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Somebody You Love
Jenna Love & Holly Harte: just two Aussie SWers sharing our expertise in disappointing our parents, breaching community guidelines, and banging the people who vote against our rights. www.somebodyyoulove.net Instagram/Twitter/Facebook: @somebodyyoupodwww.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod
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Somebody You Love doesn't need an app
Join us as we delve into Jenna's latest business idea - getting paid to listen to other people's terrible business ideas!For more info on sex work in…
Somebody You Love84. Turned On: Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money
The Stan Original series Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money "takes a peek into the opulent and outrageous lives of adult content creators on the Gold Coast…
Somebody You Love83. Turned On: Madam
Based on a true story, Madam is a 2024 show made in New Zealand. Following her husband's affair, Mack decides to open her own ETHICAL BROTHEL. Holly & Jenna…
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82. Somebody You Love deals with the media
In this episode, Jenna shares some of her worst experiences dealing with mainstream media, and we chat about discretion in our Question of the Week and Shit…
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81. Somebody You Love advocates for the sex industry
Welcome to season 5! Today we're talking about "accidental activists" and "sex work influencers". What is the cost of speaking about the industry under your…
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80. Somebody You Love says goodbye to 2024!
It’s a big fat Holly & Jenna recap episode! What did we get up to this year? What games, movies, and tv shows did we love? What new sexual experiences did we…
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79. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k your saviour complex)
NSWP (Global Network of Sex Work Projects): https://www.nswp.org/membersAPNSW (Asia Pacific Network of Sex Workers)…
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78. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k the Nordic Model)
Well, the time has come. We are finally doing a deep dive on the Nordic Model! End Demand, Swedish Model, Equality Model... whatever you want to call it, it…
Somebody You Love77. Turned On: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
The film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas was released in 1982, based on the 1978 musical, based loosely on a true story. The movie stars Dolly Parton and…
Somebody You Love76. Somebody You Love makes and studies Indie Porn (Dr Zahra Stardust
Combining 15 years as a professional undresser, award-winning stripper, pole dancer, & 🌽 star with an international research portfolio spanning SWer activism…
Somebody You Love75. Somebody You Love faces digital violence (Pomma)
Pomma Granet, also known as Blair Bishop, also known as OnlyPomma, Juicy Pomma, Succubus Slut, and a host of other usernames given how many times they’ve had…
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74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assaultWelcome to part 2, and apologies for the darkness of these episodes! This time Holly & Jenna each share another story…
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73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault, animal death. We use the term “grandfathered” in this episode. We understand this term has very racist origins, and…
Somebody You Love72. Turned On: Pretty Woman
Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are! Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupodInstagram…
Somebody You Love71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)
Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver! Buy SLUTDOM…
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70. Somebody You Love helps you ask sticky questions
How do I ask how recently they were tested for STIs? How do I ask for us to do something different this time? What if I get down there and it smells really…
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69. Just The Tips: So you want to be an Independent Escort Pt 3
In part three of this series (make sure you’ve listened to parts 1 & 2 if you’re new or thinking about joining the industry!), we’re talking about the actual…
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68. Just The Tips: So you want to be an independent escort? Pt 2
In part two of this series, we are moving more into the logistics of the job itself. Holly and Jenna talk about advertising & advertising platforms, dealing…
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67. Somebody You Love lost their virginity* to an escort
Michael (he/him), and Louise (she/her) both lost their “virginity” to sex workers and they’ve both agreed to share their stories on the show! *Virginity is a…
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66. Is Somebody You Love an arsehole?
Yep, this week we are mining reddit for content. We read out the SW-related stories of contributors to /r/AITA and decide if we think:NTA (not the arsehole)YTA…
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65. Turned On: Music Theatre and Sex Work
Get your jazz hands ready, we’re doing musicals! Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463eSonglist: 1. I…
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64. Turned On: Songs about Sex Work
Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463eMandatory article…
Somebody You Love63. Somebody You Love is non-binary (Charlie Bear)
TW: Shit People Say mentions sexual assaultMeet Charlie Bear, a trans, non-binary sex worker based in Melbourne, on Wurundjeri land. They were assigned female…
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62. Somebody You Love does Christmas!
