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Two Psychics, Zero Filter: Real Talk About Channeling with Kevin the Medium · Grounded and Guided: Channeled Insight, Real Life Lessons and Spirit Lead Conversations for Transformation and Change

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  Hello World and welcome to Grounded and Guided.
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  I'm your host, Lynette Waltham, and I'm so glad that you're choosing
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  to be here with me in this moment.
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  My conversation today is expanded beyond just me, and I'm
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  welcoming a friend Kevin Hughes.
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  Say, hi, Kevin.
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  Hey everybody.
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  How, how's everybody doing?
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  So Kevin is a medium and he would be the person that I first connected
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  with when I started to dive into expanding my psychic abilities.
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  You were kind of first, that first person that.
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  I reached out to and started to connect with.
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  So I would just love for you to maybe share a little bit about
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  yourself and what kind of led you to that space of becoming a medium.
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  Yeah.
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  You know, I was thinking about that when I was coming on your podcast.
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  I was like, when did we meet?
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  And I'm like, was it not you were taking a a Akashic records course.
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  Yes, I was.
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  I remember it vividly 'cause I remember you coming on, um, it was with Alanna
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  and you came on the screen and I remember instantly there was that, oh, I know
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  this lady we had never met before, but our souls connected in a different
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  way than you can even put into words.
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  Is that fair to say?
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  Yeah, I would definitely say that there was just like a knowing that we
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  had kind of known each other before.
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  Exactly.
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  So to answer your question everything started for me.
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  And I'd have to always start when mom was pregnant with me.
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  Mom was eight months pregnant with me when my dad passed away.
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  And um, so I never met my dad in the flesh, but I used to have these dreams.
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  I remember him vividly when I was a child.
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  And, uh, we'd be sitting on a marble staircase and they'd be me and
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  my dad, and there was a big glass building behind us and we would
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  have the coolest conversations.
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  And I remember being probably about six.
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  Maybe seven.
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  And I remember telling my mom I had a really great conversation with
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  dad last night, and she got mad and she was a very strict Catholic,
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  so she told me that was evil.
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  Don't ever talk about that again.
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  So, of course, being seven years old and being raised by a very strict
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  Catholic lady, I didn't want to be evil.
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  I didn't want to go to hell.
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  So I, I never mentioned it again.
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  Uh, it doesn't mean it did stop happening.
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  I just never talked about it.
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  I always felt things, saw things heard things other people didn't.
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  But again, I, from that age, I didn't want to be different.
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  I didn't want to stand out.
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  Uh, I didn't want to be the weirdo in the crowd as more and more weirdo than I
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  normally am, as, you know, stop laughing.
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  But it wasn't till many years later, fast forward.
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  I have two kids.
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  We were in Christina Lake, British Columbia, and my wife at the
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  time was reading a book by Sylvia Brown and she stopped reading
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  and she handed me the book.
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  Now, to kind of go back, obviously I have talked to my wife about
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  my experiences over the time.
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  She was very spiritual and I told her about the marble staircase,
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  the big glass building behind us.
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  She handed me this paragraph and Sylvia Brown was describing the other
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  side, and she described exactly in detail where my dad and I would sit.
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  It blew me away.
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  It was one of those moments where you go, okay, I know it's real.
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  I knew it was real, but now I'm positive.
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  It was real, but I still didn't do anything with it.
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  It was like, yeah, no, I know it's real.
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  I know I have this thing ability, I'll call it if you want to call
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  it that, but that as, as far as it went, it wasn't till 2020.
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  Fast forward again.
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  I have now left my wife met another lady and she, again, she was spiritual, kind
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  of starting to see the pattern here.
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  Mm-hmm.
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  And she used to go to these um, events with Ken Lewicki where he would connect
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  people with their spirit guides.
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  And I was like, nah, I'm not going.
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  You go ahead.
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  And she'd come home and she'd be super excited and she's like, you gotta do this.
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  And I'm like, yeah, no, it's not my thing.
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  I'm too busy.
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  And then in 2020 she said, oh, Ken's doing a weekend course, we should take it.
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  And I was like.
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  Now we're busy.
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  Oh, it was right in the middle of COVID.
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  I had no more excuses, and I was like, okay, I'll take the course.
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  My idea of taking the course was I wanted to shut all this down.
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  I didn't want to experience this anymore, and I figured if I learned
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  more about it, I could shut it down.
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  And it was 10 minutes into that very first course where I went, ow,
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  I'm not supposed to shut it down.
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  This is what I'm supposed to be doing.
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  So I did, I quickly took three of his courses.
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  Four, yeah, three of his courses, and then a six month mentoring with Ken.
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  And um, after level two, I think it was, I started at that time
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  what I called Kevali channeling.
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  It's now called Kevin the Medium.
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  Uh, after my rebrand.
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  And, um, thousands plurals of readings later.
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  Here I am and just loving it.
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  Just wish I would've started it when I was a young, young man.
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  Your age, because holy, uh, what a difference it's made in my life.
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  Absolutely.
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  It has made such like a fundamental change in my life.
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  Learning to be able to channel, connect with spirit guides, connect with past
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  loved ones just like my complete self transformation has just like blown up
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  basically when I chose to connect connect spiritually and connect with the angels,
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  dragons beings spirit guides who, whoever is really wanting to serve my highest
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  and greatest good and, and support me.
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  So what would you say is the most like fundamental or impactful thing
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  that you've ever maybe channeled for yourself or for someone else?
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  Wow, you would ask me that two weeks ago.
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  I probably would have a different answer, but just recently,
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  um, I have been pulled called.
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  I even know the word two channel.
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  A, um, I don't even know.
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  I can't even tell you what this is.
