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The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
A platform created by Tola TA Alabi, to help you learn how to live a more intentional, meaningful and purposeful life.
Episodes
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhat Should I Be Doing With My Life?
This podcast is for anyone asking, “What’s next?” — for those moments when life feels slow, stagnant, or uncertain. If you’re craving movement, impact, and…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiLiving Wisely, Not Fearfully: The Invisible Enemy
Is it safe to accept food from strangers? Can giving clothes away get you “spiritually tracked”? Should you avoid certain gifts altogether? In Africa, we…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiYou Have More Time Than You Think
Many of us live under the constant pressure of “running out of time.” The fear that we’re somehow losing time can be deeply crippling. In this podcast, I…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Audacity to Want More from Life
In this podcast, I share one of my biggest lessons from the year so far — the importance of not settling for what life hands you. When life gives you lemons…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiTrusting Her: How Far Should a Man Go?
Trust and transparency are delicate pillars of any human relationship — especially in romance and marriage. Yet no relationship can truly flourish without…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiHow to make a Marriage Work
The rate of failed marriages is arguably at its highest in human history. In this podcast, I share two powerful steps that both men and women can take to…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Influence of Women on Men: The Great Mystery
The power of women has often been underestimated, but history tells a different story. From Adam and Eve to Samson and Delilah, and even Julius Caesar and…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Weakness Gap: How Feminism Limits Women
Over the years, the word weak has carried a negative weight — something we’ve been taught to resist and reject. But what if weakness isn’t a disadvantage at…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiIn the World but Not of It: The Culture Curse
The words earth, world, and life are often used interchangeably, but they are not the same. In this podcast, I uncover the profound differences between them…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy Gen X and Millennials Got Stuck but Gen Z Didn’t
On this podcast, I analyze a major shortcoming of Gen X and Millennials that has, over the years, held many of them back from fully reaching and expressing…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiYou Are More Than Your Personality
In a world that has become increasingly obsessed with defining personality types, we risk losing touch with what it truly means to be human. In this podcast, I…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy We Struggle With Our Spirituality
Spirituality is at the core of life, yet many see it as abstract or out of reach. In this podcast, I break down the true essence of spirituality and explore…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Principle of Fast Execution
This is the third part of a 3 part series on Success and Effectiveness in Life. Here, I talk about the principle of fast execution using scripture as a basis…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy Business and Creativity Don't Mix
Diving into the creative’s struggle in the corporate world. Why business stresses most creatives, and how AI can be the game-changer that helps them thrive."
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Key to an Effective Life
The secret to an effective life isn’t hustle, talent, or luck—it’s clarity. And true clarity begins with spirituality: hearing God’s voice and having the…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiSuccess vs Average: What Really Sets Them Apart
Have you ever wondered why some people succeed in business where many others have failed? Or why individuals with seemingly fewer skills often thrive over…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiI'm Good at Many Things, How do I Focus?
Focus has become a rare luxury in today’s world—where knowledge is everywhere and skills are easier than ever to pick up. In this podcast, I’ll show you how to…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiBeyond Romance: Finding the Right Man
They say a woman should find a man who out-loves her. But how true is this? And how much does it really matter for the success of a courtship or relationship?…
The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi7 Businesses that Hold Society Together - BIZCON 2025
When we think business, we often think entrepreneurship. But what if I told you business is more than just entrepreneurial work? In this episode, I uncover 7…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiLiving Your Truth vs Living Your Trauma
There's a thin line between truth and trauma. In this podcast I attempt to define the concept of truth and trauma, I also explain how these 2 things shape our…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiLife Branding Masterclass
This is a recording of an podcast session I had with early in 2025, where I answer questions on education, marriage, business and faith.
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhen Purpose Disrupts Security
Should I leave a secure job to follow a deeper inner calling? At some point, many of us wrestle with this tension between stability and spiritual leading. What…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiOpinions, Advice & Counselling: The Search For Clarity
The mistake is asking for opinions when you need advice. The greater mistake is asking for advice when you need counselling.
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThis Thing Called Poverty
We often fear poverty more than we understand it. In this episode of This Thing Called Poverty, I explore how society has conditioned us to run from it—without…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Guilt of Privilege: Duty over Sacrifice
Privilege isn’t always sweet. Sometimes it carries the heavy weight of sacrifice—sacrifices made by others that you feel indebted to. In this episode of The…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiI Want To Keep My Virginity But...
