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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped…
Episodes
- The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
161. 10 Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Loved And Special
Husbands, do you want to know the 10 ways to make your wife feel loved and appreciated? In this funny and light hearted episode Nick and Amy discuss the 10…
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160. Our Tips On How To Avoid Committing Emotional Infidelity In Your Marriage
What is emotional infidelity? Emotional infidelity refers to a situation where one spouse becomes emotionally involved with someone or something outside of the…
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159. Amazing Vacation Destinations You Should Put On Your Bucket List
We don't get to travel as much as we would like to, but the past couples of years we have had the opportunity to travel to a couple pretty amazing places that…
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158. How To Get A Long With Your In Laws And Not Let It Negatively Impact Your Marriage
Getting along with your in-laws is an essential part of building a healthy and happy marriage. When things aren't going well with the in-laws, it works it's…
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157. Why You Should Do This One Thing As A Couple
We have been watching a really fun show called "Bahama's Life." The show is about couples looking for their dream property or retirement home in the Bahamas…
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156. The Emotional Intimacy Workbook.. And All The Ways It Can Transform Your Marriage
We have been working on the Emotional Intimacy Workbook for about 6 months and finally got it completed! This workbook covers so many topics that can help…
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155. Is Marriage Really Hard? Or Do Our Own Issues And Other Outside Things That We Bring Into It Make It Hard?
We all know marriage can be hard at times, but have you ever considered what makes it hard through those times? Sure, we can have financial difficulties…
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154. What Is "Ultimate Intimacy" And How Can You Obtain It In Your Marriage?
You hear us talk about "Ultimate Intimacy" all the time! We even branded our company that. But what exactly is ultimate intimacy, and how can you obtain it in…
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153. Is Social Media A Major Addiction For Your Wife?
Social Media is destroying peoples marriages, and on average, it can be more addictive to women than to men. Although porn and social media are quite…
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152. Why It's So Important For The Lower Desire Spouse To Initiate Sex (Once In A While)... And 12 Fun Ways To Do So!
So often in marriage it is the higher desire spouse that is ALWAYS initiating sex with the lower desire spouse. However, it is so important for the lower…
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151. Don't Know What Your Wife Needs From You To Connect Emotionally? Don't Worry, Neither Does She...
We were sitting in the marriage retreat talking about sexual and emotional needs in marriage and a husband asked, "How do I emotionally connect with my wife?…
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150. Are Men And Women Really That Different When It Comes To Emotional And Sexual Intimacy?
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the typical stereotypes of men and women when it comes to sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy differences. We know…
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149. The Intimacy And Adventure Retreat Recap
We just finished the Intimacy And Adventure Retreat we hosted with Married For A Purpose and had an incredible experience that was life changing for the…
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148. Does Respect Have To Be Earned In A Marriage? The Ways To Loose It And Gain It
There have been many polls done on this subject and it is interesting that for most men, they value being respected more than they value being loved. This…
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147. Husbands, Why You Need To Be Patient With Your Wife During Sexual Intimacy
The other day we were laying in bed (after making love) and talking and laughing at all the ways women can loose focus when making love. Amy was joking that…
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146. Lacking Intimate Time? Why Managing And Balancing Your Time In Marriage Is So Important
Couples that have happy and successful marriages do a very good job at managing their time and priorities in their relationship. They prioritize the important…
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145. Why Keeping Score And Trying To Keep Things Equal In Marriage Doesn't Work
So many couples keep score in their marriage trying to keep things fair, or following the 50/50 marriage model, and wonder why it only makes things worse. When…
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144. Is There Anything Wrong With Transactional Sex And Chore Play?
A transaction is an exchange of goods or services, and something that is typically a win win for both parties involved. For example, we buy groceries and our…
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143. Rediscovering Sexual Intimacy After Having Kids, And How To Prioritize And Make Time For It
Being a parent is amazing and so rewarding, and no parents would trade it for anything. But unfortunately for many couples, their marriages and intimacy often…
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142. Are The Tiny Pebbles In Your Life Causing A Big Ripple Effect?