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  I can tell you it's a blue energy and they're from the Syrian star system.
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  And it's going to be, it's in process.
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  I've just done it once, uh, and it's kind of blowing me away.
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  It's almost to the point of like.
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  You question yourself sometimes, and I know you and I have talked about this a
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  lot, whereas am I making this stuff up?
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  Like what is going on inside my head?
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  I was a normal everyday guy.
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  Um, I use this term, I'm just a kid in a hoodie quite often.
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  And um, now all of a sudden I'm going to be channeling an ET for a
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  lack of a better term, and they're going to be giving me wisdom.
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  That I'm supposed to be passing on to others, and I'm like, who do
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  I think I am that I can do this?
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  And my guides constantly are telling me, because you're ready
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  and this isn't something that.
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  We should think is crazy or nuts.
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  This should be just our normal process in our growth spiritually.
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  So, yeah.
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  Before that, I would say I loved channeling people's loved ones
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  and you know, when after I took my courses, a lot of the people I took
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  my courses with, they went out and did all kinds of other stuff, learned
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  how to do reiki, learned to Akashic records, and my guides were like, Nope.
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  You're to do nothing, but you're going to channel and you're going
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  to channel loved ones and you're gonna channel spirit guides.
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  Uh, you're gonna do mediumship.
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  And I was like that's not fair.
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  Why do I not get to do everything cool?
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  Like these people are.
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  And they're like, because this is what we need from you right now.
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  And that's what I've done.
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  So I think one of my favorite things obviously is when I get to channel a
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  dad, when I get to channel someone's dad who has crossed over and give
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  them words of comfort, um, that.
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  They probably otherwise wouldn't get.
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  And I had a young lady just the other day where we gave her some words of
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  comfort from her dad who had just passed away three months previous,
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  and you could literally see her facial expressions change from sadness to a
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  happy, sad it's hard to explain, but when you can pass that kind of message on.
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  I tell all my clients, I get just as much out of a session as you
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  do because it just fills my soul.
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  I, I get this glow that, um, you can't even put into words this feeling that,
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  um, after a session, I'm just buzzing.
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  It's like I just took 15 shots of straight caffeine and I'm to pick one is would be
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  really tough except for this blue energy that I'm now going to be channeling.
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  I can totally relate to you when you talk about how you have that buzzing feeling.
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  And I feel when I the person that I'm working with is so.
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  Open to my skillset and what I have to offer.
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  I leave that session very much just buzzing.
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  And I feel like that is when you know you're on point.
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  That is when you know where you're at.
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  And I feel like you say that, oh, I like, I just get to talk to people's
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  loved ones or focus on mediumship really.
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  But your personal experiences make you.
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  You for those people and make you able to deliver the container and the way
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  that you do your work because of your personal story and your connection to it.
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  And so I feel like that's just, that's so wonderful and that's why I am more focused
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  on personal transformation and, um, teaching people kind of moving towards.
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  Safety and how to navigate life in the unexpected because that's my
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  journey and we can have so much power and so much ability and impact when
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  we have walked the walk ourselves.
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  Yes, yes.
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  It's funny.
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  Um, I come from a background of sales and, um, in, when I was in my sales
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  career, you co your clients, you don't give your clients any more information
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  than they need to buy that car.
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  I was selling cars and, um, it's so different.
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  It took a lot when I first started to get to the point
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  now where I am teaching people.
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  Uh, to connect to their own loved ones.
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  And when I look at it as a business model, I'm like, how smart am I being when I'm
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  teaching my clients to do what I do?
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  So they don't need to come to me, but that's my goal.
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  You talk about my experiences, I've now, since I've been alive, I've lost
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  three brothers and my mother, two of those brothers, and my mother was
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  before I really woke, took that step that, uh, that path went on my path
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  before I took the courses in 2020.
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  And those passings really affected me.
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  It hurt.
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  There was a deep down pain that you just can't describe when you lose a loved one.
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  Then I lost a brother in 2022.
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  Doesn't mean I didn't, I don't miss him, or I didn't grieve him, but it
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  was totally, completely a different feeling for me because I instantly
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  was able to connect with him.
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  Know that he had crossed over and know that he was getting the healing
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  he needed and know he was reunited with all his family on the other side.
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  Knowing all that, how can I sit here as a human and be sad?
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  Knowing that he's in a way better place.
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  And when I say a way better place, like we can't even comprehend how
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  much better it is when we go home.
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  Remember, we just visit here, we live over there.
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  So once you know, what we know about where we go, grief takes on a different feeling.
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  Yes, we still miss them.
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  We still miss the physical contact.
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  I still miss my brother Jack.
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  I now have the ability though, to connect with his soul, which is
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  totally different than my brother Jack.
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  Not the same personality, not the same person, because he's
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  incarnated, let's say 50 times.
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  Jack is about one, one 50th of what makes up his soul.
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  So it's very small.
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  So yeah, it's just different.
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  And I feel like it is that experience with grief that makes you able to
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  really help people navigate their grief in that communicating with
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  their loved ones and being able to
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  keep hearing about transmuting.
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  So you transmuting.
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  You are helping them just like transmute just a level of grief for
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  them.
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  Definitely.
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  And it's, it's funny I mentioned before my wife, um, my ex-wife was very spiritual.
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  My girl, my ex-girlfriend was very spiritual.
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  Now my present girlfriend is even that much more spiritual.
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  So you're seeing a pattern here.
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  Mm-hmm.
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  They, my guides, the universe led me to where I am.
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  My, the lady I'm with now is a grief coach.
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  She lost her husband five years ago and lost.
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  That's such a stupid saying.
