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Libido Lounge
If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening and what works
Episodes
Libido LoungeWhy Did Our Sex Life Stop? How Couples Get It Back with Dr. Holly Richmond
You used to want each other, and now you pass in the hallway like roommates, both too nervous to be the one who brings it up. Sex therapist Dr. Holly Richmond…
Libido LoungeIs Something From My Childhood Ruining Our Sex Life? with Brooke Bralove
You love your spouse and nothing terrible ever happened to you, yet the moment things turn physical, something in you tightens up and pulls away, and you can’t…
Libido LoungePrivacy or Secrecy? What I'm Not Telling My Spouse with Brooke Bralove
You've started keeping things to yourself, like what you search late at night and what you wish you could say out loud, and you can't tell anymore whether…
Libido LoungeWhat Does a Wife Need to Actually Want Sex? With Caroline Hood (Part 2)
If you've been waiting for the "right moment" to feel like lovers again instead of roommates, and it never seems to come, you're not broken, and you're not…
Libido LoungeWhat Does a Wife Need to Actually Want Sex? With Caroline Hood (Part 1)
If sex has become something you do just so you're not the "bad" partner, or something you keep waiting to feel like doing, you're not broken and you're not…
Libido LoungeHow a Time Limit on the Fight Saves Your Marriage with Kameran Alareqi (Part 2)
You had the same fight again tonight — different words, same wall — and now you're lying back-to-back on your own edges of the bed, wondering when "partners"…
Libido LoungeHow a Time Limit on the Fight Saves Your Marriage with Kameran Alareqi (Part 1)
By now it feels safer to stay quiet than risk another talk that ends with one of you walking off and the other chasing them down the hall. In this episode…
Libido LoungeThe 2 Rules That Beat the Gottman Method in Relationships with Zach Brittle (Part 2)
You've done the date nights and the "we just need to communicate more" talks, and somehow you're still two polite roommates who happen to share a bed. In Part…
Libido LoungeThe 2 Rules That Beat the Gottman Method in Relationships with Zach Brittle (Part 1)
One of you wants more, and has no idea how to bring it up without it landing as pressure or getting quietly turned down, so lately nobody reaches at all. By…
Libido LoungeIs Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 2
You've had this fight so many times you could script both sides, and you're starting to wonder if the two of you are just fundamentally incompatible. In Part…
Libido LoungeIs Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 1
t's the same argument on a loop — different night, same wall, same silence afterward — and you keep thinking if you could just explain it better this time, it…
Libido LoungeDo this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 2
You lie next to someone you love and feel more like co-managers of a household than a couple — and you couldn't name the day it started. In this second part…
Libido LoungeDo this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 1
You're not fighting — but you're not really reaching for each other either, and somewhere between the mortgage and the bedtimes the two of you started living…
Libido LoungeWhy You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 2 with James Bullard
You're lying awake next to them wondering when reaching over became the hardest thing in the room — and whether asking out loud would fix it or finally break…
Libido LoungeWhy You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 1 with James Bullard
The longer you're married, the harder it gets to even identify what you want from each other — let alone say it out loud without it sounding like a complaint…
Libido LoungeThe Attachment Style Quietly Running Your Marriage with Dr. Diane
You're lying six inches apart every night, and it still feels like the loneliest room in the house. This episode explains why that distance usually isn't about…
Libido LoungeThe Four Horsemen Destroying Your Marriage With Dr. Diane Mueller
If you and your partner stopped fighting but also stopped connecting, you're not in a better place — you're in a more dangerous one. This episode breaks down…
Libido LoungeIs It Low T — Or Is Something Else Wrong? with Arthur L. "Bud" II, MD, MBA, FACS
If you've been quietly wondering whether low testosterone is the reason you've stopped wanting to touch your wife — or stopped wanting to at all — this episode…
Libido LoungeMenopause Stole Her Brain — Not Just Her Drive with Andrea Donsky
If your wife has felt like a different person these last few years — foggy, irritable, checked out of the bedroom — and her doctor keeps telling her everything…
Libido LoungeHow One Person Can Fix a Dead Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom
You've been managing the household, the kids, and the calendar together — but somewhere along the way you stopped actually being together, and now it feels…
