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FRIDAY DRINKS: 50% of the team, 100% of the energy · She's On The Money

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  Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
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  Speaker 1: for millennials who want financial freedom. Today is of course Friday.
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: Happy Friday to everyone listening. My name is Georgia King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a copywriter and journalism student and joining me today.
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  Speaker 1: It's just just Ricky. It's the dream team. How are you, doll?
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  Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you good? It does it's different,
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  Speaker 1: it's different, but I'm excited.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, maybe not you probably, but I'm not
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  Speaker 2: the person that people come here for.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, there's a lot of pressure. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: anyone comes here for me either, Doll. Let's be real.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to explain where Ryan and Victoria are today?
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  Speaker 2: They both got sick the same week. One of the
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  Speaker 2: chances mysterious. You better believe that I'm debt holing everything
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  Speaker 2: within a five meter radius of me in the office
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  Speaker 2: at the moment. COVID negative. Yeah, of course, we love.
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  Speaker 2: But both of them have no voice.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you're getting our dolls at toe exactly right.
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  Speaker 1: So you're very welcome everyone. I was also away last week,
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  Speaker 1: which everyone's probably I'm the last man stand here. Ye,
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  Speaker 1: So Jess may not be with us next week, but
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  Speaker 1: who knows. Sorry, see how we go? So how does
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  Speaker 1: this podcast usually start, because it's it's usually Victoria and
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  Speaker 1: then we go around the confessions talk to me the table.
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  Speaker 1: Can you guys tell that we don't know what we're doing.
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  Speaker 2: We're flying by the seat app. We're making it up
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  Speaker 2: as we go. We're going rogue and that is fine.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to start with money, wins and confessions.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to kick usself? Fire? But it's fine,
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  Speaker 1: it's fine.
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  Speaker 2: My one this week is something that I've seen in
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  Speaker 2: the group before. It's a little life hack. Petrol went
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  Speaker 2: up to a dollar seventy from a dollar twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Gee.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's too many dollars rough on the bank account,
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely very rough on the bank account. So as soon
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  Speaker 2: as I saw that it went up, I jumped on
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  Speaker 2: the seven to eleven app. And you can lock the
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  Speaker 2: fuel price.
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  Speaker 1: So if people have always been big fans of that.
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  Speaker 2: In space grip, once upon a time, you used to
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  Speaker 2: have to upload or like put money onto it and
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  Speaker 2: it would lock it and then you would use that
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  Speaker 2: money to pay and I wasn't into that, but now
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  Speaker 2: you can just lock the fuel price, so locked it
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  Speaker 2: in a dollar twenty a week later when I went
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  Speaker 2: to fill up, everyone else is paying a dollar.
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  Speaker 1: Seventy and I'm paying one and twenty. That is genius. Huge.
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  Speaker 1: How does it actually work though?
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  Speaker 2: Do you go exactly cashier and you're like, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you just show them I think they I think there's
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  Speaker 2: a barcode and they scan it and it yeah, just
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  Speaker 2: locks the price, yep. But it scans everywhere. And top
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  Speaker 2: tip if you're like us and you may be work
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  Speaker 2: in the city and live you know a little further out,
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  Speaker 2: checking both places because sometimes it's cheaper like further out
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  Speaker 2: or in the city, because it does it like based
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  Speaker 2: on a geo location to gotcha.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, big money win you as well. My friends here,
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  Speaker 1: money win from me. Look, it's kind of a money win.
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  Speaker 1: And you're going to laugh at me because as Jess knows,
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  Speaker 1: as everyone listening probably knows, the Internet and George not
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  Speaker 1: the best of friends. So TikTok pasta. I know. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm about eight weeks late, but it's this gorgeous feta
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  Speaker 1: dish and basically you will all know what I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 1: But I made it and it was cost effective and delicious.
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  Speaker 1: So are we calling that a money win? I'm calling
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  Speaker 1: that a money win.
