Latest / Closing Sales in Nigeria - Sales For The Nigerian Business Person: The Sales and Marketing Blueprint / Closing the Deal: From Inspection to Agreement
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- 0:00There are some Nigerian business people or sales people whose job
- 0:06involves showing off a physical site to a potential customer, to
- 0:10a potential client. So for instance, if you're a
- 0:13commercial leasing agent, somebody wants to lease an
- 0:17office to you. There are times that you have to
- 0:20call up the client, meet at the site and you have to walk them
- 0:24through the property and try and figure out if this is going to
- 0:27be a good office for them to lease.
- 0:29Now, sometimes you also have to do that online if you're a
- 0:31commercial leasing agent because it's not every single time that
- 0:34the customer can, you know, hop on a plane or drive down to
- 0:38wherever it is you are. So sometimes, especially for
- 0:41customers who are out of town a lot potential clients, you just,
- 0:46you know, take the bull by the horns.
- 0:47You go to the place, you RIP out your phone and then you walk
- 0:50them through on WhatsApp. Now, this kind of situation is
- 0:54not ideal, but you know that it's Our Daily Bread.
- 0:58We have to move the deal forward somehow.
- 1:00So there are some people not to close the deal, to advance the
- 1:04agenda, to build the relationship, to do the whatever
- 1:07you have to show somebody a physical site.
- 1:10So today we're going to walk through some principles that you
- 1:13can use to guide how you're going to walk people through
- 1:16that physical site. Now, remember, the reason why
- 1:18this is important is because we're using this to build a
- 1:21relationship with somebody. We're using this to pursue an
- 1:24agenda with somebody. We're using this to close the
- 1:27deal with somebody. So this is going to relate to
- 1:31people like I said, commercial leasing agents or a real estate
- 1:36agent or your property management property manager or
- 1:41you're a site selection consultant.
- 1:44Because there are people that let's say you're looking for a
- 1:46warehouse. There are people that you can
- 1:47call and say, oh boy, how far is this website?
- 1:49Is this warehouse going to be good for me?
- 1:51Is this going to be good for a factory site?
- 1:53And then there's back when I was looking for trying to get my TV
- 1:57show, I spoke to someone who was a manager of a radio station
- 2:01here in Nigeria, but who had a business on the side.
- 2:04And his business on the side was helping people select sites for
- 2:08radio stations and then to set up the radio station and to get
- 2:10it running. Now, until I met him, I didn't
- 2:13know that there are people who actually make a living during
- 2:15that. So yes, there are people who are
- 2:16site selection consultants even in Nigeria.
- 2:20And I told you that I'm not making this up.
- 2:22I met somebody who that is inside business.
- 2:24You want to start the radio, no problem.
- 2:26You go and talk to him and then he has to help you figure out
- 2:30where would be the best place to figure out to put your offices
- 2:34or the best place to put the tower or the best place to put
- 2:37the satellite or the best place, you know, stuff like that.
- 2:40So site selection consultants, then people who are involved in
- 2:44the architectural space. So you're a general contractor
- 2:47handing buildings, you're a foreman or you know, like I
- 2:50said, you're an architect. You have to walk people through
- 2:53a physical site, whether it's, you know, one-on-one boots on
- 2:57ground or whether it's you just take your phone and you're
- 3:02trying to do something on WhatsApp.
- 3:04Interior designers, you also have to do this as well.
- 3:07You know, he has he has the office, he has the space.
- 3:09We'll do it like this, we'll do it like this, we'll do it like
- 3:11that. That's part of the job.
- 3:13Environmental consultants. Some of you think I'm making
- 3:16stuff up, but I'm not. I'm surprised to find out that
- 3:19one of my classmates who I thought was going to be a
- 3:21brilliant physicist actually is an environmental consultant.
- 3:25You know, that's what he does. You start a business, you want
- 3:29to open a factory somewhere, you want to, you know, do something
- 3:32here, do something there. You need an environmental impact
- 3:35assessment done. And he's the one who shows up to
- 3:37do that sort of thing. So of course, there are times
- 3:39when he's going to have to walk people through a site, you know,
- 3:41physically as an organ. Follow me.
- 3:43You see this pond, you see this, this, you see this thing, you
- 3:46see this one. This is not the implication.
- 3:48This is not the implication. So my classmate who's an
- 3:52environmental consultant has to go and do that thing on site or
- 3:56worst case scenario, get a WhatsApp.
- 3:58Sorry, you know, just do WhatsApp call or Skype call or
- 4:00something and start walking people through event planners,
- 4:03venue managers, hotel and sales managers.
- 4:06The list is plenty. The reason why I'm just
- 4:09listening it out is I'm just trying to tell you guys.
- 4:11Look, what we're going to talk about today is not theory.
- 4:15It is something very practical. There are people who have to
- 4:18walk somebody through a physical site because they're going to
- 4:21close the deal. Now, the reason why we're doing
- 4:23this is because I just had an interaction this morning on
- 4:27behalf of my client. Now, let's call my client Chuck
- 4:29Norris. Now, not the real Chuck Norris,
- 4:32by the way. I'm just saying Chuck Norris
- 4:34because my client's name actually rhymes with Chuck
- 4:37Norris. So if you're listening and your
- 4:38name, your name, sorry, excuse me, your name rhymes with Chuck
- 4:42Norris, then it's you. So Chuck Norris, now, he's
- 4:47trying to hire someone who is going to be doing this kind of
- 4:51thing in his own business, somebody who's going to be
- 4:53walking potential customers through certain properties that
- 4:58they have to acquire later on, properties that they're going to
- 5:00buy, properties that they're going to lease, that they're
- 5:02going to rent or whatever. So he has already selected
- 5:04someone. And I told the guy that, look,
- 5:06before you do this thing, do a trial run.
