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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped…
Episodes
- The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
102. Ways To Handle The Stressful Holidays Around Extended Family Part 1
If you are like most people, the holidays are a time that causes a lot of stress and division in their marriage. Even those couples that don't drink wish they…
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101. 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Raising An Issue With Your Spouse
It is so easy to react swiftly to conflict and we often say things in the heat of the moment we regret or wish we could take back after. Often this quick…
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100. If You Want To Make Love To Me In The Bedroom, You Have To First Make Love To Me In The Kitchen
Our 100th episode! It has been an amazing ride and we are so excited to share this episode with you. We recently listened to a comedian talking about sex and…
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99. Are The Roles In Your Marriage Causing Conflict? Traditional vs Modern Roles In Marriages Today
It is common to think there are certain roles in marriage for males and females. For many years, traditional roles were common where the woman was responsible…
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98. How Envy And Jealousy Can Negatively Impact You And Your Marriage
We are bombarded from every conceivable angle portraying that if we don't have a certain lifestyle, car, money, marriage, house, or body, then we cannot be…
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97. What Are Your Communication Styles?.. And How Knowing Your Style Can Change Your Marriage
We talk often about how communication is probably the most important aspect in marriage and how couples can resolve almost any issue with open and honest…
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96. How To Divorce Proof Your Marriage And Thrive In Your Relationship
Marriages are being attacked from every angle in this day and age and people give up so easily when things aren't going right. We see this with the divorce…
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95. Why Many Christians Struggle With Sex And Embracing Their Sexuality.. And What To Do About It
As a culture, many Christians are often very uncomfortable talking about sex in their marriages (and families). In many households, sex is not talked about…
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94. 8 Ways To Make Your Marriage More FUN... And Why It Is So Important
We often think that to transform our marriage into something great requires a lot of effort, or big changes to be implemented, but the truth is, it is the…
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93. Getting The Toxic People Out Of Your Life... And Why You Need To Do It
Most of us probably have people in our lives that are toxic to us and bring us down. Not only do they have a negative impact on us individually, but often that…
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92. Why Laughing And Humor Is So Important To Your Marriage And Long Term Well Being
You've heard the saying "laughter is the best medicine" and for many reasons, that is true. There are a lot of physical, emotional and mental benefits of…
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91. ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT EPISODES YOU NEED TO LISTEN TO: Is Your Screen Addiction Costing You Your Freedom... And Your Relationship?
We have discussed in previous episodes the impact social media and our addictions to our screens is having on our marriages and relationships. In this episode…
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90. Is Your Marriage Going Through Tough Times?... This Amazing And Inspiring True Story Will Give You Hope
In each of our marriages, we ALL experience hard times. We fall short and make mistakes. And sometimes those mistakes seem too big to overcome, or too climb…
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89. You Won't Believe The Sexual Intimacy Excuses From Our Survey...It's Time To Stop Justifying The Reasons Not To Be Intimate
It is amazing the excuses people give for not having sex in their marriage! We did a instagram poll and asked the question "Do You Find It Hard To Find Time…
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88. Financial Infidelity: Our (Nick and Amy) Personal And Painful Experience That Almost Ended Our Marriage.
What is financial infidelity? Financial infidelity is engaging in financial decisions such as spending, saving or acquiring debt and doing it without your…
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87. The Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course That Is A Must Have For Couples That Are Wanting Better Sexual intimacy In Their Relationship
In this episode Nick and Amy announce their new Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course (that will change your life). This course focuses specifically on sexual…
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86. Are You Falling Out Of Love? It's Not Too Late To Get The Passion And Intimacy Back
Research shows around 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. That is a staggering statistic! Why is this happening and what is causing…
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85. What Key Element(s) Are You Missing In Your Relationship?
Many of us often wonder "what are the key things couples that have good marriages do differently?" In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the key elements of a…
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84. The Biggest Parenting Mistake You Can Make That Could Negatively Impact Your Marriage
Every parent want's their children to be happy in life, to do well and be successful. So what parent wouldn't do everything they can to make their kid's life…
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83. How To Have A Positive Marriage In A Negative World (And Enjoy The Journey Together)
We all go into marriage with expectations, and then we quickly find out it is much more difficult and different than expected with many disappointments along…
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82. How Your Husband Really Feels When You Reject Him Sexually
According to MANY Divorce Attorneys, lack of intimacy is rated the #2 reason for divorce. #1 is most often infidelity.. which can often be the result of #2…
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81. What Is Ok, And Not Ok In The Marriage Bed: This One Question Will Give You The Answer
Sex is an AMAZING thing that can bring couples closer together, strengthen their marriage and be incredible for both of spouses if they are implementing good…
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80. Turn Your Spouse On! Our Bedroom Tips To Help Get Your Spouse In The Mood
Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive…
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79. Want To Know The Secret To A Happy Marriage? Find Out The Things That Good Husbands Do Differently
You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've…
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78. Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fighting
We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in…
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77. 7 Myths That Keep Couples From Having More Frequent And Fulfilling Sexual Intimacy
Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples…
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76. The Hidden Intimacy Killers In Your Marriage That You May Not Even Be Aware Of
In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the…
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75. How Setting Boundaries In Your Marriage Can Stop The Battle's In Your Relationship
Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be…
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74. 8 Bedtime Routines To Help Couples Connect Before Going To Bed
It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their…
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73. 20 Important Things We Have Learned In Our 20 Years Of Marriage
We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a…
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72. Our Sexual Intimacy Poll Answers From Husbands And Wives
In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least…
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71. The 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You
Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things…
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70. The 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You
In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to…
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69. Guys, Here Are The Secrets On How To Get Your Wife To Want More Sexual Intimacy!
