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The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Subscribe: >240 more episodes! creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe Buy my newest book Sex Still Matters! https://link.amazon/B0iPsrl9x Clinical psychologist discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. samantha@drpsychmom.com Secret…
Episodes
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce
If you're finding this very difficult, then here's a breakdown of why and what to do! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less
Some guys go beyond "working on their marriage" and think they can somehow "hack" their wife to make her constantly desire them. This is silly and makes your…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?
Well, I guess you'd have to ask yourself... what is he getting in bed? This episode includes a whole bunch of extra info and includes various situations where…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff
Someone asked, "As the higher drive spouse in my marriage I do most of the initiating and hear “no” pretty frequently. Some no’s feel a lot more like a…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!
What can you do RIGHT NOW to make this an awesome Valentine's Day, and why "Hallmark holiday" is a foolish term that translates to "I'm closed minded…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)
If you use confident momentum, your wife will have sex... You're cultivating that culture! When in Rome... Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex
Listen to this episode to save you from later heartache!! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers?
I'll tell you what they think it means... but why if I were your therapist, I would tell you to watch out! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But...
Doing chores may not literally act as foreplay, but it certainly does turn women on in one sense. Listen and learn! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online?
You may be able to tell what I think of this from the title but listen up to hear why waiting months to have sex with a new partner is not very smart if you…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings?
In a post about why some women get "treated like princesses" (https://www.drpsychmom.com/treated-like-a-princess/) I discuss how some women feel that it is…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage
This is very common, although people tend to be surprised by it. One person works on their anxiety, anger, depression, or anything else, and instead of the…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives?
It sure does! I see this in my virtual office every day. But, this is not linear progress, and it's based on a whole bunch of variables. Listen and see if you…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids
This is very common in women who have undiagnosed or unrecognized depression, anxiety, and/or childhood trauma. Listen to see if it may resonate with you more…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
The Empathic Rupture Of Never Getting To Stay Home With Kids
This is more common than you think! In many couples, the woman deeply regrets not having been able to stay home with babies and small kids. In this episode, I…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
"Spirit Week" And Constant School Emails Are Unfair To Kids And Parents Alike
I see constant school contact and need for parental involvement massively stress many marriages in the clients I work with. And, if you're a child in a…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
"Why Can Hookers Do It Multiple Times A Day And Your Wife Can't?"
This is a real question I got on social media. I answer it because some guys don't understand the differences. For female listeners... this question can show…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
If Your Husband Takes Over The Emotional And The Physical Labor... Why?
This is something I wonder about constantly when I see some young men on social media talking about taking over the emotional and physical labor of parenting…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Financial Values And How They Affect Your Relationship
Many couples struggle with understanding their own and/or their partner's larger financial values, and with communicating these in a way that can increase…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Depression Looks Like In Men
When men are depressed, it often doesn't look like sadness or tearfulness. What does it look like, why your wife isn't "the problem," how to get your husband…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
The More Successful A Guy Is, The More Coachable He Is
What I have learned from working with highly successful guys... and how this can impact the average guy and his marriage! Defensiveness is BAD and affects your…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Do Cute Parenting Stuff With Your Wife Before It's Too Late!
The cute parenting activity era is finite, although it doesn't feel that way when you're in it. Here is what your wife likely wants from you, why, and what…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Younger Working Husbands Are Condescended To The Way Stay At Home Moms Used To Be
In younger, more liberal couples, I have been seeing the inverse of the prior sexist view where stay at home moms were condescended to. Instead, the men are…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What's Your Flexibility Quotient?
I came up with this construct in my secret Facebook group (join us, info below!) and I discuss what it is and why it's so important to think about this in…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Nobody Wants To Be The Asshole.... AKA Why Couples Counseling Works
In my most recent subscriber episode, I discussed how "nobody wants to be the asshole" is a major reason that couples counseling works. Here, I discuss why…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
You May Miss Your Wife Pursuing You To Spend More Time With Her... When She Stops
Men who are avoidant attachment and are on the younger end, e.g. under 35, tend to feel very stifled and irritated by their preoccupied attachment wife's…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Blowjobs Fall Off In Later Marriage
Most men have no idea why this happens, or think it's due to the woman just caring less about them than she did at first. Today's episode dispels these myths…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Benefits Of Perimenopause and Menopause
In this episode, I discuss the positives of this natural life transition, how hormones affect women at these stages, which men are more vs less accepting about…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Wish Lists For Holiday Gifts: Good Idea Or Dumpster Fire?
Does your partner want you to just buy stuff off their wish list for the holidays? Do you wish they just bought you stuff you ask for instead of trying to be…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Having More Sex Can Get You Out Of Doing Shit
If you are a woman, and very busy, having more sex can be your efficiency hack! Listen for some truth bombs about love, sex, men, and marriage! Get ready to…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
The Real Reason Women Don't Respect Preoccupied Attachment Guys
What women really think about preoccupied attachment guys, and an epiphany you can have about your own thought process if you are one of these guys. It makes…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Does Ovulation Feel Like For Women?
