You Can Like Them and Still Leave Them Alone

Unbecoming Me with Toi · Nov 11, 2026 · 12m

In this milestone 1-year anniversary episode (Episode 17 of Season 2), host Toi celebrates one full year of Unbecoming Me by diving straight into the heart of what it means to shed who you thought you had to be. Reflecting on five years of deep personal fire and healing old wounds, Toi unpacks a profound truth about relationships, growth, and standards.

Have you ever liked someone who simply wasn't right for you? In this raw and empowering episode, Toi explores why someone doesn't have to be "terrible" for them to be wrong for your life. Together, we examine how dating styles change over…