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The Art of Love With Lucia
Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!
Episodes
The Art of Love With Lucia5 Signs Your Avoidant Ex STILL Loves You
Does your avoidant ex still love you, even though they're acting like they've moved on? Just because an avoidant ex pulls away, doesn't mean their feelings…
The Art of Love With LuciaDon’t Screw It Up When Your Ex Comes Back
Your ex finally came back. Now what? Getting an ex back is one thing, but keeping the relationship from falling apart again is another. In this episode, I…
The Art of Love With LuciaYour Avoidant Ex Is Keeping You As An Option!
Your avoidant ex broke up with you, but are they keeping you around as an option, in case they change their mind? In this episode, I explain why avoidants…
The Art of Love With LuciaAre You Accidentally Stopping Your Ex From Reaching Out?
If your ex hasn't reached out, you might be accidentally making it easier for them to stay silent. In this episode, I explain the mistakes that can stop an ex…
The Art of Love With LuciaHow To Make Your Avoidant Ex Anxious
Want to make your avoidant ex start worrying and become anxious about losing you? In this episode, I'll give you specific tricks, along with real client…
The Art of Love With LuciaYour Avoidant Ex Will Come Back If They Feel This One Emotion
There's one emotion that can change the way your ex sees the breakup, and make them question whether walking away was a mistake. In this episode, I explain how…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Avoidants Come Back When They Said It Was Over
If your avoidant ex seemed completely done, but you're wondering whether they could change their mind, this video will help you understand what's happening…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Happens When You Go No Contact With An Avoidant?
If you're in no contact with an avoidant ex, you may think they want distance and don't care what you're doing, But what an avoidant says they want and what…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Your Ex Wants To Stay Broken Up - For Now
Your ex may seem completely certain they want to stay broken up - but what they feel today isn’t necessarily what they’ll feel forever. In this episode, I…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Avoidants Need to Hear So They Don’t Pull Away
How do you make an avoidant feel so safe that they finally let you in and don't pull away? In this episode, I reveal the 3 phrases that create the emotional…
The Art of Love With LuciaYour Avoidant Will Offer Friendship…Here's What It REALLY Means
If your avoidant ex says they want to be friends after the break up, what does that mean? Do they still have feelings for you or are they trying to make the…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Avoidants Can't Stop Thinking About You
If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever thinks about you and if they'll reach out, this episode is for you. I explain why some people stay on an…
The Art of Love With LuciaMy Avoidant Ex Finally Reached Out...
One of my subscribers finally received a text from her avoidant ex. Was it a breadcrumb? Did she respond? In this episode, I analyze her journey from…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe Biggest Mistake After Your Ex Comes Back
One of the biggest mistakes people make after no contact is assuming that because their ex reached out, they want to get back together. Not necessarily! In…
The Art of Love With Lucia“My Avoidant Ex Came Back…Then Broke My Heart Again”
What does it mean when your avoidant ex reaches out after months of silence, asks to see you, and tells you they missed you? In this episode, I discuss whether…
The Art of Love With LuciaAccidentally Helping Your Avoidant Ex Move On?
Are you accidentally helping your avoidant ex move on? In this episode, I analyze a real viewer’s heartbreaking story and show exactly how breaking No Contact…
The Art of Love With LuciaIf You Think Your Avoidant Ex Is Never Coming Back, Listen to THIS!
Have you convinced yourself that you'll never get your avoidant ex back? In this episode, I explain why silence doesn't always mean it's over, how people with…
The Art of Love With LuciaIs Your Avoidant Ex Waiting For YOU To Reach Out?
Just because an avoidant ex hasn't reached out, doesn't mean they don't care or that they've moved on. Sometimes, they're waiting for you to reach out. In this…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Your Ex Acts Cold Even Though They Still Care
Does your ex seem cold, distant or like they don't care anymore? What if their behavior isn't telling the whole story? In this episode, I explain the…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy You Should Never React To Your Ex’s Breadcrumbs (Especially If They're Avoidant)
Your ex starts watching your stories, liking your posts or quietly orbiting your social media. Does it mean they miss you and want to come back? In this…
The Art of Love With LuciaNever Give THIS To An Avoidant (If You Want A Relationship)
Are you giving someone all the benefits of a relationship while they still refuse to commit? In this episode, I explain why overgiving to an avoidant or…
The Art of Love With LuciaFlip The Script: Make Your Avoidant OBSESSED With You
Do you want your avoidant to be afraid to lose you, chase you and put in the effort they used to avoid giving? In this episode I explain the psychological…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Does Your Ex Like Your Stories But Not Reach Out?
Attention is not the same thing as intention. Social media breadcrumbs can keep you emotionally stuck if you confuse attention with real investment. In this…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Calling Out An Avoidant Always Backfires
If you've ever called out an avoidant for pulling away, being distant or sending mixed signals, you may have accidentally pushed them further away. In this…
The Art of Love With LuciaYour Ex Is NOT Fine (Here’s What’s Really Happening).
Your ex may look fine after the breakup, but that doesn't mean they're actually okay. In this episode, I explain why many dumpers experience a delayed…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Actually Hurts An Avoidant Ex
If you're wondering what actually hurts an avoidant ex after a breakup, it 's usually not what most people think. In this episode, I break down what really…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Your Ex Is Acting Like You Don't Exist
Why is your ex so distant, cold and shut down? In this episode, I break down what that behavior means after a breakup and why trying to force connection will…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Your Silence Does To An Avoidant
When an avoidant pulls away, it's easy to assume they're relieved, unbothered and already moving on. But that's not always what's happening.In this video, I…
The Art of Love With LuciaI Got My Fearful Avoidant Ex Back After 9 Months!
