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- 0:00Speaker 1: She's on the Money.
- 0:02Speaker 2: She's on the Money. Hello and welcome to the first
- 0:14Speaker 2: episode of the third season of She's on the Money,
- 0:17Speaker 2: the podcast for millennials who want financial freedom. My name
- 0:20Speaker 2: is Georgia King, a copywriter and journalism student with a
- 0:23Speaker 2: little bit announced when it comes to the world of money,
- 0:25Speaker 2: but still with lots to learn if I'm honest, and
- 0:27Speaker 2: here to help answer my never ending list of questions
- 0:30Speaker 2: is my glorious co host Ms. Victoria Divine Vicki d Hello.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Excuse me, Georgia, keys you Bikindi. Yeah, that's disgusting, but
- 0:38Speaker 1: I'm glad to be back. Thank you to see you.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Okay, So today on the show, we are going to
- 0:44Speaker 2: be tackling the controversial world of fast fashion, talking through
- 0:47Speaker 2: the problems with the unsustainable system as it stands, as
- 0:50Speaker 2: well as the ways we can ethically engage with fashion
- 0:52Speaker 2: without ruining our bank accounts. But first, Victoria, money wins
- 0:55Speaker 2: or confessions? What if it got for me?
- 0:57Speaker 1: For the last little while, Okay, I've thought good and
- 0:59Speaker 1: hard about this. I have had ample time to think
- 1:01Speaker 1: of money wins and confessions. And this week well, I
- 1:04Speaker 1: mean this one was from last week, but last week
- 1:07Speaker 1: my best friend, Steph turned thirty.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Happy Steph, Happy birthday.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Stephanie. You are one of my greatest friends.
- 1:15Speaker 1: She knows that already. But we decided to go out
- 1:19Speaker 1: for a high tea for her birthday, so she distanced. Yeah,
- 1:21Speaker 1: of course, to a very beautiful venue. It is what
- 1:24Speaker 1: she wanted to do. It's actually what I wanted to
- 1:26Speaker 1: do as well. So we were stoked about this.
- 1:28Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:29Speaker 1: We turned up to the restaurant and they weren't actually
- 1:32Speaker 1: ready for us, and the waitress was delightful, but you
- 1:36Speaker 1: could tell she was so stressed, and so she's like,
- 1:40Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, guys. We have completely,
- 1:43Speaker 1: you know, lost the plot in here today. It's going
- 1:46Speaker 1: to be forty five minutes before you get any food
- 1:49Speaker 1: on your table.
- 1:49Speaker 2: Yeah, bit of a ways.
- 1:50Speaker 1: Yeah, And we could tell she was really stressed, and
- 1:52Speaker 1: we're like, no problems, do not worry at all. Like
- 1:55Speaker 1: we honestly weren't fazed.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Just happy to be out of it.
- 1:57Speaker 1: That we were happy to be out of the house.
- 1:58Speaker 1: We couldn't believe that you were free. But also, you know,
- 2:02Speaker 1: it's not her fault. You know, these things happen. Also,
- 2:05Speaker 1: we were having a good day. We were not going
- 2:07Speaker 1: to let that get in the way. So she's like,
- 2:09Speaker 1: do you want a mimosa? I was like, of course
- 2:11Speaker 1: I want a mimosa. So step and I shared a
- 2:13Speaker 1: couple of mimosas, and then she comes over to our
- 2:15Speaker 1: table and she's like, hey, guys, you know it was
- 2:17Speaker 1: still going to be another twenty minutes or whatever it was,
- 2:20Speaker 1: but I just want to let you know that I'm
- 2:21Speaker 1: going to comp the whole thing because you guys were
- 2:24Speaker 1: so nice to me, and I was so worried you
- 2:26Speaker 1: guys would come in and be really nasty to me
- 2:29Speaker 1: because you know, we didn't have it ready in time.
- 2:31Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my gosh, no way. So my
- 2:34Speaker 1: money win is that we went out for a fancy,
- 2:37Speaker 1: fancy high tea and then the whole whole thing.
- 2:40Speaker 2: That's so nice.
- 2:41Speaker 1: How good is that?
- 2:42Speaker 2: I mean, you guys would have been happy just with
- 2:43Speaker 2: the free mimosa.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I would have been happy with a
- 2:46Speaker 1: free mimosa. In fact, I was happy not having anything
- 2:49Speaker 1: for free. But I just thought that was really kind
- 2:52Speaker 1: and that was a very nice money win for me. Georgiad, yeah,
- 2:56Speaker 1: cover money win, all money confession. I don't know where
- 2:58Speaker 1: you've been.
- 3:00Speaker 2: Well, I do have a money in this week, and
- 3:02Speaker 2: I prised, guys, Victoria hasn't paid me to say this,
- 3:05Speaker 2: where are we going? Because so I've been at Victoria's
- 3:08Speaker 2: a little bit lately. We've been podcasts planning, we've been recording,
- 3:11Speaker 2: we've been doing it all and she's been feeding me
- 3:13Speaker 2: basically I.
- 3:14Speaker 1: Do for summary.
- 3:15Speaker 2: Yeah, so the other day, what did she make me?
- 3:17Speaker 2: She made me poached eggs on toast I did with
- 3:19Speaker 2: the side of and then we had like a burrito
- 3:22Speaker 2: for lunch, some coffees and then a glass of red
- 3:24Speaker 2: wines around out the day.
- 3:26Speaker 1: And don't forget the raspberry lollies that we have through
- 3:29Speaker 1: spraspberry bullets and what are Daryl raspbry bullets and the
- 3:33Speaker 1: raspberry tweeters. Sorry, keep them in the fridge. It makes
- 3:36Speaker 1: the delight last longer.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Yeah, that was that was good. But essentially you saved
- 3:40Speaker 2: me a day's worth of eating very luxuriously.
- 3:44Speaker 1: So I don't know, I think that's the money win.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Are you trying to wind up what's going on there?
- 3:51Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just trying to impress you in that you.
- 3:53Speaker 3: Can sign and pressed.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Well, I was just hoping that you'd sign on for
- 3:57Speaker 1: another season of She's on the Money. You know what,
- 4:00Speaker 1: Georgia just seems like the type of person I could
- 4:02Speaker 1: bribe with food, and yet was I wrong?
- 4:05Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 4:06Speaker 2: You know. Okay, let's go back to the podcast. Okay, sorry,
- 4:10Speaker 2: We'll take a quick look at the Facebook community I reckon,
- 4:12Speaker 2: who unsurprisingly has been incredibly supportive during a time that
- 4:16Speaker 2: has been so hard for so many Victoria, have any
- 4:19Speaker 2: of the posts stood out to you recently?
- 4:21Speaker 1: Yes, I actually have one post. I think it's related
- 4:26Speaker 1: to our podcast topic as well, so I feel like
- 4:29Speaker 1: this is a really good one. So I've got one
- 4:31Speaker 1: from Dana and she posted this week. Actually she said
- 4:34Speaker 1: money when I've had a few pieces of clothing that
- 4:37Speaker 1: still had tags or were only worn once, and a
- 4:39Speaker 1: pair of skates sitting in my wardrobe for over a year.
- 4:42Speaker 1: So for the first time last week I tried to
- 4:45Speaker 1: put them on eBay and within a minute, one of
- 4:48Speaker 1: the shirts was already sold. And yesterday she put the
- 4:51Speaker 1: skates on Facebook and within five minutes she sold the
- 4:54Speaker 1: skates on Facebook, meaning that she made one hundred and
- 4:57Speaker 1: sixty bucks in what's happen like six minutes worth of
- 5:00Speaker 1: work anyway. I think that's a really big money win
- 5:03Speaker 1: and also a little bit of a kickup the pants
- 5:06Speaker 1: for someone like me who has had so much time
- 5:08Speaker 1: at home yet hasn't gone through her wardrobe or put
- 5:11Speaker 1: anything on eBay or Facebook or garmentry or anywhere to
- 5:14Speaker 1: sell it.
- 5:14Speaker 2: The same I have a huge bag of clothes and
- 5:16Speaker 2: I've been meaning to do that with and I just
- 5:19Speaker 2: I can't be bothered.
- 5:20Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you saw in my study last time
- 5:22Speaker 1: You're at my house, Georgia, that I actually have a
- 5:25Speaker 1: pile of clothing and shoes in the corner of my
- 5:28Speaker 1: study that I've been saying, Look, they're too good to donate,
- 5:31Speaker 1: but I also want to put them on eBay or
- 5:33Speaker 1: something and just haven't done it. I need to find it.