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  Speaker 2: Is it cheaper than like a normal pasta dish? Well,
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  Speaker 2: I mean it depends if you may pasta Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she's going to a restaurant.
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  Speaker 1: It looks really good too.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like if you pull that out at a dinner,
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  Speaker 2: especially with older people who maybe haven't seen it on
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  Speaker 2: TikTok before.
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  Speaker 1: True, that's it. That's a crowd pleaser.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I would have been impressed because because we're.
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  Speaker 2: Easily apparently so, it's been a big week here, she's
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  Speaker 2: on the money hq T king. We on Monday had
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  Speaker 2: a money diary from a student. Say, I could say
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  Speaker 2: sixty grand, which as someone who's been a student, you
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  Speaker 2: are still technically currently a student.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I am.
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  Speaker 2: You're getting close to the end. But like Pavo's student,
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  Speaker 2: feels like that's pretty impressive. Wednesday's episode, we had Rebecca
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  Speaker 2: Pritch out come on We Do is an angel in
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  Speaker 2: her own right, but also is a mother. I'm currently
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  Speaker 2: expecting but number two, and she was perfectly placed to
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  Speaker 2: talk all things baby with us. We've had so many
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  Speaker 2: requests about pregnancy, the cost of having a baby, Matt leave,
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  Speaker 2: all those good things. So part one of that true
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  Speaker 2: part I guess you could call it a mini series
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  Speaker 2: went up on Wednesday all about the costs of having
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  Speaker 2: a baby, and the much awaited Matt Leave episode is
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  Speaker 2: coming soon. We get regular dms about it. We heard you,
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  Speaker 2: We're listening, it's coming.
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  Speaker 1: Yet excited. That was such a fun episode to record.
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  Speaker 1: It was so nice having a guest in the studio
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  Speaker 1: because usually it is just F and I. But Beck, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she was just a little rate of sunshine in the
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  Speaker 1: studio and so articulate, and she just had so many
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  Speaker 1: hot tips for saving So.
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  Speaker 2: If she said, yeah, she has that really interesting we
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  Speaker 2: you call an experiment or like a like her recording
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  Speaker 2: of every dollar round. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So she recorded literally every cent she spent throughout
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  Speaker 1: her pregnancy and the first three months I think of
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  Speaker 1: having the bubba, and she ended up spending about seventeen
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  Speaker 1: grand not cheap, not cheap, but it was like one hundred. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There's like no statistics on that really, like you and
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  Speaker 2: the estimations, like they give you a range on like
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  Speaker 2: how much it costs, and it's a pretty big difference.
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  Speaker 1: I think the start we threw out was between three
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  Speaker 1: thousand and seventeen thousand, so that is a huge. That's
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  Speaker 1: helpful at not helpful, not helpful, but our chat with
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  Speaker 1: Beck definitely was helpful. So if you are planning a family,
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  Speaker 1: or you're just interested as I am, in how much
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  Speaker 1: that actually costs, then that is a really good episode
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  Speaker 1: to have a listen to. Moving on here, Jessicarr, should
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  Speaker 1: we talk about money wins and confessions from the community
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  Speaker 1: that stood out to us this week?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Absolutely, there's no Ryan John here to play us
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  Speaker 2: the funky background music. We didn't really plan for this,
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  Speaker 2: We didn't do. You want to kick us off cheeking
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  Speaker 2: with your first money win?
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  Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, what have I got here? I've taken down
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  Speaker 1: a few? Okay, this one was my favorite. This is
• 6:00
  Speaker 1: from Sarah who has a money loss, but it kind
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  Speaker 1: of turns into a money win. So she broke her
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  Speaker 1: wrist roller skating on Friday. So sad for you, Sarah.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you're okay. But that cost her four hundred
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  Speaker 1: and thirty dollars in unexpected medical expenses, and she also
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  Speaker 1: lost her weekend of wages. Obviously obviously she works casually,
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  Speaker 1: couldn't go into work. Yeah, so that sucks, But the
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  Speaker 1: money win of that is that she's saving money on
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  Speaker 1: petrol for the next six weeks because she can't drive,
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  Speaker 1: so it's kind of Bunny's money win. Yeah, you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be passive in these times, Sarah. I hope you're back
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  Speaker 1: on the skates soon. Bloodio legend.