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  Her husband crossed over five years ago and she went through a horrible
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  time, even though she was spiritual.
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  Then it took her down a path where she realized way more, uh, she wrote a book
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  about it and she's now a grief coach.
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  She also does channeling and, uh, reiki healing or like energy healing.
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  When you saying, when you use the word transmute, it's a hundred
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  percent you can take that pain, that hurt, anger, pain, what?
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  There's a lot of different feelings that go into grief and you can let it go.
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  People always say no.
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  You're gonna live with that sadness for the rest of your life.
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  We don't have to you can move through it and, um, carry on with life.
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  Um, she's a perfect example.
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  I'm an example.
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  Everybody has gone through some type of grief in their life,
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  so, it's part of being alive.
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  It's part of this.
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  Incarnation, we call being human.
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  Uh, it's one of the things that we agreed to when we put our hand up and said,
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  yeah, I will volunteer to come to earth at this craziest time in Earth's existence.
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  Um, that was one of the small, and I, I'll make it a point that's a small point
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  of our growth is going through grief.
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  Yes, and you talk about how we chose this time, we chose these journeys,
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  and I always like help clients walk through kind of that concept when
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  we have to just have acceptance for our life path and our soul's journey
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  and have acceptance for others.
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  Who are in our sphere and in our energy, maybe in our
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  families, friends, communities, because our soul chose the path.
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  Our soul chose this journey and our soul chose this time
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  and this moment to incarnate.
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  And we we choose the families that we are a part of, we choose that.
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  And sometimes it can just be so, releasing.
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  For people to be able to just kind of have that acceptance knowing
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  that they have chosen this journey.
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  And that was something that you, when we started working together and I was leaning
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  on you and asking you some questions when I started to develop my psychic abilities.
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  There was a moment when I walked through some time where it was like,
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  I'm gonna call them my witchy wounds.
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  Those wounds of my, my past lives where I was doing the work that I'm doing today.
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  But I was physically harmed because of that work.
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  And I brought those blocks with me into this lifetime.
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  But it was a conversation that I believe that we had where it was
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  like, Lynette, like you, you chose this time and you chose this moment.
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  And that was just so helpful to help me be able to move and grow into my soul's
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  fullest expression at that moment because I realized that I'm choosing this time
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  now and it's now in this time, where
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  we can transcend into a whole different space.
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  Yeah, I have a lot of clients who have gone through childhood
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  trauma, um, especially in this lifetime or even adult trauma and.
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  I look at it a little differently than a lot of therapists would.
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  'Cause a lot of therapists don't know what we know.
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  We plan our lives, we, before we, uh, decide to incarnate, or when we do decide
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  to incarnate, we plan our life out.
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  And we literally plan to go through, through some of the
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  traumas that we go through.
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  And so when you look at, at that point and at that perspective,
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  you can look back and go.
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  Yeah, you know what?
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  I went through some shitty, crappy times, but look where I've come to.
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  I've come to a point now where I'm a functioning adult little
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  bit and, um, we can thank our life for letting us go through that
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  because it made us who we are.
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  Some people get really angry when I say that, but I try to, get them to realize
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  if they didn't go through what they went through, they wouldn't be who they are.
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  Um, I have a very good friend he's a recovering alcoholic.
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  And he quite often would get mad at himself and beat himself up over his past.
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  And I'm like stop doing that because if you hadn't gone through what you went
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  through, you and I would never have met.
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  We would never be where we are today because of that.
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  And when you think of that, you're like, wow.
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  Yeah, you know what?
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  That's totally true.
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  If I haven't gone through everything I went through, I
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  wouldn't have become Kevin.
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  The medium.
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  There's no way.
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  There's no way I would've met Lynette and had this bond that we have and
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  that has changed both of us for good or for but bad, but made us who we are.
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  Don't, I'm not saying rejoice that you went through what you went through, but
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  be thankful you went through what you went through to make you who you are.
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  I absolutely agree, because I recognize that I went through a burnout, I
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  had a corporate job and a burnout.
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  And, um, sometimes my husband like alludes to different things
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  I could have done differently.
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  And I always have to say no.
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  I am grateful for the journey that I like went through.
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  I needed to go through that burnout because I would not be here where I
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  am today to be able to articulate and help people the way that I do to be
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  able to go from a complete place like disregulation dis-alignment to alignment.
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  Nervous system, regulations, safety, abundance, like I wouldn't have navigated
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  that journey if I wouldn't have made some of those choices that I made and like I
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  do agree with you in that we've kind of set out these touch points in our journey
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  along the way, but I also do really.
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  Believe and understand just how much in creation we are with the world.
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  And it really illuminated itself for me about maybe like two years ago
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  where I started to be able to see choices and it just show the choice
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  would show itself in a web of energy.
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  And then from that choice.
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  There was all sorts of different choices that I, that would
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  illuminate and then that choice.
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  Then you would, you could choose and then that choice would illuminate
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  and it just become like this web.
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  And it was in those moments, like goosebumps.
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  It was in those moments where it's just, I realized how
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  creative we can be in this world.
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  Yeah.
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  And now we can, when we do have clients come to us, we have that experiences, we
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  have gone through those changes in life.
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  We have, uh, that we know what that feels like.
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  We know what that pain or that happiness feels like, so we're able
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  to be more empathetic to towards our clients to be able to say,
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  yeah, you know what, it's crappy.
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  It was not fun when we went through it, but look at who you are now.
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  That's always my big thing is people get so caught up in the past or
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  they get caught up in the future.
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  And my big thing and my big.
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  Message to most of my clients, not most all my clients, is stop that.
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  Stop worrying about what you did in the past.
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  It's in the past.
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  You can't change it and stop being so concerned about the future.