- 5:37Speaker 2: Although Dona Dana did part with her skates, which upsets me.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna let my skates go. I actually
- 5:43Speaker 1: have some pretty sick rollerblades. Really.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:45Speaker 1: My best friend or one of my best friends, Frozen
- 5:47Speaker 1: and I when she didn't live in Canada because she's
- 5:50Speaker 1: bailed on me, we used to go roller blading all
- 5:53Speaker 1: the time. Yes, it was actually so fun interesting. Yes,
- 5:56Speaker 1: we used to like use our Saturday mornings. And this
- 5:59Speaker 1: is probably the lamest thing you'll learn about me. We
- 6:01Speaker 1: used to on a Saturday morning go roller skating, had
- 6:05Speaker 1: a really fun time. Just like so near where we live,
- 6:09Speaker 1: or where Rose used to live before she left me
- 6:12Speaker 1: to move to Canada, was a completely concreted path and
- 6:16Speaker 1: it was called the Century Trail. For anyone who lives
- 6:19Speaker 1: in the Inn East you'll know what I'm talking about.
- 6:22Speaker 1: So we'd go along the Century Trail, all completely concreted,
- 6:25Speaker 1: so perfect for our rollerblades. I stacked it a couple
- 6:28Speaker 1: of times. We've got some Gnali scars from our roller
- 6:30Speaker 1: plating escapades, but you know what we do after that,
- 6:33Speaker 1: we'd go to seven leander them and get slurpies because
- 6:36Speaker 1: we're at all no I was twenty eight. No judgment here,
- 6:41Speaker 1: no judgment, but I thought we were still having fun.
- 6:44Speaker 2: I'm happy for you. I'm glad we spent five honurs.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Sugar free about our sugar free coke. Slurvies were absolutely amazing.
- 6:51Speaker 1: One dollar, by the way, is what a slurpy cost
- 6:53Speaker 1: of these days. It's not healthy, but what a good
- 6:57Speaker 1: date day for me and a friend.
- 6:58Speaker 2: Yeah, love that for you.
- 6:59Speaker 1: You know what. I think you should keep the podcast going,
- 7:01Speaker 1: get us back on track. Georgia King. I would love
- 7:04Speaker 1: to know if you have something from the community that
- 7:06Speaker 1: you would like to do.
- 7:07Speaker 2: I have a little win from a lovely lady named Lauren,
- 7:10Speaker 2: and she's written a whole post about Lulu lemon so
- 7:15Speaker 2: I know they're the best. Essentially, she had some types
- 7:18Speaker 2: for a few years. They were starting to disintegrate or deteriorate,
- 7:22Speaker 2: she's written, so she went back in and spoke with
- 7:25Speaker 2: the sales associate and they actually exchanged them really, which
- 7:29Speaker 2: seems I didn't know that that was a thing. I
- 7:31Speaker 2: know that's a thing for some brands, especially more expensive brands.
- 7:34Speaker 2: Like let's be honest, how much does the cost of
- 7:36Speaker 2: Lulu leggings cost you? One hundred and something?
- 7:39Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred and twenty or three? Yeah, and they
- 7:41Speaker 1: are more expensive ones. Yeah, Look, they're an investment. They
- 7:44Speaker 1: are super comfy. But also if you bought them in
- 7:46Speaker 1: a month later, all the scenes came undone. I' yeah
- 7:48Speaker 1: pretty annoyed. Yeah, I love that money when I think
- 7:50Speaker 1: that's really good. But I'd also like to point out
- 7:53Speaker 1: that I actually did say that on Facebook. Georgia. Yes,
- 7:56Speaker 1: and I didn't love some of the comments on there
- 7:59Speaker 1: because I felt like a lot of people were potentially
- 8:01Speaker 1: trying to abuse that policy. Right, So, I mean, if
- 8:04Speaker 1: you've had them for a while and they've definitely deteriorated
- 8:08Speaker 1: beyond what reasonable wear and tear might be, then absolutely
- 8:11Speaker 1: take them back. They're a quality product and you should
- 8:14Speaker 1: expect quality right to us. And if you've been wearing
- 8:16Speaker 1: them for five years and you're taking your old Lulu
- 8:19Speaker 1: leggings back and saying, okay, well you can replace these,
- 8:22Speaker 1: I've worn these out now, Yeah, I mean you've got
- 8:24Speaker 1: good cost per wear out of those, I think that
- 8:26Speaker 1: maybe you should do the right thing by the brands
- 8:29Speaker 1: because if you don't, those policies are going to disappear
- 8:32Speaker 1: to the people who actually need them.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Yes, so don't take key there, Yeah, don't.
- 8:36Speaker 1: Take the mickey. But like good little chat I think
- 8:38Speaker 1: to have but also definitely a money win and definitely
- 8:42Speaker 1: stand up for the things that you are entitled to
- 8:45Speaker 1: as well, Like if something is broken, take it back.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Ye ask the retailer what they can do about it.
- 8:50Speaker 1: The worst they can say is no, exactly, just be kind,
- 8:53Speaker 1: like approach everything with kindness, and I'm sure people will
- 8:56Speaker 1: throw it right back at you.
- 8:57Speaker 2: A lovely message to end that on fee. Alrighty, so
- 9:00Speaker 2: now it is time for the main topic of today's show,
- 9:03Speaker 2: Fast Fashion?
- 9:04Speaker 1: Well, who who?
- 9:05Speaker 2: Fast Fashion is the term given to the cycle in
- 9:08Speaker 2: which big brands mass produce the latest runway trends at
- 9:11Speaker 2: an affordable price, making them accessible to a wider group
- 9:14Speaker 2: of people. Now this does sound noble, and it's great
- 9:17Speaker 2: that affordability means less exclusivity, but usually these fast fashion
- 9:21Speaker 2: giants actually like integrity in their business practice and they
- 9:24Speaker 2: utilize unsustainable, unethical methods to keep their prices low. Now
- 9:28Speaker 2: I've done my research, guys, and according to the ABC,
- 9:31Speaker 2: Australians are currently disposing of six thousand kilograms of fashion
- 9:35Speaker 2: and textile waste every ten minutes.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Wait what ten minutes?
- 9:39Speaker 2: Ten minutes? Six thousand kilograms?
- 9:41Speaker 1: Okay? I thought you were going to say like every
- 9:43Speaker 1: month or something, and I was going to be horrified
- 9:46Speaker 1: at that as well. But what do you mean every
- 9:47Speaker 1: ten minutes in Australia? Okay, sorry, I'll let you get
- 9:50Speaker 1: back with you rap. Yes, sorry, I just needed to
- 9:52Speaker 1: jump in there. Give me some more status stat scalp.
- 9:55Speaker 2: Okay, So the fashion industry also accounts with ten percent
- 9:59Speaker 2: of global p which is actually the second highest industry contributor.
- 10:03Speaker 2: And this is because of these pesticides and cotton farming,
- 10:06Speaker 2: as well as fossil fuels and the production of polyester,
- 10:08Speaker 2: and also the release of methane from clothes in landfill,
- 10:11Speaker 2: as well as heaps of other destructive bits and pieces.
- 10:14Speaker 2: Victoria for context, because I am harping on over here
- 10:18Speaker 2: for context, can you please talk us through a little
- 10:20Speaker 2: bit of the history of fast fashion in Australia and
- 10:22Speaker 2: talk us through white is so very problematic.
- 10:24Speaker 1: That was actually really interesting, And Georgia and I this
- 10:27Speaker 1: season have decided to not read each other's notes before
- 10:30Speaker 1: we go into podcast recording. So I'm actually shocked that
- 10:33Speaker 1: that is the case, Georgia. It has a lot of
- 10:37Speaker 1: issues associated with it, right, Like we know that already.
- 10:40Speaker 1: We've probably seen on blogs on Instagram. We can see
- 10:43Speaker 1: all of these fashion brands trying to be more ethical
- 10:46Speaker 1: and for good reason. But one of the main issues
- 10:49Speaker 1: here is that's so bad for the environment in both
- 10:51Speaker 1: pollution and waste, but also the social aspects of inadequate
- 10:55Speaker 1: working additions in the warehouses that exist abroad, which also
- 10:59Speaker 1: have completely unsustainable wages for those factory workers, which, honestly,
- 11:04Speaker 1: let's be honest, is a huge issue. So the other
- 11:07Speaker 1: big issue is that we are spending money on items
- 11:10Speaker 1: that do not last for us and they don't serve
- 11:13Speaker 1: us well in the long term. So look, there's just
- 11:16Speaker 1: so much going on there. And I could harp on
- 11:18Speaker 1: about values and beliefs and all of the things that
- 11:20Speaker 1: I believe in. I think you guys know where I
- 11:22Speaker 1: would go with that. But I think it's really important
- 11:25Speaker 1: to just start this conversation, especially in our community, because
- 11:28Speaker 1: it is so important. So in the past ten to
- 11:31Speaker 1: twenty years, things have changed dramtically, let's be honest. We
- 11:34Speaker 1: are making leaps and bounds in the right direction. And
- 11:37Speaker 1: the fashion process now no longer takes like six months,
- 11:41Speaker 1: actually can take only two weeks.
- 11:43Speaker 2: So that's ridiculous, insane how much goes into the design
- 11:46Speaker 2: and the production and the retail of it exactly.
