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Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design
You’ve built something real.
The revenue is there. The team is there. The advisors are there.
And yet there are moments when you still feel the weight of holding the whole picture: the decisions, the responsibility, and the pressure of being the person everyone looks to for answers.
I'm Erin Gray, Strategic Holistic Advisor, former Certified Financial Planner™, entrepreneur, and host of the Your Money Your Rules Podcast.
This podcast is for successful women entrepreneurs and founders who want…
Episodes
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design161 | Stop Dreading Tax Season: Nervous System Tools and Year-End Tax Prep for Female Entrepreneurs
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, my desire is for you to shift your mindset when it comes to taxes and tax…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design160 | Simple Year-End Money Rituals for a Calm Tax Season
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Tax season doesn’t have to hijack your nervous system or overwhelm your business finances…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design159 | Why You Overspend When You’re Stressed and What to Do Instead
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Ever hit “Buy Now” when you're feeling stressed and then feel instant regret? In this…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design158 | General Liability Insurance Explained: Key Questions, Audits & Agent Insights
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Most founders treat business insurance like a checkbox, hoping they never have to think…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design157 | Why Female Entrepreneurs Doubt Their Money Decisions and How to Build Financial Self-Trust
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, we explore why so many women unconsciously outsource their financial power…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design156 | Are You Underearning? The Mindset Behind Women Undercharging in Business
Work with Me (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Ever feel that knot in your stomach right before quoting your price? What if it’s not about…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design155 | Overcoming Money Anxiety: How Emotional Safety Leads to Financial Clarity
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, I share why I believe smart, capable women often avoid their numbers and…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design154 | QuickBooks Got You Stressed? The Key Questions Every Woman Entrepreneur Should Ask a Bookkeeper
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Hiring a bookkeeper shouldn’t feel like handing your finances to a stranger and hoping for…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design153 | Who Really Controls Your Investments? The Hidden Side of Wealth Management
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) You might think you have a say in the market because you own shares. In this episode, I…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design152 | Money Can’t Buy Your Feelings: Here’s How to Be Wealthy From Within
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Too often, we chase numbers (our income, investments, net worth, our business revenue)…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design151 | What If Your Best Wealth Management Plan Starts Inside Of You?
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) When we talk about wealth, the conversation often centers on external investments. I believe…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design150 | Can Your Thoughts Really Manifest Money? Understanding the Law of Perpetual Transmutation
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Why do some people attract success with ease while others struggle despite working twice as…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design149 | Why Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping) Creates Real Money Shifts
Work With Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your body can’t believe what your nervous system won’t allow and that’s why tapping can…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design148 | 6 Money Mindset Shifts to Finally Feel at Peace with Your Wealth
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your relationship with money says a lot about your relationship with yourself. In this…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design147 | Are You Manifesting Money from Love or Fear?
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever stopped to calculate how much money you’ve manifested in your lifetime? If you…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design146 | When Having Fun Feels Unsafe: Releasing the Scarcity Patterns in Your Nervous System
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever been celebrating, enjoying a beautiful moment or spending money only to have…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design145 | Inflation, Debt, and the Federal Reserve: What You’re Not Being Told
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever wondered how the banking system actually works? In this episode, I'm sharing…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design144 | What’s Your Definition of a Wealth Mindset? Here’s Mine
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, I share what it means to move beyond the conventional definition of a…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design143 | Overthinking Your Money Decisions? How to Cultivate Your Intuition and Build Self-Trust
Work With Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Do you find yourself exhausted from second-guessing every financial decision? That cycle of…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design142 | Beyond Money Mindset: Releasing Money Wounds Through the Body
Work with me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever noticed that no matter how much money mindset work you do, things don't feel…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design141 | What If Resistance Around Money Is Really Nervous System Protection?