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  'cause again, you can't change it.
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  All we have is the, now it is 10 56 as we're recording this on a Monday morning.
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  There is no.
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  No 10 57, yet it doesn't exist.
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  So all we have to do is concentrate on what we're doing in 10 56, and if we're
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  doing our best and putting the best power and the best energy we have into
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  10 56, our future is going to be bright.
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  It won't change our past.
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  We can't, our pastors our past, just leave it there.
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  Concentrate on the now, and I find just too many people, oh, what
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  is gonna happen in the future?
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  What's happening for me?
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  And of course people come and you have it.
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  I'm sure as people come to us and they're like, oh, can you tell me if
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  I, if I'm gonna get a, a promotion?
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  I'm like, no, I can't tell you that.
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  I can tell you if you do your best work at 10 56, that
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  promotion's gonna be more likely.
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  That's all we have.
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  I just think we need to, uh, really focus, especially in this society that
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  we're in now with all the craziness.
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  I mean, you don't have to be a news junkie to figure out what's
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  happening in our world right now.
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  All you gotta do is pick up your cell phone or turn on your TV to
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  know that we're in chaotic times.
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  I tell my clients, yes, be aware of what's going on in the world, but pay attention
• 23:47
  to what's happening to you in the now, and your life's gonna be that much better.
• 23:52
  I'm like such a believer about like the power of now that being
• 23:57
  grounded in the present moment.
• 23:59
  That's kind of like the terminology that, that I use because it's in
• 24:03
  the, it's in the present moment that you connect with your self, your
• 24:08
  inner compass, your intuition, your soul, your flavor, your juiciness
• 24:15
  and that is our power as humans is.
• 24:19
  As the in, as the individual and how we choose to express that out into the world.
• 24:26
  And it's in the present moment where you hear that you don't hear it in the future.
• 24:33
  That's anxiety.
• 24:34
  You don't hear it in the past.
• 24:36
  There's, that's depression, right?
• 24:38
  There's energies there.
• 24:39
  Yes.
• 24:39
  And we can put some disclaimers around that, but like as a big, grandiose
• 24:43
  concept when we are living in the future.
• 24:47
  That's where anxiety starts to come from.
• 24:49
  And energetically they have very specific feelings.
• 24:53
  There's a reason why anxiety is often connected with that
• 24:57
  spinning feeling, right?
• 24:58
  Yeah.
• 24:58
  Because you are spinning and it just like, woo, and you wanna just almost whirl.
• 25:03
  And there's a reason like why when I like say depression, that energy that
• 25:07
  I feel, it feels very dense, it feels very heavy and it feels very low.
• 25:12
  And in the now and in the present.
• 25:15
  That's where I, I want to live.
• 25:17
  And that's where I, um, encourage other people to, to live too, because
• 25:22
  like we can hear ourselves and we can make the best decisions of how we
• 25:27
  wanna, like, create the world we wanna live in when we're in the present.
• 25:31
  Oh, and you know what's funny?
• 25:32
  You go to any event, whether it be a sporting event, a concert, any kind of
• 25:36
  event that people go to and nobody's in the present, everybody's on their
• 25:41
  cell phone trying to get that perfect.
• 25:44
  Video that perfect picture for, they could post later.
• 25:49
  My advice if you don't hear anything besides this, this is gonna be worth it.
• 25:54
  Turn off your cell phones and just be present with who you're with.
• 25:58
  Doesn't matter what you're doing.
• 26:00
  Whether you're sitting in front of a Zoom and talking to Lynette, forget
• 26:05
  everything that's happening tomorrow.
• 26:08
  Forget everything that happened yesterday.
• 26:10
  Just concentrate on being president now because damn life is so much
• 26:15
  better when we can live in the now.
• 26:17
  And I used to really be concerned about things that happened to me in the past.
• 26:23
  I really was concerned with because of what's happened to me in the past,
• 26:26
  what's gonna happen to me in the future?
• 26:28
  I now realize it doesn't matter.
• 26:31
  It really doesn't.
• 26:32
  The only thing that matters is now 11 o'clock.
• 26:35
  That's all that matters.
• 26:37
  Yeah.
• 26:37
  I totally agree with you, and I was the person who did go back and forth.
• 26:43
  The future is the unknown.
• 26:45
  The future is the un control.
• 26:48
  So I got so racked up into how I could control that, how I could control those
• 26:52
  variables to make that somewhat known to me to resist shame, blame, judgment.
• 27:00
  And then that night I would find myself stuck in the past ruminating
• 27:06
  of what I could have done better, how I could have changed it.
• 27:09
  And just like degrading myself, and it's when I found the present moment
• 27:14
  and really, truly, consistently living in the present moment that
• 27:19
  mind chatter just melted away.
• 27:23
  Yes.
• 27:23
  All that.
• 27:24
  Like that, like the talk of, oh, like should, wood could.
• 27:28
  Those conditionings can start to melt away a little bit because you get louder.
• 27:33
  Your soul, your heart, your intuition, your spirit.
• 27:38
  Gods angels, dragon, supportive souls, they get louder.
• 27:42
  Yes.
• 27:43
  It's funny people always ask me what's the most common thing a loved
• 27:47
  one will say when they come across and it's, uh, I often joke and I'm
• 27:53
  like, well, you know, they never say, I wish I would've worked more.
• 27:56
  Mm-hmm.
• 27:57
  They never say, I wish I would've had more money in the bank.
• 28:00
  I've never once heard, oh, I wish I had a better car.
• 28:04
  You know what the constant thing that they always say is, I wish I
• 28:07
  would've been happier in the present.
• 28:09
  Mm-hmm.