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  Speaker 2: My first win is from Hannah, and she said, not
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  Speaker 2: so much a win as a temptation win. But I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to account this as a money win because I
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  Speaker 2: recently did this for Victoria.
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  Speaker 1: She said.
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  Speaker 2: She unsubscribed from a whole bunch of promotional emails to
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  Speaker 2: stop her inbox and getting so cluttered. But the side
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  Speaker 2: benefit is that she's not going to be bombarded by
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  Speaker 2: emails making her want to purchase things, which such a
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  Speaker 2: smart proteb. I've done this for myself, like I said,
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  Speaker 2: I did it for v recently because her inbox, you guys,
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  Speaker 2: a nightmare, and like just removing that temptation those sale things,
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  Speaker 2: like the targeted marketing that you get these days. There's
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  Speaker 2: a really good doco on Netflix called The Social Dilemma,
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  Speaker 2: which talks a lot about the psychology of marketing and
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  Speaker 2: how companies are kind of I don't want to use
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  Speaker 2: the word exploiting, but like utilizing that to get us
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  Speaker 2: to buy and get us to spend. So unsubscribing is
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  Speaker 2: a really great way to remove temptation.
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  Speaker 1: Oh one hundred percent. It is like anytime I'm in
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  Speaker 1: my emails, there's always that promotions tab and yeah, all
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  Speaker 1: every time, and I always click on them, and I'm like, gee,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing? And then you want things that
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  Speaker 1: five minutes ago you didn't correct because they're not in
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  Speaker 1: your face when you're not subscribe to them.
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  Speaker 2: One hundred scents, So recommend that great there from Hannah.
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  Speaker 2: Next one from Ujking.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so this one is from Jazz who has some
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  Speaker 1: amazing friends. Get this chess. So she went out for
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  Speaker 1: breakfast with some girlfriends. She ordered something little to keep
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  Speaker 1: the costs down and she's trying to be frugal. The
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  Speaker 1: cafe didn't split bills, so her friend paid for hers
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  Speaker 1: and she wouldn't let her pay her back. That's the
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  Speaker 1: first one. And then the second part of this is
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  Speaker 1: that she caught up with another friend on Sunday at
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  Speaker 1: a distillery gorgeous love a bit of gin. She happened
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  Speaker 1: to know the bartender and got a free cocktail, and
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  Speaker 1: then her friend paid for their tasting flights. That's like
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  Speaker 1: a flight of all of the variations of gin and
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  Speaker 1: then she was invited back to her parents place for dinner,
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  Speaker 1: so free meals, drinks galore.
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  Speaker 2: I love that for her, I know, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: it's a really nice thing too, Like, sometimes you're not
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  Speaker 2: in the position to afford to catch up with friends,
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  Speaker 2: and sometimes you might be in a position where you
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  Speaker 2: are a little bit more free with your money, You're
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  Speaker 2: in a slightly better financial place, and I think it's
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  Speaker 2: really nice sometimes to just be like, hey, like I've
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  Speaker 2: got it.
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  Speaker 1: If you're like, just like a little pay it forward
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  Speaker 1: leaves you with such a nice feeling, and you're exactly right.
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  Speaker 1: Jazz was stressing out about those social events because she
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  Speaker 1: was strapped for cash. So yeah, really nice. Over to you,
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  Speaker 1: my friend, all right.
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  Speaker 2: My next one is from Marni, who has two big
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  Speaker 2: moving money wins.
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  Speaker 1: Moving is expensive.