- 11:49Speaker 1: But it's also somewhat terrifying because you've got to think
- 11:52Speaker 1: about what people are compromising to make that happen. So
- 11:57Speaker 1: it's now no longer a process of six months. It's
- 12:00Speaker 1: back and forth for design and then construction and all
- 12:02Speaker 1: of that other stuff. If it can take two weeks, obviously,
- 12:05Speaker 1: that means that we can be in the latest trends quicker,
- 12:08Speaker 1: but also at what cost? And I think that we
- 12:11Speaker 1: really need to be talking about that. So the essence
- 12:14Speaker 1: of fast fashion is that it is seen to be
- 12:16Speaker 1: somewhat disposable. I guess it's due to its cheap price
- 12:19Speaker 1: point and often low quality. Like how many times have
- 12:22Speaker 1: we all said, oh, oh, just buy that toop, It'll
- 12:24Speaker 1: be perfect for Saturday night yep, and then you never
- 12:26Speaker 1: wear it again exactly. So for me, that's something that
- 12:29Speaker 1: I've spoken about before, and it's not aligned to my
- 12:32Speaker 1: goals and my values, but it's also something that you
- 12:36Speaker 1: know each to our own. But I have friends that
- 12:38Speaker 1: I've had conversations around this topic and they're like, I've
- 12:40Speaker 1: really never thought about it too deeply, and so I
- 12:43Speaker 1: think that it's just a really good conversation to open up. Yeah, so, Georgia,
- 12:47Speaker 1: to jump back on track, the fact of the matter
- 12:49Speaker 1: is that these always new stock in store. That compels
- 12:53Speaker 1: us as the consumers to keep shopping so that we
- 12:55Speaker 1: can obtain the latest and greatest, which we feel like
- 12:59Speaker 1: we should Yeah, I shouldn't but our dopamine levels are
- 13:02Speaker 1: associated with this. To get a little bit psychology on
- 13:05Speaker 1: you for a second, which are our pleasure hormones or
- 13:07Speaker 1: receptors as you would like. And when we see these things,
- 13:10Speaker 1: we want to buy them, and they give us this
- 13:12Speaker 1: really good feeling, so it spikes, but then it goes
- 13:14Speaker 1: away immediately. So I feel like a lot of us
- 13:16Speaker 1: are potentially buying clothes that we don't need because they
- 13:18Speaker 1: make us feel good for five minutes, we wear them
- 13:20Speaker 1: once and then they just blow the landfill, and it's
- 13:23Speaker 1: an absolute waste for everybody involved. It's waste of your money,
- 13:26Speaker 1: it's a waste of resources. It is just a waste.
- 13:28Speaker 1: I mean, I'm being dramatic, but the end of the day,
- 13:30Speaker 1: it's something that I'm quite passionate about. And we often
- 13:34Speaker 1: end up in situations where we buy something a month ago,
- 13:37Speaker 1: then we don't want it anymore because we bought it
- 13:39Speaker 1: in the heat of the moment. Maybe it was like
- 13:41Speaker 1: ill fitted, but you're willing to compromise because it's cheap.
- 13:45Speaker 1: But then it's like, well, I'm not gonna wear it
- 13:46Speaker 1: because it is ill fitted, And yeah, that's the end
- 13:50Speaker 1: of my little fast fashion ranch. But the driving principle
- 13:53Speaker 1: of the problem with this fashion form and explains why
- 13:57Speaker 1: it's so effective but also slow damaging on our personal
- 14:00Speaker 1: bank accounts.
- 14:01Speaker 2: Well, that's it, isn't it.
- 14:02Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not just talking about, you know, being ethical
- 14:04Speaker 1: and buying things from overseas. It's like, well, I know
- 14:07Speaker 1: that top from H and M was only going to
- 14:09Speaker 1: cost you fourteen dollars or something, but when you buy
- 14:11Speaker 1: three of those a month exactly, and we justify it
- 14:15Speaker 1: so easy because quote me, oh, it was only fifteen dollars,
- 14:18Speaker 1: or it was only twenty dollars. Yeah, twenty dollars is
- 14:21Speaker 1: a lot in the grand scheme of things, especially if
- 14:23Speaker 1: it's not going towards something constructive exactly.
- 14:26Speaker 2: I think you guys spoke about this in season one
- 14:29Speaker 2: in the Price of Comparison, But would you say that
- 14:31Speaker 2: social media plays into this expectation that we always need
- 14:35Speaker 2: to be looking fresh and and new top, like you
- 14:37Speaker 2: can't wear the same thing twice on the socials, that's silly,
- 14:40Speaker 2: Like what's that about.
- 14:42Speaker 1: I think that that definitely plays into it. That was
- 14:44Speaker 1: one of my favorite episodes actually to record, because it's
- 14:47Speaker 1: something I'm so passionate about and I think there's this
- 14:50Speaker 1: unrealistic expectation for us to consistently be in the latest
- 14:54Speaker 1: and greatest when it's not actually necessary. Like we put
- 14:58Speaker 1: these expectations on ourself, but we'd never in a million
- 15:01Speaker 1: years put them on our friends. Like I might think,
- 15:03Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I can't wear you know, I'm at
- 15:06Speaker 1: a life stage where a lot of my friends are
- 15:07Speaker 1: getting married, and my thought process is, I'm not going
- 15:11Speaker 1: to wear that dress to the wedding because the friends
- 15:12Speaker 1: that are going to be at the wedding have seen
- 15:14Speaker 1: that dress before. Whereas I'm sure if I asked you, Georgia, hey,
- 15:17Speaker 1: should I wear that navy dress that I have, you go, yeah,
- 15:19Speaker 1: you look great in it, Like, just wear it again.
- 15:21Speaker 1: It's great dress. So I think that we put unrealistic
- 15:24Speaker 1: expectations on ourselves that we would never actually put on
- 15:27Speaker 1: our friends. So I think we need to be a
- 15:28Speaker 1: little bit kinder to ourselves and also just be aware that,
- 15:32Speaker 1: you know, we aren't all social media influencers. And you
- 15:36Speaker 1: know you've said this a million times, but debt is invisible.
- 15:39Speaker 1: Like each time you see someone on a social media
- 15:41Speaker 1: platform wearing the latest and greatest one, you don't know
- 15:44Speaker 1: if it was gifted to them. That's very popular right
- 15:47Speaker 1: now where brands will reach out to influencers and say, hey,
- 15:50Speaker 1: we'll give you a dress if you post it on
- 15:51Speaker 1: your feed. But two, you don't know how much debt
- 15:54Speaker 1: they went into that, or if they're not in debt,
- 15:56Speaker 1: you don't know their financial situation that has allowed them
- 15:59Speaker 1: to afford that, exactly. So stop comparing yourself to the
- 16:02Speaker 1: journey if.
- 16:03Speaker 2: We know on Instagram we're only seeing people's highlight reels exactly. No.
- 16:08Speaker 1: I love your mum. I think she's great and also
- 16:10Speaker 1: has some wisdom there. But I posted a quote the
- 16:13Speaker 1: other day that said, sometimes the grass is green ut
- 16:16Speaker 1: because it's fake, and I just thought that was so good. Yeah,
- 16:20Speaker 1: I mean not so good, but like I saw it
- 16:22Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, that's so true,
- 16:25Speaker 1: so true. Yeah, that is so true, And like that
- 16:27Speaker 1: then aligns George to my favorite quote, which is fake
- 16:31Speaker 1: rich now real poor Later Zarah, all right, I mean
- 16:35Speaker 1: that'll do. Let's wrap that segment.
- 16:38Speaker 2: So I was actually listening to an interview last week
- 16:40Speaker 2: Victoria with the founder of Nick Nata, which I don't
- 16:43Speaker 2: know if you've heard of, but I haven't. You haven't
- 16:46Speaker 2: I'll explain it.
- 16:47Speaker 1: Does that make me wildly uncle? No? No, you're yeah,
- 16:49Speaker 1: I mean my sister, I am wildly uncle.
- 16:52Speaker 2: It's a beautiful Barren Bay based Australian lifestyle brand, beautiful leggings, jumpers.
- 16:58Speaker 2: It's divine. But I think it was Laura May who
- 17:00Speaker 2: was the founder. She was talking about how she built
- 17:03Speaker 2: the brand, and she was so clearly, so passionate about
- 17:06Speaker 2: what she was talking about. But she mentioned that a
- 17:09Speaker 2: bigger brand had come in and effectively stolen her designs
- 17:14Speaker 2: and reproduced them.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Slapped there lay that's actually the worst.
- 17:19Speaker 2: You can go to Nick Nada's instagram to see which
- 17:21Speaker 2: big brand that was if you're interested, but we won't
- 17:23Speaker 2: name them here.
- 17:24Speaker 1: That is not cool. I actually have a girlfriend called
- 17:27Speaker 1: Cat who is an absolute delight. She runs and you
- 17:31Speaker 1: guys might have heard of it. Kat the label, which
- 17:33Speaker 1: is a gorgeous lingerie brand. Yeah, and she's had that
- 17:36Speaker 1: happen again by a very large brand and at the
- 17:39Speaker 1: time is heartbreaking. Like I reached out to her, I
- 17:43Speaker 1: was like, what can I do? And there's actually nothing
- 17:45Speaker 1: I can do because I can't get involved in this.