Holly spreads the festive fun while Jenna tries to maintain her strong boundaries around frivolity. CHAPTERS04:32: Sexy Gift Giving Guide 202320:50: Porno or…
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61. The Problem with (cishet) Male Escorts
Season 4 is here and we’re finally tackling the minefield of a topic that is male escorts!01:00 Main Segment: The Problem with Male Escorts57:25 Shit People…
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60. Somebody You Love still has a podcast
CW: Deaths of peers 54:29 - 1:00:00For our final episode of season 3 we’re filling you in on what has happened in the world of Holly & Jenna (and Mr Love) over…
Somebody You Love59. Somebody You Love lost 50kgs (Lex Leigh)
CW: Weight loss, fatphobiaHolly & Jenna interview Lex Leigh - a nerdy gamer girl who has worked in the adult industry her entire adult life, including online…
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58. The Problem with the P-word
CW: SW slursWhy don't we like to be called "prostitutes"? When did this start and what are the alternatives? What is the harm in using slurs? What are the…
Somebody You Love57. Somebody You Love is a gay male escort
Charlie has many years experience in different areas of the industry, having started initially in Aotearoa (New Zealand) doing online work as well as full…
Somebody You Love56. Somebody You Love is a transgender escort
Sophie is renowned for being the only German trans mistress in Australia and she recently announced her intentions to retire from SW this year, due to the…
Somebody You Love55. Somebody You Love is a sex worker's parent (Jenna's mum)
Jenna managed to convince her mum to be on the show, and here she is - giving us the full, honest lowdown on what it’s like to have your daughter tell you…
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54. Somebody You Love gets an STI test
CW: Mentions of sexual assault This week Holly & Jenna explain what you might expect when going to get STI tests and share some of their own horror stories of…
Somebody You Love53. Somebody You Love is married to a sex worker (Mr Love)
Mr Love is Jenna’s husband and primary partner of 13 years. He’s also our sound engineer, and probably would’ve preferred to keep it that way, but Jenna &…
Somebody You Love52. Turned On: Nude Next Door
Today Holly and Jenna are giving their uncensored opinions on the Australian Broadcasting Corporation 's (ABC) Compass TV Special 'Nude Next Door', while…
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51. Somebody You Love has childhood trauma (and that's okay)
TW: Trauma (obviously), and sexual trauma Don't worry, we're not about to trauma dump on y'all. We're discussing the narrative of "xx% of sex workers have…
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50. Somebody You Love has group sex
It’s the threesome episode! We talk about both the emotional and physical things you might want to consider before jumping into group sex… including…
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49. Somebody You Love gets jealous
It’s the jealousy episode! Do we get jealous of each other? Of other providers? Does Mr Love get jealous about Jenna’s clients? We talk about jealousy in the…
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48. Decrim Qld: Bonus Interview
As promised, here is the little bonus clip for this week. which is a short interview with an Asian migrant sex worker based in QueenslandSupport the showMERCH…
Somebody You Love48. Somebody You Love needs decrim in Queensland
Jenna is joined this week by Janelle and Carly from Decrim QLD, a committee of sex workers who have joined with Respect Inc., to progress the removal of…
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47. Clients Behaving Badly
Too many messages, obsessions with chairs, filthy tongues & poopy bums: today Holly & Jenna are sharing some of the reasons they have had to “fire” their…
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46. Somebody You Love is not a qualified therapist
Prompted by a patron question, Holly & Jenna discuss where the line is between sex work and therapy, what’s appropriate to discuss with a sex worker, and how…
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45. Turned On: Louis and the Brothel
Unfortunately the audio for this episode is not great, we’re sorry! Turned On is a series in which Holly & Jenna react to different representations of sex work…
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44. Somebody You Love is a touring escort
Jenna is our special guest today! Holly interviews her about how she organises tours around the country. They talk about the misconception that sex workers…
Somebody You Love43. Somebody You Love is a sex work historian (Kaytlin Bailey)
Kaytlin Bailey is a contrarian by nature and a provocateur by trade. She is an internationally touring stand-up comic, sex worker rights advocate and writer…
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42. Turned On: 6 Sex Workers vs 1 Secret Virgin
Turned On is a new series in which Holly & Jenna react to different representations of sex work in media. For this first episode, they are reacting to…
Somebody You Love41. Somebody You Love is a Deaf sex worker (Katia Schwartz, Dahlia Daye)
Welcome to season 3! To kick things off, Holly & Jenna are joined by Deaf full service sex worker and owner of Sydney's Sky Sirens, Katia Schwartz, her…
Somebody You LoveThe Satisfaction Project: Everyday Activism with Holly Harte
This week we are again bringing you an episode of Georgie Wolf’s podcast The Satisfaction Project while Holly, Mr Love, and I enjoy a break between seasons 2…
Somebody You LoveThe Satisfaction Project: Mythbusting with Jenna Love
While we are taking a much needed break between seasons, we wanted to share with you some episodes from our dear friend Georgie Wolf’s podcast, The…
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40. Somebody You Love sleeps with married men
It’s the season 2 finale! Join us while we ponder some big questions while trying not to get canceled… why do people cheat? And why do they do it with sex…
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39. Somebody You Love is a client of sex workers
We put a shout-out on Patreon to ask if anyone who is a client of the sex industry would like to come on the show, and thus this episode was born! Maria and…
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38. Just The Tips: So you want to be an independent escort?
TW: Assault of a SWer The first episode of our Just The Tips series designed for sex workers! Jenna & Holly break down what they did wrong so you don’t make…
Somebody You Love37. Somebody You Love is a male escort for women (Darian Rye)
Darian Rye is a male escort for women and couples, based in Canberra, Australia. He entered the adult industry in 2016, and since then has grown a successful…
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36. Somebody You Love has suspicious bank accounts
TW: Sex trafficking, Eating disordersToday we are looking at an absurd document released earlier this year by AUSTRAC. For Shit People Say, Jenna and Holly…
Somebody You Love35. Somebody You Love is a supersize BBW (Isabella Martin)
Isabella Martin is a proud “fatgirl” and the creator of the the BBW Badgirl Podcast. She is a Mexican/Irish super-size BBW sexworker based out of Los Angeles…
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34. Somebody You Love cannot enter the USA
Happy International Sex Worker Rights Day! Why do many sex workers hide or blur their faces? Spoiler alert: It’s not because they are ugly. We’re talking today…
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33. Somebody You Love tells embarrassing stories Pt 2
It’s time to tell the rest of the embarrassing work stories our peers submitted anonymously - so might not be the best time to eat your lunch if you’re…
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32. Somebody You Love got decrim! ...or did they? (Jules Kim, Dylan O'Hara)
Today on the show we have a very special episode focusing on the most recent developments in the sex work decrim space. On Thursday 10th February, the Sex Work…
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31. Somebody You Love tells embarrassing stories
We put a call out to the hooker brains trust and asked them to submit their most embarrassing work stories… anonymously. So this episode we’re pretty much just…
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FOSTA/SESTA and the impact it had on us
This week we are taking a break from our main episodes and instead giving you a clip from January's Boners Episode - which is available to all $10+ Patrons…
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30. Somebody You Love loves their job
We’re rubbing it in this week! Sharing all of the best parts of our jobs and why we absolutely love what we do. Plus we share some words from one of our…