Are there one or two very little things impacting so many other areas of your marriage in a negative way? What if you were just a couple little things away…
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141. Want To Find Your Desire For Sexual Intimacy Again? A New Groundbreaking Product That Can Transform Your Sexual Well Being.. With Dr Shawn Talbott
As there are so MANY distractions in life, stresses and other things that cause low libido or "lack of drive" with sexual intimacy, there are ALOT of couples…
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140. The Way You Speak To Your Spouse (And Yourself) Can Have Severe Consequences
In a previous episode with Alex Boye, he talked about the power of our words and the impact it can have on not only to ourselves, but to our spouse (and…
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Talking About The Intimacy and Adventure Retreat With Greg And Julie Gorman
In this bonus episode Nick talks with Julie and Greg Gorman with Married For A Purpose about the Intimacy and Adventure Retreat coming up in St George, Utah…
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139. Is Your Relationship Strong, Healthy And Stable? Here Are The Signs
We as couples are always comparing ourselves to other relationships, and it is normal to wonder where our relationship may stand in comparison to others. What…
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138. Sexpectations In Marriage.. And Why You Need To Talk About Them Together!
Sexpectations are the expectations you both have about sex in your marriage. This includes frequency of sexual intimacy, who initiates, foreplay, toys, what is…
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137. The Best Sex Techniques To Increase HER Pleasure With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with health and sex expert Cindy Scharkey about the best techniques and positions to increase her pleasure! Most women…
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136. Talking MENOPAUSE And Low Libido With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey
You've spoken and we've listened. So many husbands and wives have expressed need during this stage of life... menopause. How it affects libido, and what you…
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135. What To Do When Your Love Languages Are Different.. And Knowing Each Others Love Language Isn't Working?
We have talked about the love languages before, but it is such a big issue for couples that we felt like we needed to do another episode diving into the topic…
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134. They Are Trying To Destroy Your Marriage... Don't Fall For The Lies
We live in a world where good is now considered evil and anyone with sanity is now considered crazy. The traditional values, responsibilities and roles of men…
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133. All About Foreplay... Why It's So Important And The Best Tips To Implement
Society is convincing women that if they are "not in the mood" for sex, and if they don't feel like making love that night, then they shouldn't have to even…
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132. Our Key Takeaways And Thoughts From Episode 131 With Alex Boye
There are few podcasts or movie episodes that the more you listen to, the better they get. However, that was the case for us with the Alex Boye podcast. We…
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131. Alex Boye (World Renowned Singer) Shares His Amazing Experience And How This One Thing Can Change Your Life
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Alex Boye who is a world renowned singer and song writer. Alex shares so many amazing things in this podcast from his…
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130. Husbands.. Are There Times When You Feel Like You Are Only Wanted For A Paycheck?
We get so many messages from husbands that make comments like: "I feel like my wife just want's me for the paycheck" There are husbands that feel like their…
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129. Pet Peeves To Positivity: Why Are Pet Peeves So Triggering And How To NOT Let Them Ruin Your Marriage!
A pet peeve is a relatively minor annoyance that provokes a strong negative reaction in your spouse (or other person). We all have little things that we do…
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128. What Do You Do When Your Spouse Won't Talk About Sex...Or Other Tough Topics?
You hear us constantly talk about how almost everything can be resolved with communication, which is absolutely true. But what happens when you have a spouse…
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127. Are Expectations In Marriage Good Or Bad? And Our Valentines Poll Answers
We all go into marriage with expectations of what we think it should be like, and are often disappointed when things don't go as we expect. So, are…
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126. Do You Feel Like Your Relationship Is Slipping Away? Here are 11 Things You Can Do To Get It Back
Marriage is meant to be full of passion, excitement, connection and intimacy! But it is really quite scary how easy it is for relationships to slowly slip away…
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125. Is This Silent Relationship Killer Hurting Your Marriage?
Is pride hurting your marriage? Chances are, it is at some level. It has been said that pride is the silent killer of relationships! Pride is something we all…
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124. Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Sexual Intimacy?