Libido LoungeYour Marriage Isn't Broken. You're Just Too Close with Dr. Corey Allan
You haven't had a big blowup — you've just quietly become two people sharing a house, and you're not sure when that happened. Dr. Corey Allan explains why the…
Libido LoungeHighly Sensitive People: Your Sensitivity Is a Sex Superpower with Rachel Dorneanu
If you've ever pulled away from your partner not because you don't love them, but because the lighting was wrong, the sheets felt scratchy, or the noise in…
Libido LoungeFeel Sexy Again In Bed and In Your Own Skin with Rebecca Whitman
If you've tried everything and your bedroom is still quiet, this episode is going to feel like someone finally said the thing out loud. You'll walk away…
Libido LoungeWhy He Can't Stay Hard (And How To Actually Fix This) with Jeff Nuziard
You've been lying there wondering if this is just... what marriage becomes now — and that quiet resignation is the most unfair thing, because this episode…
Libido LoungeHe Lost His Drive. Is It His Testosterone? with Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
You've watched him pull away and wondered if something is actually wrong with his body — and you were right to wonder. Dr. Arthur Burnett, Johns Hopkins…
Libido LoungeWhy She Goes Cold When You Try to Flirt with Maureen Pound
If you've stopped flirting with your partner because it never lands — or you feel like you need a manual just to send a text — you're not broken, and neither…
Libido LoungeShe Never Finishes. He Finishes Too Fast. Here's Why With Dr. Diane Mueller
She's been faking it. He's been finishing too fast. And neither of you has said it out loud yet. After this episode, you'll understand the exact arousal…
Libido LoungeShe's Not Broken. He Just Doesn't Know How Yet with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael
If sex has started to feel like something that works for him and not really for you or you're the one quietly wondering why she never seems to get there you're…
Libido LoungeWe Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S
You've been stewing over something your partner did — or maybe you're the one who did something and keeps telling yourself it didn't count — and either way…
Libido LoungeShe Used Fantasy to Finish. Here's How She Stopped with Sharon Marie Scott
If you've ever needed your mind to "go somewhere else" to finish or you feel weirdly absent from your own pleasure you are not broken, and you are not alone…
Libido LoungeTips on How to Dirty Talk without Being Embarrassed with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Discover the ultimate secret to talking dirty with confidence. Talking dirty can be a great way to spice up your relationship and create a deeper connection…
Libido LoungeBoyfriend Edition #4: Penis Pumps for ED, Do They Help? with Mike Kohl
Curious about men’s pumps and how they actually work? In this video, we break down everything you need to know about men’s pumps, what they are, how they’re…
Libido LoungeBoyfriend Edition #3: Everything You Need to Know About Men's Pumps with Mike Kohl
Curious about men’s pumps and how they actually work? In this video, we break down everything you need to know about men’s pumps, what they are, how they’re…
Libido LoungeMALE Enhancement & Biohacking: What They DON'T Tell You! with Sam Itshaki
Male enhancement and biohacking are everywhere right now, but what aren’t they telling you? In this video, we pull back the curtain on the promises, the…
Libido LoungeHow To End Arguments Fast with Powerful Statements with Elisha Lee
We often don’t realize how small, unspoken assumptions act as a hidden obstacle that quietly pulls us apart from the people we love most. In this video, we…
Libido LoungeThe Surprising Effects on Women and MEN Who Stand By Them in MENOPAUSE! with Zora Benhamou
Menopause doesn’t just affect women; it also has a surprising impact on the men who stand by them. In this video, we explore how menopause can change energy…
Libido LoungeBoyfriend Edition #2: Why Exhausted Dads Struggle in Bed
Being a great dad changes your life in powerful ways, but it doesn’t mean your sex life has to suffer. In this video, we talk honestly about how fatherhood…
Libido LoungeBoyfriend Edition #1: The Truth About Male Desire No One Says Out Loud
Unlock the secrets of what drives a man's deepest sexual desire in this revealing video. Explore the underlying factors that ignite passion and intimacy, and…
Libido LoungeYour Human Design Type Could Be Affecting Your Libido and Relationship with Hannah Schwoerr
Discover the secrets of your Human Design and how it influences your relationships energy. In this video, we delve into the world of Human Design, exploring…
Libido LoungeWhy Your Trauma is Blocking Your Desire (And How to Write It Away) with Kayla MacDonald
Are you ready to discover the shocking truth about how fanfiction and imagination can completely transform your healing journey and your sex life? In this…
