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Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
The go-to podcast for Christian women who are ready to heal their hearts, shed their shame, and come home to freedom in Christ.
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Do you ever wish someone would truly see you, not look past you or through you?
Are you lying awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity...or if it’s time to let go?
Are you exhausted from Googling answers, trying to fix things, and still feeling unheard, unseen, and stuck in shame
You’re not alone. And you’re in the right…
Episodes
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
48 | Do You Have A Plan For A Successful Marriage? My 6 Tips To Help You Start
I had a mentor ask me a really great question: What do you think you need to do next? And my own answer really surprised me. I needed a plan in several areas…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
47 | LIVE COMMUNITY CHAT: Growing Relationally, Spiritually, & Emotionally
For the first time ever, I'm giving you a sneak peek into a weekly coffee chat I hosted. You women bring so much experience and wisdom to the table, and I'm so…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
46 | 3 Things I'm Doing for Valentine's Day Post Affair
It's that time of year! Roses, hearts, love, teddy bears and chocolate, and- emotional overload. During the affair, holidays were always a disconnecting…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
45 | Help! I'm Stuck In The Past Even During Worship
Maybe you've heard the verse "There is no more condemnation" (Romans 8:1) or "Throw off your former way of life" (Ephesians 4:22), but for some reason, the…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
44 | "I Don't Need Community" & Other Lies We Believe
You were created for connection. But somewhere along the line, your Enemy tried to steal it. He tried to disconnect you from others, from God, and even from…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
43 | Missing Your Affair Partner? What Does That Mean You Should Do?
Jumping in today to a difficult question and answer- Is it okay if I still miss my affair partner? And the (short) answer is- yes! But then I would challenge…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
42 | 3 Things I Do To Keep Prayer Real; Join Our Fervent Book Study!
Do you know you know you should be praying for yourself and your marriage, but you just can't drag your feet to your prayer closet anymore? Have you started to…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
41 | Time For A New Accountability Partner? What To Look For And Avoid
Looking for accountability? Let's connect over HERE! You are not alone! Need access to a coach on demand? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
40 | Lessons I’ve Learned In 6 Months Of Going Public; Should You?
Happy 6 months Podcast Family! Today I take a few minutes to reflect on how I decided to share my story publically, a few things I've learned along the way…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
39 | Who Am I? And Where Am I? Answers in Colossians 3!
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you! One of the first questions…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
38 | From My Heart to Yours: Finding Healing and Freedom From Sin AND Shame
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you! Sister, Do you resonate…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
37 | When You’re Tempted to Relapse: Lean Into the Uncomfortable Questions
Let's be honest, healing is sort of like an onion. Just when you think it's going to be smooth sailing, then it's time to peel back another layer. Today, I…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
36 | Slow Down! HURRY Is Killing Your Marriage
I get it: the day starts, you get everyone out the door, you're off to work, then you're home for homework, dinner, baths, and bed, and then you crash into bed…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
35 | Level Up: How God Used Network Marketing Get Me Out of The Affair
Listen up: God used my passion for Network Marketing to rescue me from the affair. What?! How's that for a business strategy? Today I share the part of my…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
34 | Feeling Triggered? Don’t Get Emotional Constipation!
What do you get when you squeeze an orange? What do you get when you are put under pressure? Not a joke here- whatever is inside, comes out! Today let's talk…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
33 | 5 Things I Learned About Parenting & Discipline Because of My Affair Recovery
What do you think about when someone says "God is Father?" What do you see when you picture God's facial expression towards you? Then what if I held a mirror…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
32 | Let’s Set Some Goals! And Learn The Habits To Actually Reach Them
Grab your journal for today's episode- it's filled with juicy questions and tips on creating the habits you need to actually reach your goals. Whether you have…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
31 | How the Bible Came Alive after 20 Years: 6 Tips to Help You Too
Can you relate? You sit down to read the Bible and it's silent. You don't know where to start. You aren't sure you believe it anyway. So much of it is…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
30 | 2 Choices You MUST Make to Rebuild Your Marriage and Life
One thing I learned from my coach early on in my journey was that being decisive helps expedite your healing process. Make the decision, choose your choice…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
29 | My Rock Bottom Story Was God’s Ultimate Rescue Plan
Friend, I'm going to spare you the long introduction today. I did something I never dreamed I was capable of. And then I finally hit my rock bottom. BUT GOD…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
28 | God Showers His Compassion on Us: 6 Ways to Practice Self-Compassion
How often do you use the word compassion? What about self-compassion? What if I told you it was critical to your healing journey?! Today I dive into what it…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
27 | Why Am I Not Praying More Fervently? 3 Insights to Refresh Your Prayer Life
I was super convicted this week about a situation I should have been covering in prayer. But instead, I found myself passive, saying, "God knows my heart, and…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
26 | 3 Habits I’m Using to Grow in My Spiritual Healing and Emotional Healing
Hey friend, Do you ever feel stuck in a rut spiritually? We all do. Maybe it's a dry season. Or God feels especially quiet. Or you're trying to rebuild your…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
25 | The Command ”Give Thanks to The Lord” Applies to You Too, Sister!
Sister, Do you ever read the Bible and think, "Yes! That's so me!" Or the opposite, "There is NO way I could do that!" You may fall in one of those two camps…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
24 | Surrounded by Misery, Destruction, and People Who Love to Argue and Fight? God Has a Word For You!
