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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots…
Episodes
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhat If Non-Monogamy Was Normal? Catholic Guilt & Our Other Lives
What would your life look like if non-monogamy had always been normal? A listener voicemail stopped us in our tracks with that question, so Adam & Pris imagine…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhere Do You Find Swingers? Apps, Clubs & Meet-and-Greets That Work
Where do you actually find other swingers? It's the number one question in our inbox, our DMs, and our confessional, so on this QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisQuickie Mashup: Prostate Play, the P-Spot & Slut-Shaming
New here? Start with this Quickie Mashup! We took two of our favorite past QUICKIE episodes and put them back to back, so new listeners can catch up on the…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSweat, Queefs & Cramps: The Messy Truth About Swinger Sex
The swinger lifestyle sells candlelight, lingerie, and flawless bodies. Then somebody's calf locks up mid-threesome. On this Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisShibari & Rope Bondage for Couples with Travis of Shibari Sessions
Ever wondered what makes Shibari different from tying your partner to the bedpost? This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the swinger podcast for the…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSwinger Safety 101: Emergency Contacts, Vetting & What Ifs
What happens if? It's the question nobody in the ENM lifestyle wants to sit with—but Adam & Pris say it's one of the most important conversations you can have…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisLifestyle Brain: When Swinger Instincts Follow You Home
Ever catch your swinger brain flirting at the grocery store? Adam and Pris dig into "lifestyle brain" — what happens when your ethical non-monogamy instincts…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisThe Hot Seat: Adam Answers Swinger Lifestyle & ENM Questions
Adam finally gets put in the hot seat. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Pris flips the script and grills Adam with rapid-fire, no-dodging questions…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWho Gets Left Out in the Swinger & ENM Lifestyle Community
Ever feel like the swinger lifestyle has its own high school cafeteria? Adam & Pris are diving into the pecking order nobody likes to admit exists in the…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSwinger Seat Swap: Adam & Pris Answer ENM Questions
Adam and Pris swap seats — and swap personalities. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, our favorite swinger lifestyle podcast hosts answer your ethical…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSeattle Makes Polyamory a Protected Class: ENM Under the Law
Seattle just made history — and Adam & Pris are unpacking it. This past week, the Seattle City Council voted unanimously to extend anti-discrimination…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisQUICKIE: Swingers Stuck in a Vanilla Setting
Ever had to "behave" in a room full of vanilla people? In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris get real about the very specific chaos of being…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisENM Mailbag: Lifestyle Burnout, Jealousy & Pool Party Game
It's a mailbag episode! Adam & Pris skip the guest and dig straight into the inbox for two listener questions that could not be more different — one heavy, one…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisTo Wax or Not to Wax: Bush, Bald & Body Talk in ENM
Do you like it bald, or with a little fuzz? On this Wednesday quickie, Adam and Pris dive into one of the most-avoided topics in the swinger lifestyle and…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisKink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club Experience
Kink Night at Club Eden just broke our brains — in the best way. On this Wednesday quickie, Adam & Pris recap their first-ever Kink Night at their home swinger…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisThe Kinky Bros: Two Brothers Bond Over Rubber, Leather & Kink
Two brothers. Two very different kinks. One podcast that almost didn't happen. This week Adam & Pris sit down with Gryff and Jason, the real-life siblings…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisDo Swingers Get Nervous? Confidence & Anxiety in the Lifestyle
Do swingers still get nervous? After 15 years in the swinger lifestyle, Adam & Pris get real about nervousness, anxiety, and confidence in ethical…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisRandom Talks: Bedroom Dealbreakers & Swinger Club Etiquette
No script. No plan. Just Adam & Pris, a list of questions on a smartphone, and zero filter. This week on Beyond Monogamy, the swinger lifestyle podcast that…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhy Are People So Shitty? Swinger Drama, Bullies & Trolls
Why are people so shitty? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisCatfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited)
That gorgeous couple sliding into your DMs? Yeah... about that. In this revisited episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris dive into catfishing in the swinger…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSwinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your No
What's your dynamic? It's the one question every couple new to the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) needs to know how to answer — and Adam &…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisOur First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did Wrong
What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSwinger Birthday Weekend at the Club: Adam's Wild Quickie Recap
Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSwinger vs Polyamory vs FWB: What's the Real Difference?
Swinger? Poly? Friends with benefits? If you've ever mixed them up, you're in good company — Adam's own barber had no clue. This week on Beyond Monogamy…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisInside Club Eden: What Makes a Great Swinger Club?
