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Love Frequency, Powerful Women Surrendering and Fake Lifestyles with Mzeye · The REALationship Method

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  SPEAKER_01: Alright, here we go.
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  SPEAKER_01: 54321.
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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome back to another episode of the Relationship Method Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's your boy Chris.
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  SPEAKER_01: Today I have a very special guest uh guest, a late one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um man, she is a creative director, author, podcast CEO of Love Frequency.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_01: So make sure to um subscribe to that on Spotify, iTunes, iHeart, and all that jazz.
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  SPEAKER_01: And um author book.
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  SPEAKER_01: What's the book's name?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's it's called Love Frequency, but it's the second edition to what I wrote in 2014.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, it's a it's an erotica book, actually.
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  SPEAKER_01: Mm-mm-mm.
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  SPEAKER_01: I got Ms.
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  SPEAKER_01: I on this bitch.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yay! Ms.
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  SPEAKER_01: I, how you doing?
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  unknown: I'm good.
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  unknown: How are you?
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  SPEAKER_01: Doing good, doing good.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna be quick.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, she came late, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh, can you tell everyone that why why you late?
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm in the process of moving everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I've been doing like a lot of like, you know, moving related activities.
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  SPEAKER_00: So today is Saturday, so a lot of people are like, look, you either come now or we can't get you in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, and the next thing I have to do is ship in my vehicle.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm so sorry.
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  SPEAKER_01: But totally moving off island?
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  SPEAKER_00: Off island, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Where are you going?
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh East Coast, back to the East Coast, like Baltimore, DC area.
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  SPEAKER_00: Really?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: I definitely need to get you on before you dip.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_01: When are you dipping out?
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, Thursday, so damn it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I'll do no late night or I could do, I could try and do some late night.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, all right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Late night.
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  SPEAKER_01: It'll be one of them dark discussions.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_01: After dark.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes, after dark, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, all right, here's here's one of these questions uh that we're gonna get into.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, so what part of yourself do you think men fall in love with first?
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  SPEAKER_00: Alright, you guys, so I'm gonna keep it real.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm actually gay, just so you know.
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  SPEAKER_01: But women then.
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  SPEAKER_01: Women.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um men love me too.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm cool with everybody, but honestly, I feel like before people really get to know me, they see me like, oh, you're beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when they speak to me, I have a lot of depth to me more than what meets the eye.
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  SPEAKER_00: So uh yeah, I think my beauty, I think my eyes, or just whatever they natural?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no, they're not natural.
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  SPEAKER_01: It ain't the eyes.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, but it's not a big thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, don't play.
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  SPEAKER_00: Somebody said I look, okay, you see the movie The Cartoon Shrek?
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you know the dragon?
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Somebody said I look like the dragon.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because of my eyes is like so like slanted and so like, I guess, whimsical.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, what the hell?
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  SPEAKER_00: You calling me a dragon?
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  SPEAKER_00: And it was like, no, if you see her eyes, it's so pretty and whimsical and stuff.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, okay, I'll let you slide on it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let's just slide on that one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, what part do they struggle with uh later on?
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, the women.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh I would say because of my depth, it's like keeping up with like my intelligence, keeping up with my speed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, I would say you guys have to really have a lot of self-love.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't think that you can't get someone because once you get the person, just know that that person chose you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So try to have confidence in yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, look, I chose you, so don't try to like fuck it up type shit.
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  SPEAKER_01: I love your accent.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, what type of accent is that?
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know, honestly.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, you know, okay, so people when they hear me talk, they say, hey, you from California?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, yeah, I bet.
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  SPEAKER_01: How about you?
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  SPEAKER_00: I I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Cause everybody still, I'm just there's some twang into it.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's yeah, I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_01: I hear that.
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  SPEAKER_01: You don't know?
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I definitely have an accent though, so yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, do you think you've mastered emotional control or emotional suppression?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have emotional control because I'm very emotionally intelligent.
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  SPEAKER_00: And um, I don't hold things in, so I'm not that type of person.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I feel something, I'm gonna tell you like, hey, this is how I feel, and I'm not afraid of expressing my feelings.