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  Speaker 2: I did it not that long ago, and it is
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  Speaker 2: not cheap. What are we talking so moving house specifically,
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  Speaker 2: and she instead of hiring a truck, bode a ute.
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  Speaker 2: So she said it added three or four hours to
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  Speaker 2: the move because she had to do multiple trips instead
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  Speaker 2: of just the one load you'd do in a big truck.
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  Speaker 2: But saved her a couple hundred bucks. Good girl, I stress,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like as well. Driving a truck can be stressful.
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  Speaker 1: Have you gotten behind the big wheel?
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  Speaker 2: I attempted it once and I used to drive a
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: Missi Micraft, so a little bit. The jump from a
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  Speaker 2: micro to a truck is kind of wow. But then
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  Speaker 2: the second part of that is that instead of paying
• 9:41
  Speaker 2: three hundred dollars for an end of lease clean they
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  Speaker 2: did it all themselves, and they did it better than
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: they feel like the cleaners would have, and that saved
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  Speaker 2: them another three hundred dollars. Well done, So huge big
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  Speaker 2: money wins there from Marny.
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  Speaker 1: Just to make it about Georgia once again, we my
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  Speaker 1: old housemates and I spent two days cleaning our house. Yeah, scrubbing,
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  Speaker 1: getting down on those knees and scrubbing. As I said,
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  Speaker 1: we thought we'd now dis Yeah, and then we get
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  Speaker 1: a call from our grumpy agents saying, of course you
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  Speaker 1: have not cleaned this a property, spelling your ears. But
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  Speaker 1: we had to pay four hundred and fifty dollars to
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  Speaker 1: clean the whole place. It's so expensive.
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: So here's a fun fact for you guys. Did you
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  Speaker 2: know at least in Victoria, the rental laws state that
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: you're only required to leave it in a reasonable cleanly condition,
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  Speaker 2: Like they can't actually penalize you from having like a
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  Speaker 2: few streaks on the shower or whatever. Like. The law
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  Speaker 2: states that it just has to be in like reasonable
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  Speaker 2: condition and cleanliness. Oh my god, as definitely was reasonable
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: real estate, and like rental property managers will sometimes like
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: obviously they want to do the best they can for
• 10:47
  Speaker 2: their investment owners, leave your rental property clean. Don't get
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: clean up after yourself. But it doesn't have to be
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: speaking span and you don't have to spend all of
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  Speaker 2: those hundreds of dollars speaking anyway, I've.
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  Speaker 1: Got a few years, ol choose just one last one
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  Speaker 1: as with this one is from Jane, who was inspired
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: by Victoria's call on the podcast to get a cheaper
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: phone plan. Remember that a few weeks ago. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: not even for a dollar. That was the best. He
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: was great and the little nurse Rey rhymes in the
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  Speaker 1: background playing on the t BES. Yeah, it was gorgeous. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: Jane called up Optus. She got them to give her
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  Speaker 1: the thirty nine dollars ten gigabyte plan for nineteen dollars
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  Speaker 1: with an extra five gigabyte. All she said was she
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  Speaker 1: wanted a cheaper plan as she could see better deals elsewhere,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what they gave to her. Amazing.
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  Speaker 2: If you haven't, there's a script on the website. Check
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  Speaker 2: it out, get yourself a better deal. I know we
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  Speaker 2: plug it a lot, but the amount of money you
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: can save on just like you're recurring general bills. Reading
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  Speaker 2: the Facebook group, people are dating hundreds.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly right. Just finish us off with our
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  Speaker 1: final money win of the week.
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  Speaker 2: All right, My last win is a goodie from Natalie.
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  Speaker 2: She says they scored a baby tag along.
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  Speaker 1: She's one of those cute little like a tricycle.
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  Speaker 2: It in clothes that you put a baby in on
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  Speaker 2: the back of the bike, so it's like a trailer.
