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Trust Your Gut · Shawna and LaLa: Life Beyond The Mic

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Speaker 1: From the heart of the city, where the beat meets
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Speaker 1: the rhythm of your day.
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Speaker 2: It's Shawna m.
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Speaker 1: And check me out at Bella Underscore Lala at one
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Speaker 1: two five.
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Speaker 3: We've been m I A for a few weeks, both
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Speaker 3: of us, actually, I think the whole family, like my family,
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Speaker 3: your family, we've all been sick.
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's every week that we've been recording
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Speaker 1: as someone sick. It's been a horrible year.
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Speaker 3: It really has. Me and Geo actually ended up in
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Speaker 3: the er. Yep, I ended up in the er Friday.
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Speaker 3: I have been so sick. I thought I had a
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Speaker 3: stomach bug, but it ended up being we think a
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Speaker 3: GI infection and a UTI and Geo they're not sure
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Speaker 3: what's going on with him.
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Speaker 1: No, they it was Severe's stomach pains to the point
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Speaker 1: where I thought it was a pendicitis because he was
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Speaker 1: screaming and rolling around on the floor, and they think
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Speaker 1: it might be either he's another allergy has popped up
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Speaker 1: because he had anchovies right before this happened, or you know,
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Speaker 1: trapped gas. But we're going back to the doctor next week.
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Speaker 1: And they tested him for everything and it all came
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Speaker 1: back okay. I don't know. I don't know what's going on, guys,
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Speaker 1: but I'm ready for it to be over.
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Speaker 3: Me too. They tested me for everything under the sun.
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Speaker 3: And I went to the doctors on Thursday and they
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Speaker 3: did blood work and everything came back fine. I go
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Speaker 3: to the er. Blood work comes back fine, you know.
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Speaker 3: Then they decided to do other tests and other blood work,
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Speaker 3: and that blood work and the other tests didn't not
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Speaker 3: come back fine. So it just makes me think that,
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Speaker 3: you know, if I went to since I went to
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Speaker 3: my regular doctor, they would have never found this.
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Speaker 1: No. No, And you can get sepsis, you can a
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Speaker 1: lot of things. It spread the infection. That's really bad.
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Speaker 3: I think it did. I think this has been brewing
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Speaker 3: since I went to Florida, because when I was in Florida,
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Speaker 3: I had this pretty much similar symptoms, not as bad,
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Speaker 3: but with the throwing up and the diarrhea I had
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Speaker 3: that it seemed pretty much when I almost threw up
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Speaker 3: in the restaurant yeah, so I think it's been brewing
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Speaker 3: for quite some time, and yeah, they just didn't figure
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Speaker 3: it out.
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Speaker 1: It's scary that blood work doesn't pick up on everything.
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Speaker 1: So you always have to advocate for yourself and say,
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Speaker 1: all right, I know my blood work looks okay, but
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Speaker 1: something's not right. What other tests can we do here?
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Speaker 1: And just like in Shota's case, her red blood count,
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Speaker 1: her white blood count was fine, but in the other
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Speaker 1: tests it was she had an infection. So you cannot
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Speaker 1: always trust that the blood work that's gonna say that, hey,
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Speaker 1: you have an infection or you don't. You know, you
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Speaker 1: really got to advocate for yourself.
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Speaker 3: Which is crazy to me. I just don't understand how
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Speaker 3: in one set of blood work it's it was fine,
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Speaker 3: and then the next set of blood work and tests
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Speaker 3: it wasn't, you know, like within I don't know, they
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Speaker 3: drew the same blood work at the same time, they
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Speaker 3: drew like six or seven viols.
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Speaker 1: And that that last blood work the white blood count
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Speaker 1: and red blood count was high or was it normal? No,
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Speaker 1: it was normal, Okay, So that's what I'm saying. Your
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Speaker 1: blood work showed you were normal, no signs of infection. No, yeah, no,
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Speaker 1: But you're urine sample showed yes, infection.
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Speaker 3: That did. And then a different panel that they ran
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Speaker 3: a b MP I think it's cold mm hmm that
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Speaker 3: whatever that test for came back abnormal.