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  SPEAKER_01: Is it more uh emotional thinking or logical thinking?
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  SPEAKER_01: Are you more logical when it comes down to let's say an argument or some type of dispute or even like a some sort of a debate with your friends and peoples?
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  SPEAKER_00: I think I'm I could be I could be both.
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  SPEAKER_01: You could be both.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm very balanced, so it depends on like the situation.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um it depends on what it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I would either say I'm I'm both logical, depending on the topic or the situation, and emotionally, emotional intelligence, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: What's harder for you, being vulnerable or being disappointed?
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  SPEAKER_00: I would say disappointed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Once a person disappoints you, is there any way of that person turning it around?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because I'm very open, you know, I I forgive people easily.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_00: So Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh I don't hold grudges either.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't hold grudges.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not that type of person, so that's good.
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  SPEAKER_01: Girl, that's good.
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  SPEAKER_01: When was the last time someone made you feel emotionally safe?
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  SPEAKER_00: Never.
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  SPEAKER_01: Never really.
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  SPEAKER_01: Out of your well, I'm gonna I'm gonna guess you're 20-something.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're 20 some okay, good, good.
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  SPEAKER_01: Hey, kudos to me.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're your your years here on earth, you've never felt emotionally safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, I've always felt like I had to like help people, be the strong one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, my mother passed away, by the way, in 2024.
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  SPEAKER_00: So um I feel like she was the person that was um able to help me be vulnerable, but other people know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I always had to take care of people, be strong, be the strong person, and no.
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  SPEAKER_01: So okay, so to caveat off of that and what we were talking about earlier, um, what's the danger in always being the emotionally intelligent one?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not having someone to kind of lean on.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, like let's say you go through like a loss or whatever, um, I cry by myself, or I just hold it in because I'm the strong person.
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  SPEAKER_00: No one can handle like certain things.
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  SPEAKER_01: So when you have a relapse, or let's say um what do they call it?
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  SPEAKER_01: Um I'm fit in a crash.
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  SPEAKER_01: When you have a crash out, who or what do you do when these hap, like when this happens?
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, as for me, like I go to the gym, I I I take it out on the court or whatnot.
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  SPEAKER_01: What do you what does Mizai?
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  SPEAKER_00: I work out.
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  SPEAKER_00: I like to eat healthy, I work out, so it doesn't matter what you go through.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is something that I do for me, but I I maintain positivity at all costs.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I work out, I try to be positive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I said, I lost my mother and the person I was dating living here in Hawaii.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, they left three days before my mother's funeral, but I didn't take it personal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, um, left, as in like they left me, they left the island, they left me, like we broke up, and I've been single for two years ever since.
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  SPEAKER_01: So she's on the market, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_01: She's on y'all need to stop being horny on my DMs, hit her up.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um have you ever weaponized um independence, being independent?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, give me give me an example of that one.
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  SPEAKER_01: So it's you know, we've watched a lot of um a lot of social media things.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh motherfucker, I could do this shit on my own.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's like have you ever weaponized that?
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  SPEAKER_01: No, no, really?
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  SPEAKER_00: So I feel like it's good, once again, it's good to be independent.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's good to do things on your own.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm a hustler, so I know how to do everything by myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I feel like once again, once losing my mother, I love collaboration.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love like, you know, having someone step in so I can be vulnerable, going back to your question and say, hey, let me help you with that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or like, you got a podcast, I got a podcast, like, hey, you know, Miss, let me try to, you know, take the weight off.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's let's work together or whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: So don't think you're better than anything, don't think you're better than a program.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's okay to collaborate and have a partnership.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't recognize stuff, you know what I mean?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, let's work together.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't be a hater, but I do feel like people see me, they see me shining, they see me doing things in the as the individual.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then I feel like they try to like level up, like you know, like them type of people to try to put one up on you, like level up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hate those type of people.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, damn, I'm just doing me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, you know what I'm saying?