- 17:47Speaker 1: But it's one of those things where you know she
- 17:50Speaker 1: puts her heart and her soul in this. Like I
- 17:52Speaker 1: have been following Cat the label since she started it
- 17:56Speaker 1: and watching it girl on social since she's gone from
- 17:58Speaker 1: being at home to having a studio and now she's
- 18:01Speaker 1: got her own warehouse, and like she's absolutely killing it,
- 18:04Speaker 1: Like she is the ultimate girl boss, I promise you.
- 18:07Speaker 1: But to see someone who has been killing it and
- 18:09Speaker 1: been so successful and like, you know, just carving away
- 18:13Speaker 1: for herself. To see someone with such or see a
- 18:16Speaker 1: brand with such a big following essentially pulled the rug
- 18:19Speaker 1: out from under them. Like the design was blatant. It
- 18:22Speaker 1: was exactly the same lace. Like I can't imagine how
- 18:25Speaker 1: mad they are, but it is just so wildly unfair.
- 18:28Speaker 2: And I don't think there's much they can do.
- 18:29Speaker 1: I don't think that there is either, But I also
- 18:32Speaker 1: think it's you know, you wish these brands just had
- 18:34Speaker 1: best practices and didn't steal other people's designs, but they're
- 18:37Speaker 1: at the top of that.
- 18:38Speaker 2: We're buying it.
- 18:39Speaker 1: How terrifying is it that people can produce replicas so quickly, Like,
- 18:45Speaker 1: to me, that's awful, but also something that you know,
- 18:48Speaker 1: we need to have a chat about as a community,
- 18:50Speaker 1: so that we're supporting those people in the community, and
- 18:53Speaker 1: we know why their product is a little bit more
- 18:56Speaker 1: expensive because it's got the right ethics and morals and
- 18:59Speaker 1: values behind it, as opposed to a mass produced item
- 19:02Speaker 1: that has been bulk shipped from China to be in
- 19:04Speaker 1: stores for a week tops. Like it's heartbreaking. So I
- 19:08Speaker 1: think it's really important to have this conversation.
- 19:10Speaker 2: Yeah, just start that educational piece and really start understanding
- 19:14Speaker 2: where our clothing is coming from and support local where
- 19:16Speaker 2: you can.
- 19:17Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, and sometimes you do have to spend a
- 19:20Speaker 1: little bit more, but I do believe that you're paying
- 19:22Speaker 1: for quality and you're paying to support small business, and like,
- 19:25Speaker 1: you know, I think it's really important for us to
- 19:27Speaker 1: also really highlight here that some people aren't in that position, right,
- 19:31Speaker 1: Like some of us are going to be listening to
- 19:33Speaker 1: this podcast and you're like, I can't afford to just
- 19:35Speaker 1: go to Nagnata.
- 19:36Speaker 2: Yeah, like that was my next question to you.
- 19:38Speaker 1: Is, well, sorry for jumping ahead, excuse me.
- 19:41Speaker 2: What do you do if you do want to be
- 19:43Speaker 2: an ethical shopper but you actually can't afford to be, Like,
- 19:46Speaker 2: you know, supporting local can be really expensive.
- 19:48Speaker 1: Ah, one hundred percent, But I think it's all about
- 19:52Speaker 1: more conscious purchases. Like I am sitting here in a
- 19:55Speaker 1: pair of genes that I bought at Kmart, and I
- 19:57Speaker 1: am so proud of these Kmart jeans. Honestly get on them.
- 20:01Speaker 1: Like I think I bought them on sale as well,
- 20:03Speaker 1: so they were fifteen dollars. But when I talk about that,
- 20:07Speaker 1: I'm not just buying them because they are something that
- 20:09Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy once and wear once. Like I genuinely
- 20:13Speaker 1: needed a pair of white jeans because I think white
- 20:16Speaker 1: jeans is a little love white jean. It's a vibe
- 20:18Speaker 1: for me. I don't really own much else, but I
- 20:22Speaker 1: needed a new pair of white jeans and started to
- 20:24Speaker 1: do some research on, you know, what other people liked
- 20:27Speaker 1: and what was going on, and I saw a couple
- 20:29Speaker 1: of blogs online where people were raving about these Kmart jeans.
- 20:33Speaker 1: I was like, all right, like I'll get on board this.
- 20:35Speaker 1: Like usually I spend, let's be honest, one hundred and
- 20:37Speaker 1: fifty dollars on a pair of jeans because I'm gotta
- 20:39Speaker 1: leave us. It's like, that's pretty standard. Fifteen dollars. Georgia King,
- 20:44Speaker 1: I was very happy with those, But I think it's
- 20:46Speaker 1: more about making conscious choices and not just buying for
- 20:49Speaker 1: the sake of buying, Like, there is no shame in
- 20:52Speaker 1: buying your basics from Kmart. I love it. I do
- 20:55Speaker 1: it all the time. But if I'm gonna go and
- 20:57Speaker 1: buy something from Kmart, the same principles apply for when
- 21:02Speaker 1: I'm purchasing there, or if I'm purchasing from a really
- 21:06Speaker 1: expensive lux brand. Am I actually going to wear this item?
- 21:09Speaker 1: How long will I wear this item for? Is it
- 21:11Speaker 1: going to get the wear out of it? It would
- 21:14Speaker 1: be nice if we could all step back and just
- 21:15Speaker 1: say no, I'm only ever going to support local, But
- 21:18Speaker 1: let's be honest. That is not ethical, it is not reasonable,
- 21:21Speaker 1: and not something that a lot of us can do.
- 21:23Speaker 1: But what we can do is be more conscious with
- 21:25Speaker 1: how much we are adding to our wardrobes exactly. So
- 21:29Speaker 1: regardless of what financial situation you're in, regardless of what
- 21:32Speaker 1: your beliefs are, I think we can all step back
- 21:35Speaker 1: and go, well, actually, do I need this item or
- 21:37Speaker 1: am I going to get the wear out of them?
- 21:40Speaker 2: Got ten of that in my wardrobe exactly?
- 21:42Speaker 1: And something that I have Georgia, which is a little
- 21:45Speaker 1: bit I know you're smirking because you've seen it on
- 21:47Speaker 1: their phone before. I have an album on my phone,
- 21:50Speaker 1: and that album has photos of myself which I would
- 21:54Speaker 1: never want other people to see, of outfits that I
- 21:56Speaker 1: really like. And so if I put a new outfit
- 21:59Speaker 1: together that at home, like I pair a different jumper
- 22:02Speaker 1: with a pair of jeans that I haven't worn before,
- 22:03Speaker 1: I'll take a photo of it and I will save
- 22:05Speaker 1: it to my outfit folder so that one I love it.
- 22:08Speaker 1: Because sometimes when I don't know what I want to wear,
- 22:10Speaker 1: I scroll through there, remember an outfit I've worn before,
- 22:13Speaker 1: go find it in my wardrobe. But second, I actually
- 22:16Speaker 1: use it when I'm out. So if I want a
- 22:18Speaker 1: new pair of white jeans, I'll flick through and just
- 22:20Speaker 1: see what's in my album. Victoria Divine, you own four
- 22:24Speaker 1: pairs of white jeans, you don't need another pair of
- 22:26Speaker 1: wa jas. I mean I did in this situation. But
- 22:29Speaker 1: I can just check what's there. And I actually have
- 22:31Speaker 1: a rule that says that if I don't have five
- 22:34Speaker 1: pieces of clothing in my wardrobe that will go with
- 22:37Speaker 1: whatever I'm purchasing, I can't have it. It's a little
- 22:40Speaker 1: bit of a like hurdle that I put in place
- 22:42Speaker 1: for myself. So that I end up in a position
- 22:44Speaker 1: where if I'm going to add something to my wardrobe,
- 22:47Speaker 1: I know I will be able to wear it brilliant.
- 22:50Speaker 2: I think there's also a thing called capsule wardrobes. I
- 22:52Speaker 2: think that's that's what they're called. So it's like you
- 22:54Speaker 2: wear or you have basics or can you explain?
- 22:57Speaker 1: I don't, So I do try to have a cap wardrobe,
- 23:00Speaker 1: but I'm not nearly as minimalist as I would like
- 23:03Speaker 1: to be. So capsule wardrobe is where, you know, there's
- 23:06Speaker 1: lots of different blogs on this, and maybe we'll write
- 23:08Speaker 1: an article on this, George, I would reckon get you
- 23:11Speaker 1: to do some more research. But capsual wardrobes are where
- 23:15Speaker 1: you have essentially a confined amount of clothes that all
- 23:19Speaker 1: match together. So you don't have boundless amounts of tops.
- 23:23Speaker 1: You just have five tops that you absolutely love wearing.
- 23:26Speaker 1: So it really minimizes what's in your wardrobe but maximizes
- 23:30Speaker 1: the wear of each item.
- 23:31Speaker 2: So you're getting good value there, Yeah.