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it's crazy. So yeah, that's why tell people
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Speaker 1: just don't always trust that, Oh, your blood work's fine,
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Speaker 1: you're fine. We all know when something's going on with us,
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Speaker 1: and it's it's hard because doctors believe they know best
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Speaker 1: a lot of times, and they're so they're so focused
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Speaker 1: on your blood work sometimes that they stop treating your
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Speaker 1: symptoms and they just kind of just go, well, the
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Speaker 1: blood work's fine, you're fine. You know, it's scary, it's
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Speaker 1: really scary.
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Speaker 3: Which is what the hospital said too.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then they decided, all right, let's run more
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Speaker 3: tests because clearly I was all swollen and something was
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Speaker 3: going on.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean a similar story was with Geo
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Speaker 1: a few months ago.
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Speaker 3: He had the same thing.
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Speaker 1: Well, he had severe stomach pain, throwing up fever, and
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Speaker 1: we're like, oh, it's probably a stomach bug. But then
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Speaker 1: when it continued and he couldn't even walk and his
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Speaker 1: fevers were like one hundred and five, they took him
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Speaker 1: to the emergency room in laws, and the emergency room said,
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Speaker 1: he's fine, he's fine. His blood work you know, I
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Speaker 1: don't even know if they did blood work, right.
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Speaker 3: They didn't, because remember you were with me. We were
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Speaker 3: at the Apple store getting your computer fests and they
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Speaker 3: they called you to talk to you, and you said,
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Speaker 3: can you do blood work? And they said you need
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Speaker 3: to go to his doctor for that.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the emergency room would not do blood work on
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Speaker 1: my child who's in there with high fevers. Then they're like,
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Speaker 1: it's probably just the virus. It's it's just the stomach bug.
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Speaker 1: I was so livid, like, I'm paying all this money
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Speaker 1: for him to be in that er.
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Speaker 3: You're gonna charge me.
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Speaker 1: You're gonna charge me five hundred dollars for this right,
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Speaker 1: but you're not gonna do a single test. It's absolute bs.
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Speaker 1: So I took him to Urgent Care after that, and
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Speaker 1: Urgent Care ran every test under the sun for me.
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Speaker 1: They some I asked for and some they did on
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Speaker 1: their own. Stool test, blood tests, IVY. They gave him
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Speaker 1: bag of IV because he was dehydrated. He turned out
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Speaker 1: to have a very rare parasite bacteria in him. Called
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Speaker 1: I can't I can never pronounce it like, can't be bacterium,
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Speaker 1: and it's like food poisoning and it could be deadly.
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Speaker 1: So if I just trusted the hospital and was like,
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Speaker 1: all right, it's just a virus and didn't take him
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Speaker 1: the urgent care, who knows what could have happened to him.
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Speaker 1: So this is what I'm talking about, Like we cannot
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Speaker 1: always just trust these doctors in these hospitals, and we
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Speaker 1: have to go with our gut. And I knew something
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Speaker 1: was wrong with my child and it wasn't just a
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Speaker 1: stomach bug, and you have to just push because I pushed.
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Speaker 1: I said I want a stool sample done. Something's not right,
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Speaker 1: and they did everything and it was great. So yeah,
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Speaker 1: advocate for yourself, for your children, for your family, and
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Speaker 1: don't just trust what the doctors say.
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Speaker 3: You have to these days, and I learned my lesson.
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Speaker 3: I learned not to hold off because I waited five days,
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Speaker 3: well four days, but I had to go for blood
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Speaker 3: work and I just you know, told the doctor, hey, listen,
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Speaker 3: this is how I'm feeling. Can you just run some
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Speaker 3: extra blood work? But yeah, that was bad. I don't
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Speaker 3: wish a GI infection or a UTI on my worst
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Speaker 3: enemy oh, I've never had one before and I don't
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Speaker 3: ever ever want one ever again.
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Speaker 1: Let's hope you never get one again.
