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Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast
Kinky, Queer, Non-monogamy, some geeky, and all things in-between. Working to make Kink and Non-Monogamy no longer a stigma. New episodes Thursdays!
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Episodes
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The Social Probation Period | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 42
Send us Fan Mail Julius explores how different communities operate similarly despite their diverse interests and activities. He dives into his experiences…
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Put Down Your Phone and Wash Your Ass: Dating Advice Nobody Asked For | Advice Line 2 | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 41
Send us Fan Mail Julius explores the fundamental differences in how men and women communicate and the painful lack of education we receive about these…
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Bite-Sized Wisdom for a Full-Sized Life: Advice for Taboo Lifestylers | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 40
Send us Fan Mail We explore relationship anarchy's core principle that each relationship exists independently, challenging traditional hierarchies while…
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You Can't Change Your Past, But Your Future Isn't Written Yet | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 39
Send us Fan Mail Starting life on the back foot doesn't mean you're destined to stay there. This raw, vulnerable episode challenges the notion that our…
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What Nobody Tells You About Dating When Sex Isn't Your Primary Attraction | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 38
Send us Fan Mail Navigating the dating world as someone on the asexual spectrum comes with unique challenges that many dating platforms simply weren't designed…
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EP 49 | Taboo talks with a new friend! | Melanie Carolyn from Mom's Unboxed podcast
Send us Fan Mail Join us for a riveting conversation at the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the kaleidoscopic experiences of kink, alternative lifestyles, and the…
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Rejection: The Universal Struggle | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 37
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt the sting of rejection? In this compelling episode of The Pillowfort Sessions, we dive into the complexities of…
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Navigating Tough Talks: Reimagining Communication, Gender Roles, and Vulnerability | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 36
Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself tongue-tied when it comes to navigating the trickiest conversations in your relationship? We're tackling those moments…
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Understanding Consent in Unique Community Gatherings | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 35
Send us Fan Mail This episode delves into the complexities of navigating the kink community, sharing personal reflections and observations regarding social…
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Introverted Networking and the Art of Self-Promotion: A Podfest 2025 Recap | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 34
Send us Fan Mail Is your podcasting journey crossing into the realm of taboo topics, and where do we draw the line between fantasy and reality? Join me as I…
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An "Intro" to Julius: A Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Geek Culture, and Self-Discovery | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 33
Send us Fan Mail What if stepping out of your comfort zone could lead to a whole new world of self-discovery and personal growth? Join me, Julius, as we kick…
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Shifting Perspectives on Adult Traffic Analysis | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 32
Send us Fan Mail This episode dives deep into the shifting landscape of kinks and porn searches in 2024, revealing surprising trends and insights about global…
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State-by-State: A Playful Look at America's (and the World's) Unique Preferences | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 31
Send us Fan Mail We dive into 2024's most surprising porn search trends, exploring themes from regional favorites to unique kinks. This episode encourages…
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Finding Clarity in Conversations and Relationships | Pillow Fort EP 30
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how a chilled drink might actually warm you up in the brisk Florida weather? Join me, Julius, as I kick off 2025 with a curious…
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Impromptu Rant as the Year Comes to an End | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 29
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what makes the BDSM community tick? Imagine stepping into a world where consent is king and every knot tells a story. This…
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Rewiring Your Mind: The Science of Habit Formation | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 28
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what truly sets the successful apart from the rest? It might not be talent, but instead the powerhouse of consistent habits…
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EP 48 | Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles and Identity with Shannon Elliott
Send us Fan Mail Gather 'round the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the vibrant tapestry of alternative lifestyles with the fabulous, Shannon Elliott, by our side…
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Enhancing Your Relationships: Mastering Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 27
Send us Fan Mail Can you imagine transforming awkward silences and misunderstandings into meaningful conversations that deepen your relationships? In this…
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EP 47 | From Repression to Awakening: A Journey of Self-Discovery with Shannon Elliot
Send us Fan Mail What happens when you mix a vibrant author, a love for smutty romance, and a passion for alternative lifestyles? You get an electrifying…
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Exploring the Cass Model: Navigating Identity and Embracing Authenticity | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 26
Send us Fan Mail Imagine navigating the challenging labyrinth of identity in a world that often expects conformity. That's what we explore as we journey…