- 23:34Speaker 1: Good value. But also, let's be honest, it makes picking
- 23:37Speaker 1: your outfits easier because you have five tops that you
- 23:39Speaker 1: absolutely love wearing, as opposed to having twenty tops that
- 23:43Speaker 1: you feel okay in so I think it's actually about
- 23:46Speaker 1: how you feel as much as it is about Okay, well,
- 23:49Speaker 1: let's talk about how we can get more cost per
- 23:52Speaker 1: wear out of each item that you have. But also
- 23:55Speaker 1: with capsual wardrobes, I know that there are lots of
- 23:57Speaker 1: different strategies associated with this, right, Okay, it's actually a
- 24:00Speaker 1: thing if you want to look into it. Yeah, and
- 24:03Speaker 1: there are people who say you should only have thirty
- 24:05Speaker 1: items in your wardrobe. There are people who say fifty items.
- 24:07Speaker 1: There are people who say have eighty and that includes everything.
- 24:11Speaker 1: It's like belts, shoes, jeans, jackets, everything. I don't follow
- 24:17Speaker 1: that because I just have never taken it that seriously.
- 24:21Speaker 1: But my take on a capsule wardrobe is just really
- 24:24Speaker 1: making sure I have minimal pieces, all of which I
- 24:27Speaker 1: love wearing, and that match each other.
- 24:29Speaker 2: I actually feel like maybe I have a capsual wardrobe
- 24:32Speaker 2: and I just haven't realized.
- 24:33Speaker 1: Well, you're always really delightfully dressed. That'd be much cooler
- 24:37Speaker 1: than I.
- 24:38Speaker 2: I just wear. It's a beij and black if I'm honest. Actually,
- 24:40Speaker 2: I'm wearing orange jeans right now, which.
- 24:42Speaker 1: They're pretty cool. They're pretty cool.
- 24:44Speaker 2: Okay, So let's move this show along Victoria.
- 24:48Speaker 1: We were kind of as, are so cool.
- 24:49Speaker 2: Thank you. I want some solutions for sustainable shopping in Australia.
- 24:53Speaker 1: What have you got? Okay, So we've been through a
- 24:55Speaker 1: couple of them, and as I said, like it's a
- 24:58Speaker 1: privileged thing to be able to do, but all can
- 25:00Speaker 1: just be more aware of the decisions that we are making.
- 25:03Speaker 1: I guess first things first is support local where possible.
- 25:06Speaker 1: If you can buy local, Australian made brands Fantastic have
- 25:10Speaker 1: a flip through their labels, a lot of Australian made brands,
- 25:13Speaker 1: Like if you go into small boutiques, you'll find they're
- 25:16Speaker 1: actually importing clothes. So just like creep on them a
- 25:18Speaker 1: little bit, work out where they're coming from. The next
- 25:21Speaker 1: is just buy less, like full stop, buy less, cross
- 25:24Speaker 1: the board, consume less. Like there is a stat that
- 25:27Speaker 1: I looked up earlier and it's said that the average
- 25:29Speaker 1: Australian actually buy twenty seven kilograms of new clothing and
- 25:34Speaker 1: textiles each year, which I thought was insane, and all
- 25:37Speaker 1: of those like, as much as you're buying twenty seven
- 25:40Speaker 1: kilos of new textiles and clothing, people are only wearing
- 25:43Speaker 1: things an average of seven times, like that's not acceptable
- 25:47Speaker 1: at all. So technically we're wearing things for a week
- 25:50Speaker 1: and they're not using them ever again true, and then
- 25:52Speaker 1: they are sent to landfill more often than not. So
- 25:55Speaker 1: I think that that is kind of heartbreaking, given how
- 25:57Speaker 1: disposable we seem to think fashion is. When you know,
- 26:01Speaker 1: let's think about it. Historically, it was always seen as
- 26:03Speaker 1: a cultural thing, like fashion was a way of expressing ourselves,
- 26:06Speaker 1: expressing our culture. Like, I feel like we really need
- 26:09Speaker 1: to go back to the roots of what fashion is about,
- 26:11Speaker 1: and it's about just having pieces that we wear because
- 26:14Speaker 1: they make us feel good, Like we shouldn't be buying
- 26:17Speaker 1: just stuff for the sake of it. And I think
- 26:19Speaker 1: there's something really empowering about being a wardrobe or outfit repeater,
- 26:24Speaker 1: like I am, honestly, like I'd like to dub myself
- 26:26Speaker 1: with the Queen of outfit repeating.
- 26:28Speaker 2: I think I might rival you for that title, but yeah.
- 26:30Speaker 1: Go, maybe we'll start a competition in the She's on
- 26:33Speaker 1: the Money group who has worn an outfit the most times.
- 26:37Speaker 1: But I know that I have this stripey dress that
- 26:40Speaker 1: I have had since probably twenty eleven, genuinely, like I
- 26:43Speaker 1: got it way back in my first university degree for
- 26:47Speaker 1: a university ball, and I have probably worn it to
- 26:50Speaker 1: upwards of ten events. I just love the dress, honestly.
- 26:54Speaker 1: It's like really well fitted, it's got pockets poet might
- 26:58Speaker 1: pocket dress. It's it's got really complimentary stripes on it.
- 27:02Speaker 1: It's my two favorite colors Georgia, navy and white, so
- 27:05Speaker 1: I feel like it was always going to be a winner.
- 27:07Speaker 1: But I love wearing it, so it makes sense to
- 27:09Speaker 1: me to actually pick that dress up when I have
- 27:12Speaker 1: an event because I go, hey, I'd love to wear
- 27:15Speaker 1: this dress again. It makes me feel really good when
- 27:17Speaker 1: I wear it. So I think that we need to
- 27:19Speaker 1: go back to that and just not worry so much
- 27:21Speaker 1: about people having seen an outfit, like we buy an
- 27:24Speaker 1: outfit because it was looking good on us in the
- 27:26Speaker 1: first place.
- 27:27Speaker 2: What other solutions have we got there?
- 27:29Speaker 1: I would really love if you guys could do a
- 27:30Speaker 1: little bit more research into your favorite brands, double check
- 27:33Speaker 1: their practices match your values and your ethics. There's a
- 27:37Speaker 1: really good online resource Georgia, which you actually told me
- 27:40Speaker 1: about when I said I wanted to do this episode
- 27:42Speaker 1: called the Ethical Fashion Guide, which I absolutely love, and
- 27:46Speaker 1: it grades fashion brands based on their practices, so you
- 27:50Speaker 1: can like type in whoever you want to look up
- 27:52Speaker 1: and it'll pop up with a grading that is measured
- 27:54Speaker 1: via the efforts undertaken by the company. I'm going to
- 27:57Speaker 1: read this verbatim verbatim because I can't really, you know,
- 28:01Speaker 1: paraphrase this properly, but it says to mitigate the risks
- 28:04Speaker 1: of forced labor, child labor, and worker exploitation in their
- 28:08Speaker 1: supply chains, as well as protect the environment from the
- 28:11Speaker 1: harmful impacts of the fashion industry. Higher grades are given
- 28:14Speaker 1: to companies with ethical sourcing systems that, if implemented well,
- 28:18Speaker 1: should reduce the extent of worker exploitation and environmental harm.
- 28:22Speaker 1: Do you please praise me for getting through?
- 28:23Speaker 2: Yeah, well done, thank you.
- 28:25Speaker 1: But that to me is really awesome for us to
- 28:27Speaker 1: just be more educated as consumers, Like where does our
- 28:29Speaker 1: stuff actually come from? Like the impact of cotton in
- 28:33Speaker 1: the entire world is insane. Like, you know, you had
- 28:35Speaker 1: some really great stats before about how much goes to
- 28:38Speaker 1: landfill and the fact that every ten minutes so much
- 28:40Speaker 1: is thrown out.
- 28:41Speaker 2: What was my I have a start. Sorry, on the
- 28:43Speaker 2: cotton train. It takes two seven hundred liters of water,
- 28:47Speaker 2: which is the equivalent of three years worth for a
- 28:50Speaker 2: person to drink to create a cotton tation. Oh my god,
- 28:53Speaker 2: how weird is that?
- 28:55Speaker 1: It feels so wasteful? Like I don't agree with that
- 28:58Speaker 1: at all, but like that just kind of is what
- 29:00Speaker 1: it is. But the way that we can impact that
- 29:03Speaker 1: is actually by purposing our dollar. Like Georgia, I've said
- 29:06Speaker 1: this before on the podcast, but like our money has
- 29:08Speaker 1: power and we can channel our power. And I maybe
- 29:12Speaker 1: it's a little bit hippie of me, but I see
- 29:14Speaker 1: money as energy and we get to choose where that
- 29:16Speaker 1: energy flows. So like, if we get to choose where
- 29:19Speaker 1: our money is going, we are choosing to invest in
- 29:21Speaker 1: something like that. Yeah, and now I'm not saying that
- 29:24Speaker 1: you know that means we all can't buy from kmout
- 29:27Speaker 1: or don't buy from Target, or don't buy from places
- 29:29Speaker 1: that have mass production, but like, do you actually need
- 29:32Speaker 1: to buy five singlets because they're so cheap or do
- 29:34Speaker 1: you just need one that you'll look after? So I
- 29:37Speaker 1: think that we can just be more conscious with our
- 29:39Speaker 1: spending and maybe jump up and down less at sales
- 29:43Speaker 1: because we're looking for a bargain.
