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Dits & Dahs
This is my daily journal of my mundane experiences and personal views, mostly about self-actualization. I'm an American widow in the music business, working life out post-destitution, and sending out positive vibes all the while. Shine in Truth. And, have a giggle while traveling through the liminal spaces to your happy place.
Episodes
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the gatekeeping energies of non-doing and storytelling
On the topic of the mundane, I share my experience with two types of gatekeeping energies manipulators have projected towards me to obfuscate their…
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over and above
I am an employee and a business owner and know well both sides' needs when hiring staff and/or vendors. That written, the hiring managers are the gatekeepers…
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guiltlessly adding self-value
I've always had a side hustle to my main employment, over the years, however, now the side hustle is more crucial to my bottom line than ever. So, when I feel…
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breaking point intolerance
Reflecting on all the times throughout my life where I held stressful energy as mine, such as the deadline vibe, really taught me the importance of having…
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truth is peace and calm
Standing alone in Truth can be perceived by others as something that it's OK to attack. It's not. If unsure of whether (or not) I'm standing in Truth, I ask…
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germinating groundedness
I'm restarting the seed germinations, prepping for the garden, and it got me thinking about how important hope is to gaining faith in yourself while trusting…
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find me at the kids' table
Post-Easter dinner, I reflect a bit on the deeper connection I now feel as a widow attending such kind of family events, as a non-family guest, even though I'm…
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no need to tell others who you are
An in-your-face reminder that just 'cause someone says so, doesn't mean they are. Empresses don't have to tell others who they be. They live in it with their…
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get some sleep
For me, the hardest part of running a household solo is to remind myself that not everything on the daily task list will get done, and to be forgiving about…
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mind the gaps
This video is a short thank-you in the most mundane way, marking the end of my late husband's estate distribution of tools. I'm grateful for passing this…
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mundane thoughts of Google alerts and Sinclair women
I received a Google alert mentioning a recent video on my channel on another YouTuber's account. However, there's no obvious connection, text-wise, so it's a…
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not my hangover
Energetically, I have empathetically felt another soul's physical manifestation of excess in my vibe, feeling just like a hangover. Given that I didn't…
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false prophets talk
were the first words in my head this morning. Yup, I agreed, then felt guided to speak on the topic of those who talk out of turn. Gabbin' about yammerers…
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sitting in the truth of the divine plan
From my view, it's not easy to live in truth. Some say it's all about leaning into your faith. Well, I agree, but it doesn't mean anyone will support you for…
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lighten up
Once I realized the light within me is simply flowing through me, it became clear that we all have this light flowing through each of our selves - we're all…
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my light is not mine, nor is it yours
My shine is nothing more than me tapping into the universe, letting it flow through me, to create. Then, releasing my 'grip' on the light, returning it, along…
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your eff-ups are controlled by others
I had a series of eff-ups during regular tasks and it got me thinking about how I just attribute it to self-sabotage, due to inattention. And, in consideration…
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defending yourself against distracted actions
This morning, pre-caffeine, I was 'hoisted by my own petard'. I'm sharing with you just how easy it is to be distracted at the precise moment a meaningful…
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intuitively releasing thoughts that aren't 'yours'
Understanding something without the need for conscious reasoning is only helpful when also using discernment to filter internal from external thoughts. Doing…
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they came, they saw saws, and they conquered
This post memorializes my gratitude for the local woodworking creators who stepped up and removed the last few tools my late husband used. For me, it's the…
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after this, then that
I'm approaching the end of a life cycle, and it's time to put that plan, post-life cycle, into action. Once that action completes, the next life cycle begins…
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three times the lightness
I'm expressing gratitude for nearing the end of a chapter of my widowhood, once the last of my late husband's tools are in the hands of other creators. If you…
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bin-tipping Yogi, hungry tick, and your destiny
I'm talkin' hungry: black bears, ticks, and for knowing one's spiritual purpose. Yeah, all the most disparate, mundane happenings here in the woods, and I pull…
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seeing is believing
I awoke this morning with a worrisome thought about losing my sight. Clearly, I see this as another example of spiritual trespassing, as the incoming…
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not a fool standing alone
I recorded this on 1 April 2026, April Fool's Day, as a reminder to accept what is unseen as real, if and only if, your intuition and discernment are…
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the seeds of lack
For the first time in a few years (since my husband died), I'm finally prepping the garden for an abundant season. A bottle of home-grown hot sauce. As I chose…
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red is C Major
Hi, my name is Sue and I have chromasynthesia. No, it's not an affliction or abuse disorder, it's a melding of two senses (and that connection is often…
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dig it while you're in it
Allowing myself to sit in a positive energy that has yet to manifest in my physical world is no different that listening to music. You don't have to see…
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replicate that good vibe
When I studied music, one of the most important skills to learn is that of adjusting your vibe to fit the music, regardless of whether you're actually not into…
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the secret word is
out. . .and you're the last to know. Those who are meant to receive the message have already done so - at time of recording, and you, viewer, are not in the…
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does it sit right with you?
In my view, everything around me, all the things I experience with my senses, is potentially, a manipulation. Not something to be skeptical towards, just be…
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waking up wearing a smile
I once believed that being married meant I had 'made it' with my life. Great job - check. Great husband - check. I awoke each morning with a smile on my face…
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AAAARGH
This morning, when I thought through the list of impending things to do, the stress I felt about not (yet) completing those tasks, had me vocalizing with great…
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when you're out and about, eat out
That was one expensive habit, eating out when not at home, and was an axiom in my life for most of my commuting years. It continued when working from home…
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adding routines without chaos
A few days ago, I spontaneously decided to post these videos on a few podcasting platforms without really knowing what was necessary to do so. The process got…
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box ticked: Not Lonely
As a widow with online social profiles, I'm a target for scammers, particularly, for romance. And, understanding that, the best protection/prevention is to be…
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freeing a spiritual log jam
On days where I have a large chunk of free time, I go through the list in my head of all those to-be-dealt-with-later projects. The ones that I postpone to do…
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wishing you peace and calm
For me, sending and receiving condolence sentiments used to be a slightly awkward moment, given the timing of receiving such news is always unplanned. It's…
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are you good?
Those who choose to ask 'how are you?' are, based on my interactions, energy siphoners. They don't see themselves that way, but nonetheless, are, in my view…
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de-vine what's not divine
My life hack to remaining positive, no matter what incoming negative energetic projections are sent my way, is to commit to things that interact with weather…
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what did you say?
One of the features of being married to a non-native English speaker, who occasionally sleep talks, is for the English spouse not understanding what they're…
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everyday first moments
Shortly after I became a widow, I decided that I might as well record what I saying to myself, just so I could listen to it again, as a reminder of where I was…
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calls sign
Why call when a text will do? is my mantra, and those who communicate with me agree. So, when the phone rings, for me, it's an event. When it happens three…
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mundane journaling is personal legacy
This is the first podcast episode featuring my daily journaling of the mundane happenings in my life. I am an American widow working in the music business, an…