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Spiraling Into Control with Lauren Tobey

In this episode of The Kelly Healing Project, I’m joined by Lauren Tobey — author of Spiraling Into Control and creator of the Spiral Framework and Spiral app — for a deeply honest conversation about nervous system healing, patterned survival, shame, and why healing is rarely linear.

Lauren breaks down the four stages of the Spiral Framework:

• Ashes — shutdown, identity erosion, and protection through disappearance

• Ember — awareness begins, but the nervous system still lacks capacity

• Flame — action, movement, and identity reclaiming

• Rise — integration, self-authorship, and expanded…

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