038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire
Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:
When your partner is in their element and confident.
Surprise.
Seeing your partner though the eyes of another.
Longing and absence.
Who is Esther Perel and what is she about? (0:38)
When you ‘have’ something it takes away the wanting, and how the lifestyle helps with this. (2:47)
When do you feel most drawn to your partner? (6:46)
Desire requires focusing on your own pleasure. (9:15)
The balance of neediness in a relationship. (10:24)
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