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HisNHers Unfiltered
His & Hers: Unfiltered is where real relationships meet real conversations. Hosted by husband-and-wife duo Joia and Torrence, this isn't your typical relationship podcast. We're bringing honest, unfiltered discussions about love, marriage, dating, family, money, entrepreneurship, pop culture, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. Every week, we sit down with a signature cocktail in hand and tackle the conversations everyone is having behind closed doors but few are willing to have…
Episodes
HisNHers UnfilteredMen Marry Wives, Not Girlfriends! | Are You REALLY Wife Material?
A man can love you, date you, spoil you, and spend YEARS with you... and still never see you as his wife. So what's the difference between a woman he'll date…
HisNHers UnfilteredYou're the Red Flag! When Your Best Traits Turn Toxic
What if the biggest red flag in your relationship... is YOU? 🚩 Everybody loves to talk about toxic partners, red flags, and dealbreakers. But what happens when…
HisNHers UnfilteredWould You Wanna Know? | The Truth That Could Ruin Your Relationship
Everybody says they want honesty in a relationship. But what happens when the truth hurts more than the lie? Would you REALLY want to know something about your…
HisNHers UnfilteredYou Want a Traditional Partner... But Are YOU Traditional?
Everybody wants a traditional partner. But how many people actually want the responsibilities that come with a traditional relationship? Men want feminine…
HisNHers UnfilteredBlack Men vs. Black Women: When Did Love Become a Gender War?
Social media would have you believe Black men and Black women are at war. Black women are "too masculine." Black men are "dusty." Women need to "date out." Men…
HisNHers UnfilteredRelationship Draft: What If You Could Build the Perfect Partner?
What happens when a husband and wife have to build their "perfect partner" from the same 15 relationship traits? In this episode of HisNHers Unfiltered, Joia…
HisNHers UnfilteredYou Don’t Trust Them… So Why Are You Still There?
What happens when trust is broken in a relationship… but you decide to stay? You forgave them. You stayed. But now you’re checking phones, questioning stories…
HisNHers UnfilteredIs It Cheating... If You Never Touched Them?
Can you cheat on your partner without ever physically touching another person? No sex. No kiss. Maybe you've never even been in the same room. But what about…
HisNHers UnfilteredGreat Chemistry... Terrible Compatibility
Have you ever had INSANE chemistry with someone you had absolutely no business building a life with? The attraction is there. The conversation flows. The sex…
HisNHers UnfilteredAre You in Love... or Just Codependent?
We hear it all the time after a breakup or divorce: I'm finally getting back to me. Suddenly they're traveling again, reconnecting with friends, getting back…
HisNHers UnfilteredWhat Would YOU Do?
What would you do if the person you love put you in a situation where there was no obvious right answer? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and…
HisNHers UnfilteredThe Hardest Relationship to Build... Is After Kids
Nobody warns you how much having kids can change your relationship. You can love your children deeply, become amazing parents... and somewhere between the…
HisNHers UnfilteredStrong Black Woman... But At What Cost? (The Conversation We Need to Have)
Being a Strong Black Woman has never been the problem. For many women, strength wasn't a choice—it was survival. But what happens when the very habits that…
HisNHers UnfilteredWhen Little Things Become BIG Things...
They're just little things." We've all said it. The late replies. The lack of affection. The money habits. The family dynamics. The friendships. The…
HisNHers UnfilteredMind Your Business... Until When!?
YouTube & Captivate Description Episode 7: Mind Your Business... Until When? Everyone has heard the phrase "Mind your business." But is there ever a point when…
HisNHers UnfilteredLove Isn't Hard, Maybe Loving YOU Is
In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're challenging one of the biggest myths in modern relationships. Too often we blame dating, marriage, or our…
HisNHers UnfilteredAt What Point Is It YOUR Fault?
Everybody wants a healthy relationship—but are you willing to take an honest look at the role you play? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're having…
HisNHers UnfilteredWould. YOU. Stay?
Everybody says they'd leave... until it's their relationship. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're putting love, loyalty, and dealbreakers to the…
HisNHers UnfilteredIs It love?... Or Just Attachment
Is it love... or just attachment? In Episode 3 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships: the…
HisNHers UnfilteredIs Marriage Still Worth It?
Is marriage still worth it in 2026? With divorce rates, changing relationship dynamics, social media influence, and more people choosing to remain single, it's…
HisNHers UnfilteredWhy Dating in 2026 is So Ghetto
In Episode 1 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're asking the question everybody's been thinking: Why is dating in 2026 so ghetto? From ghosting and situationships…