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  Speaker 1: Look the trailer.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, put the baby in the trailer, put the trailer
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  Speaker 2: on your bike and you pedal around and they get
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  Speaker 2: to sit in the back. Amazing, much more safe than
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: a trailer obviously specifically designed to hold children. But she
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  Speaker 2: got a tag along for free because they noticed their
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  Speaker 2: neighbors had it sitting in.
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: Their yard and they stole it.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I mean potential money and perhaps a league lost no,
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: but they asked if they could purchase it, and then
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  Speaker 2: the neighbor gave it to.
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  Speaker 1: Them for free.
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  Speaker 2: Stop.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's such.
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: A nice thing to do again, the pay it forward yeahtality, yeap,
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: very into that. And there's a really cute pick of here.
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: Let me turn it around so you can stand my
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: poor description. Look, buddy, Yeah, there's things that there's like
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: three kids.
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  Speaker 1: In there as well. That's a decent The best friends
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  Speaker 1: ride and they stuff.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Well, Now, normally we'd have a bit more
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: back and forth and discussion because they'd be double the people.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: They'd be double the people.
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: So I thought, let's just chat some fun stuff from
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: the group. One of my favorite parts of my job
• 13:14
  Speaker 2: is the fact that I'm in the group every day,
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: like reading things and commenting on things, and we just
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: have so many fantastic discussions. So like, not at all subtle, plug.
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: If you're listening to the pot and not in the
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: Facebook group, get amongst it. There's a lot going on.
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: I wanted to kick it off with something that popped off.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: We had a thread posted just kind of asking a
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: few general questions about the gender pay gap yep, and
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of people expectedly talking about what they had experienced,
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: the fact that they feel like it's real. I just
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: wanted to ask George, like, what do you feel like
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  Speaker 2: there is a gender pay gap? What is your personal
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: experience in this area. I know it's a big it's
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: a big one to tackle, but I feel like it's
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: it's worth talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, definitely, definitely. See it's it's hard to know because
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: you and I, Jess, we're still quite young, so it's
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: hard to know because we It's hard to say this
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: because we're talking about she's on the money.
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  Speaker 2: Like, we're in a privileged position where we work for
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: a business that really values it the employees. There are
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: very open discussions around money. Yep. Like it's all very transparent,
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: but most people aren't that fortunate. Yes, which makes it tricky.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, no, one hundred percent. So obviously you
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: and Digests have it pretty good at she's on the money,
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  Speaker 1: So this isn't something that I've been directly affected by. Yeah,
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: we're very lucky that our boss is a financial advisor
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: and we're having these discussions every single day, and we're
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: seeing them in the community and we can engage with them.
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  Speaker 1: But at the same time, it is still such a
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: huge issue and it's something that kind of needs to
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: be addressed, but I don't really know what the answer is.
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  Speaker 2: Like, it's a tough one, isn't it. Yeah, there is
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: interesting along this lines. There was an interesting post on
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: some proposed laws that would mandate pay transparency and things
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: like that. So at the moment, it's legal for there
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: to be a clause in your contract that says you
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: cannot discuss your salary with another employee, which I think
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: is an absolute joke because that's how businesses leverage, you know, secrecy.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't know what If I don't know what
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: you're earning and you don't know what I'm earning, then
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: how can you ever find out the difference exactly right?
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  Speaker 2: And that's where I guess that gender pay gap comes in.
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  Speaker 2: If there are males that are earning more, maybe you're
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: not aware of it or you're not confident enough to
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  Speaker 2: discuss it. Have you ever had this in a passwordplace?