- 5:10Be sure that this babe is on point.
- 5:12Sorry that this guy is on point. The guy that they hired, he said
- 5:16no problem. So they did a trial run.
- 5:18And then based on the trial run, now it became clear that OK, we
- 5:21need to actually train this person.
- 5:24And some of the things that Chuck Norris pointed out, and I
- 5:26agree with him again, Chuck Norris is not my client's real
- 5:29name. Chuck Norris pointed out that
- 5:30the session started without any introduction.
- 5:33The session started without any pleasantries.
- 5:36The person was moving with the camera too fast and the person
- 5:39didn't have any facts or figures handy.
- 5:42And yes, those are very cogent concerns.
- 5:44So excuse me, I'm just recovering from a cold.
- 5:48Trust more. You notice that sound better
- 5:50now? So on this whole thing of no
- 5:53introduction, if you are someone and you have to show off a
- 5:56physical site, you're a property manager, you're into interior
- 6:00decor, you're an architect, you're a general contractor,
- 6:03you're a foreman, you're a venue manager.
- 6:09You can just show up and then just start talking to people
- 6:11like that. At the very least you show up
- 6:13and you say who you are and you say what the agenda is for the
- 6:16day before you begin. So it's absolutely important.
- 6:20That is one principle that you have to adopt in case you are
- 6:22any you fall into any of these categories that I have listed.
- 6:27In case you are a real estate agent, commercial leasing agent,
- 6:30property manager, site selection consultant, architect, foreman,
- 6:33contractor, environmental consultant, interior decor,
- 6:36event planner, hotel sales manager, venue manager, Bubwe
- 6:40everything, at least show up and answer the question who are you?
- 6:45What is the agenda? You suppose do that one fest
- 6:48fest. Then on the issue of
- 6:50pleasantries, very, very important.
- 6:52Now, some of us Nigerians want to be professional.
- 6:54So we'll go straight to the point.
- 6:56You suppose you know as in the more direct the better.
- 6:59But The thing is, even in the business context, people
- 7:03appreciate a certain level of rapport or a certain level of
- 7:06familiarity, if nothing else will make the whole thing less
- 7:10awkward and will make you much more approachable.
- 7:13And please, as a matter of growing your business, let's say
- 7:18you're an architect now or you're a contractor.
- 7:21If you're walking somebody through a site, all right,
- 7:25you're trying to close this deal.
- 7:26But because you came in on a very high professional level,
- 7:29the person feels as if you know, they can't approach you, they
- 7:32can't talk to you. If there's any problem, will you
- 7:34know, these are some of the ways that we lose the deal and we
- 7:39don't know. So these all things are
- 7:41pleasantry, rapport, commonality, familiarity,
- 7:44whatever it is that we call it very important because you guys
- 7:48make you approachable. So if as an architect you're
- 7:51walking somebody through the site, we are very standoffish.
- 7:53If there's problem, they won't tell you.
- 7:55If they have question, they won't tell you.
- 7:59These are the kind of things where another architect can come
- 8:01and steal this contract, another contractor can come and win this
- 8:06award because you you are too standoffish.
- 8:09So I'm not saying you should show up and say, oh, how are
- 8:12you? How is the wife?
- 8:14How is the children? How is the this happy Sunday,
- 8:17happy Easter, happy Valentine. No, we're not saying you should
- 8:20do any of that. But if you've been listening to
- 8:23the podcast for the length of time already have lots of
- 8:25podcast episodes about how you build rapport and commonality
- 8:28with someone and how you establish a certain level of
- 8:31familiarity. So when you're done listening to
- 8:33this podcast episode, just scroll back, look at the
- 8:38subjects. Eventually you find something
- 8:40around building rapport. Then of course, Chuck Norris,
- 8:44again, not his real name. My client had the complaint
- 8:47about the guy when he was using the camera.
- 8:49The camera was moving too fast. And then the person, they have
- 8:51facts. After he goes, no problem.
- 8:53So I said, OK, no, I'll, I'll call up this guy and then we'll
- 8:58give him small training. So I called the guy that was
- 9:01selected. Now, let's call the guy Kermit
- 9:03the Frog. Now, I'm not abusing the guy to
- 9:05say he's a frog. It's just that his name, Kermit
- 9:08the Frog, rhymes with Kermit. And if you're a Nigerian, now
- 9:13you're wondering which kind of boy's name in Nigeria rhymes
- 9:16with Kermit. Don't worry.
- 9:18Just think hard. Eventually figure it out.
- 9:20That is a very popular name. So if you listen to this podcast
- 9:24and you're wondering, ah, Kermit the Frog, is that me?
- 9:27Yep, it actually is you. So we Kermit the Frog.
- 9:29Now, again, not an insult. It's just that, you know, I grew
- 9:32up on Sesame Street, Fraggle Rock, you know, all those sorts
- 9:36of stuff. So, you know, Kermit the Frog,
- 9:38Miss Piggy, Gonzo, who again, all of those characters, them,
- 9:43all those Muppets, those are things I used to watch when I
- 9:46was growing up. So I just like Kermit the Frog.