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Speaker 3: So shout out to Garnet emergency Room, who we actually
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Speaker 3: donate to all the time. We donate to their pediatric unit.
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Speaker 3: But the er took really good care of me. I
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Speaker 3: was there for seven hours, unfortunately, but it actually the
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Speaker 3: time went by pretty quickly once I got back there,
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Speaker 3: like I was busy, you know, like it really wasn't
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Speaker 3: a lot of downtime. But their urgent care not good.
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Speaker 1: No, no, a waste, a waste of your life. Their
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Speaker 1: urgent care that I don't even know why they are
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Speaker 1: an urgent care if they can't do anything.
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Speaker 3: They couldn't do body, They couldn't do blood work. They
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Speaker 3: did a P test, but they threw that away, and
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Speaker 3: they did another test and they threw that away. They
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Speaker 3: don't do blood work, they don't do ultrasounds, they don't
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Speaker 3: do cat scans. They send you to the er. So
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Speaker 3: I don't know why they're an urgent care.
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Speaker 1: To the point of them, you better check your insurance
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Speaker 1: because I guarantee they will charge you that they did
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Speaker 1: a P test, that they did a swab, that they
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Speaker 1: did whatever they did, the little that they did, they're
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Speaker 1: gonna charge you and you have to call and say nope,
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Speaker 1: they threw it in the garbage.
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Speaker 3: So who do I call?
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'd say your insurance company? Like do you
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Speaker 1: do you get the explanation of benefits? And like what
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Speaker 1: you Yeah? So when you see your EOB check for
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Speaker 1: the urgent care like mine comes, it'll say where I
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Speaker 1: went and then see what they charged you for? I yeah,
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Speaker 1: And then complain and say they didn't they did crap
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Speaker 1: for me, and try, you know, try not to get that.
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Speaker 1: It's it's it's a it's a crime. But I'm glad
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Speaker 1: you're doing a little bit better. My son's doing better.
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Speaker 1: And as we say, we've been saying the past few months,
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Speaker 1: hopefully this is the end of the sicknesses and let's
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Speaker 1: enjoy our spring and summer.
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Speaker 3: But you never know, no, you never know. But Easter
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Speaker 3: is coming up. I can't believe it's only like what
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Speaker 3: three weeks away?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's And we were just talking today why does
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Speaker 1: Easter move? So it's so drastic how it moves around
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Speaker 1: at the calendar. There has to be some explanation for it.
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Speaker 1: But a few years ago or last year Easter was
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Speaker 1: today right or yesterday.
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Speaker 3: It was March thirty first, March thirty.
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Speaker 1: First, and now this year it's April twenty something, So
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Speaker 1: why what what?
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Speaker 3: I don't understand what I don't know. I don't get it.
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Speaker 3: Do the kids get a spring break?
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Speaker 1: Yes, April twentieth is Easter, and yeah, the kids are off,
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Speaker 1: But how how is there like a three week difference
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Speaker 1: from last year or the year before or whatever it was.
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't get it. It's crazy to make.
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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to look this up or chat GBT it. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's probably something that I probably know, but I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I don't know. But yeah, then getting the kids stuff
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Speaker 1: out there, we are trying to get some cool products
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Speaker 1: for the kids for spring and Easter coming up. And
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Speaker 1: we were sent Good Pop I don't know if you've
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Speaker 1: heard of them, but I am all about natural, organic,
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Speaker 1: healthier versions of anything food treats. And this is the
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Speaker 1: first ice cream that they sent us ice cream and
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Speaker 1: it was the Mickey Mouse ice cream that Julina picked out.
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Speaker 1: She loved it, and it's non dairy. I could not
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Speaker 1: believe it. I'm like, this is gonna taste gross. You know,
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Speaker 1: I didn't tell her this, but I'm like, this is
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Speaker 1: gonna taste gross.
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Speaker 3: She ate it.
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Speaker 1: She loved it. So I took a bite and I
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Speaker 1: couldn't even tell that it wasn't real ice cream, like
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Speaker 1: real milk. No, it was coconut milk, and it didn't
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Speaker 1: taste like coconut. It tastes like ice cream. I could
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Speaker 1: not believe it, which is weird to me. Yeah, it
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Speaker 1: tasted so good. It had the chocolate shell on the outside.