- 29:45Speaker 2: Well, it's like a marketing tool, isn't it.
- 29:46Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and they've put a lot of money
- 29:48Speaker 1: into that, right, Like there is literally a science which
- 29:51Speaker 1: is the science of consumerism, and people are paid millions
- 29:54Speaker 1: of dollars a year to make us buy more. So
- 29:57Speaker 1: I think we need to be aware that that exists.
- 30:00Speaker 1: Marketing is a legitimate study, Like people have degrees in
- 30:03Speaker 1: this purely so that they can sell more stuff to
- 30:07Speaker 1: more people. So I think we need to be kind
- 30:09Speaker 1: of aware of what's going on so that we can
- 30:11Speaker 1: just make more conscious decisions.
- 30:13Speaker 2: Another good one is, of course, shopping in op shops.
- 30:16Speaker 1: I do love a good op shop Georgia, albeit it
- 30:20Speaker 1: I'm going to go against the grain for a second
- 30:22Speaker 1: and say that, like, op shops are really fun, and
- 30:24Speaker 1: our friend Emma over at The Broke Generation does an
- 30:28Speaker 1: incredible job of op shopping. In fact, if you check
- 30:30Speaker 1: out her story highlights, you'll see that she has like
- 30:34Speaker 1: entire series rating different op shops and like her ventures cool.
- 30:38Speaker 1: But I just don't have the time to trawl through
- 30:41Speaker 1: op shops.
- 30:41Speaker 2: It's very time consuming.
- 30:43Speaker 1: I just don't know. But I am a massive fan
- 30:45Speaker 1: and a big, big, big advocate of buying secondhand, so
- 30:49Speaker 1: you'll find me online. I buy things on eBay. I
- 30:51Speaker 1: buy things on Facebook Marketplace. I'm in a Facebook group
- 30:54Speaker 1: called high End where I can purchase a little bit
- 30:57Speaker 1: more bougie items that are one discounted, but two secondhand.
- 31:02Speaker 1: So I think that, you know, it's a really great
- 31:04Speaker 1: thing to do if you've got time for op shops, literally,
- 31:06Speaker 1: please tag us and show us what you are purchasing,
- 31:09Speaker 1: because I love it. I just personally do not have
- 31:11Speaker 1: the time. So my way of I guess, op shopping
- 31:14Speaker 1: or shopping secondhand is being able to look up specific
- 31:17Speaker 1: items online. So for me, that works really well. Georgia,
- 31:21Speaker 1: I know you're pretty good at knop shop though.
- 31:23Speaker 2: I love a op shop. Yeah, I've got a lot
- 31:25Speaker 2: of time right now as well, let's be honest.
- 31:28Speaker 1: I love that though.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Yeah, you always find some witness I love that though.
- 31:32Speaker 1: If you got any suggestions you'd like to add to
- 31:34Speaker 1: the mix while we're having this discussion.
- 31:36Speaker 2: Yes, Another one that comes to mind for me is
- 31:38Speaker 2: clothes swapping. Oh yeah, so like getting together with your
- 31:41Speaker 2: girlfriends or your boyfriends or whatever, friends or bringing clothes
- 31:45Speaker 2: that you no longer want and just having a little swap.
- 31:47Speaker 2: I love that.
- 31:47Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend's clothes are much cooler than so I
- 31:50Speaker 1: would really like to shop their wardrobes. Yeah, I'll give
- 31:53Speaker 1: you my clothes that are in the corner of my study.
- 31:56Speaker 1: You can do a trade.
- 31:56Speaker 2: Yeah, but we could do a little close stopping.
- 31:58Speaker 1: We are totally not on the same page fashion. You
- 32:01Speaker 1: are way cooler than me.
- 32:03Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, it's my style.
- 32:05Speaker 1: Your style is cool minus pencil skirts and corporate out
- 32:08Speaker 1: your business man. Oh, thank you? Do you know what?
- 32:11Speaker 1: I'll take this? Thank you for the compliments. Let's end
- 32:13Speaker 1: it there before we realize that I just buy stuff
- 32:16Speaker 1: because it makes me look corporate.
- 32:18Speaker 2: Quickly to wrap it up. Markets are another great way
- 32:21Speaker 2: to shop sustainably, waiting before making a purchase.
- 32:24Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we talked about that last season.
- 32:27Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 32:27Speaker 1: I think that everybody should be putting twenty four hours
- 32:31Speaker 1: between them and their spending.
- 32:32Speaker 4: Ye.
- 32:32Speaker 1: What's the psychology pine? Because we want instant gratification, Like
- 32:36Speaker 1: we are absolute slaves to instant gratification. Like there are
- 32:40Speaker 1: so many studies on this, and I think it's actually
- 32:42Speaker 1: really interesting, Like we suck as a human race delayed gratification,
- 32:48Speaker 1: and that is the ability to discipline ourselves to delay
- 32:51Speaker 1: gratification in the short term in order to enjoy bigger
- 32:54Speaker 1: and better rewards in the longer term. And it's actually
- 32:58Speaker 1: just like the indispensable bree cause it for success. So
- 33:01Speaker 1: I think it's really important that we do not make
- 33:04Speaker 1: split second decisions. We actually go all right, well, if
- 33:07Speaker 1: I really need it, I'm gonna be happy to purchase
- 33:09Speaker 1: it tomorrow. And I think that it's really important to
- 33:12Speaker 1: put twenty four hours between you and you're spending because
- 33:16Speaker 1: sometimes even though we think we are rational humans, we aren't.
- 33:20Speaker 1: And I do this to myself all the time, like
- 33:22Speaker 1: I will give myself every reason why I need to
- 33:25Speaker 1: purchase that new pair of shoes. Yeah, oh, it'll go
- 33:27Speaker 1: with all my outfits, it'll do this, it'll do that,
- 33:30Speaker 1: like I'll feel really good, and then twenty four hours later,
- 33:33Speaker 1: I'm like, look, they're beautiful shoes. Do I need them not?
- 33:36Speaker 4: Ye?
- 33:36Speaker 1: So I think it's more about just put twenty four
- 33:38Speaker 1: hours between you and you're spending. And we spoke about
- 33:41Speaker 1: this on the after Pay episode in season one. If
- 33:44Speaker 1: you guys haven't listened to it, definitely go back and
- 33:46Speaker 1: have a listen to that because it was a really
- 33:48Speaker 1: great episode just on you know, how we actually spend
- 33:52Speaker 1: our money, especially on things like buy Now pay latest
- 33:55Speaker 1: schemes like they allow us to purchase things in the
- 33:57Speaker 1: here and now without actually feeling the pain of sacrificing
- 34:01Speaker 1: our money. So I think it's really important to just,
- 34:04Speaker 1: you know, put some time between our spending and ourselves.
- 34:07Speaker 1: And I know that that can be hard, but the
- 34:09Speaker 1: longer the better. If you can put a day, a week,
- 34:11Speaker 1: a month, even a year between buying something that is
- 34:14Speaker 1: really important, you are going to make better financial decisions
- 34:17Speaker 1: for yourself in the long run.
- 34:19Speaker 2: Yeah. And then when it comes around it has been
- 34:20Speaker 2: a month and you've waited and you still really want it, then.
- 34:22Speaker 1: Like trill, you deserve that.
- 34:24Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, love that. Okay, So now it is time
- 34:27Speaker 2: for the community to have their say. I'm sure you
- 34:29Speaker 2: guys have heaps of ethical brands that have come to
- 34:32Speaker 2: mind ways that you save when it comes to shopping sustainably.
- 34:35Speaker 2: So we're going to start a thread and we would
- 34:37Speaker 2: love you to share any ideas, tips or tricks that
- 34:39Speaker 2: you have.
- 34:40Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. I can't wait to read.
- 34:46Speaker 2: Hi. There, it's been a while. You've reached the Shoes
- 34:49Speaker 2: on the Money mailbox. Do you have a money problem
- 34:51Speaker 2: you want help solving? To have a money dilemma you
- 34:53Speaker 2: just want to chat about. Victoria is here to help.
- 34:56Speaker 2: Every week, we'll be playing your questions to help make
- 34:59Speaker 2: sense of a money mess you may have found yourself in.
- 35:01Speaker 2: Make a quick recording on your phone and send it
- 35:03Speaker 2: through to podcast at shoesodthmoney dot com dot U, and
- 35:06Speaker 2: you might even find yourself on the show. But for now,
- 35:09Speaker 2: here's today's listener question.
- 35:11Speaker 4: Hey guys, a bit of a money confession in question here.
