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Dits & Dahs
This is my daily journal of my mundane experiences and personal views, mostly about self-actualization. I'm an American widow in the music business, working life out post-destitution, and sending out positive vibes all the while. Shine in Truth. And, have a giggle while traveling through the liminal spaces to your happy place.
Episodes
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using positivity to shut down entity attachments
The perpetually cranky/grumpy/pissant person who's always around you might, potentially, have a negative attachment - for which they don't realize ('cause they…
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connected with patterns
Recently, a viewer commented that I had shared a video outside of the usual timeframe I post. And, it reminded me that my connection to others is all about the…
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Happy birthday, Hogg
As I write this, today would be my late husband's 70th birthday. Friends invited me out to lunch with the idea I shouldn't be alone on such a milestone. It got…
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Time's up, MFKWs, the payment is now due
The martini-fueled kitchen witches have appeaared in my vision again, this time with a projection of frenetically anxious deadline energy. Dozens of them all…
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the joy of knowing it's just another day
One of the mantras I adopted shortly after my husband died, and I was in the trenches finding/closing accounts he had in the US and the UK, was 'it's just…
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'how are you' is an energy siphon
In my experience as a widow, I learned that asking that question (how are you?) is a direct request for me to share my hard-earned energy with another soul who…
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the devil in the prayer circle
I had a weird vision about the head witch (of the martini-fueled kitchen witches) joining an online prayer circle chat room, asking for prayers to protect her…
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phoning it in to visualize success
For me, most of my daily business communication with others is email, simply because in my world of licensing agreements, having all the data in writing saves…
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midsummer, birthday, and another failed accident ritual
The summer solstice inspired me to blather, in a meandering way, about my personal appreciation of the longest day; a few thoughts about next month's birthday…
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protect yourself like this Earth angel does
Sometimes, the best response when feeling 'off' with emotions is to focus on whatever gives you joy. Give the gift you wish to receive. When we all do just…
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a Juneteenth three-sign featuring switch-hitting twins using lust to distract
The confirming sign in my life is usually a triple sign, which for some reason I referred to as, three-sign in this video, and today's threesome, was just the…
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focused on. . .
One of the signature spiritual attacks used on me (for several years) is straight out of the 'co-dependent widow' playbook, intended to project a vibe of…
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three categories, one podcast
Recently, three podcast SEO marketing emails came across my desk begging for my money to increase listenership and, ultimately, monetize this podcast. Each…
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the faith of YOU
When I first recognized that the thoughts swimming in our minds are not our own, I also realized that some thoughts came from Source, and not everyone in my…
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Not effing with the Empress cartomancer
I occasionally read energies using tarot cards, however, it's best to always have an emotionally-neutral headspace, treating the tale as fiction. If a tiny bit…
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using spontaneous playlisting to see the do-over signs
In celebration of today, Flag Day, the USArmy's 251st and NY Knicks championship win, I spontaneously decided to playlist a bit, and this is always a sign of…
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fewer words have more potency
A feature of living solo is that I might not speak to another soul for a few days. And, my solution is to create these posts to release the pent-up words, so…
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I loves me, baby
When you love on yourself (yes, that physical activity) and you're visualizing another person is in your energy, you're projecting towards them with your most…
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fewer words have more potency
A feature of living solo is that I might not speak to another soul for a few days. And, my solution is to create these posts to release the pent-up words, so…
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your diminished success was not your creation
I've learned that when I return to the thought that was interrupted by a distraction (of any kind), I see that those interruptions were meant to keep me from…
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sights to see
Not having much money means hanging out at home, instead of traveling, which I used to consider as a limiting mindset. I viewed traveling as entertainment…
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when interrupting someone mid-thought is a projection intended to spiritually agitate
When folks interrupt your opening salvo with an "uh, but, let me finish. . ." kind of interjection, just know it's intended to make you feel as though you're…
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pay up time for the clueless kitchen witches
The martini-fueled kitchen witches are not only annoyed that they are now seen. but really annoyed with these posts. They're projecting a heavy 'how dare you'…
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the moment the martini-fueled kitchen witches are exposed as clueless fakes
When I started paying attention to all those unrelated little annoyances happening in my life, I realized they were all functioning as a sign. Was it a sign of…
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I see you going through what I've gone through
If you're receiving spiritual attacks that cause doubt, confusion, and chaos with everything in your life, it's likely you have no one that can truly…
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the three-pronged attack
I observed three attacks recently, when that combined together, are a confirming sign that non-reacting in a stoic manner, is the way forward in life. Whether…
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dead fawn and distractions yet calm
It's another mundane day in the forest: a peep at mama and her two cubs devour venison tartare, brown water instead of coffee, and understanding that…
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one rotten apple spoiled it for the rest of us
Occasionally, I come across a policy/law/municipal code that I realize was enacted just 'cause a few folks abused the privilege and the words were put in place…
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not stressing the well with the curtain twitchers
As a homeowner, household emergencies sometimes align with previously-scheduled events, such that the impact of that emergency is more easily endured by not…