- 9:48So I've never forgotten him. So anyway, so now the guy, now
- 9:53Kermit the Frog, these are some of the principles that we
- 9:55discussed. So I said, look, Kermit,
- 9:58Congrats, first of all, that Chuck Norris is hiring you.
- 10:03Cameron said no Allah. I said, OK, he's looking good.
- 10:05He's looking like you're going to end up being the person that
- 10:09they end up working with. Kermit said, OK, no Allah,
- 10:12because number one, you're always on time.
- 10:14And that's one thing I appreciate about Kermit because
- 10:15Cambridge is on time. If you tell Kermit, look, our
- 10:18next meeting is Wednesday morning, 830 by 755.
- 10:24Cami, good on ping. You ping him.
- 10:25Good morning, Sir. You see the guy is on your toes.
- 10:29He's keeping you on like if the meeting doesn't hold, it is not
- 10:33because Kermit forgot. And that is one thing that
- 10:35Nigerian business people don't do well.
- 10:37So we should always do that, you know, so that our meetings
- 10:41don't, we don't miss meetings and things like that.
- 10:45So follow up messages, reminders, you know, things like
- 10:48that, notifications keeping, putting people on point.
- 10:52And of course Kermit is never late.
- 10:53So that was that was a good thing.
- 10:56So Kermit say thank you Sir, that's OK.
- 10:58But you know, there's a couple of things you need to change
- 10:59first. He said OK, no problem that's
- 11:01OK, good. Now the first thing we need to
- 11:03do is before I started talking, I asked Kermit because I need to
- 11:07see how self aware Kermit is. I said OK Kermit that inspection
- 11:11that you did, He said Sir, that inspection that you did Sir, did
- 11:15you? How did you introduce yourself?
- 11:18So now Kermit, the guy in Mellow first the guy gentle.
- 11:21He said, actually Sir, to be honest I didn't introduce
- 11:24myself. I said, I said very good.
- 11:27I'm glad that you admitted. I said, you know, so I guess I
- 11:31should have introduced myself. I said fantastic, very good.
- 11:34So I told you, OK, good. Now in your own way, how would
- 11:37you have liked to introduce yourself?
- 11:39Now, assuming we're doing this thing again next time, whether
- 11:42it's a test or next time we're doing it with a live client, how
- 11:45you would like to introduce yourself?
- 11:47So Kemi said, well, I'd like to say my name.
- 11:51I am so, so, so, so, so, so, so the company blah, blah, blah,
- 11:54blah, blah. So OK, you know what, for the
- 11:57purpose of this whatever, don't give your full name, just give
- 12:00the first name because you also have to unlock with it.
- 12:05If you show up when I say my name is Ola Dimaji, Ola Gundrew
- 12:08or Lani Peku, you know, that's a lot.
- 12:11So thankfully speaking, it's your real name or that image or
- 12:14going Dimaji or Lani Peku. But it's a lot.
- 12:18We just want people to have an easy reference so that they can
- 12:21call us so that if there's anything, they'll just call us.
- 12:23So let's say, for instance, in your family, everybody calls you
- 12:25Dimaji. You can just say morning, my
- 12:28name is Dimeji and today we're here for a hair, you see, or oh,
- 12:32good morning, my name is Oladimeji or Orlandic Baku.
- 12:35You can just call me Dimeji. Straightforward so that if
- 12:38there's anything the client can say orgadimeji, you said, you
- 12:43know, and then they bring you back on something.
- 12:45So just first name is OK for now.
- 12:49So introduction, just give your first name, that's all.
- 12:54Good morning. My name is Dimaji.
- 12:56Bam, that's all or good morning. I'm the fellow from so, so, so
- 13:00and so company who is going to be walking you through the
- 13:02property today. You can call me Dimaji if you
- 13:05have any questions, feel free to interrupt.
- 13:08There's not any problem. I'm here to serve.
- 13:10That's a very simple introduction.
- 13:13They now know who you are. They now know the company that
- 13:17you work for and they now know this is what we are doing here
- 13:21today. So any which way that suits that
- 13:26is sweet in your own mouth. You don't have to sound formal
- 13:28like me. Any which way that is sweet in
- 13:30your own mouth, that's how you had to introduction morning.
- 13:33My name is Kermit. I'm from XYZ company.
- 13:37I'm the fellow that has been sent from the company to walk
- 13:39you through the property today. And I'm hoping that while we're
- 13:41here today, we're going to be able to look at the five
- 13:45different sections of this factory.
- 13:46And by the time we're done, I'm hoping that we'll be able to
- 13:51make a very objective assessment as to whether this is going to
- 13:54be a good site for your factory or a good building for your
- 13:57whatever, whatever, whatever, whatever.
- 14:00So are you OK with that, Sir? Of course, the other person will
- 14:02say, yes, it's OK, Sir. So if you don't mind, shall we
- 14:05begin? And the person will say, no
- 14:07problem, young man, continue. So you see, introduction.
- 14:11Very simple. Who are you?
- 14:14Where are you coming from? What's the agenda?
- 14:16This is my name. This is the company as we are
- 14:19gathered here today. This is what we're going to do.
- 14:21Bam, introduction done and then continue.
- 14:24Then I also told Kermit that look, before you continue, you
- 14:30are supposed to confirm one or two things before you start.
