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Unlabeled Love
A supportive, judgment-free podcast for spouses of gender expansive people, such as crossdressers—where love meets lipstick and real talk. Through honest conversations, shared stories, and expert insights, we explore identity, connection, and acceptance with compassion, humor, and heart. You’re not alone—and every relationship deserves respect, authenticity, and a little sparkle.
Episodes
Unlabeled Love025 Bring the Fun Back
Wondering how to keep the spark alive in a gender-expansive relationship? We share real-life stories and practical advice on finding your way back to fun and…
Unlabeled Love024 Struggles in Relationships
Struggling with acceptance in gender-expansive relationships? You're not alone! This week's Unlabeled Love episode is dedicated to holding space for partners…
Unlabeled Love023 Understanding our shared path
Dive into our latest episode! How do significant others navigate the journey with gender-expansive partners? Violet and McCartney candidly discuss and explore…
Unlabeled Love022 Myths & Truths
Violet and McCartney address common myths about cross‑dressing and emphasize how partners can communicate through them. They encourage using nonjudgmental…
Unlabeled Love021 Navigating Health
Violet and McCartney discuss how illness or hospitalization can create extra caregiving challenges when a spouse is gender-expansive and may still want…
Unlabeled Love020 Why Stay?
Violet and McCartney discuss why some significant others choose to stay with a cross-dressing or gender-expansive spouse. They note that acceptance, honest…
Unlabeled Love019 Intimacy, Sexuality, and Gender Identity
Violet and McCartney focus on whether cross-dressing is always about sex, noting it can be sexual for some, nonsexual for others, or shift over time from…
Unlabeled Love018 Where's my husband?
McCartney and Violet’s conversation centers on partners of gender-expansive spouses sometimes missing “their husband,” wanting predictability and to be the…
Unlabeled Love017 Balancing Work & Pleasure
Violet and McCartney discuss an upcoming business cruise, during which McCartney’s spouse, Deanne, suggested presenting as Deanne throughout the trip…
Unlabeled Love016 - Exploring the Unseen
McCartney and Violet discuss the internal struggle partners face when a spouse is a cross-dresser or gender expansive, prompted by a quote from Savannah Hauk’s…
Unlabeled Love015 Evolution of "I'm ok with it"
Violet and McCartney discuss what it really means when a spouse says they are “okay” with a cross-dressing or gender-expansive partner. Violet shares how her…
Unlabeled Love014 From Keystone with Love
McCartney and Violet reflect on seeing each other again at the Keystone conference, where they met listeners. They describe Keystone highlights, including…
Unlabeled Love013 Culture and Traditions Part 2
Violet and McCartney continue a discussion on how culture and traditions shape reactions to gender expression for partners of gender-expansive people. They…
Unlabeled Love012 Culture and Traditions Part 1
Violet and McCartney begin a discussion on traditions and gender norms, prompted by a passage from Peggy Rude’s My Husband Wears My Clothes about rigid…
Unlabeled Love011 Healthy Boundaries
This episode focuses on setting boundaries in relationships where one partner is gender expansive, including why boundaries matter and how they relate to trust…
Unlabeled Love010 Fearless and Fabulous
Violet and McCartney discuss practical packing and presentation tips for cruising, including mix-and-match outfits, comfortable shoes, sweaters for cool…
Unlabeled Love009-Pros and Cons
In this episode, Violet and McCartney explore the pros and cons of being the significant other of a gender expansive person. Specifically, how it affects them…
Unlabeled Love008-From Denial to Acceptance
In this discussion, Violet and McCartney explore the emotional complexities faced by significant others when their partners reveal that they are a…
Unlabeled Love007 To share or not to share
In this episode, Violet and McCartney discuss their experiences and considerations surrounding revealing their spouses' crossdressing identities to family…
Unlabeled Love006 Cruising as the Significant Other
In this episode of Unlabeled Love, Violet and McCartnie discuss McCartnie’s experience organizing and participating in the 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun'…
Unlabeled Love005 McCartnie + Deann
In this episode of Unlabeled Love, McCartnie discusses her journey of accepting her husband's cross-dressing over their 40-year marriage. She gradually…
Unlabeled Love004-Violet and Catrina
In this episode of 'Unlabeled Love', Violet narrates her 30-year relationship with her partner, Catrina, highlighting the complexities of living with a…
Unlabeled Love003-Finding Belonging
In this episode of 'Unlabeled Love,' Violet and McCartney share their experiences at the Keystone Conference, focusing on their initial discomfort and gradual…
Unlabeled Love002-Discovery Moment
In this episode, Violet and McCartney share how they first learned their spouses were crossdressers and how their relationships evolved. You can contact us…
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Episode 1 - How we started
In this episode, Violet and McCartnie recount how they met and how they decided to start this podcast. You can contact us: email -…
Unlabeled LoveUnlabeled Love - Who are we?
A short description of what Unlabeled Podcast is about. _______________