its own way to…
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Ep. 034 - Loving In Your Influence
Loving in your influence means you have a responsibility to consider who you have influence over, and how loving, or not loving, can impact and affect their…
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Ep. 033 - Winning & Sports
Don’t play for the wrong reasons. Being fixated on the win only allows room for fear. Surrendering the outcome to Jesus allows love to flourish, and you can…
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Ep. 032 - Loving As A Leader
“You could never boss out of anyone what they would freely give you when they realize you actually love and care about them”. Bosses lead by fear and…
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Ep. 031 - I Do/I Don't In Marriage
People don’t fall in love, and neither do people fall out of love. You have to fight to love. It is a deliberate choice to love one another in marriage. Tune…
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Ep. 030 - Religion Or Love
Religion, or love? You can only have one or the other. They cannot coexist. Christianity and religion cannot coexist. Jump right in and listen to Kenny and Reg…
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Ep. 029 - The Truth About Depression - Part 2
Often, getting free from depression is a process. In this episode Kenny and Reg have some advice for getting through the process. Jump in now for The Truth…
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Ep. 028 - The Truth About Depression - Part 1
There's no way around it, dealing with depression is hard, but there is hope. Tune in now with Kenny and Reg to learn about that hope, and to know that there…
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Ep. 027 - Feelings Don't Produce Roots - Part 2
Love is a choice that results in feelings, fear is a feeling that results in a choice. Being led by your fear does not produce love. Join Kenny and Reg for…
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Ep. 026 - Feelings Don't Produce Roots - Part 1
Run to your feelings, but never follow your feelings. Just because you are feeling something doesn’t necessarily mean that it is true, or the right thing to…
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Ep. 025 - Love Is Persevering
Love doesn’t simply persevere, it has to persevere in the right things. Join us for the final thing that love is with Kenny and Reg.
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Ep. 024 - Love Is Hopeful
Love requires hope, but it requires hope placed in the right things. Kenny and Reg lead the discussion, join them now for the sixth thing that love is.
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Ep. 023 - Love Is Trusting
Trust, like love, is a choice. It is a conscious decision that we make. Love requires trust. Jump in with Kenny and Reg to discuss trust.
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Ep. 022 - Love Is Protective
Love protects, but often not in the way that we would normally think. Often, love protects others from the selfishness and pride inside of ourselves, likewise…
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Ep. 021 - Love Is Truthful
Being truthful means more than just telling the truth, it means having the courage to seek the real truth. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they…
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Ep. 020 - Love Is Kind
Kindness is not simply being “nice” to others. Being “nice” isn’t always kind. Kindness is loving, doing what is best for others without regard for yourself…
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Ep. 019 - Love Is Patient
Patience is not passively waiting. Patience is the quality of waiting. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they discuss how love is patient.
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Ep. 018 - A Tribute To My Dad
In this special episode, we reflect on Kenny’s dad, a man who showed his family love with his whole life.
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Ep. 017 - Defining Love
Love is not a feeling, it is a choice. We do not fall in and out of love, we choose to love. It does what is best for others without regard to oneself. Join…
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Ep. 016 - Love Does Not Delight In Evil
If we find ourselves delighting in evil, it is a sign that fear is beginning to fully mature in our heart, and it may be the last chance we have to turn our…
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Ep. 015 - Love Is Not Selfish
Selfishness is anything we do for ourselves without regard to others. It puts ourselves first, no matter what outcome it might have for someone else. Join the…
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Ep. 014 - Love Is Not Boastful
Pride is an effort to puff ourselves up, but it doesn’t always show itself outwardly. Boastfulness is pride communicated to others. It is an intentional…
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Ep. 013 - Love Is Not Unforgiving
Unforgiveness keeps us bound to both the offense and the offender, whereas forgiveness, while not permitting the offense, frees us from the offense, and…
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Ep. 012 - Love Is Not Prideful
Pride puffs oneself up, while putting down others. It prepositions you to live and act out of fear, rather than in love. Join Kenny and Reg as they walk…
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Ep. 011 - Love Is Not Envious
Love celebrates the good in the lives of others, while envy hates it. Envy imposes unloving preconceptions upon others, while love believes the best about…
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Ep. 010 - Love Is Not Rude
Love operates out of kindness, not rudeness. Love chooses to put down selfish feelings in order to put the best for others before itself. Join Kenny and Reg as…
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Ep. 009 - Love Is Not Angry
Love does not act out of anger, nor it does follow fear. Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss one of the things that love is not.
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Ep. 008 - Acting on our Feelings VS. Acting on Love
In this episode Kenny and Reg discuss acting on our feelings - which are always changing and can be and often are led by fear - versus being led by love, which…
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Ep. 007 - Boundaries
The boundary of love will defend you long before and far better than your own boundaries ever will. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they talk about…
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Ep. 006 - The Tree
What kind of fruit is your tree producing - healthy or rotten? Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss what love is, and the kinds of fruit our lives produce as we…
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Ep. 005 - The Fundamentals - Part 2
Join Kenny and Reg as they continue exploring the fundamentals of what love is, and how to love.
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Ep. 004 - The Fundamentals - Part 1
If you want to go higher, you first have to dig down deeper. Join Kenny and Reg as they break down the importance of the fundamentals.
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Ep. 003 - The Ice Cream Run
In this episode Kenny walks Reg through the "Ice Cream Run" story, and discuss seeking the truth as a first response.
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Ep. 002 - Countercultural Love
In this episode Kenny and Reg discuss how REAL love goes the opposite way from what our culture says “love” is, and how “self love” really isn’t love at all.
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Ep. 001 - The Right Fight
In this episode Kenny and Reg talk about the "WHY" behind The Right Fight, and just what exactly we are fighting for.
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Episode 001 - Trailer
Have a sneak peak at Episode - 001 of The Right Fight podcast! Listen to the full episode on Thursday, October 20th 2022!