My client got his fearful avoidant ex back after 9 long months of no contact. In this episode I break down why she broke up with him, what happened during no…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhen An Avoidant Realizes You’ve Given Up - The Stages of Panic
Have you finally stopped chasing an avoidant and now you're wondering what happens next? In this episode, I break down the stages an avoidant goes through when…
The Art of Love With Lucia7 Triggers That Make An Avoidant Break No Contact
If an avoidant dumped you, ghosted you or pulled away, this episode is for you. I'm going to break down the 7 triggers that make an avoidant break their…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe 2 Exceptions To No Contact
A lot of breakup advice about no contact is either oversimplified or flat-out wrong. In this episode, I talk about why no contact is not right for every…
The Art of Love With LuciaIf They Were So Interested, Why Haven't They Texted?
If they were consistent and then pulled away, don't assume it means you ruined it or they don't care. In this video, I break down the "Silence Loop" (the…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhen Avoidants Do THIS, They Expect YOU To Break First
When an avoidant goes silent, after they've ghosted or dumped you, sometimes they're waiting to see if you'll reach out first. In this video, ex back expert…
The Art of Love With LuciaYour Ex Is Silent For A Reason (It's Not What You Think)
If your ex hasn't reached out, it doesn't always mean what you think. Most people misread the silence - and make things worse. In this episode, ex back coach…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe ONE Person Avoidants NEVER Fully Let Go Of
Every avoidant has one person they can never fully let go of emotionally, no matter how much time has passed. Are you that person? In this video…
The Art of Love With LuciaTaboo Ways To Make Avoidants Miss You
Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away…
The Art of Love With LuciaBlocking An Avoidant Is The Worst Mistake You Could Make
Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want. Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants
When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires
Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction. Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Really Happens When You Stop Chasing Your Ex
When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Your Ex Wants When They Text You
You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Avoidants Do When They Secretly Want You Back
If your avoidant ex's actions are confusing, there's usually a very good reason. Dating/relationship expert Lucia exposes the subtle behaviors avoidants show…
The Art of Love With LuciaThink You’ll Never Hear From Your Ex?
If you're convinced your ex will never reach out, you're probably wrong. Silence after a breakup triggers fear-based thinking, and your brain fills in the…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhen You Both Do No Contact
If you're in no contact with an avoidant and wondering what they're thinking and feeling, this video will give you clarity. Dating/relationship expert Lucia…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe $10 Million Test That Reveals Whether You Really Want Your Ex Back
Have you been feeling stuck, confused or unable to move forward after a breakup? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia asks one powerful question…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe Real Reason Avoidants Always Reach Out At Night
There's a predictable window of time during the night when an avoidant is most likely to break their silence and reach out.Dating/relationship expert Lucia…
The Art of Love With LuciaWill No Contact Work On A Stubborn Ex?
Are you wondering if no contact even works on someone who's stubborn, prideful and/or has a big ego?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the internal…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy Your Ex Really Texts You Again
Your ex isn't reaching out because they "miss you" and it's probably not because they suddenly want to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe Most Dangerous Part of No Contact
Everyone thinks the hardest part of no contact is the silence. Nope! The real danger begins when you finally hear from your ex. In this episode…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat Really Happens Before Your Ex Reaches Out?
Your ex doesn't just suddenly decide to come back one day. There's a specific chain of events that have to happen first. In this episode, dating/relationship…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhat REALLY Happens When You Go No Contact With An Avoidant
If you've gone no contact with your avoidant ex and they still haven't said a word, this episode will tell you exactly what's going on in their mind…
The Art of Love With LuciaIf You've Ever Been Angry At An Avoidant - Listen To This!
Why is almost everyone so angry with people who have an avoidant attachment style? Are they evil or is something else going on? Dating/relationship expert…
The Art of Love With Lucia3 Tests An Avoidant Ex Will Give You Before Coming Back (Don't Fail)
When an avoidant wants to come back, they'll first test you - quietly, strategically and emotionally.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 tests…
The Art of Love With LuciaThe Secret To Getting An Avoidant To Apologize
You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it.Dating/relationship expert Lucia…
The Art of Love With LuciaAvoidant Exes React To No Contact In Surprising Ways
Dismissive avoidants & fearful avoidants don't have the same reaction to no contact. Understanding the difference will make radio silence less scary…
The Art of Love With LuciaBlocking An Avoidant Causes These 4 Things To Happen
Blocking an avoidant ex sets off a chain of psychological stages that most people don't expect. Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the 4 things that…
The Art of Love With LuciaIs My Ex Done With Me?
If your ex said they're done, don't panic. Once the silence kicks in and they start to feel the consequences of the breakup, they'll begin to question their…
The Art of Love With LuciaWhy No Contact ALONE Won't Bring Your Avoidant Ex Back
No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style. Dating/relationship expert Lucia…
The Art of Love With LuciaHow To Easily Get Your Avoidant Ex Back
Your avoidant ex needs emotional space - 3 feet of it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 Foot Rule that makes avoidants feel safe, stops the…