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A Couple Queers
Wives, Keara Graves & LAVREN, welcome you to join them in their cozy sofa chats discussing everything from eloping during a pandemic, to their experiences as a neurodivergent couple, to learning to accept their bodies as non-binary folks.
Episodes
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Is Roommate Energy Ruining Your Relationship??
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Married Lesbian Couple Answers Your WLW S*x Questions (Pt. 2)
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Does she like you or just want to be friends??
Why is making friends as an adult so messy?? 😣
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We're tired of the masc & fem stereotypes...
Can we get rid of the labels already??? 😒
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Things in our lesbian marriage that would send straight couples into a coma
Lesbians just do it different 💅
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How We Handle Conflict & Jealousy (as a married lesbian couple)
We gotta talk about the hard stuff sometimes!
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Married Lesbian Couple Answers Your WLW S*x Questions
The long-awaited wlw sex Q&A has finally arrived... 👀 For more tips & tricks, check out Beducated: https://beduc.at/pd2637-acouplequeers
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What Nobody Tells You About Meds as a Neurodivergent...
So... we both started meds (for ADHD, OCD & anxiety)
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HOW TO HAVE WLW S*X
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If your gf does THIS, they could be a narcissist
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Autistic Meltdowns vs Shutdowns (& how to tell when you're having one)
Keara has more meltdowns, Lauren has more shutdowns. Here's what they feel like, the differences, and how to help someone when they're experiencing one.
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Being Demisexual in a WLW World
Today, we dive into Lauren's demisexual experience as a lesbian, both before & after Keara.
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Upgrades We've Made in the Bedroom after 7 Years Together (wlw couple) 🔥
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How to Keep Romance Alive in Long-Term Relationships (wlw)
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Green Flags to Look for When Starting a Relationship (wlw)
These are green flags in relationships that give us major heart eyes 😍
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How to Set Boundaries as a People-Pleaser
In this ep, Lauren & Keara talk all about how they are recovering people pleasers and the things they've done to help them on their journey.
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5 Things You Need to Know Before Having WLW Sex
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How to Build Confidence in the Bedroom (wlw) ❤️🔥🌶️
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Being an Agender Masc Lesbian Comes With This...
This week, we dive into what it feels like to be "perceived" out in the world as an agender masc lesbian and a fem nonbinary person.
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Taboos in Lesbian Relationships That Shouldn't be Taboo
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Busting Lesbian Sex Myths *as a married couple*
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Relationship Red Flags You NEED to Know 🚩🚩🚩
These are red flags in relationships that give us the ick.
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7 Lessons We've Learned in 7 Years Together 💕💍
For your personal guide to success in the bedroom, we love using Beducated: https://beduc.at/pd2620-acouplequeers It's Keara & Lauren's 7 year dating…
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Advice We'd Give to our Baby-Gay Selves
Keara was reminiscing on their old content with Lauren on their YouTube channel and it sparked an question... what would we tell our babygay selves with the…
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10 Ways to Improve your Mental Health for FREE
Here are our tips & daily habits we practice to feel better mentally, especially when we don't have the money to afford therapy LOL. 🙃
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The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death *from an actual married couple*
You've probably heard it ... LESBIAN BED DEATH. Is it real? Have we experienced it? Today we break down the topic as a married lesbian couple who's been…
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Would We Ever Have a Threesome? *married wlw couple Q&A*
Your favourite married lesbian couple answers your juicy questions from our coming out stories, threesomes, dating as a baby sapphic, and an update on our…
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Things Other Couples Care About that We Don't
We don't give a shart about these things that are like dealbreakers for other couples.
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How to Beat Chronic Fight-or-Flight Mode
Welcome to Lauren's therapy session where they admit their feelings of being in survival mode, and Keara offers help in how to overcome it.
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Our Neurodivergent Love Languages 💕
This relationship is very ✨neurospicy✨ and we love in ways that may be different than others, but it's love nonetheless!❤️
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Autism VS AuDHD: How to Tell the Difference
Keara & Lauren discuss the differences in their expressions of neurodivergence; Keara having just autism and Lauren having autism & ADHD.