• 28:10
  Um, I wish I would've paid more attention to who I was with in the now, because
• 28:16
  that is the only thing that matters.
• 28:20
  How much money you have in the bank, how many friends you have.
• 28:22
  All that other stuff is peripheral, it's little stuff.
• 28:26
  I know for a fact if I talk to a Thousand Souls in the next year, every single one
• 28:33
  of them, the only regret they would have of the life they just lived is they didn't
• 28:38
  spend more time with their loved ones.
• 28:40
  They didn't spend it in the now.
• 28:43
  Um, so don't regret it.
• 28:45
  Do it.
• 28:46
  Live in the now and ban life will look after itself.
• 28:50
  Do we have to plan for the future?
• 28:51
  Of course, we have to plan for the future.
• 28:53
  We live in this world.
• 28:54
  We need a bank account.
• 28:55
  We need a retirement fund.
• 28:56
  We need to make sure our kids are fed.
• 28:58
  So yes, you have to plan your meals, you have to do all that kind of stuff.
• 29:01
  That's not what I'm saying.
• 29:02
  What I'm saying is don't focus on it.
• 29:05
  Too many people live in the future.
• 29:07
  They're not paying attention to what's happening right now.
• 29:10
  They're too worried about what's happening over here or what happened over here
• 29:14
  instead of, okay, let's focus here.
• 29:18
  Because that's all really that matters at this time.
• 29:20
  It's so important and that's why we're repeating it as many times
• 29:24
  as we have in the last five minutes is that's what the universe is
• 29:28
  trying to really tell us right now.
• 29:30
  Is, now is what matters.
• 29:36
  Yeah, absolutely.
• 29:41
  I love that silence.
• 29:42
  You know what?
• 29:43
  That's what was needed right there was that.
• 29:46
  Mm-hmm.
• 29:46
  Not a word needs to be said 'cause we're in the now
• 29:50
  and I can just feel it in my heart space as you said that.
• 29:54
  Right?
• 29:54
  And it's just like to give that pause and to allow yourself to
• 29:57
  just feel what that generated.
• 30:01
  For you or like just to be in it?
• 30:04
  Just to be in
• 30:05
  it?
• 30:05
  Yeah.
• 30:06
  When I teach, when I do a, uh, channeling 1 0 1 course and one of the first
• 30:11
  things I do is, um, I get my clients to actually do a breathing exercise
• 30:18
  and then I ask all their loved ones and their spirit guides all to step back
• 30:22
  and just allow them to sit in the peace.
• 30:25
  It's called quiet.
• 30:26
  It's something we're not used to, and I will literally let him sit there
• 30:31
  for like 30 seconds, 45 seconds.
• 30:33
  And to some of them that feels like eternity because
• 30:39
  they're not used to doing that.
• 30:41
  But it's a real good way to be in the now, to be focused in how you're
• 30:46
  breathing what this silly brain is thinking because there's nothing else.
• 30:51
  You're doing the breathing exercise.
• 30:54
  Everything's quiet.
• 30:55
  I get everybody muted.
• 30:57
  And it's a cool experience.
• 30:59
  Probably cooler than connecting with a loved one on the other side.
• 31:02
  Yeah, it's cool to have a loved one come in.
• 31:04
  It's cool to connect with your spirit guides, but to be in that space
• 31:09
  where it's just quiet, I love it.
• 31:11
  I think it's one of the coolest things we can do.
• 31:14
  Well, I believe you can't channel.
• 31:16
  If you are not creating that quiet space, creating that, center on yourself,
• 31:22
  yes.
• 31:23
  You you can't, you can't channel That is like channeling 1 0 1, like you said.
• 31:29
  Absolutely.
• 31:30
  Like I totally agree with you.
• 31:32
  Yes.
• 31:32
  And it's, it's funny because people like, what is channeling?
• 31:35
  What do you like?
• 31:36
  I understand like mediumship, you talk to dead people.
• 31:38
  Yeah.
• 31:39
  I What do you do?
• 31:40
  I talk to dead people.
• 31:41
  But what is channeling?
• 31:42
  Well, channeling is a basis for all energy work.
• 31:45
  I, uh, I think before anybody takes any other course, they should learn
• 31:50
  how to channel their spirit guides.
• 31:51
  If nothing else, channel your spirit guides and your soul.
• 31:54
  You're good after that, it's good because once you learn to do that, then
• 31:59
  you know without a shadow of a doubt, everything you do going forward is for
• 32:03
  your highest and greatest good, or the highest and greatest good of your client.
• 32:06
  Because without that, without having that ability to channel.
• 32:11
  You don't know where that energy's coming from.
• 32:16
  And it's funny because I have talked to so many energy workers, especially,
• 32:19
  I love talking to people who do tarot cards or angel cards 'cause
• 32:23
  they're putting out cards and they're giving messages to their client.
• 32:26
  And I'm like, wow, your channeling is really accurate.
• 32:29
  And they're like, oh, I don't channel.
• 32:30
  And I'm like, yes, you do.
• 32:33
  Of course you do.
• 32:34
  What do you think?
• 32:34
  You're getting the message.
• 32:35
  Oh, from the cards?
• 32:36
  And I'm like, no, that card is a piece of paper.
• 32:38
  Manmade.
• 32:40
  No, that's just a tool you're using to be able to put that together.
• 32:44
  It's your link.
• 32:47
  And that was what you said to me.
• 32:49
  Like I had mentioned at the beginning of the conversation, like you were the
• 32:52
  first medium that I ever worked with and I wanna say channeler, but I was working
• 32:58
  with some other people who I was learning from and they were channeling, but you
• 33:02
  were, you were the first one that I had a session with and you you channeled
• 33:07
  for me and you told me that I channel.
