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The Right Fight
Most of us spend our lives in the wrong fight, trying to cast out fear through our own power - through the commonly recommended cures of belief and positive thinking. Join the conversation with author Kenny Vaughan and his wife Tammie as they discuss how to truly live a loving life; a life lived against the grain of self love, boundaries, and fear based decision making. This will be a conversation you can’t afford to miss.
Episodes
The Right FightEp. 119 - Is Your Love For Yourself?
Is living a loving life for our own benefit? Culture says to "love yourself", but is that why we choose to love? Is self love even good for you? Kenny…
The Right FightEp. 118 - The Two Masks Of Fear
The opposite of love is fear, and fear always hides itself behind two "masks". You, however, do have to be captive behind those masks of fear. In this…
The Right FightEp. 117 - Are We Using These Scriptures Out Of Context?
You always want to read and use scripture in it's proper context, never twisting it to conform to your own wants and will. But how do we know when we are doing…
The Right FightEp. 116 - Leo Tolstoy
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie explore the story of Leo Tolstoy's life, his pursuit of truth, the "why's" of love, and how they differ from the…
The Right FightEp. 115 - The Wrath Of God
What is the wrath of God, and how do we understand such a daunting topic? Join Kenny and Tammie as they tackle a big topic in a beautiful way.
The Right FightEp. 114 - Understanding The Grace Of God
To understand the grace of God, we have to realize the great need for grace in our lives. Join Kenny and Tammie as we learn to understand God's great grace for…
The Right FightEp. 113 - Why Are We Doing This?
We have so many influences in life telling us what to do, and how we should do it – whether it be by friends, family, influencers on social media, etc – but…
The Right FightEp. 112 - A Conversation With Igor - Part 2
Resuming Kenny and Igor's conversation with part 2, Igor sets Kenny up with a hard question about God, love, and ultimately, truth. Jump in now to hear Kenny's…
The Right FightEp. 111 - A Conversation With Igor - Part 1
In this two part special episode, Kenny is joined by special guest, Igor, to host a fresh conversation about love, and seeking out the truth.
The Right FightEp. 110 - Picking On People
Picking on people is never okay, but how we respond to being picked on is up to us, and there is only one right response. Kenny and Tammie have the answer, so…
The Right FightEp. 109 - Spreading The Gospel Without Words
How do we share the gospel with those who aren't open to hearing it? Is it even possible? Kenny and Tammie explain that it all starts with considering others…
The Right FightEp. 108 - Repeatedly Asking For Forgiveness
When we're reminded of something we've done in the past that we've repented for, should we repent again? Does this honor what Jesus has done for us, or does it…
The Right FightEp. 107 - Is Your Opposition Also Your Enemy?
Regarding those who stand against us, or even those who stand in our way – are they our enemies? If so, how are we supposed to love them? And if they aren't…
The Right FightEp. 106 - How To Help Others In A Crisis
The best way to love others while they're in a crisis is to have loved them before the crisis ever existed. As Kenny and Tammie explain here in episode 106, be…
The Right FightEp. 105 - How To Keep Going When It Feels Like You're Losing
When it feels like you're losing, it feels really easy to give up hope. However, we know that there is a hope that transcends current circumstances, and Kenny…
The Right FightEp. 104 - How Do We Make A Difference?
How do we make a difference in the world? We have to start where we're at, with what we already have. Kenny and Tammie bring more wisdom to hard questions in…
The Right FightEp. 103 - Considering Others
Considering others can be difficult at times, but it is vital to living a loving life. Join Kenny and Tammie as they break down what considering others does…
The Right FightEp. 102 - What Is Forgiveness?
What is forgiveness? How do we receive it, how do we give it, and how do we know that it's genuine? Join Kenny, Tammie, and special guests Chris, and Catherine…
The Right FightEp. 101 - How Should We Share Our Faith?
How should we share our faith? Should we speak up at every opportunity, or are there better times and places where people might be more receiving? What all…
The Right FightEp. 100 - Does God Get Offended?
In the 100th episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny, Tammie, and Gabe discuss whether or not God can be offended, and whether or not we should be offended…
The Right FightEp. 099 - What To Do When You Get Off Track
How do you move forward when you've gotten off track? Is there actually any way back? Will God accept me back after what I've done? Kenny, Tammie, and Kenny's…
The Right FightEp. 098 - Why Your Beliefs Are Vitally Important
What you believe shapes who you are spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and sometimes even physically. What you believe can alter the course of your life, and…
The Right FightEp. 097 - Seeking The Kingdom First
Does seeking the Kingdom first mean it's bad to seek anything else? Should we seek the Kingdom in order to get other things? Kenny and Tammie bring wisdom and…
The Right FightEp. 096 - Weathering The Storm
What do you do when you just keep getting beat by the waves, over and over and over, and nothing you're doing seems to help? Kenny and Tammie have personal…
The Right FightEp. 095 - When Failing at Being a Man or Woman of God
What do we do, and what is the right way to think, when we want to be a man or woman of God, but we just keep missing the mark? Join Kenny and Tammie as they…
The Right FightEp. 094 - Is The World Darker Than It Used To Be?
How can we have hope in such a dark world? Has the world gotten even darker that it used to be? Kenny and Tammie discuss this, and leave us with hope assured…
The Right FightEp. 093 - Picking The Right Person
How can we be confident that we're entering a relationship with the right person? Join Kenny and Tammie as they unpack how we can confidently navigate the…
The Right FightEp. 092 - Anxiety
Anxiety can feel crippling at times, but there are ways to not only combat it, but come out of it. Kenny and Tammie take on anxiety, and share their own…
The Right FightEp. 091 - How Do I Know If I'm In A Cult?