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  Speaker 1: Yes and no.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't want to get too specific here, but
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: in a role that I worked previously, I was doing
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: something very comparable to a male counterpart, and it was
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: in an industry that is definitely, I would say Mayle
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: will dominate it. We were really good friends and I
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: knew that he was earning more than me, and there
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: were a few new answers to it, Like it wasn't
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: super clear cut, but I just remember thinking that, like
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: I didn't know how to address it. I didn't really
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: know how to bring up that feeling of oh, like
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I think I'm working just as hard as you, and
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: I'm doing just as much as you, but you're earning,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: you know, fifteen thousand dollars more than me. It's just
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: very it can be very overwhelming, I think, and I
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: feel like what we were seeing on this thread in
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: the group is a lot of people talking about times
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: that they had been given really poor reasons for why
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: they were perhaps earning less, like women are less confident,
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: or women are doing less in the workplace, or they
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: have less ambition, and that's why your male counterpart is
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: earning more. And to be honest, I never got to
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: that point because I never felt comfortable to have that conversation.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: And that's on me a hundred percent. But yeah, it's
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: a really tough one. And I think like having those
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: conversations like what happened in the group. Opening up people's
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: eyes and just being more open in gen which is
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: what we talk about too much on the pod, is
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: a really good step forward to kind of challenging those ideals.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Have you ever spoken with your mates that cho's on
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: the money or in previous workplaces about your pay, because
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: that is a really difficult.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, not so much. At other workplaces, she's on the money. Like,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty across it, and like we're all very open
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: and that's like a huge change for me. But even
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: strangely in my close friendship group, like it's never really
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: been a conversation that's been had. Which I was speaking
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: to a friend recently and it came up kind of organically,
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: and I was very happy and open to share my
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: salary because, like I said, like, we have such an
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: open environment here that it's kind of just second nature now.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: Like I did it, and then there was this brief
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: second where I was like, oh my god, like what
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: did I just do? And then obviously everything was fine,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: like we just continued on the conversation. But yeah, I
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: don't know how about you are your are your friends
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: the same? Ah?
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Similarly, it's not something that we really discuss like
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: I think for a few of them, money is still
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: something that makes them quite anxious, and it's just not
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: an area they feel comfortable wandering into.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, which, of course, if you're not comfortable, we're not
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: saying you need to be screaming things from really not. No,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: you do you make sure that you're comfortable. But if
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: you are able to facilitate those conversations or if maybe
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: she's on the money, is a good you know, a
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: nice opening or a nice segue for you to kind
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: of start having those discussions. I think it's really powerful
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: because knowledge is power.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Did any other posts kind of stand out to you
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: this week? I know that there was one about sugar
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: daddies that kind of popped.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Off about face, but yeah, that one was so popular, random,
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: super random.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: We actually it was interesting because I.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Do a lot of the moderation, as I'm sure a
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: lot of people know in the group, and that particular
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: post was reported times lots of times, and we kept
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: it up because in case you aren't aware, like, we
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: are very sex Can I say sex or is it
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: going to get like?
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Does that make that sex is fun?
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah? We are very sex work positive. He are at
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: this podcast. We believe all work is relevant work. We
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: are supportive of you. As long as you are safe
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: and you are happy, that is all that we care about.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: And so it was just a really kind of fun conversation.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Really it was a few people jumped in with their
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: opinions on what they thought was and wasn't right. At
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: the end of the day, I personally think it's a
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: personal decision that only you can make for yourself.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: But it's also kind.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Of crazy to hear how much money people have spent
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: on what Like one guy dropped a couple of grand
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: for pictures of someone's feet, and no judgment, I'll send
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: you three grad for a photo of your foot. I'd
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: be like, have ten foot kidding you can both fee.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: You know the price? That is crazy.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wild. Look to each their own, no judgment
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: from me, but it was a really interesting threat to
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: kind of read and see what some people's experiences were.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: So just search sugar Daddy in the group friends and
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: it will come up and you can have a little
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: trawl of what everyone had to say. My favorite comment
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: on that thread, Jess was from Anne, who wrote, I
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: am a seventy two year old woman and this has
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: been the most interesting thread I followed all year. Oh
• 20:23
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• 20:29
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• 20:38
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