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How Coming Out as Nonbinary Healed our Body Image
Keara and Lauren chat how they discovered their genderfluid and agender identities, and how this discovery has benefited the rest of their lives, including…
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We Eloped... (why we didn't tell anyone for a year)
Finally sharing our in-depth love story of how we got married and literally planned it the day-of.
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How Burnout Feels as an Autistic Couple
Keara & Lauren feel like they're in a constant state of autistic burnout with no hope in sight... Who can relate??? 🙃🙃🙃
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We trigger each other
The truth about long-term relationships is... sometimes you have to trigger each other (although not intentionally).
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Saturn Return be hitting HARD (what we're learning from it)
Has your Saturn returned yet? Keara's is just beginning and Lauren's is well on it's way... and this is what we're learning from them.
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we're struggling...
**TW: depression, anxiety, su!c!de** Keara and Lauren talk about how seasonal depression has gotten the best out of one of them - it's a real mental health…
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OCD has us in a chokehold rn…
We both struggle with OCD but in very different forms, so we figured we'd squash the stigma and just talk about it, damn it! In this episode, we share the most…
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How to Know if You Have AuDHD? (Autism & ADHD)
Today we dive into what it's REALLY like to be AuDHD from Lauren's perspective of having both ADHD and Autism.
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How To Survive Long Distance Relationships
We chat all about how we survived long distance as a wlw couple living in 2 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES!! and how you can survive long distance too ❤️
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Our Childhood Autism (+AuDHD) Signs!
Taking a look at our childhoods, it was *very* evident we were on the spectrum... but we didn't know until our 20s. Today, we share all our childhood autism…
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The Unspoken Rules of our Relationship *wlw married couple*
Today we share the unspoken rules of our relationship... (things that we both just know to do / or not to do) because, well, we have telepathy.
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Married Lesbian Couple Gives you Sex Advice
Today we're answering your *highly anticipated* lesbian / wlw sex questions from Instagram, anything from scissoring to strapping to how often we do it! 😈🔥 To…
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Queer Love Ultimatum... We need better lesbian reality tv shows
Today we express our concerns with popular Netflix reality tv show, Queer Love Ultimatum, how we need better queer representation on TV and online, and then we…
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16 Autism Accommodations that Made our Lives WAY Easier (Autistic/AuDHD couple)
Today we share the autism/audhd accommodations we've made that've helped us since being diagnosed! :)
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Propaganda we're NOT falling for... Skinnytok
Keara got triggered AF and it led us into a rant about diet culture, skinnytok, and how the rise of thinness is not sitting well with us.
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Why We Got Cancelled on TikTok in 2020.
Explaining the lore of why we deleted our couple's TikTok account in 2020 after getting backlash for a video we posted on sexuality labels.
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We got diagnosed at 26 & 28...
Keara is late-diagnosed autistic and Lauren is late-diagnosed ADHD. Today we dive into how we both recently got diagnosed and the impact it's had on our lives…
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We Started an OnlyFans...
Spilling ALLL the tea on how our first month on OF has gone as a lesbian couple, why we started it, and how much $$$ we've made so far... 🤭
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Do Autistic People do "The Deed"?
Keara & LAVREN answer the BURNING question... "Do autistic people have s*x?" and take a personal dive into their intimate lives as wives.
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alcohol vs. weed
Keara and LAVREN sit down to talk about their personal experiences with both substances; how they've helped and how they've hurt.
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How to know if you've met a soulmate
Keara & LAVREN bust myths about soulmate connections and get down to the truth of what it feels like to be in a soulmate partnership.
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We're having a GREEN Christmas 🍃💨
Join LAVREN and Keara on a very stoner holiday episode while they contemplate some deep, stimulating questions about life.
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How to survive the holidays as a queer/neurodivergent !
As the holidays near, Keara Graves & LAVREN give listeners the ultimate guide to navigating family holiday events from their experience as queer, non-binary…
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We're tired of masking for other people... (autistic p.o.v.)
Keara and LAVREN, both high-masking autistics, reveal how the effects of masking can be both harmful and exhausting. They give advice to those who are first…