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The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
A platform created by Tola TA Alabi, to help you learn how to live a more intentional, meaningful and purposeful life.
Episodes
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Feeling of Being Used Rather Than Loved
In this podcast, I answer a question on how to deal with the feeling that we are merely bring exploited by people in our lives for their own self end. Do we as…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Completing vs Finishing: A Lesson in Time Management
Time is undoubtedly the most precious resource we have on earth, yet many of us are poor stewards of it. In this podcast, I share a powerful principle that…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Trap Called The Normal Life
What does it really mean to live a “normal” life? In this podcast, I question the idea of normal and invite you to rethink how you spend your time. Why do so…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Parents, Pressure and Purpose: Finding Your True Path
In this podcast, I explore a question from a young man who feels trapped between his parents’ expectations and his own dreams for his career and future.
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When God Shuts Doors: Your Opinion is Right But Your Attitude is Wrong
Many of us pray for open doors and unhindered access. But sometimes the closed door is the blessing. It gives us space to pause and reassess, to confront…
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Breaking Free from Hurt and Trauma
In this podcast, I teach on courage, forgiveness, and recovery from hurt and trauma. I reveal why many people find it difficult to face and express these…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Letting Go: What Your Hurt Is Costing You
We’ve all been hurt in one way or another. In this podcast, I unpack what hurt really is, what it silently steals from us, and why letting it go is both…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Creative, The Client & The Consumer: Making a Good Product
What’s the real secret to creating the right product? In this episode, I unpack how ego quietly sabotages the creative process—and why empathy is the true…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
God vs Hustle: Pyrrhic Wins
In this podcast, I unpack why God’s rest is often resisted and how the culture of struggle and hustle keeps us trapped in constant striving.
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Dig or Die: Living Hustle Free
In this podcast, I challenge the hustle culture that keeps people striving just to get by, and share why I’m no longer bound by it.
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
100% Process, 0% Destination: When Our Path Doesn't Make Sense
Ever felt like life isn’t making sense, and your choices don’t seem to be taking you anywhere? This podcast is for you.
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Tension Called Romance
In this podcast, I explore the concept of romance and how, when misunderstood, it can distort the spiritual dynamics of the male–female connection—something…
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The Era of Revelation: The Uncomfortable Shift
What's the difference between learnt knowledge and revealed knowledge? In this podcast I teach about a the uncomfortable world shift - the beginning of a new…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Only God can Love and Judge You Right
In this podcast I share a revolutionary and liberating concept of God. -the concept of God's unique love. If you feel unloved, misunderstood and unaccepted…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Love over Freedom: The Mystery of Happiness in Captivity
Is freedom man's greatest desire? Does the concept of freedom really bring us lasting or true happiness?
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Truth about Trauma, Hurt and Recovery
If you’re dealing with trauma, carrying pain from a past experience, or seeking healing and recovery, this podcast is for you.
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You Aren't Strong, You Are Stubborn: The Measure of Masculinity
This podcast dismantles the modern myth of manhood that glorifies ego, domination, and emotional distance. A real man is yielding, attentive, and secure enough…
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Flow: The Kind of Money That Satisfies
Money does not flow toward what people value most—it flows toward where God’s voice is obeyed. In this episode, I challenge the world’s belief that provision…
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The Biggest Lie About Money
Money can buy comfort, access, and options—but happiness? That’s a different currency. In this episode, I challenge the popular belief that wealth equals joy…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Strictly Business: A Lesson on Boundaries
In this episode, I talk about the importance of boundaries in business—why your clients are not your friends, and why bringing personal financial struggles…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
How to Turn Your House into a Sanctuary
A house becomes a home when it begins to mirror who you are. In this episode, I explore how our spaces are more than rooms and furniture—they are containers…
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The Cost of Taking Things for Granted
This episode is about gratitude—not as a feeling, but as a responsibility. Using a simple daily experience, I unpack how gratitude sustains what matters, and…
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Seperating Feelings from Leadings: Why Your Emotions Are a Poor Compass
Feelings speak loudly, but they don’t always speak truth. In this podcast, I explore how allowing feelings to lead can quietly rob us of necessary action, and…
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Toxic Ambition & Bad Marriages
We’ve celebrated the ambitious man so loudly that we forgot to ask what his family is paying for it. In this episode, I challenge the toxic idea that a man…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Cost of Distraction
You’re not multitasking. You’re diluting meaning. In this podcast, I talk about how distraction robs ordinary moments of their full value—and why focus is a…
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Dealing with Imposter Syndrome: The Concept of Good
On this podcast I talk about imposter syndrome, why we have it and one simple truth that could help us overcome it.