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Unlocking Personal Connections Through Love Languages | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 25
Send us Fan Mail What if your way of expressing affection isn't hitting the mark with your loved ones? Join us here at Around the Kinky Kampfire: Pillow Fort…
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Untangling Attraction: A Journey Through Asexuality, Empathy, and Meaningful Connections | Pillow Fort Sessions EP24
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how relationships can thrive beyond the bounds of sex and romance? Join me, El Comidin, also known as Taco Knuckle or…
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My Journey Through the Smut Lovers Convention 2024: Insights and Revelations | Pillow Fort EP 23
Send us Fan Mail Get tickets for next year's Smut Lovers Convention - https://smutlovers.org/home/conference/tickets/ Ever wondered how smut literature…
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This Year Thus Far: Taking a Little Break From the Deep Dives | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 22
Send us Fan Mail What truly distinguishes solitude from loneliness, and how can meditation help us navigate this emotional landscape? Join Julius on the latest…
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Replacing Hierarchies with Harmony: A Relationship Anarchy Guide | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 21
Send us Fan Mail Ready to challenge the norms of traditional relationships? Join us around the kinky campfire as we embark on a revolutionary journey into…
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Navigating Kink Dynamics: The Role of Labels | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 20
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how a simple label can reshape your entire identity? Embark on an eye-opening journey with me, Mr Cuddle Gigolo, also known as…
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How do you know if you're into Kink? The Motivation Behind Our Curiosities: From Hobbies to Kink Exploration | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 19
Send us Fan Mail What fuels our curiosity to try something new and adventurous? On this episode of Around the Kinky Campfire Pillow Fort Sessions, we explore…
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EP 18 Pillow Fort Sessions | Disarming Assumptions: Strengthening Relationships Through Clear Communication
Send us Fan Mail Can assumptions really derail your relationships? Join us in this eye-opening episode of Route to Keep Campfire Pillow Fort Sessions as we…
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Ep 17 Pillow Fort Sessions | Ambiverts Unveiled: Bridging the Gap Between Introverts and Extroverts
Send us Fan Mail What if understanding your personality could transform your relationships? Welcome back to the Pillowport Sessions with your host, HH Julius!…
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Ep 16 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Quiet Strength of Solitude Versus the Challenge of Loneliness
Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself at a crossroads between cherishing your alone time and feeling the aching pangs of loneliness? It's a path I've walked…
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EP 46 | Kinky Campfire Revelations: Unraveling the Secrets of BDSM Dating, Social Acceptance, and the Power of Introspection
Send us Fan Mail Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where your hosts Bartholomew Hunt and Ms Ru serve up a piping hot blend of humor and insight on the…
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EP 45 | Exploring Kink vs. Vanilla: A Kampfire Guide to BDSM Roles, Play Space Etiquette, and Sexual Discovery
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what the difference between 'kinky' and 'vanilla' really is, or struggled to navigate the often misunderstood landscape of BDSM…
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EP 44 | A Brief Touch On Relationship Phases (And Mostly A Rant)
Send us Fan Mail As we pop open a bag of nerd clusters, the playful banter sets the stage for an episode that's as much about the crinkle of candy wrappers as…
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Ep 15 Pillow Fort Sessions | Decoding the Mystique: The Origin & Impact of the Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator
Send us Fan Mail Uncover the enigmatic roots of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator with me, Julius HH, as we traverse the intellectual legacy of a mother-daughter…
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EP 43 | Tales from the Leather Leadership Conference 2024
Send us Fan Mail Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where Miss Ru and I, Batty Coda aka Julius, ignite a lively dialogue that will leave you both informed and…
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Ep 14 Pillow Fort Sessions | Building Bonds Through the Subtle Art of Small Talk
Send us Fan Mail Ever felt like you're slogging through the swamp of small talk, only to find yourself stumped at the shore of silence? Fear not, my fellow…
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Ep 13 Pillow Fort Sessions | Navigating the World with Quiet Confidence A Guide for Introverts
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wandered off into your thoughts at a party, or felt your energy sap in a crowd, leaving you to wonder if you're an introvert, or…
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EP 42 | Geeky Pins and Pronouns A Look at Lifestyle Diversity in the Convention Circuit
Send us Fan Mail Gather 'round, fellow adventurers, as Ru and Gently McFluffin Stuff bring you tales from the wilds of kinky campfires and creative…
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Ep 12 Pillow Fort Sessions | Unleashing Inner Beasts: The Untamed World of Primal Play in BDSM
Send us Fan Mail Ever felt the urge to unearth the animal within you, to connect with your ancient, instinctual self? Well, buckle up, my fellow kink…
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EP 41 | Unveiling the Truth: The Intricacies of D/S Dynamics and Dispelling BDSM Myths
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself curious about the world beyond vanilla relationships? Well, stoke the fires and join us as we illuminate the…
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EP 40 | Kinks, Quirks, and Digital Dilemmas by the Fire
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered about the ethical implications of AI recreating celebrities or how professional dominants might navigate the digital age? Rue…
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EP 39 | Are BDSMers A-holes??