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, I don't recognize stuff.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just go with the flow, I do me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not a hater, I collaborate, yeah.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_01: Um do you think hyper independence is well, yeah, to piggyback off that, do you think hyper independence is praised too much online?
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  SPEAKER_00: Hyper independence, um give me an example.
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  SPEAKER_01: Say the same example as uh we see a lot of women, independent women, I'm a bad bitch, I'm a bad baddie, da-da, this and the third.
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  SPEAKER_01: And but they're still, you know, living at home, but it's glorified.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or like they're so you're living a fake life.
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  SPEAKER_01: They're living a fake life, but you're telling everyone.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a lot of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be honest, it's a lot of that going on in being in like this industry, being in, you know, like we both have podcasts.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I see a lot of people that let's just say from the outside looking in, like they're you know, got this glamorous lifestyle, but behind the scenes they don't have it all.
• 8:55
  SPEAKER_00: They probably living on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: That not to use that as an example, but they're not living the real life dream.
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, fat.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's real.
• 9:04
  SPEAKER_01: Miss, I see you as a as a strong independent woman woman.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, can powerful women still surrender to love?
• 9:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I would love to surrender.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, they can.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can't speak for everybody, I can only speak for myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I'm I'm ready to surrender, but you have to really be on your, you know, you have to be on your shit for real.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_00: You have to be on your A game because I'm a very independent person, strong person, like I own property.
• 9:26
  SPEAKER_00: I did all of that by myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you come in, you have to have I have to have a strong partner that's able to kind of get on my level and hang with me.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, girl, speaking of being by yourself, um, what does softness look like for a woman who had to do or who had to survive everything alone?
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, meaning like I can just go out, not have to worry about anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or if I need to handle business, hey, my partner be like, look, that's already done.
• 9:54
  SPEAKER_00: I already did that.
• 9:54
  SPEAKER_00: So you go sit down, it's already done.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_00: So softness is being able to like sit back, surrender.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_00: I trust you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I trust that you're able to do what you said you were gonna do.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you don't, me being independent, I'm gonna be like, all right, going back to your other question, your original one, yeah, I'm not gonna trust you.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna do it myself.
• 10:11
  SPEAKER_01: Ooh, do you think modern relationships lack emotional depth of depth?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they do.
• 10:16
  SPEAKER_00: They definitely do.
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  SPEAKER_00: I feel like a lot of people nowadays that be dating, they only look at people from you know how they look, not based on what they can provide.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why do you think that is now?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because with me, um, you know, I'm a fucking typical guy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um, I was into the looks, but now as I got older, I'm more into, you know, the conversation, the more emotional depth, the intelligence of a woman.
• 10:44
  SPEAKER_01: So why do you think, you know, it's like that now?
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_00: I'ma blame social media on this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'ma blame social media, the whole, not to throw love and hip hop and Zeus in the mix, but I'm gonna throw all of that in there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Cause I have younger um, you know, cousins and nieces and nephews, and they feel like that's the life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Looking good, being a baddie, surgery, all of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, okay, yeah, you could look good, but looks can fade.
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_00: So what do you bring to the table outside of that?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not knocking any of it, but I'm saying that like, look, if we're together, what's gonna last us, what's gonna make us last long term?
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you know, so I know you need to social media.
• 11:22
  SPEAKER_01: Social media, yeah, you you do need the conversation, you do need that depth of intelligence when speaking to, especially with highly intelligent people, and especially with people that could hold their own in conversations.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you really need that.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_01: You really need that.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_01: Um, who are you when nobody when nobody needs you to be strong?
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_01: So when you're like say, you don't have to be strong, you don't have to like fight for other people.
• 11:48
  SPEAKER_01: Who is Mizai?
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, right here, you're looking at it, because I don't let the real me stay hidden.
• 11:54
  SPEAKER_00: I'm real, this is me.
• 11:57
  SPEAKER_00: Um, but I can say what a lot of people don't know about me is I'm very creative, so I'm really I can draw.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like when I was younger, I wanted to be a designer, so I'm really good at stuff that people probably wouldn't think.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: Art, drawing, computers, um, graphic design, stuff like that, creating film.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I wrote a book, so writing books, people wouldn't never thought that.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you wrote a book, yeah, two.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_01: So girl, that's crazy.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_01: Two books.