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Speaker 1: She ate the whole thing besides my bite, and it
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Speaker 1: was so yummy. And so that was the non dairy
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Speaker 1: I think it's vegan. I don't want to say if
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Speaker 1: it's not, but it was the non dairy version. So
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Speaker 1: that helps anyone out there who has dairy intolerance or
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Speaker 1: their their vegans. And then they also sent us their
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Speaker 1: cookies and cream regular ice cream, and this is grass
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Speaker 1: fed and organic, and I'm big on that, Like, if
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Speaker 1: you're gonna have milk or dairy products or even meat,
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Speaker 1: look for grass fed. It's the best that you're gonna get,
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Speaker 1: especially if it's organic. So this ice cream had both
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Speaker 1: of those. So it was real dairy, organic, grass fed,
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Speaker 1: and it was absolutely delicious. I ate. I'm not a
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Speaker 1: big sweet tooth, but I ate the whole thing. So
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Speaker 1: it was good. But they have a ton a ton
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Speaker 1: of options on their website if you go to good
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Speaker 1: pop dot com, tons of different flavors. They have ice pops,
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Speaker 1: and they're all going to be without the dyes, without
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Speaker 1: the crazy high sugars. They have the dairy free, they
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Speaker 1: have the organic. There's just so many options so and
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Speaker 1: you can order them right on there, which I love.
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Speaker 1: And I'm hoping that they start coming to more of
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Speaker 1: our local grocery stores because I I would love for
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Speaker 1: people to steer their kids towards these products versus the
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Speaker 1: other crap that's out there. And we loved it. So
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Speaker 1: these are good Easter and springtreet and summer's coming, especially summer.
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Speaker 1: But hey, stock up now, order them and get them
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Speaker 1: stocked up.
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Speaker 3: So I meant to ask you, since we were all
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Speaker 3: at our own houses for the last three weeks, how's
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Speaker 3: potty training going?
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Speaker 1: It's going? This child is so difficult. I don't remember
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Speaker 1: having this many issues with my son, even though they
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Speaker 1: say boys are harder. But Julina is just not about it.
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Speaker 1: She Pea's in the toilet. Fine, she'll tell us when
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Speaker 1: like yesterday, me and Sean are at a restaurant and
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Speaker 1: in the middle of eating, she's like, I gotta go
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Speaker 1: to potty, and she we took her. You know, she
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Speaker 1: went to the bathroom. So she's good with peeing, but
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Speaker 1: she doesn't go poop. So that's that's a struggle right now.
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Speaker 1: But what's made potty training easier for me is be
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Speaker 1: Miss sent us the most amazing little training toilet seat.
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Speaker 1: It's called the Next Step two and what it is
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Speaker 1: is like it's a regular toilet seat, but in the
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Speaker 1: center is a tiny little toilet seat that fits their
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Speaker 1: little toddler butts and that can be lifted and put
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Speaker 1: down when the toddler needs it. And I love this
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Speaker 1: because I hate those little portable seats with you knows
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Speaker 1: the foam up top. It has like characters on it,
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Speaker 1: and the kids could put it on there or whatever,
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Speaker 1: but they get so dirty and you can't clean them
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Speaker 1: really good because it's the foam, and underneath it just
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Speaker 1: has all these nooks and crannies that it's hard to clean.
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Speaker 1: And Jolina was having a hard time when she, you know,
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Speaker 1: because toddler's hold it to the last second, and then
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Speaker 1: when she had to go, she was running in the
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Speaker 1: bathroom trying to get down her pants, then trying to
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Speaker 1: get the toilet seat to put it on the toilet,
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Speaker 1: and by the time she got a little butt up there,
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Speaker 1: you know, she sometimes had an accident. So I love
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Speaker 1: with beatus. She just walks in, she puts her little
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Speaker 1: seat down, it's already there, just plops it down and
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Speaker 1: then she can get up there and she doesn't fall in.