- 35:14Speaker 4: I think I'm addicted to shopping. It feels like the
- 35:17Speaker 4: pleasure I get from having a new bag, or a
- 35:19Speaker 4: new pair of shoes, or whatever it may be, is
- 35:21Speaker 4: one of the main things keeping me entertained at the moment.
- 35:24Speaker 4: I also just tend to shop online whenever I am bored,
- 35:27Speaker 4: and it's really impacting my savings, which until now I
- 35:30Speaker 4: have been working so hard to create. So I'm just
- 35:34Speaker 4: wondering if you have any tips on how I can
- 35:36Speaker 4: break this addiction once and for all. Thanks so much, guys.
- 35:39Speaker 2: What tips and tricks have you got? Victoria?
- 35:41Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this is such a hard one, especially
- 35:43Speaker 1: at this period of time. I think that all of
- 35:46Speaker 1: us are a little bit guilty of shopping online.
- 35:49Speaker 2: Yes, there's not been a lot else to do.
- 35:51Speaker 1: Yeah, look, no there hasn't. But I think that I'm
- 35:54Speaker 1: just going to jump right into this one and be
- 35:56Speaker 1: a little bit brutal. Often when we have a shop addiction,
- 36:00Speaker 1: we are covering up something else that we feel is
- 36:04Speaker 1: lacking from our lives. So I think it's important to
- 36:07Speaker 1: sit down and actually have a look at our lives
- 36:10Speaker 1: as a holistic picture. Goble, what's going on? What are
- 36:13Speaker 1: my goals?
- 36:13Speaker 2: Like?
- 36:14Speaker 1: It is so easy to shop when you don't have
- 36:16Speaker 1: bigger goals in.
- 36:17Speaker 2: Play, because it's that gratification that we do.
- 36:19Speaker 1: Exactly, You're just going for instant gratification. Shopping, let's be honest,
- 36:23Speaker 1: makes us feel really good. Who doesn't love a new
- 36:25Speaker 1: pair of shoes or a new bikini or you know,
- 36:28Speaker 1: whatever we are purchasing. So I think it's really important
- 36:31Speaker 1: to just maybe have a think about why we are
- 36:34Speaker 1: shopping and what that actually is a repercussion of I
- 36:38Speaker 1: know a lot of people because I have been having
- 36:41Speaker 1: these conversations very recently us spending a lot online shopping.
- 36:46Speaker 1: You'll see the stats for retail haven't dipped. Like retail
- 36:50Speaker 1: is absolutely booming at the moment because we're all at
- 36:53Speaker 1: home shopping online. But a lot of us are doing
- 36:56Speaker 1: that because it makes us feel good and it makes
- 36:58Speaker 1: us feel in control at a time when we don't
- 37:00Speaker 1: really feel like we're in control at all. So I
- 37:02Speaker 1: think it's worthy of having a look at why we
- 37:04Speaker 1: are doing that and potentially finding a habit or finding
- 37:07Speaker 1: a hobby that you can replace that activity with. Because
- 37:11Speaker 1: often if we are shopping online as well, what is it?
- 37:14Speaker 1: It's a time wasting activity. Yeah, like we jump on
- 37:16Speaker 1: a sauce like I'm good at it. I've got the
- 37:18Speaker 1: Netaporte app on my phone and I just like forever
- 37:21Speaker 1: scroll like I never buy it's too expensive, But I
- 37:24Speaker 1: spent so long looking at their shoes and filtering by
- 37:28Speaker 1: like size, and just you know, wasting a little bit
- 37:30Speaker 1: of time doing something that isn't that constructive on that
- 37:33Speaker 1: v I reckon.
- 37:34Speaker 2: A good tip as well would just be to delete
- 37:36Speaker 2: those apps. Get rid of asouce, get rid of Netaporte.
- 37:39Speaker 2: As you say, I thought it was netaporter, So a
- 37:41Speaker 2: little bit of a bogan over here, but keet rid
- 37:43Speaker 2: of those.
- 37:44Speaker 1: We both grew up on the PINSUA.
- 37:46Speaker 2: Also another app to delete is Instagram from your phone.
- 37:49Speaker 2: I miss for a little period during the last three
- 37:52Speaker 2: months just because I was getting sick of it, and
- 37:54Speaker 2: I found that I just wanted stuff less because influencers
- 37:57Speaker 2: weren't selling me stuff. I just wasn't tempted by all
- 37:59Speaker 2: the big There's so much targeted advertising that you don't
- 38:02Speaker 2: even really understand is happening to you. So just getting
- 38:05Speaker 2: rid of that, I think is.
- 38:06Speaker 1: A huge plus one has detox. Yeah, exactly, Actually pick
- 38:10Speaker 1: up your phone and remove those apps and just remove
- 38:13Speaker 1: them for a week.
- 38:14Speaker 3: Yep.
- 38:14Speaker 1: Like, honestly disconnecting ourselves from socials is sometimes really good. Yeah,
- 38:18Speaker 1: And I know I probably, let's be honest, yourge I
- 38:20Speaker 1: probably shouldn't be say delete Instagram what at the same
- 38:23Speaker 1: time as I'm going to say, yeah, just keep cheese
- 38:25Speaker 1: on the money, Honestly, Sometimes regardless of the fact that
- 38:29Speaker 1: you know you're going to miss out on some stuff,
- 38:30Speaker 1: Like we all need to be really comfortable with missing
- 38:33Speaker 1: out on things because it is actually a really good learning,
- 38:36Speaker 1: Like we can't have everything all at once. And I
- 38:39Speaker 1: think that sometimes social media is a really overwhelming place
- 38:43Speaker 1: to be and I've done that a number of times
- 38:46Speaker 1: as well. Like obviously it's a little bit different for
- 38:48Speaker 1: us because we've got a business that we need to
- 38:50Speaker 1: check in and make sure our community is comfortable and
- 38:52Speaker 1: happy and safe. But I have removed my personal profile
- 38:55Speaker 1: and number of times through my phone because I just
- 38:58Speaker 1: don't want to spend my time I'm scrolling through stuff
- 39:01Speaker 1: that makes me feel bad about myself. Another feature I
- 39:04Speaker 1: love on Instagram while we're on that conversation, Georgia, is
- 39:06Speaker 1: the mute feature, Okay, And you can actually mute brands
- 39:10Speaker 1: without unfollowing them so that their posts don't come up
- 39:14Speaker 1: on your feed, and you can actually hide them so
- 39:17Speaker 1: that they're not in your face all the time, but
- 39:18Speaker 1: you don't have to unfollow them because maybe one time
- 39:21Speaker 1: you want to go, like look in what you're following
- 39:23Speaker 1: to find something that you wanted ages ago. So I
- 39:25Speaker 1: think it's really important to just be really sensible about
- 39:27Speaker 1: our social media usage because sometimes they're impacting our mental
- 39:31Speaker 1: health in a way that we hadn't actually thought about
- 39:33Speaker 1: it than we and way more than we thought it was.
- 39:36Speaker 1: So let's jump back into wrapping this question up. I
- 39:40Speaker 1: think a shopping addiction at the end of the day
- 39:42Speaker 1: is a marker of a bigger issue at play, and
- 39:45Speaker 1: we need to be kind to ourselves, but also do
- 39:47Speaker 1: a little bit of reflecting and work out maybe why
- 39:50Speaker 1: we are feeling the need to do this, and have
- 39:53Speaker 1: a look for some hobbies also activities that you can
- 39:55Speaker 1: do that will replace that activity. Break with that, so
- 39:58Speaker 1: just break the habit. Think it's really important to be
- 40:01Speaker 1: in a position where we are actually back in control.
- 40:03Speaker 1: So sit down, write down your goals, write down your values,
- 40:06Speaker 1: have a think about what you're trying to achieve. Because
- 40:09Speaker 1: often if we're working towards a bigger financial goal, it's
- 40:12Speaker 1: easier to sacrifice those short term goals, or those shopping addictions,
- 40:17Speaker 1: or those small purchases because you know how much it
- 40:20Speaker 1: could add up in a long term.
- 40:21Speaker 2: Yeah, when I understand, all right, I got this girl. Okay,
- 40:28Speaker 2: now for the fun stuff. What good would a money
- 40:30Speaker 2: podcast be without the perby bits. It's time for money, Darry.
- 40:33Speaker 3: I'm calling myself final financial hurdle because I turn my
- 40:36Speaker 3: finances around, but there's one final thing I need help with.
- 40:40Speaker 3: Two years ago, my relationship with money was not good.
- 40:43Speaker 3: I was thinking about it a lot, stressed about it
- 40:45Speaker 3: a lot. It actually made me pretty emotional if people
- 40:48Speaker 3: ask me about it. So I kind of knew I
- 40:51Speaker 3: needed to put a plan in place and yeah, get
- 40:54Speaker 3: on top of it, because I didn't want it to
- 40:55Speaker 3: distract me from the important stuff.
- 40:57Speaker 1: I think the biggest.
