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Getting Out From Under
This podcast is my story of getting out of an emotionally and financially abusive marriage as an American woman married to a Japanese man living in Japan. When we are subject to abuse, we often feel ashamed, like we are somehow allowing it to happen, or we deserve it. When we bear abuse in silence, we give our abusers the power. I want to tell my stories to let other abused women know they are not alone. I also want to help people with loved ones in abusive relationships understand why it's so…
Episodes
Getting Out From UnderEpisode 7 - Pushed Into Corners
I think this episode was the hardest one for me to produce, yet. I cried while thinking about it. I cried while writing it. I cried while recording it, and I…
Getting Out From UnderEpisode 6 bonus content - Bankruptcy in Japan
I've spoken a lot about my ex-husband declaring bankruptcy in previous episodes, and I realized that a lot of listeners probably have a lot of questions about…
Getting Out From UnderEpisode 6 - My New Normal
In this episode, I talk about how my husband was able to maintain control over me by keeping me in a constant state of fear. I talk about the various people…
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Episode 5 - The Beginning of the End
In this episode, I share the turning point that reshaped my marriage and my sense of safety. What began as yet another financial deception escalated into a…
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Episode 4 - The First Betrayal
In this episode, I tell the story of the very first time I felt truly betrayed by my husband and the circumstances of our life at the time that prevented me…
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Love Knows No Boundaries - Part Two
In Part Two of this episode I discuss the first time my boundaries were really tested with my ex-husband, before he was my husband, and how that may have set…
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Love Knows No Boundaries - Part One
In Part One of Episode 3, I begin to tell the story of how we met, and how I started to put aside my own needs and wants. The love bombing from my love…
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Episode 2 - How I Got Here
Thank you for joining me again as I tell my story of how I got out of an abusive relationship with a man, who I believe is a narcissist, in a country that is…
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Episode 1 - Why I started this podcast
Hello and welcome to Getting Out From Under! I'm so happy to have you here! This episode explains why I started this podcast and what I hope to achieve by…