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Ern and TaTa
After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern…
Episodes
Ern and TaTa**Philly Lifestyles: Marriage Expectations, City Life & Moving to the Suburbs**
Are we expecting too much from our partners, or have relationship standards changed? On this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we're talking marriage…
Ern and TaTaWhat If? | Cheating, Trust & the Questions Married Couples Avoid
What if your spouse cheated just once? Could you forgive them? What if you had to live apart for six months? And if you met your partner today, knowing…
Ern and TaTaThe Price of Providing: Marriage, Fatherhood & Finding Balance
How much of your life are you willing to sacrifice to give your family a better one? On Episode 51 of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we're having one of our most…
Ern and TaTaMarried But Sleeping Apart? The Separate Bedroom Debate | Ern & TaTa
Can married couples sleep in separate bedrooms and still have a happy, healthy marriage? On this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we're discussing the…
Ern and TaTaTrust, Lies & Multiple Wives: The Marriage Conversation
After 15 years of marriage, is trust something you ever stop worrying about? On this episode of Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple dives into one of the biggest…
Ern and TaTaWe Almost Didn't Record! | Marriage Arguments, Communication & Accountability
Every marriage has disagreements. But what happens when the argument starts before the microphones even turn on? On this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast…
Ern and TaTaBattle of the Sexes: 2000s Movie Trivia Gets Competitive!
Ern and TaTa face off in a 2000s movie trivia challenge, with their youngest daughter serving as the surprise host! Can they remember the details from Love &…
Ern and TaTaWe Gave Our Kids Everything… Was It Still Not Enough? | Parenting, Sacrifice & Adult Children
What happens when the children you sacrificed everything for grow up and tell you that you didn’t do enough? Ern and TaTa sit down for a raw conversation about…
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Compatible or Just Comfortable? The Truth After 15 Years
After 15 years together and raising a blended family of nine kids, Ern and TaTa ask a surprisingly difficult question: Are we actually still compatible—or are…
Ern and TaTaThe NEW Rules of Dating: Could You Survive Dating in 2026?
Dating isn’t what it used to be—and Ern & TaTa aren’t sure they’d want any parts of today’s dating world. In this episode, the married couple steps back to the…
Ern and TaTaWe Almost Lost Us: When Grace, Hurt & Accountability Collide in Marriage | Part 2
In Part 2, the conversation gets personal. What began as a discussion about traditional relationships, providing and expectations turns into Ern and TaTa…
Ern and TaTaShould a Man Pay 100%? Traditional Men, Modern Women & Relationship Expectations | Part 1
Should a man pay 100% of the bills? That's the question that starts this episode of Ern & TaTa — but it definitely isn't where the conversation ends. Ern and…
Ern and TaTaWhy Doesn’t Anyone Talk About the GOOD Side of Marriage?
Everybody tells you what you could lose by getting married—but what about everything you could gain? On this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, Ern and TaTa…
Ern and TaTaWhy Did We REALLY Get Married? After 15 Years, We Tell the Truth
Why did you marry the person you're with—and would your answer today be the same as it was when you said “I do”? On this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we…
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Would You Stay? 👀 The Relationship Questions That Could End a Marriage
Would you stay… or would you leave? Ern & Tata put their 15+ year relationship to the test with a series of “Would You Stay?” scenarios — and what starts off…
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How Compatible Are You REALLY? Take This Couples Test With Us 😂❤️
How compatible are you and your partner REALLY? On this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we're doing something different: a 30-question Couples Compatibility…
Ern and TaTa$5,000 a Month Isn’t Enough?! The Marriage Debate Got HEATED! | Ern & Tata
Is $5,000 a month enough when somebody else is already paying ALL your bills? Ern brings the viral conversation surrounding Joy Taylor to Tata and asks a…
Ern and TaTaWe Fell for the Image: When Social Media Love Turns Out to Be a Lie
⚠️ Listener discretion: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and abuse. On this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata…
Ern and TaTaErn and Tata Reactions (Sarah Fontenot)
Can withholding intimacy hurt a marriage—or is sex being given too much importance in relationships? Ern and Tata react to Sarah Fontenot of the “It’s Giving”…
Ern and TaTa**Ern & Tata React to Yada Awakening: Is He Helping Women or Dividing Us?**
Ern & Tata are back with another reaction, and this one turns into a REAL conversation. In this episode, the couple reacts to Yada Awakening and his message…
Ern and TaTaBreaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 2
Breaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 2 | Ern & Tata Podcast We left Part 1 at the one word that changed the entire conversation: OBEY. 😂 Now Ern and Tata are…
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Ern & Tata | Breaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 1
Ern & Tata | Breaking Down the Marriage Vows PT. 1 When you stood at the altar and said “for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health…”…
Ern and TaTaWhen Enough Is Enough
When Enough Is Enough | Ern & Tata Podcast When do you finally reach the point where you say… enough is enough? In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern…
Ern and TaTaBloodline Curses: It Stops With Us
In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata have a deep conversation about bloodline curses, generational trauma, and the patterns families…
Ern and TaTaWe Don't Parent the Same... And That's Okay
Every parent wants the same outcome—raising respectful, responsible, and confident children—but getting there isn't always the same. In this episode of the Ern…
Ern and TaTaThe Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️
The Moment I Knew She Was The One ❤️ | Ern & Tata Podcast How do you know you've found the person you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with? In this…
Ern and TaTaThe Conversations Couples Avoid
In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we dive into one of the biggest issues many relationships face—the uncomfortable silence surrounding the…
Ern and TaTaGirl Dad & Boy Mom | Raising Boys & Girls in a Blended Family | Ern & Tata Podcast
Boy Mom. Girl Dad. One blended family. Countless lessons. ❤️👨👩👧👦 In this episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we dive into the unique experience of raising…
Ern and TaTaThis or That: Couple's Edition 💍 | Get to Know Ern & Tata Like Never Before!
