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Christian Family Life
What started as a question “God you created marriage can you make it work?” soon became a statement “God, you created marriage you can make it work.” Thank you for joining us on the Christian family life podcast where we get into the good, the bad, and the ugly in our marriage relationships and mine God‘s word to see what it has to say about it.
Episodes
Christian Family LifeRuth & Naomi: Building Strong Relationships with Your In-Laws
Before the beautiful love story of Ruth and Boaz unfolds, we witness another remarkable relationship—one between a mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law.In the…
Christian Family LifeThe First Marriage: God's Blueprint for Oneness
What can the very first marriage teach us about our marriages today? In Genesis 1 and 2, we see God bring Adam and Eve together in the Garden of Eden…
Christian Family LifeFaithful Together While Waiting on God
What can we learn about marriage from Zechariah and Elizabeth? In Luke 1, we discover a couple who remained faithful to God through years of unanswered…
Christian Family LifeMarriage Mold: What’s Growing Beneath the Surface?
Your marriage can look healthy on the outside while hurt, resentment, and unforgiveness quietly grow underneath. In this episode, we talk about recognizing the…
Christian Family LifeWhen a Hard Heart Hurts Your Marriage: Don't be a Nabal
A hard heart doesn't usually happen overnight. Pride, selfishness, defensiveness, contempt, and an unwillingness to listen can slowly shape the way we treat…
Christian Family LifeWisdom in a Difficult Marriage: Lessons from Abigail & Nabal
What do you do when your spouse makes a foolish decision? In 1 Samuel 25, Abigail finds herself married to Nabal, a harsh and difficult man whose actions put…
Christian Family LifeGrowing Together Through the Trials
Every marriage will face difficult seasons. Job and his wife experienced unimaginable loss and suffering, yet their story reminds us that trials are a reality…
Christian Family LifeTogether For A Greater Purpose
What does it actually look like to live on mission as a married couple? It may be simpler than you think.In this episode, we talk about practical ways you and…
Christian Family LifeFrom a Calling to a Culture: Marriage Discipleship at New Zion
In this episode, we sit down with the Washingtons from New Zion Church to hear how their passion for marriage ministry became a growing marriage discipleship…
Christian Family LifeMarriage on Mission: Your Marriage Was Made for More
One of the most memorable moments of a wedding is when the officiant finally says, “You may kiss your bride!” The kiss happens, the couple is introduced as…
Christian Family LifeMarriage Isn’t Dying—The Pathway Is
Americans haven’t stopped longing for lifelong love—but many have lost the pathway to building it. In this episode, the CFL team examines the latest marriage…
Christian Family LifeWere We Even in the Same Conversation?
Why do husbands and wives often leave the same conversation with completely different interpretations? The answer may not be in the facts, but in the meaning…
Christian Family LifeFrom Longing To Praise
If you’ve been hurt by someone you loved, you’ve probably replayed the “if onlys” and “what ifs” a thousand times. Maybe you’re in a marriage without the love…
Christian Family LifeGod is Still at Work On Your Marriage
At seventeen, Joseph thought he knew what God was doing in his life. Then came betrayal, rejection, false accusations, prison, and years of waiting. For…
Christian Family LifeStewarding the Calling of Marriage Discipler Without Dividing the Church
A ministry vision can be good, but how we pursue it matters. In this episode, we discuss how believers can honor church leadership, protect unity, and…
Christian Family LifeCuba, Marriage & the Gospel
Christian Family Life exists to share the gospel of Jesus Christ through the platform of marriage in the United States and around the world, with a special…
Christian Family LifeThe Power or Prayer in Life's Hardest Moments
In this episode of the Christian Family Life Podcast, Roland and Tammy have an honest a deeply personal conversation about prayer, grief, anxiety, faith, and…
Christian Family LifeFrom Ceremony To Calling
Marriage was never meant to be hidden. In this episode, we explore how marriage is more than personal happiness—it’s a public witness of the Gospel and a…
Christian Family LifeFeeling Alone Together
Have you ever felt lonely—even within your own marriage? In this episode, we explore the story of Jacob and Leah in Genesis 29, uncovering the deep pain of…
Christian Family LifePursue Romance: Love Through Every Season
Romance isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice rooted in faith. In every season of marriage, we’re called to move toward one another, not away. When we stop…
Christian Family LifeSame Couch, Different Worlds: Choosing Connection Over Distraction