• 12:25
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, I could read two books.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, writing one, uh, I could write blogs.
• 12:29
  unknown: Okay.
• 12:30
  SPEAKER_01: But yeah.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_01: Um, do people love you or the energy you provide for them?
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_00: That's a great question.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be honest.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if people like besides family, of course, but I will say I have a great energy.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_00: So I will say that when people see me and meet me, they like, damn, your energy, you're beautiful, firstly, but once I get to know you and hang out, like your energy is dope.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I like your vibe, you're bright, you're cool, you know, different.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_01: First impressions are a lot.
• 12:59
  SPEAKER_01: They're they're very big.
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  SPEAKER_01: My first impression of you was hey, okay, podcast, shit, island, all right.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_01: We here, we there.
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_01: So, and also conversing with you that one um that one night, especially at dinner.
• 13:12
  SPEAKER_01: Um, I had good vibes about you.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_01: I didn't think nothing like negative.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, yeah, you came off pretty good with the first impression and everything.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, good.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_01: Hell yeah.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_01: I have good impressions.
• 13:23
  SPEAKER_01: Let's see.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_01: Um, okay, what's your toxic trait in love that nobody notices because you're successful?
• 13:31
  SPEAKER_00: I think that's it.
• 13:32
  SPEAKER_00: That could be a negative thing, and I actually talked about that as well on my podcast.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, being too independent.
• 13:37
  SPEAKER_00: You have to know when to let your partner step in and handle business.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if not, they're gonna feel like you don't need them.
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I mean?
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: So I think being overly too independent can be a red flag.
• 13:49
  SPEAKER_00: Well, not necessarily a red flag, but can be a toxic trait dependent on the person, though.
• 13:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because not everybody may think it's a toxic trait.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_00: Some people may say, damn, I like that independence because a lot of women or whatever that I date, they usually want me to do everything.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: So when I come along, I'm like, look, I could do this, I could do this, I don't need you really.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_00: But so I need to learn how to calm down and just allow people to take care of me, I guess.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_01: Well, being a because um I was a single parent, and when my wife came in the picture, it was a lot of no, I'm doing it, I got it, I'm doing it, I'm doing it.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_01: So it took me a real long time for her to come in and like share the responsibilities, you know, like share, I guess, share the work because I was on my own raising you know a daughter on my own.
• 14:37
  SPEAKER_01: So yeah, I can totally understand where you're coming from, you know, with what you said in regards to that.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_01: Um God, time is gosh, that was good questions, right?
• 14:47
  SPEAKER_01: Um, Miss High, before we dip, uh, how did you and I meet?
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_01: How did this happen?
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_00: So we were out to dinner, so it was um Chef D's birthday.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_00: Well, pre-birthday, you know, so he came into town in Hawaii, and um, yeah, that's how we met, and we all went out to dinner, and everyone was cool.
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_00: We had a great night.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_01: We sure did.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_00: We had fun that night, yeah.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_01: We sure did.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_01: Well, um, what did you guys do um afterwards?
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_00: Man, listen, uh, Chef D had me out to like five in the morning.
• 15:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I can't hang.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_00: Uh-huh.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_00: I cannot hang with y'all, but yeah, we went out to like other different clubs.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: I've never been to these spots before, just so you guys know.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: I don't party like that.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_00: But yeah, we went out to parties.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: Um other parties, more parties.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_00: Because we was already at one.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_01: So you're moving this Thursday.
• 15:34
  SPEAKER_01: Um, before you moving, what was your uh typical nine to five?
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_01: What was your regular nine to five?
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: Uh so outside of podcasting, just working, work out, um, you know, having my healing, you know, every, you know, every day, just relaxing and chilling and working on my podcast, uh-huh, working on like my tarot deck, which I brought.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_00: If we have a few seconds, I'll show it.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah, definitely.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, show it.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: Um, yeah, that's what I that's my typical day-to-day.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_01: How did you get um podcast going?