- 14:33First of all, confirm the identity of the person because
- 14:38if you're supposed to be meeting with Olga Bata Pata himself that
- 14:43day, but Olga did not show Olga sent his PA.
- 14:47You need to know that it is APA that you are carrying the
- 14:52inspection for because PA can only look and make one or two
- 14:56impressions, but PA cannot say yes or no.
- 15:00PA, by the way, just means it's an acronym.
- 15:02Also mean again, personal assistant, personal assistant,
- 15:05executive assistant, you know, executive aid, you know, all
- 15:09those sorts of things. So you need to confirm the
- 15:12identity. Who am I talking to?
- 15:14You will determine what you will show and it will determine the
- 15:16level of, you know, how in depth you will go.
- 15:19So if you're in front of the main client, Gong Gong the auger
- 15:24himself at the top, good. You can go all out and say you
- 15:30will impress somebody on this inspection.
- 15:32But if it's just the PA, you know, that's a very superficial
- 15:35something just to confirm one or two somethings and then try and
- 15:38get advancement like, OK, how soon can we bring our guy back
- 15:42into the equation? Or you're trying to figure out
- 15:44the the executive assistant, the PA, you're trying to figure out
- 15:47their level of authority. Because if OGA has deputized to
- 15:51the PA and say, look, PA just go, anything you say will do,
- 15:57you need to know. So confirm the identity of who
- 15:59is there. And you also need to confirm the
- 16:01specs, the specifications, the desires, the wants, the needs of
- 16:08the person that we are talking to, because that is what is
- 16:11going to determine, as we say in my church, determine that is
- 16:15what we determine what we will show.
- 16:19So you don't just meet somebody and I say, you know, introduce
- 16:23yourself and then you begin the inspection.
- 16:25Who is there? If there are two or three people
- 16:28who are they get their name, you know, get the portfolio, get
- 16:35the, you know, so if Olga is there and you recognize Olga, I
- 16:39agreed, Olga very well. So, so I hope you don't mind me
- 16:41asking Olga. I noticed that there's some
- 16:42other people here. So oh, this is this is Judith,
- 16:47my PA, and then this is Felix, my executive assistant.
- 16:50Both of them are going to be with us.
- 16:52They're going to be taking measurements and something
- 16:54sometimes. Oh, OK, Sir, thank you.
- 16:56At least now you know, so that when you're going along and
- 16:59you're talking to Olga, showing him the site on a very high
- 17:03level when he gets to some technical things, because you
- 17:07know that Felix is there to take note of technical requirements.
- 17:10You can slow things down for Felix, local Felix.
- 17:12Have you noticed that you got all the figures that be it is
- 17:16also so and so pounds per square inch, blah, blah, blah.
- 17:19You know, all you people that show people physical properties.
- 17:22You know all the big, big grammar that you need to talk,
- 17:25you know, so we don't know. Start the inspection like that,
- 17:28confirm the identity who is there, then confirm the specs.
- 17:32We need to know the names of the people who are there.
- 17:35And this is where people like me fumble because me, I'm not good
- 17:37with names at all. And it's something I need to
- 17:39work on. But you know, because it's
- 17:41somehow to say boss, you get a sister.
- 17:45You know, after a while, we'll figure out that oh, the reason
- 17:47why you're saying sister boss is because you know, you don't know
- 17:49their name. So you need to do some work
- 17:51there. Know people's name.
- 17:52So you call them by name, you know, but I'm Judith Boss Felix,
- 17:56you know, so their name. Then you also want to confirm
- 18:02the purpose, the person that you're talking to or the people
- 18:05that you're talking to. Now that you're at this site,
- 18:08what purpose do they need this thing for?
- 18:12Are they looking to rent something for office space?
- 18:14Are they looking to rent it for factory space?
- 18:16Are they looking to rent it for the use it for?
- 18:19Maybe you're talking to people from MTN or Global Com or
- 18:22whatever and they're looking for a new site so that they can put
- 18:25up a, excuse me, a communications tower, something
- 18:29like that. You need to know the purpose for
- 18:32why we are gathered here today. So excuse me now.
- 18:36The reason why we're going to do that is because that is what is
- 18:38going to determine as the same by judge.
- 18:41Determine what we'll show. OK, that's all.
- 18:44Determine what we're going to show today.
- 18:46Then you also need to try and figure out what some of the key
- 18:50technical requirements are before you start this thing.
- 18:55So hello Sir, glad to walk you through this today, blah blah
- 18:58blah, you know, do the usual name company agenda.
- 19:02It is my assumption that this factory that you want to set up
- 19:06is a rice milling factory and that you're looking for
- 19:09something that is going to be 250,000 square meter, you know,
- 19:12200 hectares. Something something something,
- 19:14you know, all those technical whatever because you're going to
- 19:18be using several machines here. You're going to be using two
- 19:21bagging machines, 3 filtering machines to solar, whatever,
- 19:28whatever machine, you know, all this technical stuff.
- 19:32Just ask on a general level, if Olga says yes, you're correct.
- 19:36Good, you now know you can continue with this inspection
- 19:39with your full chest. Like, yes, the people who I want
- 19:43to be here, they're here. The thing that I'm going to show
- 19:46them is fit for purpose won't be a waste of time.
- 19:48Let us continue. Now, another reason why we
- 19:52confirm identity and confirm the specifications before we begin
- 19:55is because this is what gives us an opportunity to build rapport.