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Speaker 1: She feels secure and safe. And that's another thing that
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Speaker 1: was scaring her is that she on the big potty.
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Speaker 1: You know, the kids feel like they're gonna fall in
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Speaker 1: the hole. So I just love this. And it has
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Speaker 1: the magnetic button in it so that when the toddler
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Speaker 1: puts it up there or a parent, it sticks. It's
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Speaker 1: not gonna fall and crash on them, and then it's
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Speaker 1: easy to come back down. So absolutely amazing toilet seat.
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Speaker 1: I highly recommend it if you have little ones in
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Speaker 1: your house or your potty training. Even when she's done
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Speaker 1: potty training, this is going to be amazing for her
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Speaker 1: to just not feel like she's gonna pull on the toilet.
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Speaker 3: And it was easy to put on the toilet. You
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Speaker 3: and her, Actually, yeah, me and Jelina installed it.
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Speaker 1: I got I've had this toilet seat for a couple
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Speaker 1: of months now, and I kept asking my husband, can
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Speaker 1: you put it on? Can you install it? Can? And
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Speaker 1: you know how that goes? So man, Yeah, I was like,
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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm doing this and I started doing it.
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Speaker 1: Julia's like, can I help. I was like, yeah, go ahead, honey,
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm showing her. Let's be independent. We could
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Speaker 1: do this, and uh, we did it. We put it
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Speaker 1: in and it was super easy. It really, I'm not longing.
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Speaker 1: It was so easy. It was like one, two, three.
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Speaker 1: So highly recommend it.
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Speaker 3: And speaking of men, you've been asking your husband to
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Speaker 3: put your canoli cart together for at least two months now.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, two months or maybe three? Maybe two? Yeah. I
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Speaker 1: on the side, guys, I have a cannolium past the business,
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Speaker 1: and I wanted to create this cart that I could
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Speaker 1: take to parties and rent out for making cannolis. And
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Speaker 1: I bought all this stuff. We went to Low's and
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Speaker 1: Home Depot. We bought everything we needed and it's been
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Speaker 1: all the wood's been sitting in the garage for two months.
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Speaker 1: So last week he finally was like, I said, can
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Speaker 1: you do work in my cart this weekend? He's like, okay,
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Speaker 1: So we cut all the shapes that were needed, but
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Speaker 1: that's as far as it's gone. And then this weekend
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, can you finish working on my cart?
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Speaker 2: Oh?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. So I'm doing stuff in the house, cleaning this,
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Speaker 1: this and that, and I see him come in the
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Speaker 1: house and he's measuring things in the laundry room, going
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Speaker 1: back to the garage, measuring things going back to the garage.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what is he doing? Is he gonna put
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Speaker 1: my canoli cart in the laundry room? Like what's he doing?
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Speaker 2: And I go out there and this freaking man took
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Speaker 2: all the scrap wood from my canoli cart and started
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Speaker 2: building a bench for the laundry room. And it was
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Speaker 2: screwed together. Everything he made the holes. It was like,
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Speaker 2: you know, it was a lot of work making all
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Speaker 2: those cuts. So instead of finishing my cart, he created
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Speaker 2: a whole new project that because he wanted it, and
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Speaker 2: he made a bench for the laundry room and it's
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Speaker 2: almost done, and I'm like, what about my cart? Oh well, yeah,
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Speaker 2: you know, yeah, I'll get to that. I'll get to
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Speaker 2: that next. No, I wanted it done now, you know,
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Speaker 2: like these.
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Speaker 1: Freaking men, I can't. I just can't.
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Speaker 3: I would have been like, what are you doing?
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Speaker 2: Like I know, and it's not.
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Speaker 1: And he's like, although you wanted a bench in here, Yes,
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Speaker 1: I did want a bension here, but was now like
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Speaker 1: a good time for that? When you're supposed to be
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Speaker 1: building me a cart, It's not time to build the
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Speaker 1: laundroom bench now, like I asked for that last year.
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Speaker 2: I you know, you could have did it last year,
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Speaker 2: or you could do it.
