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Girls Gone Deep
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
Episodes
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073: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other…
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072: Guys Gone Deep on Age Play, Spreader Bars, Collaring, Prince Albert Piercings and Glory Holes with Daniel D'Ottavio and M
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion, Episode 12: DP, Episode 34: How to Squirt) and Daniel D'Ottavio…
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071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy
This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They…
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070: Oral Part 2: Gag Reflex Tips, Orgy Oral Positions, Spitting vs Swallowing, and the Importance of Grooming
This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL. (Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.) What to…
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069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics
It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. Why do you deep throat?…
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068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session…
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067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects
In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle…
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066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game. First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ …
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065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. It's a…
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064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play
In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside. They cover the…
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063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sounding, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn
Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54) What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe…
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062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game! Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational…
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061: New High-End Sex Party Noetic: Fantasies, Strap-ons, Consent Double Standards and Hot Girl Privilege
Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex party which hosts unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and…
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060: NSFW Sex Club Founder Daniel Saynt on Creating a Sex Positive Community, Bi Male Acceptance, and Cannabis and Herbal Sexual Enhancements
In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness, which is an…
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059: Sensual Shibari Practitioner Jaqueline Michelle on Embodiment after Disassociation, Healing Trauma, Solo Kink and Conscious Sex Work
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with…
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058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays…
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057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the…
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056: 2024 Sexual Intentions and Fuckit List Items: Sex Dolls, MFMs, and Overcoming Codependency
In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and personally…
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055: The Beauty of Sex as Play: Deep Throating, “Caving”, Double-ended Dildos, and “Who’s in My Mouth?”
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures. Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM…
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054: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix with Sasha Silver: Financial Domination, Small Penis Humiliation, Giantess Fantasy and Healing Through Kink
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology…
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053: Butt Stuff: Anal Sex, Pegging, DP, Butt Plugs, Rimjobs, Douching, and Everything In Between!
In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her…
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052: Enthusiastic Consent, Slut Hacks, Airtight Sex Dolls and DVAP (DVP + Anal)
Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023. Nipples…
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051: Interviewing Julia Lange, the Woman Who Runs Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB): What To Expect, Tips for Newbies, and What to Bring
Wrapping up 2023! Podcast stats revealed! THANK YOU to our listeners! We appreciate you spending time with us each week and for sharing this podcast with…
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050: Handling Rejection: How To Turn Someone Down, Polysaturation and Getting Out of a Group Sex Situation
The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including: Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone…
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049: Vagina Health: How to stay DTF, Tips to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs
In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health. Elle is a medical professional - a nutritional…
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048: Freaksgiving Revisit: Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner
Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. After the 2022…
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047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types…
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046: BDSM: Safety, Communication, and Intention, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG), and “Demystifying Rope” aka Shibari
In this episode, join Elle and Vee with return guest Physics to get an inside view of what goes on in a top’s brain and the intricate communication required…
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045: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Manifesting Through Sex Magic, and the Importance of Prostate Play
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Physics (@physics_shibari) about the ins and outs of founding a sex group, what a yoni massage involves, and what sex…
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044: Halloween Sexcapades: Sex Swing Sex, BDSM with Strangers, & Sensory Deprivation
Elle and Vee catch up on their weekend sexcapades. Vee attended a private sex party event with 40+ people and the City of Gods Halloween party in NYC while…
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043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use…
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042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality
Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typical talk…
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041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples…
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040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex
Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. Being pregnant in the ENM…
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039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM
This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including: Introducing someone to ethical non-monogamy…
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038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire
Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire: When…
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037: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking
Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky experiences 2:32 Why edge…
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036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality
Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered. Vee shares her fears…
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035: JOYsey Shore: Partying Sober, DVP Tips, and Sybian vs F*ck Machine
In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends. “A glimpse into a…
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034: How to Squirt: Tips and Tricks, the Peeing Sensation and Social Stigmas of Squirting
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their perspectives…
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033: Intimacy Inventory: Questions for Introspection, What You Bring to Your Relationship, and Taking vs Being Taken (including CNC)
What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access here… What strengths do you bring to your relationships? What…
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032: Sexual Shame: Unlearning Religious Messages, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Healing Through ENM
Elle and Vee chat with their friend Kit, who grew up in a strict religious home. The girls chat about their formative sexual experiences and messages they…
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031: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband
In this episode, the girls sit down with Slutlana, who is Elle and her husband M's best friend and girlfriend. They cover a range of topics, including: What’s…
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030: How to Transition to Sexy Vibes in Group Sex (Especially with Longterm ENM Friends)
What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex…
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029: Cum: Ejaculating vs Squirting, Spitting vs Swallowing, and Tasting Yourself
In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM, including Ejaculating vs Squirting: and is there pee in squirt juice? (2:54) Taste: modifying your own…
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028: Navigating Emotional Triggers in Group Sex, and The Beauty of Day Orgies
In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be…
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027: The Joy of Porn: Connecting with your Partner, Formative Sexual Experiences, and VR Porn
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including: How do you use porn? Authenticity…
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026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms
In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it…
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025: Baconfest 2023: Merging Swinger and Traditional Friends, Threesome Takeaways, and BDSM Tests
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vanilla couples…
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024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise: Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt)…
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023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC…
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022: Setting (and Pushing) Boundaries in ENM Relationships
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the…
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021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink: Exploring Desires, Finding Events Near You and Defining “Heteroflexible”
In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, including…
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020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective, Divorce, and the Meaning of Being "Settled"
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the girls to…
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019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which One Are…
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018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”
This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including: The importance…
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017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers
Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including: Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is…
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016: Guys Gone Deep: Chet on Leaving Mormonism, Navigating ENM, and Approaching Women with Authenticity
This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Saints (aka…
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015: Going Deep with Julia Lange, the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind Hedonism Swing Breakers, and the daughter of Harry Lange, the owner of Hedonism II in…
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014: Hedonism Swing Breakers: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights
In this episode, Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Breakers…