- 20:00Remember that my client, Chuck Norris, Chuck Norris complained
- 20:02that Kermit, the guy, the inspection officer, the guy just
- 20:07went straight in, no pleasantry, no nothing.
- 20:10So it is when you're talking to people, confirming name,
- 20:13confirming purpose, confining typical requirements, that
- 20:15there's opportunities for rapport, for commonality and so
- 20:18from some familiarity. You know, person said, well,
- 20:22this is my PA, this is my whatever Judith and Felix Sr.
- 20:29OK, no works. But this Madame Judith as I'm
- 20:31seeing, you know her face example is mom with your
- 20:33daughter. Oh yes, Judith is my first
- 20:35daughter. Oh wow, that is nicer.
- 20:38I really like it when I see Nigerian entrepreneurs such as
- 20:43yourself, Sir, who are bringing their children into the business
- 20:45very, very early. Oh Sir, that thing really,
- 20:47really inspires me. In fact, when I grow up, Sir, I
- 20:49want to be like you. I have my children involved in
- 20:52the business. A guy will laugh, ha ha, ha, ha,
- 20:54ha, ha, ha, ha. You know, you don't build
- 20:57familiarities much more. So it's when you're talking to
- 20:59people, asking all these extra questions.
- 21:02Now, opportunities for building rapport will show up.
- 21:06All right, so this confirm identity, confirm specs or
- 21:10whatnot, very, very, very important.
- 21:12This is where you will get opportunities to build rapport.
- 21:15Now as we were talking on this particular point, because I told
- 21:20you I like Kermit, he's a correct guy.
- 21:22Cambridge now pointed out one thing.
- 21:23Cambridge now said if I want to begin audition on the video call
- 21:27is not kind of too much. I said, Kermit, you know what,
- 21:30you have a point. And so Kermit asked, what's the
- 21:34best thing, Sir? And I said, look, this is what
- 21:36me, I prefer. I would prefer that actually you
- 21:39should have done this thing before we get to the site.
- 21:43And Cameron said, Oh yes, that in fact, he was thinking he
- 21:46wanted to as I was talking that he wants to do this thing.
- 21:49Sorry about the noise in the background.
- 21:51You know, I have my kids home because schools are currently on
- 21:54holiday. So, so sorry about that.
- 21:57You know, there will be some noise coming in through the
- 21:58background. So Cameron said he would like to
- 22:02do his own about a day before. See, there's no fixed time,
- 22:06whether you do it a day before, a week before, an hour before, 3
- 22:10hours before, 4 hours before, you know, whatever it is that is
- 22:12practical. But yes, it will be a nice way
- 22:15to do all of these things ahead of time.
- 22:17Confirm the identity of people who are going to be on site, the
- 22:19specs that they're working towards, you know, their names,
- 22:22the purpose of the building, any technical requirements, any
- 22:25other particular requirements, things like that.
- 22:27So by the time you will arrive on site, whether you are
- 22:31physical, everybody physical or you are the only one physical
- 22:35and you're using WhatsApp to be showing them ups and downs,
- 22:37WhatsApp video at least if I don't build some level of
- 22:41familiarity, some level of comfort will make everything
- 22:43nice, everything smooth. Nice.
- 22:45Yes. You see this reason why I said I
- 22:46like comments because the guy get initiative, very good
- 22:50initiative in asking a question to figure out actually when
- 22:53would be the best time to have this kind of conversation.
- 22:57Now remember that my client Chuck Norris again not his real
- 23:01name, Chuck Norris said, oh, for those of you who don't know,
- 23:04Chuck Norris used to be there's some movies that we used to
- 23:07watch back in the 80s. Yeah, back in the 80s, some old
- 23:13film, action film, you know, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Chuck
- 23:16Norris, Sylvester Stallone, Van Damme.
- 23:21Who again? Billy.
- 23:23Billy Ray. Is he Billy Ray Blanks?
- 23:26Are he Billy Bo Banks or something?
- 23:28Then who again? Bruce Lee, Michael Dudikov, As
- 23:35in, you know, action film, you understand, shooting and then
- 23:40fighting. What?
- 23:42All those kind of action movies. My father hated those movies.
- 23:45He thought they were too violent.
- 23:47It's a good thing he's not alive today because my father can't
- 23:50see. Some of the films that people
- 23:51are watching nowadays will be like, what kind of madness is
- 23:53this? So Chuck Norris was an action, a
- 23:56martial artist and action action superhero star that we used to
- 24:01watch back in those days. You know, Chuck Norris, them
- 24:04Arnold Schwarzenegger, Commando Rambo, all of those, all of
- 24:07those things and Predator, all those things.
- 24:10So I know just in case you're wondering who's the Chuck
- 24:13Norris, you know, very good stuff.
- 24:15So if you go on YouTube and just type in Chuck Norris, I'm sure
- 24:18you see some of the old movies. So just watch and enjoy
- 24:21yourself. I know for those of you who are
- 24:23Gen. Z now, you will laugh like I
- 24:25can't believe people used to watch these things and no
- 24:27problem back then. Those who are the ish like
- 24:30anytime. In fact, Cynthia Rothrock, I
- 24:32don't forgot Cynthia Rothrock, legend, Cynthia Rothrock.
- 24:37Now the reason why she was legend is because, you know, all
- 24:39the people have been calling are men.
- 24:40Of course, Cynthia Rothrock is a is a woman and she had this move
- 24:44where she used to keep people in the crotch.