Work with me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Resistance isn't really about procrastination, "laziness", or self-sabotage, more often than…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design140 | Choosing Your Values First: Staying Aligned in Money Decisions
Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin In this intimate episode, I share a raw and vulnerable journal entry about a moment where I…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design139 | The Power of Language in Your Relationship with Money
Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin You can have the thriving business, the healthy bank account, and all the financial boxes…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design138 | Still Feeling Guilty When You Spend? Why Money Guilt Happens and How to Break the Cycle
Do you feel guilty when you spend money even when you can afford it? In this episode, I unpack the reasons why we feel money guilt and shame, how your nervous…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design137 | The Money and Blessings Log: Rewiring Scarcity Thinking Using Neuroscience
Have you ever noticed how your brain latches onto financial worries while completely overlooking the money and abundance already in your life? You’re not…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design136 | 3 Things Your Mortgage Lender Should Do (with Jax Crider)
Why do some mortgage experiences feel seamless while others turn into nightmares? It’s not just about interest rates; it’s about the lender guiding you through…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design135 | Does Your Money Feel Like Love or Fear? Raising Your Money Frequency for More Abundance
What if money wasn’t something to chase, control, or fear and instead it is something that could feel like love? In this episode, I unpack the energetic truth…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design134 | Why I Let Go of My CFP License: Trusting My Intuition Over Fear in Wealth Building
I'm peeling back the layers in this episode on why I let my CFP go and how I use financial planning with clients now. This episode is for the woman who senses…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design133 | Redefining Retirement: Discovering the Freedom Mindset for Wealth and Work You Love
In this episode, I challenge the outdated narrative surrounding retirement and the concept of financial freedom. Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design132 | Your Thoughts Are Your Most Powerful Currency—Are You Spending or Investing Them?
What if your thoughts are sabotaging your money mindset and financial freedom? In this episode, we explore the concept of mental wealth and how our thoughts…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design131 | 3 Ways to Rewire Your Scarcity Mindset and Feel Safe Receiving More
Are you in a cycle where you feel that there's just not enough—time, money, love, or energy? That if you let go or slow down, everything might fall apart? In…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design130 | Why Selling Might Feel Uncomfortable and How to Shift It
Ever feel that knot in your stomach when it’s time to talk about your prices or invite someone into your offer? In this episode, I'm sharing my perspective on…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design129 | How Hiding Behind Your Financial Security Can Sabotage Your Growth
Ever feel like the more financially secure you become, the more cautious you get? This feeling is not about being “responsible.” It’s a subtle, sneaky way our…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design128 | Understanding Money Manifestation Through the Law of Gestation
Are your money goals and business dreams not manifesting as quickly as you'd like? In this episode, we explore the Law of Gestation—an essential principle for…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design127 | Is Your Budgeting Software Preventing Wealth?
Your financial software is designed to track your past — not create your future. In this episode, we explore how tools like Monarch Money, QuickBooks, and your…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design126 | What If Your Money Healing Journey is the Best Financial Education for Your Kids?
Ever feel torn between wanting to teach your kids healthy money habits while still figuring them out yourself? You’re not the only one. In this episode, I dive…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design125 | How to Create Generational Wealth That Goes Beyond Money
What if generational wealth isn’t just about money? We’ve been taught it’s all about assets and tax strategy. I believe the real legacy is about your money…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design124 | Feeling Shame About “Losing Money”? Try These Money Mindset Reframes
Ever felt like you “lost money” on a course, coach, or investment that didn’t deliver what you expected? In this episode, I break down why money is never truly…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design123 | Is Your Budgeting App Really Serving You? 3 Reasons to Try Monarch Money
You can receive 50% off your first year by using this code Frustrated by budgeting apps that feel rigid or never seem to capture all your transactions? In this…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design122 | Navigating Financial Pressure in Business: A Heart-Centered Take on Money Mindset (with Jess Hershey)
What if your relationship with money reflects your deepest beliefs about yourself? In this episode, Jess Hershey, founder of MOCA Business Services interviewed…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design121 | Why Financial Literacy is a Must if You Want to Lead Your Business Like a CEO (with Liz Hansen)
What happens when you stop outsourcing your power and start learning your numbers? In this episode, I’m joined by Liz Hansen—photographer and founder of…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design120 | How to Energetically Increase Your Capacity for More Wealth, Prosperity and Abundance
Ready to break through your financial ceiling? The solution isn’t another money hack—it’s expanding your energetic capacity to hold and receive more wealth. In…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design119 | Are Your Bank Accounts Set Up Properly to Bypass Probate?