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
When Your Family is The Obstacle
You can be restricted on the outside, but no one can restrict your internal growth. In this episode, I answer a question from a young woman in her 20s…
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Being More Present in Your Life
Not every urgency deserves your response. Some pressures are loud, but God’s voice is gentle. This episode is about learning to be present in your own life…
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Why Reading Books Is Overrated
Books are powerful—but they’re not supreme. Sometimes the deepest understanding doesn’t come from turning pages, but from closing them. In this episode, I talk…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Knowing God for Yourself: The Bicycle Principle
You can’t ride a bicycle forever with training wheels. At some point, they must come off. The same is true with spirituality. This podcast explores what it…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Is God Fair? — Resetting Our Expectations for the New Year
Is God fair? Or have we misunderstood what fairness really means? In this episode, I challenge our human idea of fairness—one built on comparison, entitlement…
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Marriage Is a Gift, Not a Right
What if marriage is a blessing, but not a right? This conversation unpacks the beauty of marriage, the divine complement of man and woman, and the hard truth…
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Logical Reasoning: Good Answers vs The Truth
In this podcast, I talk about how logically reasoning can give us answers but sometimes conceal the truth.
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Christmas Eve Syndrome: Running Out of Time
In this podcast, I share my personal experience about the need to wait on God for good things.
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Effortless Work: The Kind of Success God Designed for You
God never intended your work to crush you. He designed it to fit you. When you discover the gifts He placed inside you, effort turns into ease—and success…
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Angel Investor: The 'What is This' Insecurity
We love the “here it is” moment, but avoid the “what is this?” stage. Growth happens in the light—when the process is still messy, unclear, and unfinished…
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God Is Not Subtle
God's will is not hard to discern. God’s guidance is not confusing. His signs are clear. What often blocks the path is not silence from heaven, but…
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The Distraction Called Status: Rediscovering Identity in God
Social status can become a loud distraction. In this episode, I explore how our obsession with class, wealth, and “arriving” often competes with God’s voice…
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My Plan vs God's Plan for Me
In this episode, I open up about the seasons of my life when I held on to my plans so tightly that I couldn’t see what God was trying to give me. I share how…
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From Low-Level to God-Level Thinking
Your life moves in the direction of your thinking. In this episode, I break down the difference between low-level, mid-level, and high-level thinking — and why…
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The Father of Lies
The devil’s greatest weapon isn’t power — it’s persuasion. In this episode, I expose the staged lies he whispers to steal identity, distort purpose, and trap…
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Promises, Prophecies & Promptings: Listening to God
In this episode, we dive deep into how God communicates with us—through promises, prophecies, and the subtle promptings of our hearts. I explore why paying…
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When Small Things Have Big Impact
The Small Signs That Tell You You’re on the Right Path — those quiet nudges, unexpected favors, kind words, and little wins we often overlook. In this episode…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Spirituality vs Religion: Where Africans Got it Wrong
Is spirituality the missing key to progress—or a hidden trap? In this episode, we dive deep into the delicate dance between spirituality and religion…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
When Love Speaks Life: Choosing "Mr/Ms Right"
Looks may draw you in, but words build your future. In this episode, I explore why choosing a partner who speaks life into you is more powerful than physical…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Walking in Purpose: Faith, Function & Freedom
In this episode, I break down purpose from its true source — God. I explore how walking in faith, operating in your God-given function, and living freely in…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Truth About Turning 40
In this podcast, I talk about the increasing dread people feel as they approach forty, and I confront the regret, shame, and anxiety that often come with this…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Curate. Create. Conquer: Living Above Fear
In this episode, I unpack how the media has become a doorway for fear, anxiety, and negativity — often without us noticing. But today’s media can also be a…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Fear Factory: The Media and You
In this episode, I explore how the media subtly feeds us fear—how most of what we’re afraid of comes from things we were never meant to witness. The media…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Concern Less. Discern More
We worry about too much because we discern too little. In this episode, I break down the true meaning of concern and discern — and why your life becomes…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Making Up for Your Past Mistakes
Your mistakes were never detours — they were coordinates. In this episode, I explore how every misstep becomes a marker on the map of your life, how God weaves…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
The Uncomfortable Concept of Drifting Apart
In this episode, I explore the uncomfortable but necessary truth about drifting. How stepping away from a person, passion, or path isn’t failure—but a natural…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
What We Get Wrong About Success
We often think we know what success looks like — but do we really? In this podcast, I challenge our definitions of success and mediocrity, and show how some of…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
When the Stomach Leads the Spirit
When the stomach leads, the spirit suffers. In this podcast we explore the tension between survival and purpose and investigate how to break free from…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
When Clarity Meets Fear
Those who seek clarity must also find the courage to follow where that clarity leads. In this episode, I explore what it truly means to have the courage to…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
How to Love the Life You Have
Can you look at your life—the work you do, the people around you—and sincerely say you love it? Most people can’t. In this podcast, I reveal the secret to…
- The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi
Destined for Success: The Truth About Your Birth
Many people see life as a series of hit-or-miss moments — where the odds of missing seem far greater than the chances of hitting the mark. We’ve come to…
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Why the Future Belongs to the Weird
The world has never been more disruptive than it is today. To say that times have changed would be a massive understatement. Age-old industries are collapsing…
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From Mentor to Enemy: The Slippery Slope Called Mentoring
The mentor-mentee relationship can be one of the most beautiful, rewarding, and life-defining connections we experience. Yet, it also carries the potential to…
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When Life Happens: The Waiting Period
Sometimes, life drifts off the script we wrote for ourselves. We wake up in places we never planned to be, faced with moments we never imagined. Like a leaf…