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_01: How did you get your you know, your show off?
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_00: So the reason why I started The Love Frequency was a year, about a year ago.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_00: So it was inspired, of course, by my mother passing.
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_00: Um, a lot of people when they deal with grief, they don't they may not know like the type of person that they may be afterward.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_00: No one can like prepare you for that.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_00: So I feel like for me, it was like a test from the universe.
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_00: Like, okay, you lost this, you lost a partner, you know, they left Hawaii, whatever.
• 16:31
  SPEAKER_00: And um, how are you gonna handle it?
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_00: Like what they did to you, that shows their character, but how you react is gonna be your character, you know what I mean?
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: So, love frequency, that's me.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm all about love, I'm all about positive energy and love, the frequency, like 528 gigahertz, pretty much heals the body.
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_00: So, a lot of music musicians, they kind of know that.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: So, I'm like, wow, it came to me one day, and I'm like, love frequency, yep, that's me.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna start the podcast, interview people, and that's kind of how it really got started.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_00: And it started with just me, and then I started interviewing like other people too.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_01: The 528 fact is mind-blowing because I just found out out right now when you just said that.
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, Holy crop.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, I did not know that.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_01: Why do you think people, when they listen to music and they're going through these signal lost.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that's you?
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry, guys.
• 17:26
  SPEAKER_01: Um, when they're going through this loss in grief, why is it so hard for them to get back out of it?
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be honest, no one could really prepare you for certain situations.
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_00: So every individual person is different.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_00: My personality is kind of positive, so I'm able to handle a lot of trauma.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm able to handle a lot of um things, yeah.
• 17:45
  SPEAKER_00: You know, being an independent person.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_00: So I can't tell the next person, like, hey, get over it.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: You keep keep moving, you know, keep doing what you're doing, keep start that business, work out, you know.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_00: But I feel like with my podcast, I try to motivate people to say, hey, continue doing what you're doing, do your creativity, don't worry about what you're going through.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: It's crazy.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_00: Someone can go through like um just break a breakup, and that would kind of break them.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_00: Literally, you crying at home over a breakup, meaning, meanwhile, there's people out there who dealt with a breakup, health issues, great, and they still shine and they still like got such a dope personality.
• 18:21
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm not saying be like me, but take some of that inspiration to be a better person.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: So if I can wake up every day and be positive and cool, I'm not tolerating disrespect, I'm not tolerating negative people who can't do the same.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_00: Have a nice day.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_00: I don't want them type of people around me.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_01: Will you continue love frequency when you move back to Baltimore?
• 18:41
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah, definitely.
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_00: So I definitely have a few um people lined up.
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: And then of course, like being back on the East Coast, it's gonna be crazy.
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_00: So being able to go to New York and collaborate, being DC collaborate.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, it's about to be lit.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_01: That's one thing I dislike about this island because I have I know a lot of people in LA, and it's just I I like doing face-to-face podcasts.
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_01: I've done it.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_01: Clock it.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_01: Um but yeah, face-to-face is way better because I could see the reaction.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_01: I could, I could really um get a good feeling of the room.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_01: I've done the um the internet podcasting, yeah, like with people, like say, in California or like in uh in Maryland or um Texas and stuff.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_01: It was just hard, you know, because sometimes, you know, the Wi-Fi might go out or like the glitches and stuff.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_00: So Man, let me tell y'all, like, oh my god.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_00: I talk about that too on my podcast.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what has been something where today's an example for us, like where you could say, okay, something went wrong today.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: And that's me.
• 19:45
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I literally I was the one that I'm late, you know.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_00: So you just never know what can happen when we're on podcast.
• 19:52
  unknown: Yeah.
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_00: Even me interviewing a few people, I lost um Rafi, so I had to redo one, and it was the big celebrity client, too.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: So I was like, fuck man, I'm like, dang it.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_00: Um, yeah, had to reschedule, but it it ended up working out how it should.