- 24:45In fact, my son saw one of those Movies Now and he was like, does
- 24:49she have to do that all the time?
- 24:50That looks very painful. Anyway, where was I?
- 24:55So Chuck Norris now my client, he said that the video started
- 24:58too quick. So this is what I told Kermit
- 25:02the inspection officer, again, not his real name.
- 25:04So I told him Kermit. Now Kermit, this is what we're
- 25:06going to do. Whenever you're showing people
- 25:11your property, whether they are in person or whether this thing
- 25:15is online, like you, you're in person.
- 25:16The other person is online. As you, they progress as you are
- 25:20showing them things one by one, by one, step by step.
- 25:23You suppose they give feedback on features that you're showing
- 25:27them, and then you dwell on places where people seem to be
- 25:32interested. They now get confirmation.
- 25:35So let me repeat the whole process.
- 25:37So I told Kermit that this is what you do as you're walking
- 25:40through somebody on the site. What you do is you'll be getting
- 25:43feedback as you're moving along. At my own point, when you notice
- 25:47that somebody looks like they're interested on something, you
- 25:49dwell there. You hang the video where people
- 25:52are walking. You stop walking at that point
- 25:55so that you can be asking them more questions based on that
- 25:58particular feature. You're trying to get some
- 26:01confirmation whether they like, whether they don't like, if they
- 26:06like this something you as a salesperson, you're making a
- 26:09mental note of either. OK, they like this one, they
- 26:12like this one, they like this one, they like this one.
- 26:14At the end of the presentation, those are the ones you'll be
- 26:17emphasizing the things that they said they like.
- 26:20Then you also been taking notes and they don't like this one.
- 26:23They don't like this one, they don't like this one.
- 26:24This is what will help you at the end of the time to realize
- 26:26that you know what, let me know if we'll try and close the deal.
- 26:29Because based on all these whatever we looked at 10
- 26:33different things, seven of them or guy clearly doesn't like them
- 26:36or this one is not a good is not a good deal.
- 26:40Let me take them to a new site. So I didn't tell Kermit move
- 26:44faster or move slower. I just said no, that as you're
- 26:47walking through be getting feedback based on the feedback,
- 26:50you know when you will dwell on something.
- 26:52To dwell just means you you sit down there for a while, OK, you
- 26:57dwell on it then be asking them more questions to confirm
- 27:00whether they're interested or not.
- 27:02Now the good thing about this is the client will now be
- 27:04influencing the pace because you'll get this on places and
- 27:07the client will be like although I already know about this, let's
- 27:09move. The client says I original about
- 27:11this, let's move. Why would you insist on staying
- 27:13there for 5 minutes and giving your presentation?
- 27:16Client don't talk, say you know he knows it.
- 27:18So OK more to go then the place that the client says really you
- 27:23don't mean it. Are you sure?
- 27:25Good. That is the place where you stop
- 27:27and then you dwell. You now be asking more questions
- 27:30and then you gain some confirmation.
- 27:32So I told Herman, this is what you do.
- 27:33You'll be walking around and you say, oh Sir, based on our last
- 27:36discussion over on WhatsApp, you said you are looking for blah,
- 27:39blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah and it's going to be a rice
- 27:42factory. And because of that you're going
- 27:44to need 3 packaging machines and then this and this and this.
- 27:47Sir, for this building, have you noticed this particular section,
- 27:52these columns that are marked B1, X2 and Z3?
- 27:57I think that there might be good places where you can put your
- 28:00something, something, something, something.
- 28:02Sir, would this suit the layout that you have in mind?
- 28:07And then you ask. So if it's a physical something
- 28:10at that point to ask that question, I'd be talking all
- 28:13these grammar you would have stopped.
- 28:15And as you're pointing to the columns column B12X3 and Z10 or
- 28:19guy has to actually look at those columns and to start doing
- 28:23some small mathematics in his head whether this thing is good
- 28:26or that thing is no good. You see, you're getting some
- 28:28feedback. You're dwelling on something.
- 28:30You're not asking for some confirmation.
- 28:33If at that point Olga says this factory is wonderful, but this
- 28:37particular place, especially these columns is not going to
- 28:39work here, here, work well here. How about the columns on the far
- 28:43eastern part of the of the plot of land?
- 28:46And we tried that. Whatever instead you see now
- 28:48Olga is influencing the pace, the client is getting vested in
- 28:53the process you are beginning to see and beginning to feel,
- 28:58beginning to source out, beginning to figure out exactly
- 29:02what it is they like and what it is that they don't like.
- 29:06You see. So it's not just, it's not even
- 29:07a matter of speed, move fast or move slow.
- 29:09No, as you're walking people through, like I said, be getting
- 29:13feedback, dwell on some places, try and get some confirmation.
- 29:18Then you'll be moving forward. Now this is 1 missing part of
- 29:23the process. I know some of you who are
- 29:25listening us of the podcast, you'd be tired of me saying
- 29:28this. But the reason why I say this
- 29:29again and again and again is because it's very important and
- 29:32because lots of business people, Nigerian business people miss
- 29:36out on this step. And also because that's some
- 29:40people who are listening for the first time I saw they've never
- 29:42heard about it. Lots of times people do physical
- 29:47inspections or site inspections. Let me repeat, those of you who
- 29:51are real estate agents, commercial leasing agents,
- 29:54property manager, site selection consultant, you're showing
- 29:57people warehouse or factory site, You're a general
- 30:00contractor, you're a foreman, you're an architect, you're
- 30:02doing interior design, you're an environmental consultant, you're
- 30:05a venue manager, hotel sales manager, event planner.