Send us Fan Mail We don't really know either. Let's find out together! 1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the…
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EP 38 | BDSM Myths....here we go...
Send us Fan Mail What are these myths? Are they true? Let's debunk them! 1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the…
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Ep 11 Pillow Fort Sessions | Feel a little butthurt? (Rejection Sensitivity)
Send us Fan Mail What are these feelings? Lashing out? Rejection feeling like actually pain? Let's find out why! 1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink…
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Ep 10 Pillow Fort Sessions | A Deeper Dive into Relationship Expectations
Send us Fan Mail What is a unreasonable or reasonable expectation in a relationship? How do we clear up a wrong expectation when we have them? We're going to…
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EP 37 | Myths About Non-Monogamy
Send us Fan Mail Can you believe this?? Well we're going to debunk some pretty crazy assumptions about NM. 1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink, BDSM…
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Ep 9 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p3
Send us Fan Mail Catching up on this Fall season of Animes and Superhero and maybe a little sci fi...and what I think about think about them. 1/6/26 Got a…
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EP 36 | Relationship Myths
Send us Fan Mail Have you heard the myths going around? Well we're here to provide the reality of the relationship situation. 1/6/26 Got a burning question…
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EP 35 | Reality versus Fantasy
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we have a "quick" discussion on our lifestyle experiences in the real world versus what we "thought" it was going to be like…
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EP 34 | Smut Lovers Convention 2023
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we give you the highlights of our experiences at the Smut Lovers Con '23. Buy tickets for next years convention and also…
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EP 33 | Controversy & the Jonah Hill situation (kind of)
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we give our thoughts on being controversial and what that means to each of us. Then we definitely do not go in depth on the…
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EP 32 | Weeee'rrreee baaaackkk!
Send us Fan Mail The group is back (in a different form) but still giving the same Kink and NM content like you're used to! In this episode, we give you some…
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Ep 8 Pillow Fort Sessions | BSDM & Sex
Send us Fan Mail We've discussed this before but I'm seeing a lot of questions about this topic. BDSM & Sex...are they inclusive or can be done separately?…
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Ep 7 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Many Facets of Non-Monogamy
Send us Fan Mail Going over a more recent overview of the many forms of non-monogamy and what I think about them. 1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink…
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Ep 6 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p2
Send us Fan Mail You wanted it so here it is again! Julius is here to give you the Geek news update for August. What is there in the news this time?? 1/6/26…
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Ep 5 Pillow Fort Sessions | Dating in the Lifestyle(s)
Send us Fan Mail In this episode I give my opinions about dating in the kinky and non-monogamy worlds and what I've experienced so far. What do you think about…
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Ep 4 Pillow Fort Sessions | Boundaries
Send us Fan Mail Let's get more specific on more relationship topics. Here are some thoughts and facts about what boundaries are and how we can enforce them in…
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Ep 3 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p1
Send us Fan Mail You wanted it and now you're getting it! More geeky goodness! Time to bring you up to date on the current (and recently in the past) geek…
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Ep 2 Pillow Fort Sessions | Podcast Update
Send us Fan Mail Changes...that's just the way it is! Things will never be the same. The podcast has had some pretty big changes recently and this is the…
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Ep 1 Pillow Fort Sessions | Introduction
Send us Fan Mail Introducing a new episode format to our faithful subscribers! The PFS will be a "filler" in-between our group episodes that will be a deeper…