• 20:09
  SPEAKER_01: It is what it is when it comes to those.
• 20:11
  SPEAKER_01: Um, for people that are podcasting and sometimes they get discouraged.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_01: Statistics say that people quit after the third episode because they don't see the results, you know?
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_01: Um getting your guess, how do you bounce from a no or being ghosted?
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_00: Like I said, I don't care.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_01: Neither do I.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_00: I don't care.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_00: I don't either.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_01: I just keep on going.
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_00: I keep going because you listen, a lot of people may be afraid of rejection.
• 20:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not afraid of rejection.
• 20:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not afraid of no's because guess what is gonna happen?
• 20:45
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be that.
• 20:46
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta keep going.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_00: Guess what?
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_00: They're gonna see you one day.
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_00: They're gonna see your shine.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_00: And when you shine in and become like that multimillionaire or celebrity, they're gonna be like, I remember when I ghosted that person.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_00: It's all it's all good.
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_01: It is all good.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_01: Um that shit was quick and fun.
• 21:04
  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna try and get you on, like, say, before you dip out at night.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_01: Um, do you have any shout-outs or anything?
• 21:09
  SPEAKER_01: Or where can these people, you know, find you at?
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, y'all can find me on Instagram at Miss Eye.
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_00: A lot of people get my name wrong.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know for what reason.
• 21:18
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, my name came from Left Eye.
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_00: So if y'all remember the group TLC, Left Eye is so simple, but of course I can't be a left eye, so I'm like, it's a Miss Eyes.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_00: And follow me on Instagram at Miss Eye, and then of course YouTube, Love Frequency?
• 21:32
  SPEAKER_01: Spell uh Miss I, because that's it's different.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_01: It's different, girl.
• 21:35
  SPEAKER_00: MSN Mary's D is in Zebra, E bye E.
• 21:38
  SPEAKER_00: Miss I.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_01: Girl, it was a pleasure having you on for you know these several minutes, and I am gonna try and get you back on the side.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, this was such a dope like session.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: We definitely have to squeeze something in, even if we definitely, yeah, and get me on love frequency.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_01: I'll I'll be more educated.
• 21:52
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, yeah.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 21:59
  SPEAKER_01: Sure.
• 22:00
  unknown: Oh my god.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm sorry, y'all.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_00: I was late.
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_00: I really okay.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: This is my deck here.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_00: Love Frequency deck.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_01: Uh-huh.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: Now we'll have to do a part two on like the meaning behind it, but yeah, this is my deck.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_00: It's more like intuitive.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_01: Put it up like that so I could close up on it.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_01: Intuitive.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_01: Close up.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: Motivational.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's so.
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_00: I saw that on your page, and I was like, these are terror cards.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm glad you uh you you you uh described it as it was yeah.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_01: Well, okay, before we dip, okay, what made you start this?
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_00: Uh what once again, it's about the healing, you know, because everybody don't like to take accountability of why their relationship didn't work out, why they won't wake up in the morning and like let's say how we handle things in a positive way, go to the gym, you know, keep moving forward.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: So there's a lot of different cards in here, like accountability, um, self-love, you know, karmic uh reunion, stuff like that, boundaries.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_00: So I feel like a lot of people want to blame somebody else.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_00: So I was thinking one day, like, damn, you know what?
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna come, I'm gonna create my own intuitive tarot deck.
• 23:04
  SPEAKER_00: But I understand tarot, by the way, just so you guys know, but I didn't want to make it like that.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to make it more therapeutic and more intuitive.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_01: Can these people buy it off of Amazon?
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, pre-orders is coming out June.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_01: And yeah, hey, catch that.
• 23:19
  SPEAKER_01: Um, I'm gonna try and get it, and I'm I'm gonna flash it on this shit too.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: Hell yeah.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_01: Well, hell yeah.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, KO Studios, thank you for lovely home, Rafi Bite.
• 23:27
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you for the lovely vibes, man.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_01: And with that being said, I'm Chris.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm Asi.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_00: We out this bitch.
• 23:33
  SPEAKER_00: We out.
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.