- 30:08This is where a lot of you mess up.
- 30:11You show somebody a place and then you say, OK Sir, that's it.
- 30:16I just wanted to show you the I just wanted to show you the
- 30:19property. Thank you very much, Sir.
- 30:21And then you keep quiet At that point, what the man will say or
- 30:25what the woman will say most likely do say.
- 30:28OK, thanks. I'll be in touch now.
- 30:32The moment you hear I'll be in touch, just know that there's a
- 30:34problem because from I'll be in touch.
- 30:37What will happen is don't miss one or two of your phone calls.
- 30:40Don't respond to e-mail after they start ghosting you.
- 30:43And you'll be wondering what happened.
- 30:46I thought we had fun. We laughed.
- 30:49I did everything Tavishima said. That's my name, by the way.
- 30:52Tavishima, you do. I'm the host of the podcast.
- 30:54I'm a former lawyer now, business consultant.
- 30:58So you say I did everything I had on the podcast.
- 31:00Things were going great. Why is this guy now ghosting me?
- 31:03Why is Madame now ghosting me? Now, the reason why the guy is
- 31:07ghosting you or Madame is ghosting you is because you
- 31:10didn't secure any advancement. An advancement is when two
- 31:14people, two or more people mutually agree that this is what
- 31:18we're going to do next. Whenever people agree this is
- 31:22our next step, the chancing of ghosting becomes low.
- 31:27I'm not saying ghosting will reduce.
- 31:30Ghosting is a fact of life. You will never be able to reduce
- 31:32ghosting. Everybody gets ghosted.
- 31:34It's normal. Even God people ghost God.
- 31:37People ghost God. God wants to spend time with
- 31:40you. He wants to get to know you.
- 31:41He wants to get to love you, you know, once you get to build a
- 31:44relationship with you, but you ghost God.
- 31:46So it happens. Everybody gets ghosted, even
- 31:49God, even the devil, everybody gets ghosted.
- 31:52So you can't reduce ghosting. Sorry, you cannot eliminate
- 31:55ghosting. You can just reduce it.
- 31:56So whenever people when you get an advancement, you agree that
- 32:01this is the next step, the level of ghosting goes down.
- 32:04So what you do, again, listen carefully after the side visit
- 32:08is so, so any questions you hear what questions they have to say,
- 32:13where you can answer, you answer.
- 32:15Then you will not ask one important question.
- 32:17You say, Sir, is there anything stopping us from moving on to
- 32:21the next stage? You ask and then you hear
- 32:25because sometimes there are some question marks in the process.
- 32:27You just didn't figure it out because at this stage, a guy who
- 32:31is there can say, I love it. However, I don't make any
- 32:36decision involving big money like this without consulting my
- 32:38wife. So I need to bring my wife on
- 32:40board. Now the fact that you ask this
- 32:43question that is there anything stopping on from moving to the
- 32:46next stage? And August said I need you to
- 32:47talk with my wife. Good.
- 32:49At least you now know what the problem was and you can now
- 32:53figure out a way to get Madame involved in the process.
- 32:59So that is why questions like this is there anything stopping
- 33:02us from moving on to the next stage is a very important
- 33:05question to ask. Now, next after that, there are
- 33:10two things you can do. Number one is you can now ask
- 33:13Olga, what would you like for us to do next?
- 33:16The reason why I'm telling you this question is because I just
- 33:19want to give you all the options.
- 33:21But honestly speaking, I hate this kind of question where you
- 33:25put it in the other person's, in the other person's hand.
- 33:29When you put it in their hand, they can give you an answer you
- 33:31don't like. You can say, OK, Olga, what
- 33:33would you like us to do next? And Olga can say, you know what,
- 33:36let's talk again in six months. If Olga say let's talk again in
- 33:40six months or more, a serious problem.
- 33:43Serious problem. We did the site inspection.
- 33:46Now it looks as if everything is going well.
- 33:48You say OK, what would you like to do next?
- 33:50OK, say let's talk again in six months.
- 33:51Aye, in six months, man, anything can happen.
- 33:54So what I do is I prefer to recommend the next step and then
- 34:01try and get some feedback. So what I will do is so Sir, any
- 34:05questions? Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk,
- 34:08talk, talk. OK, so based on everything we've
- 34:10set aside, looks like you like this place, right?
- 34:13Oh, yeah, Yeah. Place looks OK.
- 34:15All right, Sir. So is there anything stopping us
- 34:18from moving to the next stage? I say, well, to be honest, I
- 34:21can't really think of anything. Then what I will now say is so
- 34:25Sir, what I recommend next, since there's no encumbrance, I
- 34:30recommend that we do XYZ and we do it by ABC date and time.
- 34:36Is that OK by you, Sir? And then wait.
- 34:37And then I hear what Olga has to say.
- 34:40So if you are a real estate agent, commercial leasing agent,
- 34:45whatever, and you've worked or got through the whole place and
- 34:49you say Olga, any questions? Olga says no.
- 34:52So, so Olga, anything stopping us from moving on to the next
- 34:55stage? Can't think of anything.
- 34:57The place is looking OK. It's OK Sir.
- 34:59What I recommend next is we come to the office so that you sit
- 35:05down with our property leasing manager.