Friend, Did you remember there's a war going on all around us? Satan is out for your family, your attention, and any part of your life he can get. But the good…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
23 | Is Instagram Hurting Your Marriage? 5 Warning Signs and What You Can Do About It
Hey Sister-Friend, When was the last time you checked your phone settings and saw the amount of time you spend on social media? Does that number shock you?…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
22 | Feel Uncomfortable Because Your Actions Don’t Match Your Values? Listen to Your Cognitive Dissonance!
Come join the NEW community! You are not alone, sister. Join like-minded women from around the world, looking to encourage, inspire, and rebuild their…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
21 | Feeling Overwhelmed After Confessing an Affair? Prioritize These 3 Things Now!
Come join the NEW community! Find accountability, laughter, and connection with Jesus-loving women just like you. You are not alone!…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
20 | Things We’re Doing Today to Mature and Grow Emotionally as a Christian Married Couple
Come join the NEW community! Come laugh, learn, and connect with Jesus-loving women just like you. You are not alone <3…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
19 | Take Control of Your Emotional Healing With This Simple Self Coaching Model
Hey Friend, I was told once, "You can't be upset at the results you don't have because of the work you didn't do." Wow! Although that advice was about…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
18 | Trying to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage? 3 Tips to Motivate Your Decision-Making
Sister Friend, Are you struggling to rebuild trust with your husband? You're committed to your marriage, but you're not sure exactly what to do or how to keep…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
17 | Words We Never Thought We’d Say: Similarities Between Affairs, Addictions, Recovery, and Healing
Girlfriend! Grab your favorite (non-alcoholic) drink- I can't wait for you to meet my friend Ashley! She is a Sober Coach for people trying to break unhealthy…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
16 | The Intimacy Tree: What the Christian Marriage Needs in Order to Flourish
Hey Friend, Have you ever wondered what exactly a healthy marriage looks like, anyway? You know the movies are fake, but what's left for real then? Is there…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
15 | Guilty or Innocent? How God’s Forgiveness Changes Your Clothes and Your Life with Darnell Wilson
Hey Friend, I am so excited for you to meet Darnell Wilson today! He currently serves as Director at Northeast Ohio Impact, unleashing the Gospel to local…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
14 | 10 Date Ideas If You Want Connection As A Married Couple Who Is Healing
Hey Friend, So maybe I convinced you in the last episode to seriously consider spending 10-15 hours a week with your spouse. How is that going for you so far?…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
13 | How To Spend 10-15 Hours a Week With Your Husband to Rebuild Intimacy and Trust
Friend, Do you ever hear recommendations and think, there's NO way I could do that! I used to think that when someone told me- healthy marriage have couples…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
12 | What if I Feel Shame When the Bible Talks About Adultery? How I Found Freedom
Mama, True confession: there are still parts of the Bible that I do NOT want to read because I'm afraid of the shame and conviction creeping back up! Proverbs…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
11 | Making ”The Joy Of The Lord Is My Strength” True For You, Mama!
Friend, We could all use a little more JOY in our life, wouldn't you agree? There are enough things fighting for our attention between social media, the news…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
10 | Pt 2 Lamenting as a Christian Because God Feels Absent
Hey there Sister! After wrapping up Episode 8, lamenting your circumstances, God revealed even more depth to me as I saw connections between Psalm 42, Psalm…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
9 | Stop Faking the Holidays, Mama, Celebrate Authentically
Happy 4th of July Mama! Do you have party plans today? Are you gathering with friends and family? Or are you trying to avoid the crowds and have a quiet…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
8 | Pt 1 Why Discouragement is Not What You Think It Is! The Truth About Lamenting and Finding Hope
Hey sister, Are you in a season of really hard emotions? Do you find yourself using words like frustrated, discouraged, hopeless, and lonely? Be encouraged-…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
7 | Marriage is NOT 50/50, 3 Bible Verses About Your Effort as a Wife
Hello friend! Have you heard the cliche, "Marriage should be 50/50 with each person doing their part." Or maybe even, "Marriage is 100/100 with each person…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
6 | Want to Know Your Husband Better? Get to Know Yourself First to Improve Your Communication
Hey sister! Have you ever realized how much time people spend, pretenting to be someone they're not? Many times it's in the public eye like politicians or on…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
5 | Keep Moving Forward - 4 Ways I Sought Healing in My Affair Recovery
Hey girlfriend, Today I'm talking about feeling stuck. I spent a lot of years claiming I didn't know what to do, when in reality I was procrastinating and…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
4 | Radical Honesty- 4 Ways To Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage
Hey friend! Some practical tips coming at you today about rebuiding trust. Let's face it- without trust, there's no real relationship. And what I've found is…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
3 | Shame Off Of You- A Look At How God Pursues You Without Judging You
Hey friend! Can I tell you a story today? It's a story about shame and hiding. And the surprising twist of grace. You see, shame just breeds more shame, so…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
2 | Does An Affair Mean Divorce - 5 Questions to Ask Before You Call it Quits
Hey friend! Have you ever used the D-word in conversation with your hubby? You know… (Divorce)? Marriage feels hopeless now, and you’re sure it’s beyond…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
1 | The First Step to Getting Out of Secrecy - Find And Create Safe Spaces in Your Life
Hey friend! Are you, or someone that you know, stuck in an affair and wondering how to get out? Who can I talk to, and where can I go where I won’t be judged…
- Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery
Welcome to the Intimacy After Infidelity Podcast! For Christian Women Whose Marriage Has Been Affected By An Affair
Do you feel stuck in a marriage that feels broken? Are you trying to end the affair once and for all? Finally ready to stop carrying the secrets and shame that…