How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over…
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68. The Modern Day Libido Killer That Is Getting In The Way Of Sexual Intimacy
The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In…
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67. Marriage 911- A Lifeline For Your Marriage
Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy"…
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66. Choose Her Everyday with Bryan Reeves
Nick and Amy interview Bryan Reeves who is the author of a new book called "Choose Her Everyday (or leave her)" about the importance of choosing your spouse…
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65. Why Does This One Sex Word Scare Christians?
About a year and a half ago, we had a lady write to us and say she would never be using the Ultimate Intimacy App again based upon an article we had on the…
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64. How To Have A Strong Marriage After The Kids Move Out
Since 1990 the divorce rate among couples between the ages of 55-64 has more than doubled! Why is this happening? Aren't the years after the kids move out, and…
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63. The 10 differences between happy and unhappy couples that you can implement in your marriage
We have all seen couples that look like they have an amazing relationship and have everything together and we wonder what their secrets are and yearn for that…
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62. How Men Can Build Sexual Confidence
A man's sexual confidence can be negatively impacted for many reasons, and when a man looses his sexual confidence, it can effect many aspects of his life…
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61. Why It Is Vital For Couples To Be On The Same Page With Raising Kids
In marriage, more often than not couples come from different backgrounds and have different experiences growing up which shapes "their" parenting styles and…
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60. How Women Can Build Sexual Confidence
"Your level of sexual confidence determines your capacity to experience intimacy both in and out of the bedroom. Sexual confidence is actually crucial to a…
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59. Understanding The Sex Languages For Better Sexual Intimacy!
In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Dr. Emily Jamea on the podcast. Emily is a certified sex therapist and LMFT with Revive Therapy and…
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58. 10 Mistakes Women Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy
Last week we tackled the 10 mistakes men make in marriage, now it's time for the women! A ton of research and preparation was put in for this episode (just…
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57. 10 Mistakes Men Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy
Let's be real, sometimes we as guys say dumb things or make stupid mistakes in our marriage. We often don't do things intentionally, but sometimes the things…
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56. Is It Healthy For Couples To Have Arguements?
Many married couples think if they are fighting or arguing, then they have an unhealthy marriage, but this is not the case. In this episode Nick and Amy…
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55. 10 Steps To Rekindle Sexual Chemistry And Bring Back The Excitement, Passion And Connection
Do you feel like your sexual chemistry between you and your spouse has dwindled or is no longer existent? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss and share 10…
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54. Want A Better Marriage? Your Kids Can't Come First
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss a great article by focusonthefamily.com about why your marriage and relationship with your spouse has to be priority above…
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53. Why Comparing Your Marriage And Life To Others Can Destroy Yours!
Do you find yourself comparing your marriage and life to others? Do you envy other marriages, families, vacations, and lifestyle and wonder why yours isn't…
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52. The DNA differences between a man and woman... and why it works!
As men and women, we are biologically different...and that is how God made us and wants it to be. The world wants us to think we have to be the same and there…
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51. Men's Survey Answers About Sexual Intimacy...
In this weeks episode, Nick and Amy discuss the poll answers from social media. "Husbands answers to their Sexual Intimacy wants and needs." The questions…
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50. Our Women's Survey About Sexual Intimacy...The Answers Might Surprise You
We did a survey and asked questions to women about sexual intimacy and got over 600 responses. Here are the questions we asked: Do you have a hard time talking…
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49. How Outside Influences Can Negatively Impact Your Marriage, And What To Do About It
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about a fantastic article written by 80/80 Marriage called "These Outsiders Can Make Marriage Impossible". In marriage, its…
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48. How To Get On The Same Page Financially
Nick and Amy interview Amy Scott whom is a Certified Financial Coach who teaches couples how to get on the same page financially. We discuss: - Why finances…
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47. Understanding Differences In Sexual Wiring
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss an amazing article by Laura Brotherson (Certified Sex Therapist) about understanding differences in sexual wiring between…
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46. 6 Simple New Years Resolutions To Strengthen Your Sexual And Emotional Intimacy
In this episode Nick and Amy share 6 simple, yet super important New Years Resolutions to make your marriage the best it's ever been in 2022! Most people set…
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45. I Want This To Work With Elizabeth Earnshaw And The Most Difficult Relationship Issues We Face In The Modern Age
Nick and Amy interview Elizabeth Earnshaw who is the author of a fantastic new book called "I Want This To Work", navigating the most difficult relationship…
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44. Our Favorite Marriage Quotes of 2021 To Help Your Marriage
Nick and Amy talk with Akida and Tisha from Couples Connect who have some amazing quotes that can help your marriage. Why is it important to invest in your…
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43. ALL ABOUT SEX: Sexpectations, What Is Healthy Sex In Marriage, Rejection, And The Importance Of Sex
Lets talk about sex... Nick and Amy discuss Sexpectations in marriage, what healthy sex in marriage looks like, how to address sexual rejection, and the…