• 33:12
  And up to that point in time I would definitely say I didn't channel.
• 33:18
  But I remember when I first decided to do reiki on others, because I did reiki
• 33:24
  myself for two years, before I ever decided that I'm going to let someone
• 33:29
  else into my world of energetic healing.
• 33:33
  And when I did that first session on somebody else, I saw very vivid images
• 33:40
  and I didn't know who it was and I heard things from them and like, I didn't know,
• 33:46
  I didn't know where it was coming from.
• 33:48
  I didn't know what I was experiencing.
• 33:52
  But when I shared it with the friend they were like, that is my great aunt.
• 33:58
  And that soul gave me very specifics.
• 34:02
  That were attached to her.
• 34:04
  So very much, it was very clear to the person I was communicating
• 34:09
  this information with who that was.
• 34:11
  And it blew my mind.
• 34:13
  And as I continued to do reiki on other people, I was able to start to feel
• 34:18
  different energies and I freaked out.
• 34:23
  Because I did not know who, what I was communicating with,
• 34:28
  but they felt different, right?
• 34:30
  They felt different.
• 34:31
  So, I kind of kept still like navigating that, but navigating that with fear
• 34:37
  because I wasn't really sure who I was communicating with, but I always
• 34:42
  recognize that I would communicate with okay, no, that feels okay.
• 34:47
  And I kind of used that as my, as my buffer.
• 34:50
  But it did kind of freak me out a little bit in the fact that I was feeling
• 34:53
  these different energies and because of your words of Lynette, you channel and
• 34:59
  needing to like, expand my toolkit more.
• 35:03
  Um, then it made me feel safer in my, and I say feel safer because my, my
• 35:09
  level, my journey with safety and walking through this has been numerous different
• 35:13
  blocks I've had to bump up against.
• 35:15
  But it was just that toolkit of knowing the different energy signatures
• 35:21
  that was just very empowering.
• 35:23
  And that is what channel link can just help us with too.
• 35:28
  I go to a lot of different markets, as you know, and I hear other mediums talk and
• 35:37
  I get irritated.
• 35:38
  I'll use that word.
• 35:39
  I get angry, I'll be blunt.
• 35:41
  I get angry when I hear them say things like, oh, I have a gift and
• 35:44
  I'm gonna share this gift with you.
• 35:47
  As you know, I don't think I have a gift.
• 35:49
  I think all 9 billion, whatever is it, eight point somewhat
• 35:52
  billion people on earth.
• 35:54
  I think every single soul living on Earth has the ability to do what you and I do.
• 35:58
  It's a matter of tuning that frequency in.
• 36:02
  I use the analogy of you gotta tune that radio station in,
• 36:07
  I'm old enough that I remember.
• 36:08
  Mm-hmm.
• 36:08
  You would turn a dial and you'd get the static.
• 36:12
  You'd get the static, and then you'd hit that 14, 10 C fun out of Vancouver
• 36:16
  for people who, and you'd get the music and it would be like, yay.
• 36:22
  That's what we do.
• 36:23
  We tune our satellite, so to speak, and then it's becomes a trust factor.
• 36:29
  That you're trusting, the things you're getting is real.
• 36:32
  When I first started doing this, I didn't trust what I was getting was real.
• 36:36
  But I would do sessions with people like Lynette and I'd say, well,
• 36:40
  you're, I think it's your dad's here.
• 36:43
  And he says this.
• 36:44
  And they'd be like, how did you know this?
• 36:46
  And I'd be like,
• 36:49
  how I know this?
• 36:50
  It just came out and it's
• 36:55
  obviously after thousands of readings, it becomes a lot easier to trust what
• 37:00
  you're getting is real because you know, without a shadow of a doubt, it's real.
• 37:04
  I have this dream one day all 9 billion people living on Earth is gonna wake
• 37:10
  up one morning and go, you know what?
• 37:12
  I wanna learn how to channel.
• 37:13
  What a beautiful place we would live in.
• 37:16
  Would it be perfect?
• 37:16
  Probably not.
• 37:17
  'cause somebody would try to take advantage of it because we still have
• 37:20
  this human brain, but it would be a lot better place than it is now.
• 37:24
  I can guarantee you.
• 37:26
  No, not everybody's going to learn to do what we do and do what
• 37:31
  we do and start a business, and then start a podcast or whatever.
• 37:34
  But even if you're just doing it for yourself, just for your every day,
• 37:40
  if you're, think about it, if you have, if you had a roadmap and you
• 37:45
  didn't know where you were going, and you looked at a map and it
• 37:49
  gave you a whole bunch of different opportunities or different choices to
• 37:53
  get to the point you were going to.
• 37:56
  Instead of going blindly, you could choose of one of five different routes.
• 38:00
  Each route is gonna get you to where you want to go.
• 38:03
  It's just gonna be a different experience as you go through it.
• 38:07
  Wouldn't it be easier in life?
• 38:09
  That's what channeling does.
• 38:10
  Channeling doesn't give you the perfect life.
• 38:13
  I wish it did.
• 38:15
  I, I wish it in 2020 when I started doing this.
• 38:19
  Everything I did in the last six years was perfect.
• 38:22
  It hasn't been because we have this stupid thing that they
• 38:26
  gave humans called free will.
• 38:28
  So we can choose whichever path we want to take, but it
• 38:32
  is a lot easier when I'm like.
• 38:34
  Guys, come on in.
• 38:36
  Uh, which way is better?
• 38:38
  Well, there's no best way, but here's five different choices.
• 38:42
  You make a choice from those five.
• 38:43
  They're all good, but they're all gonna give you different experiences.