In a world where we’re constantly connected, why do so many couples feel so distant? This episode dives into the subtle ways technology can erode intimacy—and…
Christian Family LifeFaithful in the Little Things: Building a Marriage That Lasts
Strong marriages aren’t built in big moments—they’re shaped in the small, daily choices we make. In this episode, we explore how faithfulness in the little…
Christian Family LifeBuilding Blocks or Stumbling Blocks: Strengthening Your Marriage on the Rock
Every marriage is under construction. In this biblical, practical episode, we explore how everyday choices either build a strong foundation or create stumbling…
Christian Family LifeMarriage Matters: The Hidden Engine of Church Health
What if the strength of your church is directly tied to the strength of marriages within it? In this episode, we dive into compelling data that reveals how…
Christian Family LifeBuilt to Last: How Strong Marriages Strengthen the Church
Strong marriages don’t just bless couples—they shape the very foundation of the church. In this episode, we unpack the real impact of marriage health on church…
Christian Family LifeA Better Vision for Marriage: "As for Me and My House"
Culture often defines marriage by feelings, comfort, or personal happiness. But Scripture gives couples a far deeper and more meaningful vision.In this episode…
Christian Family LifeThe Hidden Reasons Couples Keep Fighting | Attachment Styles in Marriage
Why do couples keep having the same argument over and over again?In this episode of the Christian Family Life Podcast, Roland and Tammy explore the deeper…
Christian Family LifeStuck on Repeat: Why We Keep Having the Same Fight
Why does the same argument keep resurfacing in your marriage? Most conflict isn’t about the topic—it’s about the emotion and fear underneath it. Research shows…
Christian Family LifeWalking in Healing: Breaking Cycles & Building Safety
Couples rarely fall apart overnight. They drift—moving from walking together to walking parallel. Distance is formed in small moments of turning away. In this…
Christian Family LifeWhat Are You Carrying? Emotional Health and the Hidden Baggage in Marriage
Marriage doesn’t erase your past—it reveals it. In this episode, we explore how emotional baggage, family patterns, and unresolved wounds shape conflict. Learn…
Christian Family LifeHelping Each Other Up: Emotional Health in Marriage (Part 1)
Marriage isn’t just about loving each other well on the good days—it’s about helping each other up when things get heavy. In Part 1 of Helping Each Other Up…
Christian Family LifeSecure in Christ, Safe in Marriage
When identity is insecure, fear drives marriage into performance and hiding. But when our identity is secure in Christ, marriage becomes a place of safety and…
Christian Family LifeWhen Approval Runs the Marriage: Identity, Trust, and the Gospel
What happens to a marriage when approval—not Christ—defines identity?In this CFL Podcast team discussion, we explore Identity Theft in Marriage and how…
Christian Family LifeFrom Shame to Safety: How Couples Rebuild Emotional Trust and Restore Connection in Marriage
Emotional trust in marriage is rarely lost in one dramatic moment - it erodes slowly when honesty no longer feels safe. In this episode, "From Shame to…
Christian Family LifeWhy We Hide in Marriage: Shame, Distance, and Healing
Shame doesn't make you a bad spouse - it makes you a hiding one. In this episode, we uncover why hiding feels safer than intimacy, how shame creates distance…
Christian Family LifeHow to Cultivate a Thriving Marriage: CFL’s #1 Most-Listened Podcast of the Year
In this episode, we explore the profound metaphor of gardening as it relates to maintaining a healthy marriage. Just as a garden requires consistent care and…
Christian Family LifePause in Your Marriage: Reconnecting, Restoring, and Renewing Love | CFL’s #2 Podcast of the Year
In this episode of the Christian Family Life Podcast, we dive deep into the vital importance of pressing pause in your marriage. Life can feel like a…
Christian Family LifeMotherhood, Identity, and Marriage:Reclaiming Your Identity in Christ | CFL’s #3 Podcast of the Year
Motherhood is a beautiful journey that can deepen your marriage and transform your faith. In this episode, we explore how becoming a mother can sometimes lead…
Christian Family LifeRebuilding Trust in Marriage: Biblical Steps to Healing | #4 Most-Listened Podcast of the Year!
Has trust been broken in your marriage? Are you struggling to find your way back to a place of connection and understanding? Join us as we explore the path to…
Christian Family LifeBuilding Friendship in Marriage: Rediscover Joy, Intimacy, and Connection | CFL’s #5 podcast of 2025
In today’s episode, we'll dive into candid conversations about what it truly takes to nurture friendship within marriage. We'll reflect on the invaluable…
Christian Family LifeTwo Imperfect People, One Grace-Filled Marriage |CFL's #6 Most-Listened Podcast of the Year!