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we know the worth of water
I'm channeling Benjamin Franklin today after stressing the well. And, like his sentiment of this quote, as published in Poor Richard's Almanac, is all about…
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keeping no records
For me, when all else fails, forgiveness of self and all those around us, is the way forward. An extra dose is laid on for the spiritual attackers. You know…
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$100 says I can get her to touch her nose
Realizing those inexplicable 'urges' to touch my nose weren't organic to me (there was no reason for me to have such an itch), then me, pro-actively resisting…
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good morning, love
The first waking thought of the day sets the day on its path, and for me, lately, my first thought is of peace and calm. Ironically, given I had always…
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the double depletion of substance abuse
If I could travel back in time a few years, while married to a person with a substance abuse disorder, I would tell myself to spend less than I earn, and to at…
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teach yourself what you already know and learn something new
When the world sees you as the success you see in yourself, say, in one expertise, go on and teach yourself something new, just by using what you already know…
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do it this way, not your way
From my experience, the 'traditional' method to teach music isn't best suited for me, and I'm sure that's a shared sentiment with other music students. The…
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charting in Kazakhstan
According to an email I received from a podcast data tracking platform, the audio version of this blog is ranking in the music category, via Apple podcasts, in…
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permanent residency and the rogue gamepiece
I share my thoughts regarding green card seekers leaving the US to reapply outside US borders, along with a revelation I had as a gamepiece in an energetic…
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keeping it G-rated to F with my handlers
Living a life with a kid-friendly vibe in an adult household, for me, is an easy way to maintain positivity, particularly when consuming media. By making a…
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the false prophet fleecing their flock
I'm sharing a dream/vision I had of a false spiritual leader leading a group of followers with the belief she had the mojo to help the group elevate within the…
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the hand-me-down karma
I'm usually open to receiving hand-me-downs from folks, and on the top level, it's dharma, ie, receiving a welcome gift from a loving energy with gratitude…
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Rule No. 89
This rule resonated with me as it pertains to spiritual trespassing. Don't speak badly of others when they're not present. This is one of 114 rules of civility…
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How you, the mouse, traps the cat and lives to tell the tail
See what I did there? Tale of a tail, a cat's tail, that is. Once you realize that when you feel 'off', you see that is a vibe projected towards you intended…
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mama didn't raise a fool
I recorded this audio on April Fool's Day and I'm guided to share that standing alone in truth can be lonely, and can feel like a vunerability. Especially so…
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your nature is in nature
I see nature as part of my life that is pure and without artifice. Nature is the one place where I can easily balance my mind, body, and spirit, given its all…
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arrogant sadist vs balanced stoic
The weird thing about accidentally dropping my digital recorder on the tile floor is that it moved up out of my hands first before gravity kicked in. Of…
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no booze = no bluez
I'm sharing the revelation I had realizing that when I stopped drinking, much of the negative thoughts I had, no longer had a toe-hold on my energy. Given that…
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feeling joy when awake makes for joyful sleep
I've had bouts of time in my life where my sleep felt anxious and emotionally draining, mainly because I was stressing over finances or worried about an…
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not following the crowd
As a musician, having a crowd around when performing is essential, but as a solo living soul, having a crowd around while living my day-to-day existence, and…
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banishing the generational curse of blaming and shaming yourself
Living in a perpetual state always finding a reason to blame or shame myself for my own, well-earned success, ended once I saw that it was 'nothing' more than…
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don't feed the egregore
Follow the real leader. Hint: That's the one who wings it, not the one who tells you to follow them. If you feel guided to do so, here's a bit more. . . I…
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thine own self
I created a request video recently and totally winged it. I'm an improviser, so winging it is a comfortable place for me, but doing so while wearing the hat of…
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fake judgemental energy
I had a chat with the universe about receiving an incoming negative energy intended for me to make a snap judgment to banish my eternal love from my realm…
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celebrating spiritual marriage
One of the milestones I was meant to achieve, at least according to my parents, was to get married. They were married for 65 years, so what's good for them…
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are you a 1.0 or 2.0 soul?
I'm sharing my thoughts about the light you shine just being you, you know, your pure energy. If you see that others don't see your shine, then just know, not…
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creativity as spiritual encouragement
A friend called recently to share his encouragement after listening to a bit of my music (feel free to check out the Tiny Affirmations and Osmosiphersations…
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giving myself a helping hand
Most of the household tasks I handle now as a widow haven't changed since before my husband's death, but others, such as a major clean/purge take much longer…
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pawsitive reinforcement for dog AND owner
When I came downstairs this morning (to start the day), I noticed that my dog had an accident in the house. Post-cleanup, I thought about how I non-react to…
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body memory, fun-filled brain, and four therebys
It's an end-of-the-work-week blather in randomness about how I value teaching the body to do new things, filling my brain with fun stuff, and raising my…
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a light's out tickle
Sometimes, a really unusual/weird event happens, followed quickly by another event - unrelated to the first - and I'm left wondering if both are signs, or just…