• 38:48
  So choose.
• 38:49
  That's the way it works.
• 38:50
  That's literally the way it works.
• 38:53
  I love how you said it doesn't give you perfection because as being a recovering
• 38:58
  perfectionist, I definitely understand that, but it gives you personal power.
• 39:04
  Yes.
• 39:04
  It, it makes you realize in the power of who you are and what you
• 39:10
  are capable of and that inner, inner knowing of that, and that you
• 39:16
  can trust, you can trust yourself.
• 39:19
  And I feel like that is really invaluable.
• 39:24
  And for me like you talk about this, people talk about it being
• 39:28
  a gift and, and I agree with you.
• 39:30
  I believe we all have the ability within us to channel it's just wiring that
• 39:36
  we're not maybe choosing to access.
• 39:38
  At this point in time, I feel like lots more, more people right now are
• 39:43
  being called to access that and turn that on, tune into that station.
• 39:49
  And I'm just excited for what the world can be like if we do
• 39:53
  choose to access that wiring
• 39:56
  I am with you.
• 39:57
  I'm a tuner upper, I believe in like tuning up and tuning in.
• 40:01
  That is to me really how it is and and how I, I tap into my channel.
• 40:08
  It's really neat to see.
• 40:10
  Uh, you mentioned how many people are being called or they're awakening.
• 40:15
  I hate that word.
• 40:16
  I try to stay away from it.
• 40:17
  It really bugs my girlfriend because her business is called, uh, awakening
• 40:22
  Your Soul's Journey, so she hates it.
• 40:25
  When I say I hate the word awakening, I think it's cliche.
• 40:28
  It's one of those in sayings, but.
• 40:31
  It's really cool to see everybody being accepting that spirituality
• 40:36
  is now becoming the norm.
• 40:38
  20 years ago, if you went to a spirit Fair, they were the fringe of society.
• 40:43
  Like it was the real fringe of society.
• 40:47
  Nowadays you go, it's kids in hoodies, and it was cool.
• 40:50
  We were in Blairmore.
• 40:51
  We being my girlfriend and I, Angela, uh, we were in Blairmore a
• 40:55
  couple weeks ago at a spirit Fair.
• 40:57
  And there was every walk of life, male, female, young, old.
• 41:03
  It was such an amazing experience.
• 41:05
  We had this one experience where we did a reading for a mother and
• 41:08
  daughter, and half hour later they come back with the husband slash dad.
• 41:16
  Because they went home, told him what had just happened, he goes,
• 41:19
  oh, I want to experience this.
• 41:21
  And he came back and it was even a cooler reading with him.
• 41:24
  So it's such a cool feeling.
• 41:26
  'Cause it used to be this was a female dominated community.
• 41:32
  It really was.
• 41:33
  Now we're finding more and more males coming into their own.
• 41:37
  And, um, is there still that.
• 41:44
  Perception that if a male comes in, they are taking advantage.
• 41:49
  Yes.
• 41:50
  Unfortunately, that is a, that is a fact.
• 41:52
  I've experienced it myself.
• 41:54
  Um, but I'm trying to really open up this community for more
• 42:01
  males because we need both.
• 42:04
  We need, we need everybody coming into this community.
• 42:06
  It needs to be a big tent.
• 42:09
  We need that healthy balance of masculine and feminine energy.
• 42:12
  Yes.
• 42:12
  And like I'm feminine, like I'm a female, identify as a female, but I have masculine
• 42:18
  and feminine energy and we all do.
• 42:20
  But it's creating that healthy balance.
• 42:22
  Yeah.
• 42:23
  And just recognizing like healthy masculine energy, healthy
• 42:26
  feminine energy, and people just being in alignment with that.
• 42:30
  Well, and unfortunately over the years being spiritual
• 42:33
  was not a cool thing to do.
• 42:35
  Yes.
• 42:35
  Where now we're finding it is a cool thing to do and you don't have to change,
• 42:42
  I get people looking at me all the time because I am a very spiritual person.
• 42:48
  But I also live in this world, so I will do a podcast like this, and then
• 42:53
  I'll meet a buddy and go for a beer.
• 42:56
  We'll watch a hockey game together.
• 42:58
  It's what I do.
• 42:59
  It's, I live in this world, but I am spiritual.
• 43:03
  And that's the way it's supposed to be.
• 43:04
  And I find a lot of people, when there's first stepping down into
• 43:08
  this path of spirituality, do not get caught up in the, I must be
• 43:12
  spiritual 24 7 and no, that's cultish.
• 43:17
  I'm sorry, but that's cultish.
• 43:18
  You need to live in this world.
• 43:20
  We still have to work.
• 43:22
  We still need money to pay the bills, and we still need that
• 43:26
  balance in everything we do.
• 43:28
  It doesn't matter what we do.
• 43:30
  We need, the universe needs to be balanced.
• 43:32
  Same with us.
• 43:33
  When we're walking down this path, we need to be balanced.
• 43:38
  And that's why I call this podcast Grounded and Guided Yeah.
• 43:41
  Is to realize that I'm just an everyday person.
• 43:44
  Like I'm grounded in the everyday, but I live a very guided life and how
• 43:49
  that has allowed me to transform and just be the best version of myself.
• 43:56
  And just being able to share that with others
• 44:00
  this has been really, really great.
• 44:03
  I just love it when we come together.
• 44:05
  It just brings out an energy, I feel like within both of us that, um,
• 44:11
  sometimes we even surprise ourselves.
• 44:15
  It's funny because there's probably a handful of people
• 44:20
  I've met on my journey that.
• 44:23
  When we connect, it goes to a different level.