Is keeping your virginity before marriage still realistic in today’s world? In this episode, I respond to a young lady’s question about chastity and explore…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiBreaking the Habit: The Journey to Change
Can people really change? Is lasting transformation truly possible, or is it just wishful thinking? We’ve all tried breaking a bad habit—or prayed and hoped…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Secret to Enjoying Life: Expecting vs Experiencing
What happens when you stop chasing outcomes and start embracing the present? In this episode, we explore how letting go of expectations opens the door to…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Design Bubble: My Thoughts on Jaiz Bank Rebrand
In this episode, I share my thoughts on Jaiz Bank’s recent rebrand and reflect on a personal experience from 2015 that completely changed how I view major…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiDo Opposites Really Attract: The Compatibility Misconception
Do opposites really attract in romantic relationships? Are we truly drawn to people who are different from us—or is compatibility built on something deeper…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiBlack Tax: When Success Becomes a Burden
The term Black Tax has gained momentum in recent years, carrying layers of meaning beyond finances. In this episode, I explore its origins and unpack what it…
The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi"I Wish I Didn't Exist": When Life Seems Meaningless
In this episode, I respond to one of the most honest and vulnerable messages I’ve ever received. It’s raw, deeply relatable, and it raises profound…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Absent Father Effect
When the father is absent, the whole home feels it — in ways seen and unseen. This podcast unpacks the hidden wounds, the silent struggles, and the…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Head Check: Choosing Bosses, Husbands & Leaders
In this podcast, I explore the flow of energy from the head down, revealing how this dynamic shapes the health and success of families, organisations, and…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Swine Mindset: Why Some People Can't Be Helped
In this episode, I explore why some people find themselves trapped in a loop of stagnation. It’s not bad luck or a curse—it’s a mindset problem. I call it The…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThings I Wish I Knew As a Young Designer pt.2
This is the second part of a recording of a Q&A Session I had with students in my design training course.
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThings I Wish I Knew As a Young Designer pt.1
This is a Q&A session I had with participants in my logo design training course.
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiPersonal Branding: Why You're So Forgettable
Have you ever wondered why some people stand out more than others? Why some people are more memorable and while others are just down right forgettable. In this…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Prosperity Misconception
Can God send you on mission that makes life harder? Can doing God's will bring you pain and some amount of shame? In this podcast, I talk about the often…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiI’ve Been Giving—So Why Isn’t It Coming Back?
“Give, and it will come back to you—good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over…” It’s one of the most quoted verses in the Bible. But have…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Key to Finding Clarity in Life
Have you ever felt completely confused—like every part of your life is tangled up in a mess of wires, and you don’t even know where to start? You find yourself…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiGet Up! When Intellect Says "No" but Faith Says "Yes"
Here I share a deep spiritual principle about taking bold actions in the midst of what appears to be suboptimal conditions. If you have been waiting on God for…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiPassion, Business & Entrepreneurship: Q&A
This is a recording of a Q&A Session I had with a group of creatives.
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Secret to Maximising Today
"Carpe diem"—Latin for "Seize the day"—is a phrase made famous by the Roman poet Horace. It's echoed across centuries, quoted in movies, speeches, and social…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiOvercoming Economic Hardship: The Egret Mindset
Times are hard. Things are costly. Businesses are struggling. How do we survive? In this podcast, I narrate my experience in what I consider one of the…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiMen, Marriage & Masturbation
In this podcast I address men struggling with masturbation in marriage. I discuss the 3 critical steps in breaking the hold of pornography and masturbation on…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiPersonal and Professional Growth - Q&A Session
This is a recording of an organisation's corporate team building session. In this session I focus on advancing personal and professional growth within a…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiI Can't Wait To Move Out: The Lie About The Family
These days, many young people view living with their parents as something to be ashamed of — an inconvenience that holds them back. Home is often seen as a…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiI've Had Enough: Quitting God's Calling
Have you ever given God an ultimatum—threatening to walk away from His calling on your life because the road felt too hard or unfair? In this episode, I share…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy You Aren't Hearing God Speak
If God is truly our Father who loves us, why is His voice so hard to hear?" That’s a question I recently had to anwer—and in this podcast, I dive into one of…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiIrreconcilable Thresholds: Why Relationships Fail
Have you ever ended a relationship because the other person just wasn’t growing? Maybe they kept holding you back or let you down one too many times. But what…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiKeep Going or Quit : The Hard Choice
When things get hard is it a signal of incompatibility and a warning to quit or is it a test of grit and a challenge to keep going? This is a tough question…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiGod isn't a Genie: When Leadings Go 'Wrong'
Have you ever been so sure you were following a strong leading from God—only for everything to fall apart? Things didn’t turn out the way you hoped. In fact…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiBeing An Introvert is Ruining My Life
Being introverted and being insecure are two very different things that get mixed up most times. In this podcast, I answer a question that allows me to address…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiOne Thing Hindering Your Personal Growth This Year
Many people long for personal growth—whether in their finances, spirituality, or relationships. But in this podcast, I uncover one critical step most people…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiTo The Christian Struggling with Porn & Masturbation
Pornography and masturbation are probably the devil's strongest weapon against the church of Christ today. I do believe that as alarming as 1 in 5 christian…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy We Must Never Regret Our Past
If you could go back in time, what will you change about your life? There is only one correct answer to this question - Nothing. However very few people can…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiThe Introverted Entrepreneur: Shameless Business
Being an introvert can be a limitation to business growth and success. In this podcast, I teach and share some personal experiences on how to overcome the draw…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiHow can I Know God's Voice: Natural Intuition vs Holy Spirit
God's voice is not foreign. I have so many people ask me, "How do I learn to hear God's voice"? God's voice isn't learnt. In this podcast I talk about the…
The TA Podcast with Tola AlabiWhy the Tech Bro is Rich and the Graphic Designer is Poor
The term "tech bro" has become synonymous with a technology driven individual with technical skills that puts them on the rise financially. However the term…