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The Dr. Ray Podcast
In “The Dr. Ray Podcast,” Dr. Ray Guarendi talks about parenting issues from diaper dilemmas to teenage traumas to college crises! Family, personal and professional life issues are dealt with in a straight-forward, no-nonsense, and often humorous way.
Episodes
The Dr. Ray PodcastThoughts Provoke Feelings
Thoughts provoke feelings. But do those thoughts make sense?
The Dr. Ray PodcastFive Reasons why apologies aren't given
Dr Ray discusses the Five Reasons Why Apologies Aren’t Given
The Dr. Ray PodcastBanning Smartphone Use In Class
Dr Ray explains the predictable positive results from these bans that are happening nationwide.
The Dr. Ray PodcastLaw of Social Reciprocity
Dr Ray tells us why we shouldn’t expect a return on our good behavior toward others.


The Dr. Ray PodcastBut I Apologized
Dr Ray explains how some relationships are not as solid as we may think they are.
The Dr. Ray PodcastPeer Influence and Smoking
Dr Ray discusses how easily teens can change behavior due to behaviors their peers adopt.
The Dr. Ray PodcastPersnickety Faith
Dr Ray warns us to not look down on those who are not where we are in the faith.

The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Ripple Effect
Dr Ray tells us how making tiny changes in ourselves can dramatically improve relationships.
The Dr. Ray PodcastElderly Eternity
Dr Ray wonders why so many elderly don’t consider the question of eternity.
The Dr. Ray PodcastTrusting God Like My Son Needed to Trust Me
Dr Ray explains trusting God in times of suffering.
The Dr. Ray PodcastMisleading Media Stereotypes
Dr Ray explains how the media normalizing bad behavior in teens can lead us to believe that behavior is normal.

The Dr. Ray PodcastConfession is Good Psychology
Dr. Ray tells us why Jesus is the Master Psychologist.
The Dr. Ray PodcastFour Big Causes of Parental Frustration
Dr. Ray summarizes the top reasons parents feel frustration.
The Dr. Ray PodcastIs Marriage Hard Work?
You often hear the cliché, marriage is hard work. But is it?
The Dr. Ray PodcastCan You Be a “1 in 100” Parent?
Dr. Ray explains that in order to have a “1 in 100” child, you need to be a “1 in 100” parent.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Strong-Willed Child
Dr Ray explains that being strong-willed is human nature and not a sign of a problem child.
The Dr. Ray PodcastWhat's Wrong with "What's Wrong"?
Dr. Ray looks at the experts’ latest attempt to make parents second-guess themselves.
The Dr. Ray PodcastSaving Sorry for Strangers
Dr. Ray looks at the ease ‘sorry’ is used casually vs. in relationships.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Look - Classical Conditioning
Dr. Ray explains “the look.” Why it worked and why it’s gone.
The Dr. Ray PodcastUnderstanding Does Not Equal Agreement
Dr. Ray talks about how parents often feel their children will agree if they could get them to understand. And that is not always the case.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Desperation of Lectures
Dr Ray talks about the effectiveness of frequent lectures on kids.
The Dr. Ray PodcastWhat’s Going On With Parental Estrangement?
Dr. Ray looks at the new phenomenon of parental estrangement.
The Dr. Ray PodcastPhrases that Make Kids Anxious
Dr. Ray looks at an article that lays out phrases that supposedly make kids anxious. But do they?
The Dr. Ray PodcastLook and Listen
Dr Ray talks about the habits people have of saying “look” or “listen” in conversation.
The Dr. Ray PodcastBenign Underparenting is Good
Dr. Ray talks about how much attention parents should give to their children.
The Dr. Ray PodcastJesus was not a good man
Dr. Ray pushes back on secular claims that Jesus was merely a good man and teacher.
The Dr. Ray PodcastSpecial Child
Dr. Ray talks about adjusting your discipline to a child’s unique circumstances.
The Dr. Ray PodcastAsking for consent
Experts say parents should ask babies for consent to change diapers? Dr. Ray responds.
The Dr. Ray PodcastGetting Cooperation from our Kids
Dr. Ray talks about positive reinforcement vs. negative reinforcement.
The Dr. Ray PodcastHow do feelings change?
Dr. Ray explains why your thinking and feelings change as you age.
The Dr. Ray PodcastIs an Algorithm Raising Your Kid?
Dr Ray asks if an algorithm is raising your kid.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Curse of Extreme Language
Dr. Ray wonders why the language used to describe everyday matters is so extreme nowadays.

The Dr. Ray PodcastAffection Sends a Powerful Message
Dr. Ray talks about communicating with your kids that your parenting rules are done out of love.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Myth of the Middle Child Syndrome
Dr. Ray reacts to National Middle Child Day by explaining how Middle Child Syndrome isn’t real
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Body is Dumb
Dr. Ray explains that fears/phobias are attached to something that the mind has convinced the body is a threat.
The Dr. Ray PodcastNon-Judgmental Language is Just Wrong
Dr Ray explains how society explains things are wrong while believing it’s wrong to say things are wrong. Or something to that effect…
The Dr. Ray PodcastPsychological Correctness has Burned More Than One Generation
Dr Ray explains how psychological correctness has done a lot of damage to parents in terms of overthinking, overanalyzing and under-enjoying.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Causes of Our Cultural Violence
Dr. Ray looks at the causes of our culture violence in light of the shooting at the Catholic school in Minneapolis.
The Dr. Ray PodcastActing Sorry
Today, Dr. Ray explains how it’s easier to act nice as an unspoken apology than to say you’re sorry out loud.
The Dr. Ray PodcastSpiritual, but not Religious
Dr. Ray explains more about the difference between being Spiritual, but not Religious and what it Means to be Agnostic.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe Teenager Stereotype
Today Dr. Ray talks about stereotypes unfairly put on teens.
The Dr. Ray PodcastFrustrated Parenting
Today Dr. Ray talks about how parents and kids communicate and what works and doesnt work.
The Dr. Ray PodcastTherapeutic Window
Today Dr. Ray talks about the theories of discipline and raising kid with consequences.

The Dr. Ray PodcastSpeaking into our Goverment
Dr. Ray shares the appropriate way to speak into the decisions the goverment makes with a Catholic perspective.
The Dr. Ray PodcastMarriage Behaviors
Today Dr. Ray ask the question and raises the challenges in marriage behavior.

The Dr. Ray PodcastModern Parenting
Today Dr. Ray talks about how to best prepare for your kids to become teenagers.
The Dr. Ray PodcastThe World is Falling Apart, What do I do?
Dr Ray checks in help with those whose parents or fmaily members are facing negative parts of life.
The Dr. Ray PodcastPerception Parenting
Today Dr. Ray talks challenging your parents and why do we let our Kids Challenge us.


The Dr. Ray PodcastHurt Feelings
Today Dr. Ray talks the valudation of hurt feelings but what to do with them is what matters.

