Selfish as Sacred: Choosing Self-Honour Over Self-Sacrifice in Divorce

Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell · Aug 7, 2025 · 17m · transcript

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You didn't become selfish. You became self-honouring.

What if being called “selfish” isn’t an insult, but a sign you’re finally choosing yourself?

In this episode, we explore the powerful shift from self-abandonment to self-honouring in relationships, through separation and during divorce.

If you’ve been made to feel guilty for setting boundaries, prioritising your needs, or no longer being easily controlled, this is your reminder:

You didn’t become selfish.

You became self-honouring.

You became sovereign.

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The difference between selfishness and…