We need to be discerning of all teaching, and all leaders. You may be asking, how can I know if this person or teaching is leading me closer to God, or deeper…
The Right FightEp. 090 - Should We Follow Our Feelings?
You feel for a reason. Feelings are important. But should we let our feelings guide us and our decisions? Join Kenny and Chris for another incredible…
The Right FightEp. 089 - Fighting For Your Rights
When you fight for your rights, things get murky. They get personal. It opens the door for hate, bitterness, and subjective "truth". But when you fight…
The Right FightEp. 088 - Facing Your Fears (Continued)
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie dive deeper into what it looks like to face your fears, how to do it the right way, and how Jesus has already won the battle…
The Right FightEp. 087 - Masculinity
Masculinity is not based off of how strong you are, how much money you have, or how much people respect you. Masculinity is based off of one thing, and Kenny…
The Right FightEp. 086 - Dating
Dating can sometimes be scary, but dating shouldn't be hard. When you date, don't date with the intention of getting your needs met, but with the intention of…
The Right FightEp. 085 - Should We Follow The Rules?
Rules are usually there to help us, keep us and others safe, and bring order. But what do we do when rules and truth don't seem to align? Kenny and Tammie have…
The Right FightEp. 084 - Facing Your Fears
Facing your fears might be one of the hardest things you could do by yourself. But when you understand that you were not made to do it by yourself, but to do…
The Right FightEp. 083 - Is It Okay To Prosper?
Is it ever okay to prosper? Does God want us to prosper? How does prosperity affect my heart? Kenny and Tammie answer all these and more in episode 83 of The…
The Right FightEp. 082 - Does Love Confront Everything?
We know that love confronts, addresses things, and has hard conversations, but does love do that every single time? Kenny and Tammie have the answer in episode…
The Right FightEp. 081 - Narcissism
Dealing with narcissism is no easy feat, whether you are struggling with someone who is a narcissist or you yourself are struggling with narcissistic behavior…
The Right FightEp. 080 - Should We Have Goals?
Having goals can be a good thing. A clear direction, with a way forward. But what happens when we complete that goal? And the next one we set? And the next…
The Right FightEp. 079 - The Truth About Porn
Being free of pornography can seem like an impossibility. Have hope though, it is entirely possible. But in order to be free, you must come to see it for what…
The Right FightEp. 078 - How To Love Someone Who Is Struggling With Depression
The best way to love someone who is dealing with depression to speak the truth over them, to help them get up off the ground, and to drive out the lies with…
The Right FightEp. 077 - How to Make Good Decisions
We all want to make good decisions, but how can we know if a decision we make is a good one, or even the right one? Join Kenny and Chris on another Zoom call…
The Right FightEp. 076 - Can Jesus Love Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder?
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie address a question received from Instagram: Can Jesus love me despite my symptoms? The answer is amazing, and extends beyond…
The Right FightEp. 075 - Love Is Why
Love doesn't always make sense. In fact, love will often go against what we think is sensible. But the "what" doesn't have to make sense, it all comes…
The Right FightEp. 074 - Is Trusting Always Loving?
Love trusts, but is trust always loving? Kenny and Tammie dive in deep to talk about love, trust, and where the two converge. Listen now in episode 74.
The Right FightEp. 073 - Choosing Your Spouse
Before you can even begin asking if this is the right relationship, you must ask yourself this: Am I with this person so that they can meet my needs, or are my…
The Right FightEp. 072 - How Do You Know If Someone Has Truly Repented?
When someone is truly repentant, it's not hard to tell. It's not just a regret of messing up or suffering consequences, but a godly sorrow that responds with…
The Right FightEp. 071 - You Are Not Alone
Sometimes we feel alone, like we have no one to turn to, no one to comfort us, no one to confide in, but despite the feeling, the truth of the matter is that…
The Right FightEp. 070 - Standing On The Truth In Relationships
The only way to know if a relationship is right, or if you're enabling a harmful relationship, is by standing on the truth. When the truth is your anchor…
The Right FightEp. 069 - When Should We Close Our Minds?
We should keep an open mind and hear out other peoples perspectives, but that doesn't mean we should always accept those perspectives as truth. Kenny and…
The Right FightEp. 068 - The Fear Of The Lord
The fear of The Lord is not some scared dread. It's an awe, a reverence, the realization that He is so big, and we are so small. But in His bigness, this fear…
The Right FightEp. 067 - The Prodigal Son
The parable of the Prodigal Son paints a beautiful picture of us returning to God, and how He receives us with open arms as He's running to meet us halfway…
The Right FightEp. 066 - When Children Struggle To Listen To Parents
In today's episode Kenny and Tammie create an open discussion for a two sided issue, addressing how children can combat the feeling of shutting out the advice…
The Right FightEp. 065 - Rewiring Your Brain
When dealing with depression, anxiety, etc, your brain gets wired differently than normal. That's why it's so hard to just snap out of what you're going…
The Right FightEp. 064 - Protecting Yourself
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie break down how protecting yourself can sometimes be the unloving thing to do in a situation. We're not talking about…
The Right FightEp. 063 - Where Is Your Purpose?
Despite what some may think, purpose is not tied to success, money, status, position, or your career. Your purpose is something beautifully separate from all…
The Right FightEp. 062 - Having The Right Perspective
We can't love unless we're operating out of truth, but to do that, we need the right perspective. Perspective doesn't change the truth, it reveals it. Hop in…
The Right FightEp. 061 - How To Trust God
To truly trust requires the action of faith behind it. It is not enough to say you trust, then either move when you should not, or stand still when you should…
The Right FightEp. 060 - Should We Defend God?
If we stand for something, we need to be sure of the "why". Are we standing out of fear, justification, or defensiveness? Or are we standing to love?…