In today's episode we confront the honest truth: every marriage is made up of two imperfect people. But that doesn't mean it's without hope. We'll talk about…
Christian Family LifeUnmasking the Eden Life: From Shame and Self-Protection to Unashamed Love in Christian Marriage
In this episode, we expose one of the most destructive lies in marriage: the belief that love must be earned or protected. From the serpent's deception in Eden…
Christian Family LifeVulnerability, Intimacy & Eden: What Shame Broke, Jesus Restores | Genesis 2:25
In this opening episode, Roland and Tammy dive into the very first picture of human connection: "The man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed." -…
Christian Family LifeA Genuine Love: How God's Love Transforms Your Marriage
Discover how genuine, Christ-centered love can propel your marriage into levels you never thought possible. 1 Corinthians 13 reminds us that real love is…
Christian Family LifeCheck, Choose, Communicate: The Spiritual Practice That Changes How You Talk In Marriage
Conflict is inevitable - but how you handle it can transform your marriage. In this episode we discover a powerful spiritual rhythm for communication: Check…
Christian Family LifeWhen The Heart Turns Cold: Breaking Negative Currents The Destroy Marriage
Your spirit sets the thermostat of your home, and your words move the needle. In this episode we uncover the toxic attitudes that quietly rot the roof of your…
Christian Family LifeThe Flavor Within: Cultivating a Spirit That Strengthens Marriage
Before we talk about communication techniques or conflict strategies, we must start with what's inside. What fills your heart will inevitably flavor your…
Christian Family LifeBeyond the Surface: Cultivating a Spirit- Shaped Marriage
Is marriage just a collection of better communication techniques, love languages, and clever hacks? Or is there a deeper spiritual foundation that truly sets…
Christian Family LifeLiving Out Covenant: From Performance to Faith
What does it look like to practice covenant love in the everyday ups and downs of marriage? In this episode, we'll move from theory to practice - exploring how…
Christian Family LifeBeyond Romance: Rediscovering Marriage as Covenant
Is marriage just about love, feelings, and personal happiness -- or is there something deeper holding it all together? In this episode, we uncover the biblical…
Christian Family Life10 Ways To Avoid A Shallow Premarital Experience (Part 2)
Marriage is one of the biggest commitments you will ever make - but how do you know if you are truly ready? In this episode, we unpack the other five key…
Christian Family Life10 Ways To Avoid A Shallow Premarital Experience (Part 1)
Marriage is one of the biggest commitments you'll every make - but how do you know if you're truly ready? In this episode, we unpack 5 of 10 key things every…
Christian Family LifeBefore the Vows: Why Premarital Matters
Marriage isn’t just a contract—it’s a covenant. In this episode, we explore why premarital counseling is more than just a box to check before the wedding day…
Christian Family LifeCultivating Love: Nurturing Your Marital Garden
In this episode, we explore the profound metaphor of gardening as it relates to maintaining a healthy marriage. Just as a garden requires consistent care and…
Christian Family LifeMotherhood & Marriage: Embracing your identity in Chirst
Motherhood is a beautiful journey that can deepen your marriage and transform your faith. In this episode, we explore how becoming a mother can sometimes lead…
Christian Family LifeWhen Expectations Clash: Building Stronger Relationships
Unrealistic Expectations are a silent killer in relationships, even contributing to divorce. Join us as we delve into the common unrealistic expectations we…
Christian Family LifeCrucified Flesh, Spirit-Led Living: Daily Steps Toward Spiritual Growth
Join us as we explore the profound spiritual discipline of daily crucifixion of the flesh and embracing the Spirit's power for growth. Through scripture and…
Christian Family LifeThe Reality of Imperfect Marriages
In today's episode we confront the honest truth: every marriage is made up of two imperfect people. But that doesn't mean it's without hope. We'll talk about…
Christian Family LifeHearts United: The Gospel Within Marriage
Join us on as we explore the sacred union of marriage as a powerful platform for spreading the Gospel. Whether you're engaged, newly married, or celebrating…
Christian Family LifePressing Pause: Renewing the Heart of Your Marriage
In this episode of the Christian Family Life Podcast, we dive deep into the vital importance of pressing pause in your marriage. Life can feel like a…