Libido LoungeYour Diet Might Be Killing Your Desire (Here's What It Means) with Jenn Trepeck
Could your diet be quietly sabotaging your libido? The foods you eat and sometimes the ones you avoid have a bigger impact on your hormones, energy, and desire…
Libido LoungeThe Shocking Link Between EMOTIONAL Safety and Your Libido with Dr. Diane Mueller
Discover the shocking truth about how broken trust and not feeling safe can impact your libido and relationships. In this video, we'll explore the connection…
Libido LoungeThe REAL Causes of Low Libido in Women (Nobody Talks About #3) with Susan Morgan Taylor
Discover the surprising impact of feeling safe and relaxed on your libido. When we feel secure and at ease, our bodies respond in remarkable ways, influencing…
Libido LoungeWhat Helps Men Last Longer During Sex with Kevin Anthony
If you’re a man who wishes he could last longer during sex or a woman who wants to better understand and support your partner, this video will help both of…
Libido LoungeHow to Heal Sexual Shame and Reignite Desire in a Long-Term Relationship with Jannine MacKinnon
So many of us carry hidden shame around sex and our bodies, often without realizing where it comes from. It’s not always the big, obvious traumas that hold us…
Libido LoungeWhy Sex Gets Better After 40 (When You Lead with Your Heart) with Tarisha Tourok
They say sex changes after 40, and it’s true, but not in the way most people think. In this video, we explore why intimacy can actually become deeper, more…
Libido LoungePelvic Pain Stealing Pleasure and Intimacy? Here’s How to Take It Back with Jana Danielson
Struggling with pelvic pain that’s affecting your intimacy? You’re not alone, and the good news is, there are practical steps you can take to find relief while…
Libido LoungeWhy Couples Struggle to Stay Present During Sex with Violet Lange
Have you ever found yourself shutting down during sex (or noticed your partner doing the same) and wondered why? In this video, we talk about what’s really…
Libido LoungeHow Unequal Sex Drives Lead to Betrayal with Britton and Carolee Beckham
When one partner wants sex all the time and the other doesn’t, it can create deep tension, and sometimes even lead to betrayal. In this video, we talk honestly…
Libido LoungeThe Real Reason Women Fake It with Jenny Braxton
Let’s be honest, a lot of women have faked it at some point. But why does it really happen? In this video, we talk about the real reasons women pretend to…
Libido LoungeWhat’s REALLY Stopping Women From Fully Enjoying Pleasure with Dr. Jenn Kennedy
What if women’s pleasure has been misunderstood all along, and what if hidden beliefs and cultural conditioning are the real reasons so many women struggle to…
Libido LoungeWhy Being a Nice Guy Isn’t Helping You | Jason Lange Explains the Truth
Are you struggling with Nice Guy Syndrome? Always putting others first, avoiding conflict, and trying to please everyone, yet still feeling stuck in love…
Libido LoungeWhy Mediocre Relationships Don’t Work | Honest Talk with Matt and Sheri Salis
Many couples don’t even notice when their relationship starts slipping into routine and mediocrity, until the spark feels completely gone. In this conversation…
Libido LoungeWhy Secure Lovers Thrive (and Others Struggle in Silence) With Aubrey Aust
Some couples seem to grow stronger and more connected over time, while others quietly drift apart and struggle without ever addressing the issues. In this…
Libido LoungeThe Hidden Link Between Pelvic Pain and ED (And How to Fix It) with Dr. Reshma Salvi
Learn how to fix pelvic pain and erectile dysfunction naturally with this one simple yet powerful technique! Pelvic pain and erectile dysfunction can be…
Libido LoungeUnsexy Habits That Quietly Ruin Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea
Are you unintentionally sabotaging your relationship or losing your libido without knowing why? In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Emily Jamea to talk about…
Libido LoungeWhy Great Sex Dies When You Stop Talking To Your Partner with Blair Dunkley
Are you feeling disconnected from your partner, and is it affecting your physical intimacy? Emotional disconnection is a silent killer of relationships, and it…
Libido LoungeWhat Every Woman Should Know About Her Desire Levels with Dr. Iris Crawford
Are you struggling with low libido and wondering if hormones could be the answer? In this video, we're diving into the world of hormone regulation and how it…
Libido LoungeCan Kink Improve Your Relationship? | Real Talk with Amanda Dames
What if exploring kink could actually improve your relationship? In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Diane Mueller and Amanda Dames unpack the surprising…
Libido LoungeWhat's REALLY Killing Intimacy in Our Relationships Today? with Laura How
In today's society, we often hear that intimacy is dying in relationships, but what's really behind this decline? Is it the rise of social media, the increase…