What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisPredators in the Swinger Lifestyle: Red Flags Every Couple Must Know
This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhat Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-Word
Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisKink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant
Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisIn-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession
In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — This week's Quickie tackles one of the most relatable…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisThe Orgasm Gap in the Lifestyle: Why She Comes at Home But Not at the Club
She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisBroke, Stressed & Still Swinging: When Life Gets in the Way of the Lifestyle
Episode Summary: Things got real this week on Beyond Monogamy. Adam and Pris pull back the curtain on what it actually looks like when financial stress…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisFrom Porn Star to Sex Coach: Stirling Cooper on the Lifestyle, Escorting & Men's Sexual Health
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with Stirling Cooper — former adult film star, ex-male escort, and now one of the world's most sought-after intimacy…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhen They Only Want Your Spouse (And Not You) | Beyond Monogamy Quickie
QUICKIE: When They Want My Spouse and Not Me It stings. It's awkward. And if you've been in the lifestyle long enough, it's happened to you. In this Beyond…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSexual Shame, Religious Trauma & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer
Episode Summary Adam and Pris sit down with Natasha Helfer, AASECT-certified sex therapist, author, and founder of Symmetry Counseling, for one of the most…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisPressure in the Lifestyle: Are You Pushing Your Partner Too Far?
Feeling the pressure? 🍍 So are we. On this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about one of the lifestyle's most overlooked problems — pressure. Whether…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisInside Naughty N'Awlins: The World's Largest Lifestyle Event with Founder Bob Hannaford
What does it take to build the world's largest lifestyle event from a house party to a 3,000+ person New Orleans takeover? Adam and Pris sit down with Bob…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWe Were Mid-Conversation and Accidentally Made a Podcast Episode
The guest didn't show up. The mics were already hot. What happened next became one of our most real, unfiltered episodes yet. In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisThe Evolution of Pris: How 18 Months & An Open Mind Changed Everything
She had rules. She had walls. She had a clipboard full of hard limits. Eighteen months later? Adam pulled the receipts — and Pris had some explaining to do. In…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisDouble Confessional: Lifestyle Roleplay Tips + Is Your Swinger Actually Poly?
Two confessionals. Two very real situations. One Quickie you'll want to text to your partner immediately. Adam and Pris are back in the booth answering two…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisPolyamory Meets Swinging: Multiamory's Dedeker, Jase & Emily On Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Where ENM Communities Collide
This week, Adam and Pris sit down with the hosts of one of the most respected podcasts in the non-monogamy space — Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWhen Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — Listener Q&A
When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — In this Quickie episode, Adam and Pris tackle two real listener questions: What do you do when you cross a…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisMyrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty Nawlins
This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris sit down with Myrina and Tristan from The Accidental Swingers — and yes, the name is exactly as real as it sounds…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisKiller Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance
What happens when a perfectly normal lifestyle club night suddenly goes sideways — and someone ends up leaving in an ambulance? That's exactly what happened to…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisMore Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary Every Couple Needs to See | Dillon Birdsall & Spark Erotic
What if somebody finally made the documentary that explains ethical non-monogamy the way it always should have been explained? No sensationalism. No clipboard…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisWandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide
Feeling lost in the lifestyle? You're not alone — and this Quickie is proof. This week, Adam and Pris crack open a confessional from a listener known as…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisNo Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDx Health
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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisDisney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle Club
Adam and Pris just got back from a week-long Florida trip — Disney World with the kids by day, and a night at the Florida Tree House lifestyle club that…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisHow to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)
Your profile is your first impression — and Adam & Pris have seen some impressively bad ones. On today's Quickie, they break down exactly what makes a swinger…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisPress the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage
What starts as a listener confession about prostate massage turns into the most honest, vulnerable, and surprisingly hilarious conversation Adam and Pris have…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisNina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously
Stop what you're doing. Seriously. Pull over if you have to, because this episode features one of the most iconic voices in the history of sex education, adult…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisQUICKIE: We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club (And Pris Owns It)
QUICKIE: We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club (And Pris Owns It) Pris went full chaos agent at a lifestyle club — and she owns every second of it. In this…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisHSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame
Today we are going there. Full send. Adam and Pris sit down with Courtney Brame — founder of Something Positive for Positive People (SPFPP), host of a podcast…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisNewbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple
We got a message that stopped us in our tracks — and honestly, it took us right back to the beginning. A listener found us on TikTok and sent in one of the…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisLive from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First
This one's a little different, y'all. We recorded this episode live — and we mean live — straight from the floor of the Texas Desires Hotel Takeover in San…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisHotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend
This past weekend, Adam and Pris were at a hotel takeover. Not just attending — they were there working, recording a live podcast episode in front of a room…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisYour Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED
What if your penis could tell you whether you're about to have a heart attack? Sounds wild, right? That's exactly the kind of conversation we had this week…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisThe Emotional Labor of the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?
Everyone loves talking about the fun parts of the lifestyle — the dates, the connections, the experiences. But what about everything that has to happen BEFORE…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSusan Bratton on Expanded Orgasms, Sexual Biohacking, and the STI Testing Protocol Every Lifestyle Couple Needs
About This Episode Y'all, this one is different. Adam and Pris sit down with the one and only Susan Bratton — intimacy expert to millions, bestselling author…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisIs a Couple's Play Partner Off Limits? The Etiquette Nobody Talks About — Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE
Someone slid into our inbox with a real one — they met a couple and their play partner, vibed with all three, and then realized they were really feeling the…
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & PrisSingle Fellas in the Lifestyle: Are Single Men Really Ruining the Swinging Scene?
Adam is coming in a little rough this week — fresh off a round of strep throat — but you know us, we don't miss a show. And this one? This one was worth every…