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Speaker 1: After my cart, but so, oh god, I'm not looking
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Speaker 1: to fight because I can't make it without him. This
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Speaker 1: is something I mean, I probably could. I shouldn't say that.
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Speaker 1: I could probably do it if I watch YouTube videos,
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Speaker 1: but you could do it. It's it's a lot, it is,
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Speaker 1: it's a lot. But yeah, I really want him to
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Speaker 1: just do it because it'll be much faster and I
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Speaker 1: want to get this going.
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Speaker 3: See, if my mom didn't have surgery, I would have
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Speaker 3: volunteered her because she is like a man. She could
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Speaker 3: build yeah, two different things. Yep, I would volunteer, but
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Speaker 3: she just had surgery, so.
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Speaker 1: I know, I know, let's let's see this weekend coming.
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Speaker 1: We'll see if it rains, that's gonna be the next
17:53
Speaker 1: excuse it's raining.
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Speaker 3: You know, I would say bring it into the living room.
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Speaker 1: Bring it in little in your room, yeah, or bring
18:02
Speaker 1: it into the garage. Yeah, it is he but when
18:05
Speaker 1: he makes the cuts, he likes to do it out
18:07
Speaker 1: and the driveway so doesn't make a mess and it's
18:11
Speaker 1: more room to work, which I get. But oh my god.
18:13
Speaker 1: I we'll see. We'll see how this weekend goes, if
18:16
Speaker 1: I have a cart or not.
18:17
Speaker 2: Oh.
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Speaker 1: He blamed it on me not buying the wheels for it,
18:20
Speaker 1: because it has to have wheels for you to move it. Yeah,
18:22
Speaker 1: I said, Mike, the wheels are not holding up the
18:25
Speaker 1: build like they're not holding it up. You could build
18:28
Speaker 1: the whole cart and the last second week you go, oh,
18:30
Speaker 1: let's put the wheels on. That was his that was
18:33
Speaker 1: his reasoning, Like, you didn't get the wheels for it yet. Well,
18:36
Speaker 1: you know, I spent a lot of money on everything else,
18:38
Speaker 1: and the wheels were on Amazon, and I'm like, oh,
18:40
Speaker 1: they're not at home depot. I'll order that when it
18:42
Speaker 1: gets more more finished with the cart. But yeah, that
18:45
Speaker 1: was his excuse.
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Speaker 3: So you know what I would do is I would
18:48
Speaker 3: go on Amazon and yeah, and that the wheels are here.
18:54
Speaker 2: Let's go chop chop. What's your excuse now.
18:59
Speaker 3: No, I'm sure he will come up with one.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I'm appreciative that he's doing it, but
19:03
Speaker 1: it's like, come on, dude, let's let's let's do the
19:06
Speaker 1: bench later and you don't need the wheels. Let's just
19:08
Speaker 1: get this done and then I'll leave you alone. I
19:11
Speaker 1: don't ask for much and I'm not one of those
19:13
Speaker 1: wives like all these projects. I don't do that to him.
19:16
Speaker 1: So well, we'll see how it goes.
19:19
Speaker 3: So April Fools just passed. And I'm not a big prankster,
19:25
Speaker 3: but did anyone do anything with you or No?
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Speaker 1: No, I absolutely I've always hated April Fools. I just
19:31
Speaker 1: hate it. And it's like the same old jokes and
19:36
Speaker 1: pranks people do. What is the point, Like it's I'm
19:39
Speaker 1: not trying to be I am a fun person, but
19:41
Speaker 1: I don't see the point in it. And back in
19:44
Speaker 1: the day, it used to be, oh, pretend you're pregnant.
19:46
Speaker 1: You know I'm pregnant all and then you're not, and
19:49
Speaker 1: that was stupid.
19:50
Speaker 2: But I knew.
19:52
Speaker 1: I just saw a new one. I was really shocked.
19:55
Speaker 1: In our beloved Mom's group, this mom went on there
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Speaker 1: anonymously and said, I want to prank my husband for
20:01
Speaker 1: April Fools and I need to have a big favor
20:04
Speaker 1: to ask. Can multiple women in this group text my husband.
