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The Zachary Stockill Podcast
Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, Relationship Advice & More. Presented by Author and Coach Zachary Stockill from RetroactiveJealousy.com.
Episodes
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“EXPOSING Myself to Retroactive Jealousy Triggers..?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I offer my opinion on exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers. Read or watch below to hear my answer to the question, “Should I be…
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Mindfulness for Retroactive Jealousy: Try THIS [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how mindfulness for 5 minutes a day will help you start beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn…
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DON’T Make Your Woman Your World: What I Mean [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about why it’s so important to “not make your woman your world.” Don’t make your woman your world… here’s what I mean…
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What Beating Retroactive Jealousy Feels Like (Listen to This) [VIDEO]
Today, I will talk about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like and what keeps me motivated after 10 years of being a retroactive jealousy coach. Read or…
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What I Look For In A Therapist Or Coach [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share my thoughts on what I look for in a therapist or a coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what I look for in a therapist…
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The SECRET of Meditation: Listen to This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I talk about the secret of meditation, and discuss the misconceptions many people have about this ancient mindfulness practice. Read or watch…
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Unwanted Retroactive Jealousy Thoughts: Try THIS [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share a technique for dealing with unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Read or watch below to learn more about overcoming unwanted…
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How to Achieve Emotional Control: Listen to This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of those skills that will improve every area of your life: emotional control. Read or watch below to discover how…
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“How To CHANGE Beliefs About Sex?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I respond to someone who wants to know how to change deeply held beliefs around sex. Read or watch below to learn how to change beliefs about…
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“Will Retroactive Jealousy Triggers Go Away?” My Response [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to respond to a viewer’s question related to retroactive jealousy triggers: “Do I have to accept that certain things will always…
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Retroactive Jealousy Exposure Technique: Do NOT Try This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to answer the question: “Is the exposure technique applicable when it comes to retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to learn…
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3 More Questions For Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share three more questions every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to discover more questions for…
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“Zachary Stockill Wife??” My Thoughts on Marriage [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I provide my thoughts on marriage. Read or watch below to learn more about my response to the Google search “Zachary Stockill wife”. Zachary…
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How To Make Sexual Attraction Last: Is THIS It? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to talk about one of the simplest and easiest ways to maintain the spark in a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn…
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Working on Retroactive Jealousy: My Lessons After 10 Years [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I talk about what I’ve learned over the past 10 years of working on retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about my…
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Retroactive Jealousy and “Projecting” (Does This Sound Like You?) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to explore the relationship between the concept of “projection” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about…
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How To Care LESS About What Other People Think [VIDEO]
Today, I’m going to talk about how to care less about what other people think, and become more selective about whose opinion you value. Read or watch below to…
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Dealing With Intrusive Thoughts: The #1 Mistake [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I will explain why trying to suppress intrusive thoughts is the wrong approach. I’ll also give you some ideas for what to try instead. Read…
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I NO LONGER Struggle With Retroactive Jealousy. Here’s Why… [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to share five reasons why retroactive jealousy is no longer an issue in my life. Read or watch below to hear why I no longer struggle…
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Retroactive Jealousy and Your DIET? (You Might Be Surprised) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to explore the potential connection between nutrition, diet, and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about…
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Is This a SECRET Cause of Retroactive Jealousy? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I talk about one of the “secret” causes of retroactive jealousy that I don’t hear a lot of people talking about. Read or watch below to learn…
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Alcohol and Retroactive Jealousy: A Few Thoughts [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to talk about two things that are often related: alcohol and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about the…
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Retroactive Jealousy DISTRACTIONS: Try These 5 Tips [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my top 5 “distractions” from retroactive jealousy and how they can be valuable. Read or watch below to learn more about…
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Top-5 Tips to KEEP Struggling With Retroactive Jealousy [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to give you 5 tips to ensure that you’re going to struggle with retroactive jealousy forever. Read or watch below to discover how…
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“Wish My Girlfriend’s Past was DIFFERENT…” 6 Tips to Heal [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share 6 tips on moving on from the feeling “I wish my girlfriend’s past was different.” Read or watch below to learn more about…
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“Do Women Have MORE Dating Options Than Men?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I respond to a viewer question: “Why do women have more success on dating apps than men?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the…
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Retroactive Jealousy and the “Best Friend Technique:” What Is It? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to go into detail about retroactive jealousy and the “Best Friend Technique.” Read or watch below to learn more about the “Best…
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“VICTIM of Retroactive Jealousy and My Partner’s Past… Help!” Q & A [VIDEO]
Join thousands of retroactive jealousy survivors from around the world, and start getting clarity and peace of mind about your partner’s past right now. Read…
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“Sexually Shaming Women… How To Stop?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I address an interesting question I received recently: “How can I convince myself that women can be sexual?” Read or watch below to know more…