Do you have the proper beneficiary designations setup on your bank accounts? In this episode, I dive into the overlooked yet essential role of Payable on Death…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design118 | You Don’t Need More Money—You Need Nervous System Regulation: Heal Your Scarcity Mindset and Redefine Financial Freedom
Feeling financially secure on paper yet still stuck in scarcity inside? Many high-achieving women experience a disconnect between external financial success…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design117 | What If Your Partner Handles All the Money? Reclaiming Your Voice in Money Management Peacefully
Feeling financially invisible at home—even while running a successful business? You’re not alone. In this episode, I explore the emotional and behavioral roots…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design116 | Feeling Like the Financial Parent? 3 Tips to Shift Your Relationship’s Money Management Dynamic
The emotional weight of being the “responsible one” in your financial relationship can feel overwhelming at times. If you're always the one initiating money…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design115 | Scared of IRS Audits? What Every Woman Needs to Know About Tax Debt, Liens & Taking Back Control (with Stephen Weisberg)
For many women, just hearing the word “IRS” can trigger shame, panic, or a deep urge to avoid. In this episode, tax attorney Stephen Weisberg, founder of The W…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design114 | 3 Ways to Separate Your Net Worth from Your Self-Worth
When was the last time you thought, “When I hit my financial goal, then I'll feel .....? In this episode, we explore how to break the deep-rooted connection…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design113 | Is Your Business Actually Profitable—Or Just Busy? Using Profit Pillars for Online Business Success
Are you unclear on your numbers in your business? In this episode, I break down the Profit Pillars Book by Parker Charles Stevenson and share how to assess…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design112 | How to Have Your Financial Team Work for You: Wealth Management Made Simple
Too many women in business walk out of meetings with their CPA, bookkeeper, or financial advisor feeling confused, unseen, or like they’ve lost a piece of…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design111 | How Sacred Money Dates Support Financial Freedom, Nervous System Regulation, and a Better Money Mindset
If you’ve been avoiding your finances because they feel overwhelming, stressful, or just too much—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I share the…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design110 | How to Stop Letting Money Control You and Start Creating Real Financial Confidence
Does it ever feel like your mood, decisions, or sense of safety are completely wrapped up with your money? In this episode, we're diving into why money feels…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design109 | Is Your Financial Plan Creating Financial Freedom—Or Quietly Causing Burnout?
Does your financial plan feel more stressful than supportive? Many women entrepreneurs try to follow rigid financial formulas that don’t align with their lives…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design108 | What If Budgeting Felt Empowering? 3 Financial Mindset Shifts to Enjoy Managing Your Money
If budgeting feels like punishment, you're not alone. In this episode, I share how to shift from fear-based money management to an empowering, joyful practice…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design107 | Overcoming Shame Around Money: How to Break Free and Achieve Financial Freedom
Money shame often lurks in the shadows of entrepreneurship, especially for women. Whether it shows up as avoiding your bank accounts, undercharging, or feeling…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design106 | Why Being Clingy with Your Money Might be a Deeper Sign of Money Trauma
Are you clinging to your savings out of fear? What might look like smart money management on the outside can often be driven by unresolved money trauma beneath…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design105 | 5 Essential Questions to Ask Before Hiring a Bookkeeper (and Avoid Costly Mistakes)
Ready to hire a bookkeeper but afraid of making the wrong choice? You’re not alone. Finding someone who truly understands your business finances is…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design104 | Budgeting & Money Mindset Skills Women Entrepreneurs Wish They Knew Sooner
What if everything you’ve been taught about money — earning, saving, and investing — is only half the story? In this episode, we explore the emotional side of…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design103 | Why Financial Freedom Starts with Nervous System Regulation & Money Mindset
We’re often taught that financial freedom is just a math problem: accumulate X amount of money, and then you’ll finally feel safe, secure, and free. I believe…
Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Mastery, Wealth Mindset, Leadership Principles, Intuitive Decision-Making, Human Design102 | 3 Questions That Helped Me Break Free From My Money Blocks, Shift My Money Mindset & Budget
Our relationship with money is fundamentally about belief systems, not bank account balances as the financial industry would have us believe. In this episode…