- 35:12You come by Monday 10 AM so that we can start drawing up the
- 35:17paperwork. Is that OK by you, Sir?
- 35:19Now you hear what Oga has to say.
- 35:24So if you are an environmental consultant, you're a general
- 35:30contractor, you're an architect, you're the venue manager, you
- 35:32know, it's, it's the same process.
- 35:35Any questions? OK, cool.
- 35:37Is there anything stopping us from moving ahead?
- 35:38All right, no problem. In that case, what I recommend
- 35:42is, or in that case, Madam, what I recommend is we do this, this,
- 35:45this and we do it by so, so, so and so did.
- 35:48Is that OK by you? Is that fine by you?
- 35:51Of course, in most cases will not be fine for Orga or for
- 35:55Madam, because of course you know they have their own
- 35:57schedule. So that is how you guys will
- 35:59start talking dates back and forth.
- 36:00So Oh no, I'm travelling. I'll be no more here by
- 36:03Wednesday and I'm not coming back until April 4th.
- 36:06OK, April 4th works. April 4th works for us.
- 36:10What time Sir? I'm not sure.
- 36:13My flight lands in the morning. Oh, so in that case, I'm sure
- 36:17you'd need some time to rest. So how about I call you on the
- 36:205th and we can look at morning time?
- 36:22Yes, morning works very well. In fact, you know what, let's
- 36:25not stress you. I will come with property
- 36:27manager. We will come to your own office
- 36:30with the paperwork and then do everything there.
- 36:32How does that sound, Sir? Oh, fantastic.
- 36:33Very fine. Then you now end that meeting.
- 36:37You will have agreed that the next step is what did I say?
- 36:42No, did I say, what did I say? April 5th and April 5th is when
- 36:46the meeting is going to happen. You will have agreed.
- 36:50They now say OK, Oh, in that case, since we're going to be
- 36:53seen on the 5th, if you don't mind, I'm going to ping you a
- 36:55reminder on the 3rd just to be sure we're still on course.
- 36:58So sure, no problem. That's it.
- 37:00You end the meeting. That is an advancement.
- 37:04Now, when you do that, you reduce the odds that ghosting
- 37:09will happen in the future. But please, for those releasing
- 37:12the podcast for the first time and we're going to try this, I
- 37:15will get disappointed. Please just note that not
- 37:17everything works 100% of the time and everybody gets ghosted.
- 37:21Everybody gets ghosted. Everyone.
- 37:25I can assure you today somebody's this is probably
- 37:27ghosting down with the as we're talking, he's probably trying to
- 37:30have a meeting with someone. And the person is, you know,
- 37:32important to try and close something relating to the, to
- 37:37the what's it called to the port that he's trying to open into
- 37:40Napa. So not in Napa, you know, in
- 37:42gosh, where is it Rivers State or whatever he wants to open
- 37:45this port. I can assure you that somebody's
- 37:48ghosting down with you right now.
- 37:50Or I can assure you that somebody is trying to get
- 37:53something from down with you and the person is trying to secure a
- 37:54meeting from down with you and down with you is ghosting that
- 37:57person. So these things happen.
- 37:58In fact, I was watching the video a while back where Bill
- 38:02Gates was talking about how he likes down with you because
- 38:06those one time he was trying to come into Niger and he wanted
- 38:09that Bill Gates was trying to do some things with some state
- 38:11governments and he wasn't able to make any progress.
- 38:14In fact, let me repeat. So you people, we will digest
- 38:17what I just said. Bill Gates himself coming into
- 38:21Niger because he wants to do 1 to run one or two things and
- 38:24Bill Gates could not get meetings with state governors.
- 38:27Let me repeat again, in case you didn't catch it, even Bill
- 38:30Gates, people are ghosting Bill Gates.
- 38:34If then it goes Bill Gates, then who are you?
- 38:36All of us to get ghosted? It's just normal.
- 38:38So Bill Gates in that video was talking about how he lost down
- 38:41with it because he said the moment he landed on ground and
- 38:44then he called down with it and he said, bro, I did try link up
- 38:49with so, so, so and so and nowadays, Oh, no problem.
- 38:52Now. Now my guys that down with a
- 38:53just pull off his phone, one or two calls, next thing
- 38:56appointment and then done with it.
- 38:58So where I'm more they go and that was it.
- 39:00That's how Big Gates was able to get access to some governors.
- 39:04So to put it in perspective, nothing works 100% all the time.
- 39:07Everybody gets ghosting, ghosting ghost.
- 39:10I mean, sorry, ghosted. Ghosting is the normal part of
- 39:12life. So just take it like that.
- 39:14But these are some of the things that we can do to reduce
- 39:16ghosting. So for this particular episode
- 39:19today, this is what you can do if part of your job, part of
- 39:24your business involves you showing people around physical
- 39:27sites. Again, commercial leasing
- 39:30agents, a property manager, a real estate agents, a site
- 39:33selection consultant, warehouse facility manager, factory site
- 39:37manager, your general contractor, you're a foreman and
- 39:40architect, your interior designer, environmental
- 39:42consultant, event planner, venue manager, hotel sales manager, on
- 39:45and on and on and on and on. So this is the process.
- 39:48This is how you walk people through a site.
- 39:50This is how you make an effective, well, I say so I call
- 39:54it inspection. I'll be presentation.
- 39:56Well, anyway, whatever it is you call it, this is how you make an
- 39:59effective inspection and this is how you keep the deal moving.
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