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Speaker 1: I'll give you this number if you message me, text
20:12
Speaker 1: my husband and send him naughty naked pictures and flirt
20:18
Speaker 1: with him, so I could, you know, I want to
20:21
Speaker 1: prank him like that. And a few moms like is
20:24
Speaker 1: this a set up? Are you setting him up? Or
20:27
Speaker 1: you know, and she was like, oh, you know, some
20:29
Speaker 1: people were getting nasty water about like this is stupid
20:32
Speaker 1: or this is like why would you do that? And yeah,
20:35
Speaker 1: she didn't. She admit like that she's trying to see
20:38
Speaker 1: what his reaction.
20:39
Speaker 3: Is going to be or whatever or something like that.
20:40
Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's just that's that's disgusting and you who
20:44
Speaker 1: knows where that can lead. I wouldn't want to even
20:46
Speaker 1: give them the temptation. Now they have this other woman's
20:49
Speaker 1: phone number. They just had a naked picture of her,
20:52
Speaker 1: you know, like, what is wrong with people? She went
20:55
Speaker 1: a little too far to try to prove that her
20:58
Speaker 1: husband would cheat on her. You know she's not admitted
21:00
Speaker 1: that's us, but I think that's what it is she
21:02
Speaker 1: wants to see. But that that's absolutely you know, she
21:05
Speaker 1: was anonymous, but whoever she's, whoever is gonna write her,
21:09
Speaker 1: it's gonna know who she is. And that's kind of embarrassing.
21:11
Speaker 1: And a few people said they would do it. A
21:13
Speaker 1: few people said, I'll do it. I'm gonna message you
21:15
Speaker 1: or message me whatever they said, and then she's gonna
21:17
Speaker 1: give him the number. I should write what was the outcome?
21:22
Speaker 1: What was the outcome of this? Because that that's absolutely no.
21:25
Speaker 1: I would never ever have women send my husband naked
21:28
Speaker 1: photos of themselves. I don't care what kind of setting up.
21:31
Speaker 1: I don't want that, you know, I don't want that.
21:33
Speaker 3: I just find that crazy to me. It is it's
21:36
Speaker 3: it's really weird because any guy is gonna be like
21:39
Speaker 3: oh wow, yeah, like.
21:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, any even my husband, if if a girl was
21:44
Speaker 1: flirting with him and sent him a picture of her butt,
21:47
Speaker 1: he'd be like, damn, who's loose, you know, and that
21:50
Speaker 1: doesn't mean he's gonna cheat on me, but they're gonna
21:52
Speaker 1: be interesting, like, oh this is nice, you know. So
21:57
Speaker 1: I don't know, I people have lost their mind. Now,
22:00
Speaker 1: some people might be into that, but the Mom's Group
22:03
Speaker 1: I don't think was the right place for that with
22:05
Speaker 1: a bunch of strangers. I think that you should have
22:08
Speaker 1: a friend prank with a fake number and a fake
22:11
Speaker 1: photo they got on Instagram or I mean on Google,
22:14
Speaker 1: you know, do that, or go to the after hours
22:17
Speaker 1: mom's group, you know the cocktails one oh, where they
22:19
Speaker 1: talk all the sexual do it in that group. But
22:22
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just found it very weird.
22:24
Speaker 3: I don't know. The Mom's group is always just weird
22:27
Speaker 3: to me. The things that they ask is just really.
22:32
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's pretty. A lot of it is so dumb.
22:35
Speaker 1: A lot of it is just like my eyes pop
22:36
Speaker 1: out of my head sometimes. But it's entertaining. We get
22:41
Speaker 1: a lot from this from the Mom's Group of the podcast,
22:44
Speaker 1: I tell you that much. So they're giving us stuff
22:46
Speaker 1: to talk about.
22:47
Speaker 3: We get all of our content. Yeah, from the Mom's Group.
22:52
Speaker 3: They should have a podcast.
22:53
Speaker 1: I know. It's funny.
22:55
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22:57
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