- 40:58Speaker 3: Problem was I wasn't aware of my money, if that
- 41:02Speaker 3: makes sense. I'm thinking about the bills and the stress,
- 41:05Speaker 3: but I wasn't like, cool, let's look at what I've
- 41:07Speaker 3: got coming in, what I'm earning, what I'm paying bills for,
- 41:11Speaker 3: and then kind of working out what, if any, I
- 41:13Speaker 3: can put away. I guess the turning point was I
- 41:16Speaker 3: split up with my ex partner. Some arguments we had
- 41:20Speaker 3: had had been about money, and I guess I really
- 41:23Speaker 3: just wanted to know that I could feel like financially independent,
- 41:27Speaker 3: not rely on somebody else, you know, whether I was
- 41:29Speaker 3: in a relationship or not. Wanted to have that for
- 41:31Speaker 3: myself and myself only. Yeah, and I also didn't want to,
- 41:35Speaker 3: I guess, complicate any future relationships I have with people
- 41:39Speaker 3: with money, Like, if I can do that myself and
- 41:41Speaker 3: that doesn't have to factor into a relationship, that's that
- 41:44Speaker 3: would be great. I earned fifty thousand dollars a year
- 41:47Speaker 3: doing an office job when I broke up with my
- 41:50Speaker 3: partner two years ago. I had about two hundred dollars
- 41:53Speaker 3: in savings, but now I'm on track to have saved
- 41:56Speaker 3: twenty thousand by the end of the year. I'd say,
- 41:59Speaker 3: like the best habit that I've gotten into is just
- 42:02Speaker 3: doing a budget, like just not making it complicated, but
- 42:06Speaker 3: just being aware of what I've got coming up that
- 42:09Speaker 3: I need to pay for what I've got coming in.
- 42:12Speaker 3: You know, if there's extra pay coming in, what I
- 42:14Speaker 3: can do with that money to make the most of it.
- 42:16Speaker 3: So the reason I'm on the podcast is I need
- 42:18Speaker 3: help for Victoria. I'm doing a lot better than I
- 42:20Speaker 3: was a couple of years ago, got my finances on track.
- 42:24Speaker 3: There's just one thing that I haven't quite got under control.
- 42:28Speaker 3: I haven't actually done a tax return in about five years.
- 42:31Speaker 3: To be honest, I don't know why I haven't done
- 42:33Speaker 3: it in five years, not on purpose and not thinking
- 42:35Speaker 3: that I would go five.
- 42:36Speaker 2: Years without doing it.
- 42:37Speaker 3: Probably a combination of I found it too overwhelming and complicated,
- 42:42Speaker 3: especially because as part of my employment I have some shares,
- 42:45Speaker 3: and also previously I'd had money to pay back from
- 42:49Speaker 3: previous tax returns. So probably the combination of the two
- 42:52Speaker 3: kind of overwhelmed me a bit and one year turned
- 42:54Speaker 3: into two years turned into three year. In my mind,
- 42:58Speaker 3: the best case scenario is money back from the tax office,
- 43:02Speaker 3: which is great. Worst case scenario, I'm on the run
- 43:06Speaker 3: from the law because I haven't paid enough tax and
- 43:10Speaker 3: I don't really need that right now. Two years ago,
- 43:14Speaker 3: i'd probably give myself an F and now i'd probably
- 43:18Speaker 3: give myself a B plus maybe an A plus. When
- 43:22Speaker 3: my taxes are done, I'm final financial hurdle and I
- 43:25Speaker 3: need Victoria to help me stay out of jail.
- 43:27Speaker 1: What do you think about that one, Victoria, I thought
- 43:30Speaker 1: that was a really interesting one. Actually, a lot of
- 43:32Speaker 1: elements to it, Yes, But I also thought it was
- 43:35Speaker 1: really interesting because she's so concerned about not having done
- 43:39Speaker 1: her tax.
- 43:39Speaker 2: What's the goal with that? Is she going to go
- 43:41Speaker 2: to jail?
- 43:41Speaker 1: Straight out? No, she's not going to go to jail,
- 43:44Speaker 1: thank god. But I think it's really important to do
- 43:46Speaker 1: your tax every year. But if you are in the
- 43:49Speaker 1: same position, and I have met a number of you
- 43:51Speaker 1: from our community who haven't done your tax in a
- 43:54Speaker 1: few years, just get on top of it. It is
- 43:56Speaker 1: not the worst thing. At the end of the day.
- 43:59Speaker 1: The ads like they know that you haven't launched it
- 44:02Speaker 1: they absolutely can come forward and ask you to do it.
- 44:05Speaker 1: But if you haven't done it, get in contact with
- 44:07Speaker 1: your accountant or find a really good one who can
- 44:09Speaker 1: help you out and they can wrap it up for you.
- 44:11Speaker 1: I promise you it will not be as scary as
- 44:14Speaker 1: what you think it is.
- 44:15Speaker 2: Just get it over.
- 44:16Speaker 1: Just get it over and done with accountants to actual
- 44:18Speaker 1: legends who will be able to clean that up for
- 44:20Speaker 1: you and let you know exactly what the deal is.
- 44:23Speaker 1: And if you're a salary and wage earning employee, like,
- 44:26Speaker 1: it's very likely that you're not going to owe massive
- 44:29Speaker 1: amounts of money to the ATO unless you're you know,
- 44:32Speaker 1: a sole trader who's been, you know, generating heaps of
- 44:35Speaker 1: taxable income and you haven't paid tax on it. So
- 44:38Speaker 1: I think it's really important to kind of just get
- 44:40Speaker 1: it done, swallow the pill, like, make the call, because
- 44:43Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you could hear that
- 44:46Speaker 1: she was quite stressed about that, and it's not something
- 44:48Speaker 1: that you should be stressed about. And sleeping well at
- 44:51Speaker 1: night is really important. Yes, So I think that you
- 44:54Speaker 1: can help yourself sleep really well at night just by
- 44:56Speaker 1: calling your accountant if you're in that position. Yeah, like
- 44:59Speaker 1: one wants to be in a position where we start
- 45:02Speaker 1: talking about tax or money and you get that like
- 45:05Speaker 1: lump in the back of your throat. But in saying that, yes,
- 45:09Speaker 1: she needs to get her skates on and go and
- 45:12Speaker 1: talk to an accountant and get those tax returns wrapped up.
- 45:15Speaker 1: But can we can we also celebrate the fact that
- 45:19Speaker 1: she has, you know, nearly twenty thousand dollars in savings
- 45:23Speaker 1: and she had one hundred dollars to her name a
- 45:25Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Yeah, weeks ago. I wish imagine if
- 45:28Speaker 1: she could save twenty thousand dollars in a couple of weeks,
- 45:30Speaker 1: that's victoria. But she had one hundred dollars to her
- 45:33Speaker 1: name when she came out of her relationship, and now
- 45:36Speaker 1: she has nearly twenty thousand dollars in the bank. That
- 45:39Speaker 1: is absolutely worthy interpretation, men, woman. But also look how
- 45:43Speaker 1: much power she has. Exactly imagine if she can keep
- 45:45Speaker 1: those habits up for life. My god, she's gonna be
- 45:47Speaker 1: filthy rich. She's going to be wealthy Georgia and have
- 45:51Speaker 1: financial freedom. Georgia. I say, in a really condescending tone
- 45:56Speaker 1: that is absolutely not warranted.
- 45:57Speaker 2: I'll take it.
- 45:58Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, did.
- 45:59Speaker 2: You what did you think of her grade?
- 46:01Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting. I think that she's absolutely
- 46:05Speaker 1: worthy of, you know, in a plus. But I also
- 46:08Speaker 1: never want to argue with people's grades of themselves, because
- 46:11Speaker 1: I genuinely think that people grade themselves less than a
- 46:14Speaker 1: plus when they genuinely know they've got room to grow.
- 46:17Speaker 1: And I think that it's really beautiful to know that
- 46:20Speaker 1: she's got, you know, things that she still wants to
- 46:22Speaker 1: achieve that in her eyes, you know, will make her
- 46:25Speaker 1: more financially Ditriit will make her more financially stable and secure,
- 46:29Speaker 1: and I think that that's a really good thing. As
- 46:31Speaker 1: you know, I'm never going to argue with someone's grade
- 46:33Speaker 1: unless they're grossly underestimating themselves. But I think that she's
- 46:37Speaker 1: on the right track. She's doing the right thing. Like,
- 46:40Speaker 1: she's definitely on the money. That whoa, I did not.
- 46:42Speaker 2: Mean to say, did you not mean?
- 46:45Speaker 1: Did not mean to say that? That's slightly embarrassing, But
- 46:48Speaker 1: I genuinely think she's on the right track, and I
- 46:50Speaker 1: think that she's doing amazing.
- 46:52Speaker 2: So she's on the money, and she does want to
- 46:54Speaker 2: do a taxation.
- 46:55Speaker 1: Yeah, let's make sure that never happens again.
- 47:00Speaker 2: All we have time for today sadly, but before we
- 47:03Speaker 2: head off, let's quickly wrap the boring but important stuff.
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