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Liz Life Guru
I’m Liz Reed, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and chef. I have a long history of working in addiction and the mental health field. From addiction facilities to psychiatric units and private practice. I’m also in recovery from alcohol for the past 20 years.
Liz Life Guru is a podcast designed to help people with mental health and addiction issues. This is an action-oriented show that helps the listener understand the dynamics of their issues. This is achieved through education, personal…
Episodes
Liz Life Guru24 Years Sober
With certainty I can say that 24 years later… getting sober was the best decision of my life. There was a time that I would have told you were crazy. That…
Liz Life GuruLosing Scott
In this episode I will share my journey in losing my husband of 29 years. This has not only been a grief process, but a journey in loneliness. Like many people…
Liz Life GuruI Hate My Job!
For many people the thought of leaving your job is terrifying. This comes from many factors, stability and convenience are two of them. Another one is the…
Liz Life GuruAI, My New Therapist
Many people are now using their AI in lieu of formal therapy. If it isn’t bad enough that AI may be taking away jobs, we are now looking to AI for our mental…
Liz Life GuruParents Who Choose Partners Over Children
I see a lot of this in my practice, parents having children to solve their own unmet needs. Who suffers in the long run? The children do. Many parents are more…
Liz Life Guru10 Years of Trump Chaos
It’s been 10 years of nonstop crazy. This has been a political environment that has stressed the world. Not only Americans are feeling this disabling doom, but…
Liz Life GuruStarting Over and Staying Mentally Happy
Not to be Pollyanna, but there are better ways to live your life. It’s 2026, let’s not let another year go by and feel unfulfilled. The person you were at 20…
Liz Life GuruPornography - Useful Tool or Bad Habit?
When we think of pornography, we often associate it with negative outcomes. This isn’t necessarily true. There are many good things that can come from watching…
Liz Life GuruMaking Friends Later in Life
How are we supposed to meet other people after high school and as we age? There are several good ways to make very good friends. If you aren’t out there…
Liz Life GuruYour Partner is Jealous of Your Family. Is That a Red Flag?
Ignoring the red flags that a partner can present often go unnoticed. We don’t notice the subtle suggestions to stop talking to your family or jealousy toward…
Liz Life GuruHolidays 2025
Happy holidays, happy holidays…ok so it’s not as fun as we would hope. The holiday season can be a demanding one. Financially, family dynamics, events and…
Liz Life GuruFear and Phobias
Fear and phobias are not the same, but what we do know is that the feeling of fear is overwhelming. For many people, challenging fear and understanding can be…
Liz Life GuruGrinding Through Depression
Like anxiety depression grabs hold of you, your life and family. Depression is the sister to anxiety and can be debilitating. When I talk with patients on how…
Liz Life GuruWorking Through Anxiety
One of the worst parts of an anxiety disorder is how small your world becomes, if you let it. There is a clear understanding related to exposure therapy and…
Liz Life GuruCoping in a Negative World
The news is overwhelming, social media is overwhelming. Where can we find relief? Is this our new reality, hate? Social threats and unhappiness? What can we…
Liz Life GuruGen Z Overcompensating
The Gen Z world is overcompensating for many things in their lives. Everything must be scheduled to be happy. In an already difficult world, Gen Z and future…
Liz Life Guru23 Years of Sobriety
I quit drinking 23 years ago, so what have I learned? A lot. I went from a woman who was the ultimate party girl to sober as a judge in one fell swoop. This…
Liz Life GuruSpoiled Children
Treating your children to a better life than you had can be reason why you might want to spoil your child. In many cases what we perceive to be harmless…
Liz Life GuruStand Up for Yourself
Fear of standing up for yourself and asking for what you need can be debilitating. Knowing what you want without seeming nasty or frightened can be daunting…
Liz Life GuruConfidence
When we think about confidence, we believe that it's something we are born with. In fact, it takes time to build one's confidence. There are contributing…
Liz Life GuruAccurate News Sources
Do you get your information from Facebook? Do you look online to find out what's going on in the news? You wouldn't be crazy if you're using this as your only…
Liz Life GuruChronic Pain and Management
If you are someone who has experienced pain or has ongoing chronic pain, you need to know the difference and treatment options. What kind of pain you are…
Liz Life GuruMental Health Medications
Do you know what mental health meds you are taking or need? Do you know what might help? Know your medications better. In this podcast we will go over the…
Liz Life GuruAre You Blaming Others for Your Life Problems?
Does it seem that some people choose to blame everyone for their bad behavior? These people are perpetual victims and blame others for their shortcomings…
Liz Life GuruRage and How to Calm it
"I’m so angry, no, I’m enraged!!" - This is a type of anger that can lead to some very negative, aggressive consequences. Rage is not like anger; it is a…
Liz Life GuruDo You Have PTSD?
What exactly is PTSD? Do you, have it? Do you know someone who does? PTSD can be caused by many factors. Not all forms of PTSD relate to just a traumatic…
Liz Life GuruBeing Alone
The dreaded fear of being alone. This usually starts in childhood due to many factors including trauma. This then manifests into a very insecure adult. We have…
Liz Life GuruWhat Kind of Person do You Want to be?