• 44:28
  Not that, uh, we go down a path of weirdness but it's just.
• 44:35
  A different level.
• 44:36
  And I always tell people I'm not a big a believer in, uh, soulmates.
• 44:40
  I think that's a concept made up of man.
• 44:42
  If you could imagine there's 9 billion of us on earth and there was only
• 44:46
  one person you were supposed to find.
• 44:49
  Yeah, I don't agree with that either.
• 44:51
  You probably afraid to find the proverbial needle in the haystack
• 44:54
  easier, but do we make contracts before we come here as souls?
• 44:59
  Do we get together and go, Hey, Lynette, you are going to be
• 45:03
  on Earth the same time I am.
• 45:05
  Let's connect at some point in this lifetime and see what happens.
• 45:10
  A hundred percent, yes.
• 45:12
  Unfortunately, a lot of people can get confused by that connection.
• 45:16
  Uh, a lot of people when they first feel that connection because
• 45:20
  of the way our brain works, we think that's must be a romantic
• 45:24
  connection because it's a soulmate.
• 45:27
  I know a lot of times I've met males where I'm like, whoa, why am I like
• 45:33
  literally attracted to this person?
• 45:36
  I'm not gay.
• 45:37
  Like I don't understand how that can happen.
• 45:39
  Well, that's that soul connection and I've learned over the last six
• 45:43
  years, like I say, probably a handful, maybe six people I can think of.
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  You're one of them, that when we connect, it just goes to a different
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  level of, of connectiveness.
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  If that's, if that makes sense.
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  It absolutely does.
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  'cause I have girlfriends that we call ourselves soul sisters because
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  when we connect and we just bring out other levels within ourselves that
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  it just like, wow, this is amazing.
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  Um, if we were gonna talk about human design, there's probably some channels
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  that we connect for each other.
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  Um, if you wanna take it to more of like a practical,
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  mechanical way of looking at it.
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  Yeah.
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  That's, but, yeah, and so I just love it when we have these opportunities.
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  They're not very frequent.
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  We're kind of like few and far between, but I'll get that nudge
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  where it's just like I need a little bit of Kevin's energy.
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  I need a little bit of that interaction so that it can kind of help me.
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  Sometimes it's.
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  It's like that good push to keep me going.
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  Right?
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  Because you channel messages for me, I'll channel messages for you.
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  Yeah.
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  And it's just kind of like that push to kind of like to keep going, to
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  keep me on the path that my guides are screaming at me to keep going on, but
• 47:02
  my mind and my conditioning is telling me to halt or telling me to step back.
• 47:08
  Well, it's so many times.
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  The world happens, I call it, and the world knocks us off our path.
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  That's the idea.
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  That's part of being incarnated, is we have a path to go down.
• 47:21
  Yeah.
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  We have wind blowing us this way.
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  We have wind blowing us this way and sometimes it's gonna knock
• 47:26
  you off your path and that's okay.
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  It's not a, it's don't go, oh, while I'm off my path, I may
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  as well go and become mm-hmm.
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  A crack addict on his tastings.
• 47:38
  No.
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  You can always come back on your path.
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  We are living proof of that.
• 47:44
  Where we have gone off our path.
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  We've, I've gone through times where I haven't done readings for weeks
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  and weeks and then all of a sudden I'll do, readings five in a day.
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  It's just the way it works now.
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  It's really cool because I gave up my, uh, full-time job and this
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  is what I do for a living now.
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  This is my full-time gig, so it's like.
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  It's so empowering when I wake up in the morning and I look at my schedule
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  and I know I have three really cool sessions that I get to look forward to.
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  Instead of going, I gotta go to the dealership, and I,
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  oh, I really don't want to.
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  It's such a difference in life.
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  So walk down your path, whatever that path happens to be,
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  walk down it and embrace it.
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  Because the guides will never steer you.
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  Wrong.
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  Uh, once you start connecting with your own guides, they will never ever, it's an
• 48:41
  impossibility for them to say, oh, walk down this path, and it's the wrong path.
• 48:47
  It might not feel like it's a good path for you, but it's the right path for you.
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  Difference between being good and being right.
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  I'm just really excited to see where our paths go.
• 48:59
  Like you said you chose recently to step into this full-time and quit your job
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  and that was right around the time when I chose to let go of the building Yes.
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  That I was in and choose this focus on channeling and energetic healing
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  and this side of my business and let go of fitness in a physical space.
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  I'm really excited to see where our paths go and the journeys
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  that we choose to walk on.
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  So for everybody who's listening, just kind of tell 'em if they want to , connect
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  with you, how are they gonna do that?
• 49:37
  Easiest way is on any of my social medias, go to Kevin, the medium, or you can go
• 49:42
  to my website, Kevin, the medium.ca.
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  All my information is there.
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  I post most of my stuff because I'm 61.
• 49:48
  I post most of my stuff on Facebook 'cause I don't understand all the other stuff.
• 49:52
  I'm on TikTok, I'm on Instagram and all that.
• 49:57
  I get Facebook, I understand how it works.
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  So if you really want to get me go on Facebook, you could
• 50:03
  private message me on Facebook.
• 50:04
  I try to answer as quickly as I can but be patient.
• 50:08
  'cause I am old and sometimes I see it come up and I'll be like, oh,
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  I gotta get back to that person.
• 50:13
  And then I don't write Lynette and then I do eventually get back to them.
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  Uh, yeah, that's the easiest way.
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  Wonderful.
• 50:22
  And thank you so much for being here and sharing yourself, your energy, your
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  story, your insights with everyone.
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  And to the audience, thank you so much for choosing this moment to be here with Kevin
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  and I have a wonderful day, everybody.
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  Take care.