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Retroactive Jealousy MISTAKES (Most) Sufferers Make [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share the top 5 mistakes that I see retroactive jealousy sufferers making all the time, based on a decade of work in this field. Read or…
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The TRUTH About Self-Help (I Have To Share) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’ll try to answer the question: when does self-improvement become self-indulgence? Read or watch below to learn more about the truth about…
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Retroactive Jealousy and Self-Pity: How to Get Out [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to talk about what I believe to be the least useful human emotion (and what you can do to transcend it). Read on or watch below to…
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Jealous Behavior DOESN’T Work: Here Are The Top-5 Reasons [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share five reasons why jealous behavior doesn’t work. Read or watch below to learn about the top-5 reasons why jealous behavior…
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The Meaning of Your Partner’s Past: Does THIS Hold You Back? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about possibly the number one factor that holds many retroactive jealousy sufferers back. Read or watch below to discover a…
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SECRET of Staying Together: Is This It? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a possible “secret” for how to stay together in a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn the secret of…
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Key To Long-Term Happiness DISCOVERED in New Study [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the #1 key to long-term health and happiness, according to the world’s longest research study on human flourishing…
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“Found Out About My Wife’s Past by ACCIDENT… Help!” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I respond to a reader who tells me “I found out about my wife’s past by accident.” Read or watch below if you can relate to this reader, who…
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“My Girlfriend’s Past Is KILLING Me… Help!” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a thought experiment you can try if you feel like your girlfriend’s past relationships are “killing” you. Read or…
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Is It Retroactive ENVY… Or Retroactive Jealousy? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a term that could be applicable to some people who struggle with their partner’s past– retroactive envy. Read or…
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What is “Personalization?” (Retroactive Jealousy and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to cover a very common cognitive distortion: personalization. Read or watch below to learn more about personalization. Zachary…
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My #1 Question for Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my #1 question that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to ask themselves. Read or watch below to learn…
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What is “Labeling?” (RJ and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to cover the cognitive distortion of “labeling.” Read or watch below to learn more about labeling. Zachary Stockill: Hello and…
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What is “Magnification?” (RJ and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something we are all guilty of: the cognitive distortion of “magnification.” Read or watch below to learn more about…
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What is Emotional Reasoning? (RJ & Cognitive Distortions) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the cognitive distortion of “emotional reasoning,” a common pitfall of retroactive jealousy sufferers. Read or watch…
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What Are “Should” Statements? (RJ and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
Today, we’re covering the cognitive distortion of “should” statements, particularly prevalent among retroactive jealousy sufferers. Read or watch below to…
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Zachary Stockill Interview for The Jealousy Junkie Podcast [VIDEO]
Recently, I appeared on The Jealousy Junkie Podcast for a guest interview on retroactive jealousy. You can watch the interview below: In the interview for The…
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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Josie’s Story [AUDIO]
One of the best parts of my job is waking up to retroactive jealousy success stories in my email inbox. Recently, I received a moving and inspiring new RJ…
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My Message To You for the New Year [VIDEO]
My primary message: stop living like you have more time, because unfortunately, you may not. Read or watch below to learn more about my message for the new…
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What is Discounting the Positive? (RJ and Cognitive Distortions) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something that I’m sure many retroactive jealousy sufferers can relate to: “discounting the positive.” Read or watch…
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How Johnny Beat Retroactive Jealousy [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share a conversation with Johnny, a recent graduate of my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” online course. Read or watch below to learn…
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Jumping to Conclusions (RJ and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something that is common among many, if not most retroactive jealousy sufferers, and that is jumping to conclusions…
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What is Mental Filtering? (RJ and Cognitive Distortions Series) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a cognitive distortion called mental filtering. Read or watch below to learn more about the cognitive distortion of…
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What is Overgeneralization? (RJ and Cognitive Distortions) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, we’re going to cover a very common cognitive distortion called overgeneralization. Read or watch below to learn more about…
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Retroactive Jealousy and Cognitive Distortions: All-or-Nothing Thinking [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I introduce a concept from Cognitive Behavior Therapy called “cognitive distortions,” which will be useful for anyone struggling with…
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“Should I AVOID Relationships Because of Retroactive Jealousy?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to address a viewer’s question about “keeping things casual,” and beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more…
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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Jacob’s Story [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I share a conversation with Jacob, a retroactive jealousy sufferer and recent graduate of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past…
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“My Girlfriend is Needy… What Should I Do?” Q & A [VIDEO]
Today, I respond to a viewer question: “What should one look at within themselves if one tends to attract a very needy girlfriend?” Read or watch below to…
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“My Girlfriend’s Past Is a Dealbreaker… Time to Leave?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to answer a viewer question: “My girlfriend’s past is a dealbreaker. Should I try to work through this, or leave?” Read or watch…
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Trusting Your Partner? Here’s How to KNOW For Sure [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a quick method to know whether you’re truly trusting your partner or not. Read or watch below to discover more about what…
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“Man’s Search for Meaning” and Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I talk about one of the most important and impactful books that helped me overcome retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below how the book…