You have a choice in this world as to what you want to represent and be. Especially now, you must stand for something. One must stand for what they represent…
Liz Life GuruWhat to Expect from Therapy
Starting therapy can be daunting. What are we going to talk about? Where do I start? Do I even want to get into all of that? Not to mention the expense. These…
Liz Life GuruJealousy
Jealousy, that green monster! Many people suffer from jealousy, and it can be debilitating. It is a very complex human emotion that both humans and animal’s…
Liz Life GuruMaking Amends AA
What does making amends mean anyway? in AA it is a way of saying I am sorry for my actions while in addiction. For many saying I’m sorry or taking…
Liz Life GuruIntrusive Thoughts
Have you had the feeling that the random thoughts you have are weird, twisted? This can be a crippling for some people. If you do not understand intrusive…
Liz Life GuruChild Shooters
Babies killing babies. Did you know that gun violence is the leading cause of death for children? 93% of gun violence in schools is planned in advance. We…
Liz Life GuruNew Year, New You
Have you been looking for a new you? Are you having issues trying to figure out where to start? Let's start with the easy stuff first. For many, a New Year’s…
Liz Life GuruNo, He's Not Into You
Have you ever been in a relationship or had a friend in one that wasn’t exactly reciprocal? You would be surprised how many people stay in dead-end…
Liz Life GuruAddiction and Manipulation
One of the biggest parts of addiction is the manipulation of the addict toward family and friends. This is a chemical reaction from the brain and also a…
Liz Life GuruHoliday Horrors
"Oh, the weather outside is stressful" It’s that time of year again—the holidays. Every year, I do a podcast about managing this difficult time. Whether it’s…
Liz Life GuruVenting Our Stress Over the Election
This is a shit show. This is a time to heal. For many of us who did not vote for Trump, we were blindsided and sickened by the results. This is a time for…
Liz Life GuruReligion, Spirituality, and Goodness
I’m not a religious person you may say, but I’m curious about what comes next, or I need something to believe in. We have all had these moments and we feel…
Liz Life GuruChoosing to Have Children or Not
Having a child is a bigger decision than getting married. Who you have a child with is far more important than who you marry. In my travels and relationships…
Liz Life GuruManifesting Willpower
A little bit of willpower goes a long way. What if you could harness this power to help you focus on the things you want from your life? Where do we begin?…
Liz Life GuruThe Truth Behind ADHD
In the reality of taking a pill to cure anything we are drugging our children for what we believe to be ADHD. Some people and children truly suffer from ADHD…
Liz Life GuruWhere is My Anger Coming From?
Do you feel like your anger went from 0-100 in a flash? Do you hold on to your anger daily? Some people seem to just be angry. They wear it like a badge of…
Liz Life GuruAdult Children Are Cutting Off Their Parents and Regretting It
Let me preface...this podcast is not about victims of sexual or physical abuse. This is about misguided children who choose to leave their parents for an…
Liz Life GuruAnxiety Help
Do you know the difference between anxiety, panic attacks, panic disorder, and several others? Knowing what you're facing just might help you work your way…
Liz Life GuruSaving Our Young Men
Why are our young males not socializing, dating, or having sex...and killing themselves at an alarming rate? This social crisis is indeed plaguing our young…
Liz Life GuruPolitics Destroying Your Family?
Has politics in our new age of hate ruined your family? Are you right and they are wrong? Today we feel as though our family has slipped away due to our…
Liz Life GuruAddiction of a Spouse
Dealing with loved ones that are in active addiction is horrible. Dealing with a spouse you agreed to stick by for better or worse can be another thing…
Liz Life GuruParenting Our Parents
Not everyone has parents who are willing to parent selflessly. Many parents turn to their children for advice or disclose far too much adult information to…
Liz Life GuruAging Successfully
Often, when working with patients they find themselves at a crossroads as they age. What should I do next? My life was my kids … I just give up! These are all…
Liz Life GuruHating Kaitlyn, and the Lack of Customer Service
In a world where customer service is non-existent, there was Kaitlyn my last straw! Listen, whether it’s work that gets you down or the people you encounter…
Liz Life GuruPeople Who Expect Far Too Much From Others
Do you know someone who has you labeled and everyone else as a permanent letdown? These are the type of people that cannot be pleased. Their expectations of…
Liz Life GuruWhy Do We Pick the Partners We Do?
It’s Chemistry people… we choose people initially based on the chemistry we feel between us. It isn’t until later that we discover the reality behind our…
Liz Life GuruMy Book, Leave your Sh*t Here
Did you know I was a co-author of a great workbook? It’s a great book on how to start your mental health journey through writing and releasing. This technique…
Liz Life GuruChris Morris: We Are All Made of Scars - Part 2
I read a book, “We Are All Made of Scars” and met Chris Morris. This personal memoir Chris has created is an ode to his battle with a parent suffering from…
Liz Life GuruChris Morris: We Are All Made of Scars - Part 1
I read a book, “We Are All Made of Scars” and met Chris Morris. This personal memoir Chris has created is an ode to his battle with a parent suffering from…
Liz Life GuruFighting? A Few Things Not to Say
Hey let's fight fair!.. or so we try. Fights usually digress to the same argument. One we have had over and over again with a partner or family. I would…
Liz Life GuruAddiction and the Mental Beating We Give Ourselves
As we progress on our addictive journey into sobriety a few things happen. We start to wake up and feel emotions again! After a long numb silence in the brain…
Liz Life GuruIt’s the F*cking Holidays. Brace yourself!
Hey, guess what, it's time to celebrate the holidays... Does this stress you out? Well, it shouldn't. It should be a time of comfort and excitement, something…
Liz Life GuruWorry, a loop of Madness!
Worry... I’ve worried most of my life, and for what? The endless nights of staring at the ceiling trying to predict a different outcome. We can't fix life with…