How well do you really know us? In this fun and laid-back episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, we're putting our personalities to the test with a game of This or…
Ern and TaTaThe Hidden Struggles of Being a Female Content Creator
Sometimes the best conversations are the ones you never planned to have. What started as a discussion about whether people are placing unrealistic expectations…
Ern and TaTaBattle of the Sexes, Tv edition
🎬 TV & Movie Trivia Showdown | Who Knows Black TV & Movie Classics Better? | Ern & Tata Podcast Who really knows their Black TV and movie classics? 🤔 In this…
Ern and TaTaZodiac Compatibility
Have you ever judged someone by their zodiac sign? 🤔♎ In this episode of the Ern and Tata Podcast, we're diving into the world of zodiac compatibility and…
Ern and TaTaMarriage Hot Seat PT. 4
Marriage Hot Seat PT. 4 | The Questions Keep Getting Tougher! ❤️🔥 Marriage Hot Seat is back, and this time the heat gets turned up even more! In Part 4 of our…
Ern and TaTaMarriage Hot Seat Part 3
Marriage Hot Seat Part 3 | If Our Marriage Had a Warning Label... What Would It Say? 😂❤️ Welcome back to another episode of the Ern and Tata Podcast! It's time…
Ern and TaTa💍 Rings & Things
💍 Rings & Things | Should Married People Wear Their Wedding Ring? 📱🔐 | Ern and Tata Podcast How important is a wedding ring... really? In this episode of the…
Ern and TaTaIs Love Priceless? 💔❤️ Would You Put a Price on Your Relationship?
Is there a price that could make you question everything you believe about love? In this thought-provoking episode of the Ern & Tata Podcast, Ern and Tata dive…
Ern and TaTaThe Things That Gave Away Our Age 😂
The Things That Gave Away Our Age 😂 | Kids Today Will Never Understand! In this hilarious episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we're taking a trip down memory…
Ern and TaTaWhat Raising Kids Taught Us | Parenting From 5 to 26 👨👩👧👦❤️
In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we're reflecting on one of the greatest journeys of our lives—parenthood. With children ranging from 5 years old to…
Ern and TaTaFamily Court Is In Session! Our Kids Judge Us 👨🏾⚖️😂
Welcome back to the Ern & TaTa Podcast! In this hilarious family episode, we brought the kids to the podcast and let them settle some long-running family…
Ern and TaTaBattle of the Sexes: Music Edition 🎵
It's time for the ultimate showdown! 🎤🔥 In this episode of the Ern and Tata Podcast, the couple goes head-to-head in Battle of the Sexes: Music Edition. From…
Ern and TaTaWe Let Fans Ask ANYTHING... Things Got Hilarious 😂
😂 The fans took over the show... and let's just say they DID NOT hold back! In this hilarious episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we answer some of the…
Ern and TaTa💔 A Time To Heal
💔 A Time To Heal | Ern & TaTa Podcast 💔 How long should healing really take after betrayal? In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we react to a powerful…
Ern and TaTaWhen intimacy leaves the relationship
In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we tackle a topic that many couples experience but don't always talk about openly: What happens when intimacy leaves…
Ern and TaTaKehlani's "Folded" Hit Too Close to Home? | Our Make Up to Break Up Story
Have you ever listened to a song and felt like the artist was telling your story? In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we break down Kehlani's emotional…
Ern and TaTaWhy Do You DO That?! | Married Couple Pet Peeves
What happens when two people who have been together for years finally sit down and talk about all the little things that drive them crazy about each other? 😂…
Ern and TaTaRelationship Advice we'd tell our younger selves...
# **You’d Be Surprised What We’d Tell Our Younger Selves… | Ern & TaTa** In this episode of the **Ern & TaTa Podcast**, the couple sits down for one of their…
Ern and TaTaLiving Together But Feeling Alone? The Truth About Relationships
In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple tackles a question that hits deeper than most people admit… can you be in a relationship and still feel…
Ern and TaTaMichael Jackson, Music Taste & Movie Nights
What happens when two people with completely different music and movie tastes sit down and really talk? 🤔 In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple…
Ern and TaTa“Love Languages”
Everybody says they want love… but do they actually know how to GIVE it? ❤️ In this episode of the Ern and TaTa Podcast, the couple dives deep into the world…
Ern and TaTaSingle Mothers Edition | Mother’s Day Special 💐
Single Mothers Edition | Mother’s Day Special 💐 In this special Mother’s Day episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple dives into the realities, pressures…
Ern and TaTaThe Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 2
We’re back in The Marriage Hot Seat… and this time it gets even deeper. In Part 2, Ern & TaTa tackle the questions that most couples avoid—the ones that force…
Ern and TaTaThe Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 1
What happens when real questions meet a real marriage? 👀 In this episode of Ern & TaTa, we step into The Marriage Hot Seat and answer some of the most honest…
Ern and TaTa“Right Person, Wrong Time”
Can you really meet the right person at the wrong time… or is that just something we tell ourselves to make sense of it? In this episode of Ern & TaTa, the…
Ern and TaTaLove is...
What is love… really? In the debut episode of Ern & TaTa, Ernest and Tyera sit down to define love from their own real-life experience—15 years of marriage, a…