We always talk about how important it is to have frequent sexual intimacy in marriage, and let's face it, most couples are probably not having as much sexual…
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123. For The Wives Who Just Aren't Interested In Sexual Intimacy
Of course there are many good reasons why a wife may not enjoy or want to have sexual intimacy. Some of the reasons could include past trauma, relationship…
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122. Common Relationship Issues In Marriage And How To Address Them
There are so many things that can cause issues in a relationship and if not addressed, or handled properly, they can have devastating consequences on the…
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121. For The Women Who Have A Hard Time Having An Orgasm.. Try These 6 Things
About 10% of all women have never had an orgasm. And more than 80% of women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Bottom line, it is hard for many…
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120. Is Sex A Thermometer That Can Gauge The Temperature Of Your Marriage?
Is sex really a good indicator of how good (or bad) your marriage is? In this episode Nick and Amy talk about this and also share the poll answers we received…
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119. Does It Bring You Closer Together As A Couple?
In a previous podcast episode (81) we talked about how to know if something is ok or not ok in the bedroom. The question we presented for everyone to ask…
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118. Is Your Marriage Ready For 2023?
Want to know what is just as important as goal setting as a couple? Getting rewarded for accomplishing your goals as a couple! At the beginning of each year…
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117. Funny Intimate Experiences From Our Listeners That Will Make You Laugh
In our relationship, we have had funny intimate experiences that we continuously laugh about and we were certain many of our audience have had the same. In…
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116. Is This Toxic Emotional And Sexual Intimacy Game Being Played In Your Marriage?
We recently did a video on social media for the men titled "the reasons your wife doesn't want to make love to you." We have heard a lot of the women state it…
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115. For The High Desire Wife.. And The Low Desire Husband (The Reasons)
We have all heard the stories from women complaining their husbands want sex ALL THE TIME! But what seems to be a lot less common is complaints of their…
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114. The Best Advice For Married Couples.. From Various Marriage Experts
Nick and Amy do alot of research and studying for their blog posts, podcasts and information for the app and come across a lot of very good information. They…
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113. Our Raw Conversation On Why We Think This Stage Of Life And Marriage Is The Hardest
The other night we were having a deep conversation that was sooo good. We were assessing our marriage and talking about how this time period in life can get…
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112. Our Thoughts About Episode 111
After doing the AMAZING episode 111 with Tamara Fackrell, we felt like that was one of the best episodes we have had and the information in it could help just…
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111. The Podcast Episode That Will Transform Your Marriage!
This has to be one of the best podcast episodes we have done, with information applicable to every relationship. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Tamara…
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110. We Need To Recognize The Evil Around Us Trying To Destroy Our Marriages
For a couple of months now, we have been posting a lot of videos on social media sharing our thoughts on various topics, and things that we have implemented in…
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109. What Are The Differences Between Rules And Boundaries... And Why You Should Consider Boundaries To Protect Your Marriage
Throughout our lives, we have many boundaries. These boundaries are in place to establish what is acceptable and not acceptable. In our jobs we have…
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108. Stuck On What To Get Your Spouse For Christmas?
We love polling our audience and hearing what you have to say so we did an instagram poll and asked the following questions: Have you asked your spouse what…
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107. Maintenance Sex...What Is It And Why You Should Be Open To It
Maintenance Sex.. What is it and why is it important. Well look at it this way. We have to do maintenance on our cars. We check the tire pressure, fluids and…
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106. Is The Adversary Trying To Keep Sex Out Of Your Marriage?
We heard a great quote that we thought was very profound and caused us to think about why this is. QUOTE: "The adversary tries to get you in the marriage bed…
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105. Dealing With Different Sex Drives And Why You Need To Find A Balance In Your Marriage
Just about every relationship and marriage has a high drive spouse and a low drive spouse. If you are one of those couples you are completely normal, and…
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104. Why We Have Completely Changed Our Mindset About Scheduling Sex
For many people the concept of scheduling sex goes completely against what we are led to believe from watching the movies. In the movies, both people are ready…
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103. Ways To Handle The Stressful Holidays Part 2... The Poll Answers From Our Listeners Are Here!
In part 2 of the podcast "Ways To Handle The Stressful Holiday" we share our social media poll results from YOU about all the stresses you experience during…