How do women change before, during, and after ovulation? Listen and learn! Including: why most guys don't understand this, and why women don't even know it's…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Puberty And Menopause Are Two Normal Stages Of Life
Often, people forget that life is filled with stages, and an inability to accept change is associated with depression, anger, and poor relationships. In this…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When You Can't Deal With Your Wife's Changed Feelings About Sex
Many guys want their wives to say only a set number and type of things about sex, which cannot include "I am not as into sex anymore," or "I used to do other…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Most People Don't Regret Divorce
I don't often see clients who regret at not being with an ex anymore, although of course there are a lot of feelings of sadness and regret about the divorce as…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Therapy Hasn't Worked For Your Sexless Marriage
All the reasons that therapy hasn't helped your sexless marriage yet! What to look for in a therapist, how to support therapy adjunctively with other things…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
The "Sex Is Special" Philosophy Really Bites Married Couples In The Ass
Practice makes perfect makes sense in every arena... including your sex life! Then why does this seems counterintuitive to many women... especially the ones…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When You're Successful At Everything Except Relationships
Many of my most highly successful clients are confused by the fact that they are able to excel in all arenas... except their marriages. Today I'll discuss why…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Stop Taking Things Personally
One major issue that many people have is caring too much about what others think. One huge way that this manifests is taking the actions of others personally…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Is Your Partner Asexual?
What asexuality is, how it's different from what people think it is, and how this information can shed new light on issues in your intimate relationship!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Is Your Wife So Stressed By Teenage Kids?
Teenage kids and why they make your wife so upset! Includes: hormones on both sides, control, anxiety, age, and more! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Some Guys Spend Way Less Time With Their Wives Than You Do....But Those Wives Aren't Mad Like Yours Is
This is such a simple fix that you won't even believe it if you don't try it. Can't say much more without a spoiler so listen to the episode! Note that it will…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Why Your Wife Has No Fantasies... Or None She Will Tell You
Why she doesn't.... or why she may not tell them to you! On this episode, we cover who may and who may not have fantasies, and what you may be doing to…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Does Your Highly Sensitive Wife Really Want To Hear?
What does your wife really want to hear and why? If you're not a romantic guy, this can help! Subscribe if you love the DPM show!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When Your (Relatively Young) Wife Thinks That A Sexless Marriage Should Be Fine With You
Increasingly, younger (under 35) women believe this is okay and in fact the only ethical solution to their desire not to have sex. I see this constantly and…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Your Sex Drive Isn't Dependent On Your Wife, So Why Would Hers Be Dependent On Anything You Are Or Do?
So many guys take their wife's low sex drive or lack of desire at times (even within the context of an average sex drive) personally... and manosphere content…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When Your "Mr. Perfect" Husband Makes You (The "Crazy Wife") Feel Emotionally Unprotected
When you're in a "Mr. Perfect And His Crazy Wife" dynamic (May 20, 2022 episode https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/episodes/Couples-You-Meet…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Women Feel About Their Kids Growing Up
This is a very difficult time for many, bittersweet for others, and a relief for still others. Men generally have no real sense of the complexity of their…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
You Don't Need To Be Rich Or Super Hot Or Tall To Find Women... Obviously
Some guys say that women will only want to date tall guys, or rich guys, or super hot guys, and this allows them to wallow in their negativity and not really…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When You Can't Admit You're Anxious
So many people think they are just really smart, or conscientious, or realistic... but they are really suffering from Generalized Anxiety Disorder. Here's why…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
"Getting Emotionally Closer Will Lead To Sex" Only Works For Preoccupied Attachment Women
Many, many of my couples clients end up in my office after spending years with other couples therapists who told them, "When you get emotionally closer, the…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
"The More Partners A Woman Has, The Less Special She Thinks Sex Is!"
This was a comment on a post on my Facebook page, and I hear it all over social media! Here's why it's ridiculous and goes against everything I see... along…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
How Divorce Changes Your Self-Concept!
Many people experience deep and transformative changes to their self-concept and identity after divorce. Here's what I see in my practice (as well as…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
What Does "A Great Sex Life When Dating" Mean?
A lot of people tell me their partner's lack of sex drive now is surprising and they never could have expected it, because "sex was great when we were dating."…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When Your Partner's Energy Level Changes After Marriage
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When One Person Is Always Catching The Other In Little Lies
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
When You're More Comfortable In The Role Of Being Your Parents' Child Than Being An Adult/Partner
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Which Men Have Trouble Empathizing With Women?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Do You Really Love Your Husband?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes!…
- The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Happy Wife, Happy Life?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes!…